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Ladies how many of you do this? If you don't fall to this category of girls doing this, it shows how lazy you are....

FrankDude:
There is this girl (20 years old) in my university, we are in the same department, the girl is very analytical and a Catholic , she is pretty too and has class. She is also intelligent. I never knew she had a boyfriend in another university, whom she hasn't seen for a long time(long distance relationship). I didnt bo her to ask her whether she has a boyfriend because its not in my nature to do that, I just go for any girl that interest me. So I started showing this girl interest, although I didn't make it obvious because I wasn't sure how she feels for me, it was later that she told me she can't date me because she doesn't feel the same way for me, and that she has a long distance boyfriend. So anyway, we agreed to be just friends, after so many thoughts and fighting on my own side. But I still get jealous when I see her playing with another guy, anyway it seems I have overcome that jealousy.

What I don't understand is why does this girl like hanging out with me almost all the time?
She sometimes calls me at evening time to see her, she takes me around school(on feet) to romantic places, telling me how she sees couples making out etc. Always walking with me after class, although she has told me she doesnt have friends like that, anywhere you see me you are likely to see her. She is conservative, doesnt hug, maybe because of her big boobs i dont know. Although I have told her never to discuss about her relationship problems with me in this friendship because I hate the feeling of being friendzoned. So she has never done that. I noticed this girl does almost anything I ask her to do, and she always try not to get on my bad side. If I tell her that she is doing something I dont like, she stops doing it and would never do it again, almost like I have her remote control with me. The only thing she avoids is getting romantic with me, she avoids talking romance or anything that could bring up "love" emotions between us. I was shocked the day she asked me about my past relationships, who broke up with who? Have I had sex before? Etc.
She told me later that she has broken up with her bf and she might not want to move on, that she wasn't happy about it , broken up for the past three weeks before I
Finally decided to chip in "going beyond friendship" in my conversation with her. She said "don't let's do that"
I asked her why , she said we had discussed about it before and concluded. I told her people change and shit happens, and she told me she knows, that she still maintain her stance.

So I made her realise that once I have a gf I won't be spending time with her that much etc. And then she was surprised, saying my gf wld be matured enough to give me space, i told her it doesn't work that way.
It was later later that she asked me what prompted that ? That I must have thought of somethiñg to say it out, that it has been locked up insid. Asking me that have I seen a girl that I like? Why is she asking me that, if she is not interested?


Anyway thAts the major thing, the reason why I did that was to figure out if this girl has any hidden intention with me or something, what do you think?
Is she using me to fill in space of her absent bf?
What is she doing?
What am I not noticing?
What's going on?

I need both male and female advice and interpretation. Thanks a lot

Do a surprising thing for her, If you can buy her attractive gift and after this, let ur face be scarce or pretend you are sick. She will reflect her true feelings. This is not friendzonig, she's really into you. Dnt give up. She's yours but don't rush her...

Every damn body pass through this in the race of love, thank God you deflowered her, the more reason to let go. My first love who broke my heart stylishly without doing anything wrong left a pact in my life because i refused to let go the pain that i couldn't know the colour of her pant hunt me a lot that it turned me to a drug addict and a drunkard all in the name of love. It took me 8 years to breakthrough those addictions. Holding on does nt make us strong but letting go. It will seem to you that there's no other girls like her which is a blatant lie... God will surely compensate you with a girl that will be faithful to you. Just be happy.....

Jhenny:
rubbish

like say she's an exception of this

My girl is doing it well... She washes my dirty clothes, that's why she is so special and irreplaceable

This is just too short

Ladies why is it that you say "stop, even though you really want it so bad, you still say "stop" even when your pant is gradually falling on ur toes, you still say "Stop" ,Until the Magic Stick penetrate inside, you shout "Hush, baby i said hush, stooooooooooooooo ash thank you baby, you are taking easy on me









I salute you all

grad2012:
Lols we women we like shakara.Its just so obvious she wants him and she probably just wants him to beg lols,just look at that sleeping style

Na so you women dey do.. I got yah... It's high time i won't be fooled by my Gf shakara that makes me sleep with konji

