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jonaifame22:
she's a nice gal,for her to have bought u a gift,hope u treat her well sha?

Godhand1:
Hello nairaland. i met a girl 4years and we started dating and seeing each other and it happen she became pregnant but as a responsible dude i think i was i told her to do whatever she like with it that i shall answer yes to any response she has to it. to cut it all short she told me she was going to have the baby and i answered Yes. after she gave birth to a girl few months later i see some behavior of her cheating but i never cut her red handed i stood focus but she keeps up with the art and i become so bother n thinking is this the woman im going to spend the rest of my life with, i try not to put that in mind i take it off at times. she was using a blackberry phone around this time and we were living together as a couple evendo yet we are not married, the first scene she traveled home to spend time with her mom and my daughter which i love so much, so i decided to visit her there and see her well being but when i got there she was at the next neighbours compound, she was called and came at me we sat together and a message came in from a guy though i didnt take it to heart at that point it was a normal thing for guy to woo your lady but i did complain and was really mad at her but she beg me and i listened, but i started having doubts about her. so i called on a friend of her started talking to the friend until she was loose and started telling me who she was dating...A Member of her church.....OMG i called on her and say to her why is she doing it but the friend told me they both went there together just once and they only went to greet the guy and they came back. Oh friends of the same feathers. i never said anything but she started begging me again, i answered but she lost my trust she never knew. so i came back home and they also came back...so it was another morning my kid was about to start going to school so i call on her to go to the school of her choice and feed me back with the processing it would take, she went but before i was less busy so i decided to start rearranging the house unfortunately i found a phone hidden in my daughter wardrobe, she came in and i asked her who own this phone she said it was a neighbour living at the front of our house. i waited the so called person is back and ask her but she said Yes but i already knew it was for her because i have tried to access the phone my self and found out that last year ilaye she text a guy to come and meet her at my own father's house OMG she started begging and telling me she only meet the guy but they were only a friend and nothing more, as a fool i accepted but i never trusted her. three days later a woman at that so called neighbors house called me back to told me that she always come to their house and make phone call to guy that there is another phone hidden at there house. i surprise again and call her friend there, with command i told her. GO AND BRING THE PHONE THAT MY WIFE KEEPS WITH YOU NOW I DNT WANT TO HERE WHICH PHONE she went in and bring the phone to my surprise again it was the phone i gave to her mom but i think she was the one that kept it and using it. She started begging and her mom was begging me as well so i accepted. so i now started watching her so much now, i got her facebook password and change it, then i met someone on facebook who she dated 7months after she gave birth i was omg i showed her she tried to denied it but the guy was just typing like someone who won a lottery...how it happened between them...she could not denied again but she went out to call the guy the next morning i dont know what they might have say to each other, for this i try to send her away but her mom, pleaded her brother alot that i accepted being a simple someone but i always make a statement to her that being a fool wont make me a fool for life. We cont. our life together i have being watching her since and i hear story like this one say he is dating me and i want to meet him at home but he was not there so i met my friend there and ask her where is he but he was not around, stories like he was just my friend and calling me to greet me, i nudge my head and say alright But honestly i Love so much i got no reason. few months back, she said she wants to start going to church so i told her no problem but after a month of going to church she said they had a night vigil but i thought it to be true because it was a new month and i think it always happen that way so she went and she told me it was for three night so she went with a small girl age of 12years she knows in the street. They went to the night vigil and i never questioned her but after the first week she came to me again and say there is another night vigil this week i was like wtf, So i sent her on an errand and i immediately went for the small girl that goes with her. So i talk to her girl and promise her that i wont fight with her that unless she tells me the truth about the whole stuff. they the went to the night vigil but on the 2nd night the branch at a guys house but later went to the vigil i was very angry and she came in then i started asking her and she was saying different thing but i told her to move out of my house around 11pm in the night then she started packing i was like whoa it seems she already have somewhere and someone to go to. She wants to start move out and i told her to hold on to morning that if she should leave now people would see me as a bad person. but she insisted she was leaving. The First night i called her mom and she talk to her mom before leaving....So the next morning her mom and brother came and i told them to hold onto my daughter for the time being i get my self around but i never said anything to my mom, 2 day 3 rd i told my mom and she started shouting and calling everyone to talk to me that i must find her i would never leave her like that i dont know why mom insisted so i did as she said i went to her church and told them the whole story about the guy sh met in church unlucky they found out who the guy was and called in and i told him everything also she went directly to one of her friends house and brought her i saw her and called her mom with her brother and i called my mom also and they saw her they started begging for her, i was like wtf. someone went for almost 4days and was at a friend's house, how was she surviving but everything was said and i accepted but now she is not with me, she is with her mom in her own town and i have been thinking on what to do about this, honestly i lover her but i dont think it can work out between us but also my mom and her parent will beg me with anything they could. right now and they keep using my daughter to beg me, i think im losing out please advice me on what to do. I want to come out of this. PLEASE ADVICE ME

Jhenny:
i hate guys asking a girl if she is a virgin. That nonsense annoys me.

nikkypearl:
Dear Nairaland Babes,

While many single women truly enjoy living the single life, others are ready to find Mr. Right and begin a new chapter in the story of their lives.

