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inurmind: Actually I think it should be legalised. There's no point keeping what u can't handle.

I watch a lot of documentaries and I have noticed that most serial killers, serial r.a.p.i.s.t.s, multiple criminal offenders and so on, come from homes where they had no fathers and their mothers were not just ready.

So u see, we would save the world and the criminals themselves so much trouble if they never came into it.

Its not just about bringing someone into this world, its also about taking care of their psychological as well as material needs.

ndcide: if i say that the OP is not ready for marriage some persons will take it too far. go and develop yourself first. befor you get married you should be abel to hear from your God.(chi). you want to base your marital decision on the opinion of nairalanders? thats crazy.

that you date a guy does not make him the right person for you. poor or rich. may i ask, are you 100 percent sure the rich guy is not the right man for you? who says he cant be. are you 100percent sure the other guy won't change his mind about you in future?. leave nairaland alone and go on your knees and pray and stop this rubbish. you want to get married into another family blindfolded? or as blind as a bat? or from the opinion of strangers. Do you know your God?

Marriages are way-too complex that all psychological theories have failed. and people are failing every day. Go and pray seriously. if possible fast for days. and God will speak to you. don't be lazy. God is more interested in your marriage than you are interested in it. so ask him some how he'll speak and give you peace. whatever happens in future you'll be consoled you heard from God. All human reasoning have failed in issues of marriage. don't reason like the multitude coz you'll get what they get/have.

CIAO

Ranti Fadahunsi: Pally, to each his own. You keep on changing the subject, we are talking about virginity and a lady respecting herself - you keep on changing the subject to success and and career. And you bring isolated cased of virgins who don't have kids and sluts who have kids as if the virgin would have had kids if she had been a prostitute and the slut would not have had kids if she wass a virgin. You sound very confused to be honest and deserve no more response from me. When you start putting together intelligent and sensible logics together, I will answer you.

Your mum is lucky your father did not reject the pregnancy. So many ladies out there are not that lucky. And if I am a babe, why would I want to risk a guy putting me in the family way only for him to say he is no longer interested, or I should abort, or he does not think he is the father. Why would I want to take the risk if there is a better way? WHy settle for good when there is best? Your mum was lucky. Do the statistics my guy, at least 90% of babes out there are not that lucky after they get impregnated by stupid guys. And to correct you ' VIRGINITY IS A SOLID PROOF OF THE DISCIPLINE, VIRTUE AND RESPECT OF A LADY'. Go to any tradition, religion or culture. It is solidly universal. Civilisation is making people do justify what htey want including homosexuality and bestiality. Just make sure you aggressively pass your message to your daughters. You can say whatever you want to say on nairaland for your selfish reasons (maybe beacuse you are looking for babes you want to sleep with and dump and add to your count of bleeped babes). I hope you will encourage your daughters to do what you preach irrespective of the risks out there. If you don't you are a bloody hypocrite!!!

The message is simple and clear - if you are a babe, zip it up until he puts a ring on it. Dont risk unwanted pregnancies, abortions, STDS, emotional damage, disrespect from useless guys. And if you are a christian, dont risk the separation from your God. Zip it up. Be decent. Protect your future and the future of your unborn kids. Flee from guy lying to you that having sex before marriage is no big deal. this same guys are the ones that will be talking behind your back that you are useless. Be wise. Wisen up. It is your choice. Your decision today determines your destiny tomorrow.

As for you ayo, not replying to you again. Silence is sometimes the best answer for some people. The wise babes reading this have taken note and are learning from this. Chikena

Dubemkelly: [size=22pt][/size] It all lies in wat u want,ur choice n individual differences, sum peeps like new brand accessories, odas fairly used (tokunbo) nd d rest old ones.Sum virgins r xceptionally gud,dey r on point buh hv chosen 2 kip calm n relax. Imagine u having a tear rubbered gurl as a wife on ur wedding nyt(honey moon) nt a loose ride, Its guna make sense coz u give it ur best desired formation.