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Why do my coworkers and a few random people say I look like a model even though I don't think I do. I am a tall woman; 5'10 to be exact and I am within an average body type. I don't wear excessive makeup or have excessive weaves or anything. In fact, I am more of a natural type but My coworkers even my boss say things like, "You will become a model/ beauty queen from Nigeria" which I find rather amusing. Why is this?[/color]

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MzzCutie:
Today, I’m going to expose some secrets to you. This article might appear long, but don’t worry…I have added headlines and pictures through-out it to make it easy for you to scan through (Though I will advise you go through every word here slowly).
Let me make you a promise before you start reading; if you are a guy and have always wondered why girls you really really like never seem to like you back then this would be the most important blog-post you will ever come across this whole year. If you want to completely eliminate the “hard to get” attitude you get from women then come with me…
Now, in this post, I will show you 3 psychological tricks that you can use to communicate with girls and get them to like you.
These 3 ways of talking to girls that i am about to pour on your laps always work like magic, every single time. With just these three ways of talking to girls you can get them to become addicted to you, always come around you and basically love to be around you like crazy. Turn it up just a bit, use it on your dream girl and you will have her sending you love texts like her life depends on it
Go through these strategies then ask any girl around you weather they work and my guess is that they would give you a resounding yes.
Before i go into the strategies let me quickly tell you why these strategies work.

Now come with me.
WHY DOES THIS SECRET I WILL REVEAL TO YOU WORK SO WELL?





Here is the thing;
- One; girls always get guys coming around them - every single time. Walk through a girl's Facebook inbox and you will be marveled at the tons of unread messages in it. In real life, same thing happens - they get approached by guys all the time. An average girl gets approached by at least two guys every week or two guys everyday if she is pretty (And that is 4 guys every week)
This attention gets to a girl's head, she starts feeling like a prize and when that happens – “shakara” steps in.
- Two; Girls are bombarded by loads and loads of boring guys every day. it can be tiring, trust me - what they do is to filter away the boring guys and focus on the more interesting ones.
If girls don't like talking to you long in real life and on social media then it means you are not communicating with them in these three ways I’m about to reveal.
If girls always give you "k" and "lol" on social media, it is not because they are rude - it is because you are plain boring (that is the painful truth). But here is the good news, you can change how you communicate with girls and become a more attractive guy by using this 3 strategies
Here they are –
THE 3 WAYS TO TALK TO GIRLS THAT WILL MAKE THEM ATTRACTED TO YOU


Let’s take them one by one…

#1. Teasing:
Some guys can be a big nightmare to girls. What girls hate like crazy is a guy who keeps asking tons and tons of questions when they discuss with them. Questions like: "how was your day", "have you eaten", "hope your day was good", "hope you are fine"
All in one chat/conversation.
This is boring, it bores the hell out of girls.
You have to be more interesting than that if you want that girl to find you interesting. You have to flirt with her using the teasing strategy.
How does this work?


Simple - teasing basically means to make fun of a girl in a playful way.
Let me give you practical examples - Instead of coming to a girls Facebook Picture and commenting with "Beautiful Picture" (which is boring - every guy does it), You could flip this around and comment instead with - "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."
To a guy, a talk like this is silly (i know) but to a girl it works like magic. (Try it right now, go on Facebook and try it out under a girl's picture and watch her reaction).
More examples - You could call up a girl and instead of asking her "did you think of me?" (which is as boring as hell and makes her feel like you are begging to be thought of), the best way to start the conversation is to playfully say - "I know you've been thinking about me all day so i am here to free your mind" *smile* "how are you".
The reason why this works on girls is that it:
- Makes you different from other guys who are boring
- Makes you appear confident.
- Makes you more attractive because by making fun of her you give her the impression that you are not trying to impress her like other guys do (and nothing is as attractive to girls as a guy who doesn't try to impress them like a puppy)
Now note; it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it. Someone can say the above things and it will seem like he is arrogant while another person would say the exact same thing and it would work like a magnetic magic on a girl.
So the right way to tease a girl is to always to make fun of her with a smile. it doesn't mean saying nasty things to her; the right way to tease is to always make it seem like you are playing around with your little sister.