For all of you single women, here are 7 strategies for meeting Mr. Right.

1. Don’t Wait for Him to Come to You

Although it would be nice, it’s highly unlikely that a gorgeous, well-mannered, high-paid and sensitive man is going to knock on your door in the next few seconds and introduce himself to you. If you want to find that man, you’re going to have to get out there and look for him! Don’t expect too much right away, but put yourself in a position to meet people and get to know them.

2. Expect to Fall Short a Few Times

When you’re out there meeting guys and getting to know them, chances are you will meet a few that aren’t right for you. This can often lead to disappointment. All single women should understand that this isn’t failure – its one step closer to Mr. Right. Don’t expect to find your soul mate on the first night – it will most likely take some time. Expect to fall short a few times and don’t be too disappointed when you do.

3. Spend Some Time Thinking about What You Want

When you’re searching for Mr. Right, it’s important to know what you’re looking for. While you’ve probably already spent some time considering Mr. Right’s physical attributes, what would he enjoy? What would his favorite kind of music be? Is he a funny guy?

When you think about the things he would enjoy or appreciate, you may determine where to find him. Perhaps your Mr. Right is a fan of jazz – maybe visiting some cozy jazz clubs would lead you to him. By knowing what you’re looking for, you’ll determine how to find him.

4. Work on Your Confidence

If you are a single women with low self confidence, you’re going to have a difficult time meeting anyone – let alone Mr. Right. Men find women with confidence extremely attractive. Even if you don’t look like a supermodel, be confident with who you are and appear comfortable in your skin. If you accept and love yourself for who you are, so will Mr. Right when you find him!

5. Accentuate What Is Wonderful about You

Most single women — or any women — aren’t 100% happy with their bodies; they may want a smaller butt, plumper lips or longer hair. The truth is that no one is perfect and most men don’t want their women to look like celebrities or supermodels. Every woman is beautiful and you should accentuate what is beautiful and wonderful about you. Men enjoy it when their women look great – but not overdone. Simply play up your best features and stay confident!

6. Don’t Be Afraid to Approach Him

If you’ve had your eye on a hunky guy across the room for a while but he’s not walking over, don’t be afraid to approach him. Read the signs first, of course – he’s looking at you and smiling, there is no woman with him, etc.

When the coast is clear, walk up to him and say hello. Ask him to dance or ask if you can sit down. Introduce yourself, talk a bit, then tell him it was nice to meet him and go back to your chair. The next move will be up to him.

7. Above All – Be Who You Are

You’re staring across the table at a man with the most gorgeous and piercing eyes you’ve ever seen. It’s times like this when it can be easy to compromise who you are in an effort to keep things going forward. While it can be difficult to do, you should always be who you are. Don’t compromise your beliefs, your goals, or yourself at all in an attempt to find Mr. Right. When it truly is Mr. Right, all you will need to be is who you are.

Remember to be patient and realize that he will come along – probably when you least expect it and when you’re in the perfect position to be swept off your feet....

kingobozy:
very insightful. Ladies it's up to you now.
...and if you can't still find Mr Right

lyfe:
I have never gotten "an okay or normal girl" eventhough I try hard. All the girls that fall freely to my hands are ladies who only ooze sexiness, swag and all that frivolities. Am I the only guy in this situation?

IamLEGEND1:
but no leave the guy hanging abeg...

no just sidown dey take in the attention and poems just like dat....

if u wan take ur r/ship to "WHATSAPP LEVEL"....den do am....if not,then abeg free the guy.u've obviously told him no,but maybe you need to type am in caps before he go undastand.

no just allow d guy make e dey spit lines for nothing.

IamLEGEND1:
maybe

manlyprof:
U r welcome. Ur love poem is the way to go not the other way round.


U saw the response from the Queen.


Follow the MANLY WAY. lol.

IamLEGEND1:
bros,i take God beg you....

Make u stop dey fall guy's hand like diz abeg...

What sort of nonsense is this?

manlyprof:
.Some guys can be cheap!!!..


Real guys(Kings) treat babes like Queens, nat as a Servant treats Queens...

Begging for attention,,,,, guy u fall my hand die.

SUGARBEE:

SUGARBEE:
Nah... here or nah

afolwalex20:
What is ds 1 saying

Would u date a guy U can't marry

Youngpo413:
pusy!

SUGARBEE:
Nope

SUGARBEE:
Nope

ladyF:
the laugh was really disrespectful....be with someone that wants to be with you as much as u want to be with him/her....else carry ur load and move on. Life is too short.

SUGARBEE:
Lol you funny...

SUGARBEE:
haven't I been replying you?

SUGARBEE:
haven't I been replying you?

SUGARBEE:
Fine.. You?

SUGARBEE:
Lol.. Give her a good advice jor

BarcaBlood:
That is; without hurting her feelings Cos it has happened to me more than once and on every occasion the lady's feeling turned from likeness to contempt, or even hatred sef?


Any help?

IamLEGEND1:
you pull her close and whisper in her ear...

" Girl dont get me wrong,

" You are beautiful and all"

" I just dont like u bítch".

" No hard feelings"

jamex93:
Simple

Just get ur car start the engine

Drive and make sure u r on high speed

Hit her and make sure u break her legs by so doing she will know u so much don't want ha