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etrouble:
Please don’t talk like this. You sound like a traitor. It’s time Southerners take up the Hausa/Fulani soldiers fire for fire, blood for blood. Their brothers are killing and maiming in the name of herdsmen = Boko Haram = bandits, these useless Hausa/Fulani won’t go and face them.

The West and East must unite to dislodge this Northerners. When we finish with the common enemy, then we can continue our Yoruba Versus Igbo generational fight

Lol

Funny you

jchioma:
Was this not the guy that was frolicking with so called Odumeje the other day? Nothing can convince me that most of these Nigerian pastors are not ritualists. Even native doctors have maintained more decorum and decency than some of them. A disgrace to Christianity.

A huge disgrace to Christianity

Its a shame how people make joke of Gods name

Righteousness2:
O Lord Arise and let the Pepetrators of these evil be Scattered! In the Name of JESUS... Amen

Oh Lord arise
Let your enemies scatter

Klass99:
I was about to ask what you've decided to do before I saw this. Let us reason this matter together;

1. Ex wants to divorce hubby and you want to take the child. Either of these two things absolves her of any responsibility, she won't be taking responsibility for her marriage or child - why should she have such a free pass in life?

2. Kindly think of your wife for more than a few minutes, will you take this from her? Do unto others what you want done to you is still a very great principle to live by. Pls don't bring that child into your home while his mother is still alive.

3. You want to saddle your mum or sister with another woman's responsibility, when that woman is not sick or dead, there's nothing wrong with her and nothing stopping her from working to provide for her child.

4. Your mother is too old to be cleaning up other people's mess, please leave her out of it and let her rest in her old age.

5. Your sister has a life of her own to build and live as well, please do not impose on her such a huge task.

6. Let the woman who gave birth to this child take care of him. She is not an invalid.

7. Why on earth do you even want to get involved after such deceit? Are your 3 kids with wifey not enough for you?

8. If this was a female child will you be vibrating about taking the child the way you are doing now?

You spoke well
But how come the husband of the ex is not considered here,

He has been a father to this child
Please OP should let.sleeping dog lye

If this story is truly a true story

I will advice you face front, the child is not yours and will never be
Thank God you didn't marry her, she is a jezebel,
Do you want to wreck another man's marriage and jeopardise and innocent child's future, even wreck your own already working family,

Some things are better left as they are,
Not every guy must die like the husband of moyo thomas, some other guy might put up a fight that could see you and your ex dead

Be wise, a woman who couldn't stay with a man thru thick n thin is not worth having

bamirotola:
Its manually ibo?

Thats 100% Edo name

Eriokanmi:
No wonder. I tried to check my NIN on their app with the one generated for me via BVN by my bank but the app couldn't recognise it. They had better work on this oo because it's the easiest means of easing the stress of acquiring a NIN except they just want to extort the millions of Nigerians who had benefited from this development through various banks. Yeye people.

Its all about extortion

Why is this country this shameless
The corruption stinks to high heaven

Favemmzar200:
but if the NIN is seen as a major country data source it should contain something as essential as the date of birth so as to have accurate age demographics, don't u think so?

Same reason the BVN generated NIN should be more authentic,
People meticulously and carefully put down information as their money is at stake if anything goes wrong

Even with BVN its easy to track family members via next of kin

Godpikin4real:
What do they now want those okada riders 2 b doing? They should xpect an increase in crime rate in d country then as an idle mind is d devil's work shop.

Go back to their country
90% of them are not Nigerians

Which normal human stabs another at little or no provocation

Neddstark:
Inasmuch as this is harsh of the government, I may have to applaud this move. Last week a silly okada who was along a road in Lagos rammed like a mad man into my friend's vehicle and got himself badly injured. As my friend came out to try and even get the man to a hospital, that is how his colleagues stopped him. Over 20 of them attacked my friend's driver. Parked the vehicle to one side and set the vehicle ablaze.
Funny enough, this mob of okada men were all Northerners and Nigériens. This happened around Iyana Iba/Okoko area of Lagos.

