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chocolateme:
I don't want to get ideas into my head because it will be unfair to a friend that looks out for me innocently. But I guess at the same time i'm not a dummy not to understand when something is taking another turn.
My guy lives outside the country coming in at least twice or thrice a year. He once told his best friend to take me out. Just to see me that's all. I don't usually have time or chance for outing so I see the guy once in almost two months. They are really very close friends, we three hang out a lot whenever he in the country so the guy is no stranger to me.
Long story short.
I once had an argument with my guy and we entered silence mode, he told his guy that I am not talking to him. That one called and we met and talked. Later on he started calling me incessantly which is weired, on one occasion he said 'I love you" I replied "thanks" now he calls me "mummy" he calls more than five times in a day.
I have stopped answering his calls but he won't stop.
Don't know how it will look like telling my guy about this. Unless u, my friends thinks I am overreacting.

Brainiacbbb:
Scam!!!!!!!

emusmith:
Of course, they're not men. Can you underscore your point?

emusmith:
So many relationship issues here and there. Guys and Ladies are asking so many questions such as:



a. Is it OK to date an undergraduate with the aim of marrying her?

b. How old is modest for a girl to get into a relationship?

3. I caught my girlfriend with another guy, should I break up with her?


A lot of salient and underlying factors exist why relationships of many years 'dilapidate' in a twinkling of an eye.

I'm not against dating an undergraduate but I'm against dating one with an undergraduate's mindset. There are quite many who believe they are not yet ready for this whole relationship saga hence doing you a favour hanging out with you. Shocking, but true. To such, I say, Bon Voyage!

As the age long mantra says, Only time will tell.

When these girls behave that way, some times, you don't get to blame them even as Ladies in general believe you know what you're up to coming to ask them out...The crux of this thread is Dating a Working Class Lady Has More Advantages And Better Chances Of A "Safe Landing"Than Dating An 'undergraduate'. Let's see some of my reasons:


1. Good Money Management Skill.

A working class lady better understand how hard it is to make money. Yes, she buys shoes and some times engage in profligate spending but with caution. She tries to keep a part for the rainy weeks, LOL. With this attitude of hers, you can hand your ATM to her without worries


2. Maturity

Maturity is built in her through the stress at work. Though girls will be girls but there are some things you won't see her get involved in. Imagine her working and schooling at same time, you'll hardly even see her in social networks sef. How we need mature ladies in the dating game and not just recharge card beggers.


3. Her Generosity Is Heightened

It is expected she has conquered the "Me Alone" attitude because a part of her salary goes to her family, supposedly. Some times, she sends some to her siblings. Most times, she is left with a little. At those moments, her dp will change, "Family is everything". True! Those guys in her work place wondering, "what's she doing with her money?". Now you know. You can be sure she will be of financial help to both in-laws.


4. She Has A 'better' Idea On What She Really Need In Her Man.

She has met several kinds of guys, so her choosing you is more of her "last resort". Having dated "many guys", you're one lucky dude. o:
You can't count on an undergraduate that much. She still has many choices to make: Uni, Masters, NYSC, Work place etc. Oh mehn!


5. Financial Assistance

She can be of great help when the burden of pre-marriage activities come knocking. Also, she won't just come into your house with her GMG, but with some of her things too that will benefit all. It's not compulsory but it's relieving, you know.

6. Less Time for Casual/Childish Stuff

It's hard to find a working class Lady who is engrossed with work find time to live carelessly (partying). It might exist but only in rare cases. More often than not, she spends time with her closest besties not with any T, D & H. If she is ALWAYS on Social Network, forget it. At least, you can tell she has a dream, a passion, a drive. Even if she is less busy, she tries to perfect her tailoring, dancing or designing skill. She hates being idle. Above all, childish stuff like being the FTC or making money out of guys on internet or real life disgusts her.


7. Work Exposure

Having to work with other married colleague of hers, she gets to know the real needs of every man thus coming into marriage with some form of relevant information. Just hope she doesn't meet the wrong women sha.


Have a good evening
#covers blanket#

ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

rigarmortis:
turn your brain on bro, or change the batteries, did you read the whole story?...........is the girl Igbo?

foo.ol

Happiness87:
have noticed you, bye

Ariani:
i dnt knw cos pple shud be d once to tel u who u are

Happiness87:
hahahahaha @ the emboldened , you are right , i would have love to notify the guy about you, but don't know he he would cope because of distance, esp if not well managed

Ariani:
wat do u mean?

Ariani:
op show us ur picture 4 we to believe u cos dis days even an average lukin dude claims to be handsome

playboy99:
compliment of the season koz we ar respectful lemme just keep ma reply for later






























But wait a minute y wait yeebohs ar so clean dat dere body odour smells like a dead rat.d village ones worse.I can still remember one who came to serve Is oga in ma crib is boxers had fungi n bacterias dancing shoki in it.dere english d worst in nigeria.for sum1 to see nigerian idol on tv n call it nigerian idleness.lemme stop b4 I sound disrespectfull ;Dcompliment of the season koz we ar respectful lemme just keep ma reply for later






























But wait a minute y wait yeebohs ar so clean dat dere body odour smells like a dead rat.d village ones worse.I can still remember one who came to serve Is oga in ma crib is boxers had fungi n bacterias dancing shoki in it.dere english d worst in nigeria.for sum1 to see nigerian idol on tv n call it nigerian idleness.lemme stop b4 I sound disrespectfull

QueenEdna:
What is it with this New trend of partners fighting/killing eachother these days
The aggravated anger people are displaying towards their loved ones aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ even others is really unbecoming...... Dis is jst too bad

valeny2k:
I am Uche by name, from Anmabra State, businessman, 34years, tall, slim, AA and reside in Lagos, I need a lady who is interested for serious relationship that may lead to marriage, she must be God fearing, understanding and patience, working class lady, between 28 to 31 years, nice shape and little fat must from eastern part only, she should contact me on this number 09093212855 or add me on bbm pin 5605ADD8

2sex:
From a female LIB reader...

"I sometimes spend the weekend at my boyfriend's place. He deflowered me and I don't have any regret but I suddenly began to realize that he grumbles whenever I visit him during my menstruation. He would reluctantly give me 1k for transport. Another thing I observed is that he gives me money based on the rounds of sex he has with me. Let's assume we had sex 5 times, he would give me 5k for transport and on the day or weekend we have it 3 times he would give me 3k. Is this normal or its just a way of paying 1k for each round of sex?


Source: LindaIkeji..com

honestmike:
When you date a guy because of money. ....... ... Say no to his money let him know you are not with him because of "transport fare"... ... I am not a relationship expert

Happiness87:
my demon will destroy your future be warned

Aminat508:
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Lola Omotayo, wife of Peter Okoye is mourning one of their employees, Esther Ngobor who worked for the couple for almost seven years, but sadly lost her life yesterday to cancer. Lola said Esther was an employee anyone would love to have. She said they tried all their best to save her, but Esther still left and she believes God knows best.

Hmm
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Source :http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2015/08/lola-omotayo-mourns-employee.html?m=1

ahckmedkosy:
The two are not on the same level..mum n wife na two different levels of relationship