Ybaby:


Na them!!!!!

Avoid!

They cannot get pregnant, they have no menstral pain they can not breastfeed but they can still not pay bills.

They always anticipate this going south..... if you are a single father and things go south will you not turn to to west again.

Shine your eye poster.

Look before you leap into baby help me. Such men actually want a fellow man.

This is not necessary.

Na them? because I gave an opinion contrary to yours? That's alarming.

Now back to your points, pregnancy and the likes is really not the bone of contention here. Moreover, I never said the wife is paying any bill. However, as a logical person you should always factor in when things go south or your made an investment that is taking a long time to pick up, what will be the back up plan? what better back up plan can you get other than your better half?

For the single father aspect, I really don't understand the correlation but anyways, for you not to be a single father includes you choosing the right wife, which is why you need to know your net worth among other things.

However, if the single father you are talking about is in case the wife dies, isn't that more of a real for the couple's worth to be known in case the husband dies too?

TheAfricaQueen:


Huncle, just bend your head downwards and take a sniff down there or give yourself Fell.a.tio, I guarantee you it doesnt smell great.

I have heard it smells like musty, nutty smelly, stale urine/se.m.e.n and sweat. You want a girl to put a smelly, nutty, stale, stale-urine-smelly p.e.n.!.s in her mouth? Is that not a suicide mission?

Which one is urine smell again?
Anyways, I don't agree with your earlier submission of wifeing up if I want to be blown.
Now we all know marriage is not about sex but that doesn't change the fact that Mouth Gig is heavenly.
What if I wife her like you said and she is not down for it or probably her technique is terrible?
It's better to start receiving it from dating phase jare

Ybaby:


@Ceeci6

I pray you meet a good man soon.

Please avoid all men who ask for income, what you do for a living, salary payslip etc

They are looking for bob da builder I mean they want a ladder.... they want a woman who will bear their name, give them kids and and still share for shelter and food.

No capable man is concerned about your money - he is concerned about the values you can pass on to his kids and emotional spiritual support for him not money.

Avoid !!!

They are not wrong to ask about it to be honest. We have to come to the reality that this world as changed and this pandemic is not going to make it better. They are trying to know the level of the lady, I might not ask for your money but I need assurance that if things go south, you can step in until the man can solve the problem. Trust me, that can't be achieved with a wife that has a peanut income. It's very important to know the net financial worth of your intending family.

Graxie:
It's called choice, those who are interested will reach out to her. There is nothing like blackmailing, she wasn't even looking for advice but for a soul mate when some people came in with their advice.

I know it's a choice, I am not forcing any options on anybody.

However, this rampant act of demeaning uninterested guys is terrible, I mean they are only trying to make sure they won't be a second priority for the rest of their life.

Any guy who is down for that though can easily make a choice without anyone questioning his decision just like the guy rejecting this shouldn't also be condemned.
Thanks

CHoccolaTE:


See painment

Men hustle oo, Hustle so that you will not suffer sifia pains when women say they want only rich guys

Now this reply is funny because it's the complete contrast of my person. I am less concerned about the pain you keep talking about, I only asked you to say the complete truth. Shalom

I think you all should stop blackmailing people with this complete package and true love bullshit.
I am not in the mood to judge the op or anything, however I just want to tell that blackmailed guy once again that it's okay not to want a single mom with a her 'complete package'

CHoccolaTE:


Whatever mehn, I can't read this your long novel, bye.

He has said the truth that you ladies don't want to talk about now.
You do know a lot of female folks are reading your post and I think you owe them the whole truth.

They don't get to choose who date them or marry them. Men do the wooing, and the number of rich girls is very low compared to the number of females available. This ratio is not going to get better, as a matter of fact it will worsen starting from this post covid-19 era.

andrewbaba44:


All super eagles players are average apart from Ndidi

Are you the guy wey you carry the matter for head ?

I repeat all your super eagles players are average apart from Ndidi ,so don’t make it look like others are above average

Deal with the fact

Osihem is average too?