Extremely an aplaudable move,
This people are not Nigerians, their influx is worrisome
They attack and kill at no provocation, coexisting with them is like living in the stone age
Anybody without traceable means of identification should go back wherever he's coming from

lanreHeda:
The fact that you think what you wrote, including the bit about boiled water, is considered to be normal behaviour is scary.

I bet you are not yet married

Marriage isn't a bed of roses
Every marriage has its peculiarities
People don't change people,rather get used to them, that's why it is adviceable to date, so as to know the character you will deal with for the rest of your life
And yes i will repeat it again, an angry woman can do the unthinkable which might be regretted afterwards

jagorinho:
There is a general cliche we need to revise, " forgive and forget", people can forgive ( not going for retaliation) but people hardly forget, no matter how we want to twist it, those words by his wife are strong and can break a man's spirit,

let me tell you, her outburst was not instinctively done rather it was cumulative, you cant call your lover handicapped and tell me it was just because you were lost in the heat of the moment, the mere fact she still see her husband as an handicap means the thought has registered on her sub conscious mind for long.

I am not an advocate of broken home but from now on, Op should have a firm grip on his house, being romantic is cool but "see finish " is bad, do not do something you can't replicate everyday for a woman because women do not remember what you have done the previous day,
for you to be warning her severally over a particular thing shows your grip on her is non existent, get a good grip on her!!!

About the text I know it hurts, it is a big betrayal on her part but just see her as another mortal that is fallible, just be careful with some things with her especially extremely sensitive stuffs.

I beg to differ a bit
OP tortured the wife to a point of contemplating suicide if she were to be a weak person
That was a real psychological trauma,
Those hurtful words were the last struggles of a drowning person, anything to make you feel what she was feeling

Afterall when she said she was done with the marriage and you added salt to injury by asking her to suit herself, did she leave you?
Rather she became scared and frantic
Your wife loves you very well,
On the issue of repeating an offence, marriage is a union of two different people, you may not be able to change her, consider taking her for who she is,

Lol, why were you angry, is your uncle not a juju man? accept it n move on biko,

Dont just make a.woman mad, some will pour you boiled water and still offer to stay out the time with you in hospital, when the anger dies down

RisenPhoenix1:
As usual, everything becomes tribal. And the whole thing has been incited by the unscrupulous attention seeking media, and enhanced by my ever shallow and ever gullible fellow Nigerians.

Deliberate targeting of an ethnic group is a hate crime; which is why the media doesn't (and shouldn't) accuse all Igbos of being drug dealers, or all Yorubas of being ritual killers for example; nor does it keep associating these tribes with these respective crimes in print. The Fulani herdsmen unable to come online to defend themselves, or because they do not control the media, is no excuse to target their entire group incessantly because of the alleged actions of some. When you incite hatred, you kill the innocent along with the guilty. Everybody in this case is complicit, even if you only stayed home and retweeted 'Fulani herdsman' news.

Criminality is criminality. If a crime is committed, secure the criminal and charge him to court without accusing his entire tribe of committing the same crime. Even a suspect is presumed innocent until proven guilty, how much more an entire ethnic group? This is how Rwanda's disaster started...with hate speech being broadcast on the media; leading to a third of the mostly innocent population being massacred. In Nigeria, that would mean 70million people.

If you think it's ok to keep up this tribal idiocy and risk the lives of so many people, then continue.

Is it impossible to ranch this cows, and save everyone of us the stress,
Innocent herdsmen are being killed in place of terrorists herdsmen,
Host villages are not safe even on their own soil
Farmer are killed and maimed on daily basis, thanks to killer herdsmen
Cant we adopt western method of cow rearing and enjoy peace

Inspiring

Best in 2021 topic so far

All this girls that are desperate for rich male attention
Where has she acted,

Flaunting your body shamelessly on social media explains just one thing

In the days of Genevive, Rita Dominic and co, did they become popular by exposing their bodies shamelessly on social media

This has to stop,
You are devalueing the acting profession

Call your mother, she is dieing to hear from you

Even your father will be glad to know you are still alive

Your problem is guilt not your parents

If you kill your self you are wicked and selfish

@AREWA

Do you believe this?

There's a Monika "AREWA"

He has been very silent on the recent happenings in the north,

Please arewa, what says thou on this matter

VicThoria:
Hi everyone .
Please i need help oo, i'm chocolate in complexion. I've been using bronztone cream for some months, i was on the second lotion when i started noticing dark knuckles,green veins, sun burn and I started getting too fair

So i stopped it some weeks ago and i haven't been applying anything on my body

I dont want to use any cream again for now. do i need to use anything to get back my natural chocolate color back? or it will come back with time?

Go and buy STC30. It works

[quote author=YorubaPrince post=96688620]If the driver is smart, he should politely refuse. It's gonna be a case of "an elephant in the room".

Knowing his true nature as we're all aware, he'll make the occasion all about himself . [/quote

I think Davido is popular both locally and internationally and does not need his own driver,s wedding to chase clout

His driver's popularity is credited to Davido]

osarog:
OP, are you from the north?

Lol

You can ask that again

Its fun to be in camp

Though the military officers incharge of parades and other rigorous exercises should be explained to, that these are only students not intending military officers, therefore should go easy on the exercise with them to avoid crisis

Some of them if not most lack the capability, strength and stamina to undergo military exercise

HitlerGaddafi:
Nobody is sacrificing you. Blame the drivers for tragedy like these.

This is more than a coincidence
11 deaths in 24 hours on same road

Igboariam community should pick their ritual sacrifice among themselves,

Leave innocent children out of it

The nation is observing

Sniper4real:
And some pple just siddon for auz collect 30m.

If we sum it up. It'll be 2m

Entertainment over education

Its not late to change the narrative

Say no to BBNja

Ignore the dirty show and see how less appealing it becomes

Nelly4you:
Nah my everyday prayer be that o, let his blessings come so I can help people . Some people think I'm stingy but they don't understand

Lol

Akube1z:
Six Gift/Power You Should Seek from God as a born again Christian. It's a free gift to you .

1) Power to receive Revelation and Visions.

2) Power of the holy spirit.

3) Power to Prophecy.

4) Power to Speak in tongues

5) Power to Heal the Sick

6) Power to Cast out demons in the Name of Jesus.

Evangelism??

danyero:
No longer a Christian.

Are you joking or you meant it
Some people might take you serious she
Jesus is coming back
That you believe it or not wont change what God has promised

Can some body help me with flip script location and address, i know its in lekki, where exactly, i have been trying to locate Chika with a proposal




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Dayoebe:
Nairaland isn't the best forum in africa for nothing.


If your matter reach page 4 unsolved, even GOD cannot solve it.

Seun just saved a kirikiri victim. Thanks to Lalasticlala that moved it to FP and all others who contributed.


And to you all who contributed nothing - 600 years for you!

Please learn to honor God in all your conversations

Pious101:
Thank God....behold d power of social media through NAIRALAND.... All hail NAIRALAND

I hail Nairaland, i thank the Almighty God for this forum
I bless God for Barrister George, i am happy people like you exists, nairalanders make him your personal lawyers
Meanwhile we advice go and marry her now

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright



This niggarrr self.. ....... everything na just end time....there is no rapture niggarrr....we have been hearing that rapture Shit for too long niggarrr

You get luck say you nor dey stay with me
I for don use weed reset your brain....I go just cook indomie or beans with weed for you make you sleep for two days.....as you dey wake up from that two days sleep i go tie loud for you make you smoke
As you dey recover from loud i go Carry you go bar go give you ten bottles...then leave you for the bar make you stagger come house.....if your brain never still format completely then i go book hotel make two slim and beautiful runs babe come bang the hell out of you all through the night...with cow girl style....

Noah built the Ark for a period of 120 years, at that time, i could imagine the people of that generation making insinuations like yours, some even labeled him a mad carpenter, but then, without further warning "boom" the flood came,
Bros Jesus is coming again but this time as a judge, every work shall be brought into judgment, the first time he came to reconcile us to God, now he is coming to judge us based on the peace we have been able to make with God
Only a fool says there's no God because he hasn't made himself visible to the physical eyes, my dear his glory is soooo evident on earth for us to believe he exists

I will do just as you said
Thank you