Nice post op
I will like ask, I am a graduate of Industrial Chemistry and I will like to enroll for masters at Ireland

1. how lucrative is the course at Ireland
2. can I get a PR after my studies because I am planning of coming back �
3. what is the likelihood of getting a scholarship to make things less expensive ( I graduated with 2.1, a 4-pointer)

AstroG:
Oga,enter the one going to Enugu. Then tell the driver to stop you at Umunya,its along the road

Thank you

someone advised that I should board Enugu and drop at Akwa. others are saying I should board onitsha. I don't know which advise to take

Hills2012:



I love your ambition and it’s achievable! Your background shouldn’t affect your aspirations in life. What’s your CGPA?

Try to do the following during your NYSC:

1. Write GRE and IELTS during your NYSC.

2. Build your research skills by writing research papers and publish them in a good Journal.

3. Develop a viable research proposal.

4. Get your transcript and certificates.

5. Get your international passport.

6. Try to participate in one or two community service.


For Australia, you could get research scholarship for masters then you move onward to PhD. Kindly note that it’s difficult to get full scholarship for coursework masters but it’s very possible with research scholarships.

As advised earlier, try to be on look out for Commonwealth scholarships and Chevening.

Lemme elaborate more on research scholarships. You’ll need to check the school department web page for lecturers that have interest in your proposed research.

In preparing the proposal, you need to do an extensive literature review and identify a gap you want to work on.

Organize the proposal according to the following headings as it would help your prospective supervisor understand your work:

• the background

• study problem,

• an overview of the literature on the topic,

• the gap in knowledge,

• research question,

• the specific objectives,

• study methodology and theories to underpin the study

• potential contribution to knowledge and practice and the Significance of the study.


In terms of schools, you can consider the following schools because they have lot of research based scholarships:

RMIT
QUT
Unimelb
Others �


Lastly, don’t limit yourself to Australia alone, check other countries like New Zealand, Ireland, UK, etc.

I wish you the very best.

Thanks for your input.
yes, I graduated with 4.10

Hi everyone.
I am a Industrial Chemistry graduate with a 2.1 degree. I would like to ask what I should regarding a masters in Aussie. My major problem is fund, I am from a poor family, the little fund I am projecting to get will be gotten from my NYSC which will start next month.

I would like to know my scholarship chances and how I can just beat cost, chances of PR and the course you would advise I should choose for masters?

andrewbaba44:


Story, so because giroud is in france team means kalu should be in eagles list, maybe they should have dropped an inform moses simon

Is kalu even better than ejuke this season who is not even close to being on the list?

Kalu have been playing nonsense this season and doesn't deserve to be in the squad

Finito

Did you just mention Simon ffs? Simon is terrible, forget his club form. This is exactly what I am saying, country form is different from club. Check out that onachu to get my point better.

I stand on the fact that kalu is our best right winger... Maybe if Simon is deployed somewhere else on the pitch, he might perform.

However, he can't bench kalu on that right side, it's just not possible.

andrewbaba44:


He should be in the team doing what?

Oga you need to be playing for your club and doing well, which one be best player, so make dem drop the ones wey deserve their call up abi?

Okay, let's look at it like this, which of those attackers is better than kalu at that right wing? He is our best choice, get him in the team. I remember that giroud does not play for club but he tops France list

andrewbaba44:


I like this squad apart from shehu abdulahi and musa

Would have like nwakaeme to be there,he deserves to be there ahead of musa, nobody should come and sing about past glory in my ears here but i am happy with dessers first call up

So no samuel kalu, i am happy about this also because all players need to merit their call up, or are my eyes deceiving me because we know rohr loves kalu

I think kalu should be in that team. He is literally the best player at his wing presently in that eagle's squad

Lilymax:

Did she ask for the date??

The OP didn't actually say.
However, if we want to be honest, there is high likelihood that the girl had stylishly instilled the idea in Ops head.

My advice, don't do it. The is Nigeria, some ladies intentionally accept you for looting.

Wait till like a week after Val, don't cut contact though. Make calls and do all the normal stuffs you guys do but do not go on a date.

Study her reaction for those period and then bring up the date.

That way there won't be conflict between Val and date.

AIG07:
spots on!

But don't be surprised to see Rohr name
Victor Osimhen
Kelechi Iheanacho
*Paul Onuachu*
As attackers for next month's qualifier.

The league is different o but that Paul does not deserve to be called a player. I really don't know what he and Collins are doing in the national team.

Simons case, well I only see the guy at Afcon and the friendlies and I was not impressed. Probably maybe he had miraculously improve now.

ynotsadeek:
Is it mere speculation or could this really be a bio engineered virus after all?

The Chinese government are not really helping matters by being so secretive.

We pray this contained as soon as possible before it gets out of hand.

I am not saying it is engineered by the government but I think I should just remind you how much that government wants to reduce their population.

Innovatideas:

Yea

I have done that. please do accept it

Innovatideas:


I can speak for myself. I got the info through a group's WhatsApp and later found out that the job was on the companies website so it was not hidden at all.

Okay can I private chat you

I want to ask where you guys saw the vacancy. I am not an engineering guy, I am an industrial chemist, I just want to search the same site where you guys see all this hidden vacanci6

ImaIma1:


Let's not drag things any further. We obviously see things from different angles and points of view.

Yeah, we definitely do.

ImaIma1:


It is not about the amount of money spent but the idea or mentality that they can't spend on someone. A guy can be earning 250k but will say he cannot spend more than 4k. Meanwhile another earning 120k will spend 10k or more.

It's the mindset. That's why I said instead of going out and being apprehensive and bitter about spending, stay at home, rather than going out and coming to open a thread on nairaland to vent.

You are viewing the money face value. You have to put into consideration the guy's responsibility which is not the same for everyone, projects and the likes.
Moreover, I just don't get it, don't you consider date as an avenue to ask questions and Know each other better or you have other meaning for the word?

ImaIma1:


There are other things aside eating that costs money on a date. Once you are stepping out to hang out, the possibility of spending is high.

Or else we can sit down in our houses and ask away and get to know ourselves. Going out is not a must.

If you take someone to a restaurant for a date, should you guys go and play ludo there? Someone will take a girl to a restaurant and complain that she ordered.

If there's no money for it, guys should avoid outing so that they don't get bitter and pained afterwards

So, if we did get to know each other by asking questions from our respective houses, where would we eventually meet? my house or the same old restaurant?.
The complaint about the girl ordering in the restaurant is not really about the way it sounds, it's about the girl ordering above the stipulated budget.
Let's be real, average Nigerian makes less than 60k per month, I definitely won't advise such person to spend 10k on a day date, really.
I understand that ladies don't want to go to a guy's house on the first date maybe because of security, ergo, going out is the next option.
However, do not break the bank because of a date, it's just for formalities na

ImaIma1:


When I want to take someone out or the other way round, no one is forcing anyone. So why go out and now start pinching money and trying to be extra prudent. It's not by force to go out. We can sit down in our houses.

Going out should actually be within a budget if you don't want to be sorry at the end of it all. Even if you spend 50k on a date, I assumed you have already calculated in respect to what you actually have.
Come to think of it, date is not about eating, playing arcade or something, it's just an avenue for you to ask questions and get to know each other better. The food is just to replenish your strength if it's talking a long time or just for the tradition.

ImaIma1:


Minimum could be 10k that I would spend. Depends on my pocket at the time

Okay

ImaIma1:


You should know that this figure will depend on a lot of factors:

The people involved
The size of your pocket
The place
The mentality
Spending prowess

Etc

That is why I said ideal, ideally what should be the minimum to spend on a date with an ideal factor of your choice?

ImaIma1:


Your question is a rhetorical one, riddled with hasty generalization.

If you haven't met any girl that is worth doing something for, you should search yourself.

Okay, what should be the ideal minimum to spend on a date? you might use yourself as an example

RisenPhoenix:


When he figures out how to produce heat with less fuel, then he can come back on social media to claim support for a real invention...more efficient energy production. For now, he should stop claiming (or others should stop claiming on his behalf) that he has invented something. And it's not about skin colour. It's about making false claims instead of doing the real research. A plastic pyrolysis machine like this will be a 12th grade science project in the US...and it will be more attractively built too.

I am telling you, I and my colleagues at Jet club at Ibadan built this while we were in ss3 and that was 2014.
I don't know what this people are making noise about

cococandy:
I love this post. I agree with it. A feminist can be anything SHE WANTS to be. Submissive included.

I surely hope you will be as sincere and tolerant when the woman CHOOSES not to submit.

I am.... I am a huge believer of individual rights sha

Ardar:


Emmm I don't remember telling you that i was a feminist did i? You men what to eat your cake and have it but it won't work.

This is not about any cake, okay?.... Even, if you are not a feminist, let the lady make her choice, it's her right. You can make yours too, it's your right and nobody will question you.