TIP #2 SACARSM
This is another powerful way to communicate with girls that will make her find you interesting. But before i go into this strategy proper, let me first tell you why it works.
Every single minute a girl gets attention from dozens upon dozens of guys struggling real hard just to impress her. During a girl's teenage years, she finds this interesting and she might even fall in love with you if you show her enough interest than other guys.
But as she grows older she gets used to it and it starts to bore her. A teenage girl might fall for sweet talk but a grown girl won't - as a matter of fact she has heard it all.
Two; girls are never attracted to guys who always try to impress them - they prefer free guys who they cannot control.

If you join dozens of other guys who are saying the same sweet things and acting in the same sweet way then how do you intend to stand out?


That is where "Sarcasm" comes in...it makes you stand out, It gives a girl the impression that you are not like the next guy who will only say what she wants to hear just to please her, it shows her that you are in control, it shows her that you are DIFFERENT - and girls find that attractive.
So how do you apply sarcasm in real life?
Again i will give you real life examples - let me use Facebook again; Take for instance a girl puts up a new profile picture you could inbox her and say - "Thank God for that profile picture, no guy will look at it two times and that means there is no way they will take you from me - keep uploading those kinda ugly picture"
If she gets angry don't apologizes (assuming she is the dull type that doesn't understand a joke - a smart girl will understand a joke when she hears it).
Also, for instance; if a girl says hi to you on social media you could reply with: 'You want to snatch me from my girlfriend abi, alright, if i must cheat on her for you then i need 2 sons from you"
You get the gist?; mixing a little sarcasm with a little humor is the key.
It makes you appear like you have options, but when you run around trying to impress a girl like your life depends on it it gives her this impression that you don't have much choices (that could turn a girl off big time). Girls love guys who have self worth and not ones who jump up whenever they (the girls) says jump.

TIP #3 BEDROOM TALK.
Alright, now we are here - the final strategy.
I will have to carefully go through this one so we all can get it.
First, let's look at why this strategy works.

The thing is this; if a girl sees you as just a friend then that is what you will remain - no matter what. Girls RARELY date guys they have friend zoned. This is exactly why after telling a girl who is a close friend of yours that you love her, she will either start avoiding you or she will start becoming uncomfortable around you - she would RARELY agree that she feels the same way (because she doesn't).


If you want a girl to see you as a boyfriend material then you have to start from the onset to give her boyfriend signals, not by telling her how you feel about her (This will only make her lose interest in you , the best way to make a girl see you as someone she might date in the future is to use BEDROOM TALK on her from the very beginning.
When you talk to her in this way she would
One; not categorize you as just a friend.
Two; she would begin to feel some level of s3xual attraction to you. when this happens then she would start seeing you as someone she can date, i will explain what i mean, Stay with me
Bedroom talk is the art of talking to a girl in ways that trigger her s*xual buttons or her s*xual imaginations. I don't mean s3x chatting (That would be gross).
Let me give you some real life example: For instance; assuming you are having some discussion with a girl and she says something you don't agree with, you could say something like: "see eh, if you say something like that again i will bite your lips for you" (In her head, this registers as a s3xual tease and it triggers her imagination a bit - if you say it with the right voice tone it would be electric)
Sure enough, if she doesn't already like you she might not imagine much of the s3xual meaning of what you've just said, but when you keep giving her loads and loads of bedroom talks in the right way, it will start to have effect on her.
More examples:
You could hug a girl and while she is still holding you, you could say something like: "help, she is molesting me. where is my mummy"
(I know, it sounds silly but it works - girls are tender creatures, tender things work on them)
Also you could be walking with a girl then you can turn and go like; "hey, stop checking out my hips joor, i'm not even up to 18 and you are looking at me that way" (Try this and watch her laugh her head off, hit you and then say: "go joor"wink
Or you could say something like this after calling her up at night; "sleep tight, don't dream of me - i get girls pregnant in dreams". (This one also works just fine)
You get the gist?; you mix a little teasing and then charge it up with s3xual fire. Girls are very imaginative creatures; they are more affected by what they hear than what they see.
BUT
Doing this the wrong way could backfire and make you look like a pervert!
I think i'm done for now...You can share with your comment another way you know.

pictures illustration: http://www.frabidel.com/2015/07/how-to-make-pretty-girls-crazily-fall.html

I am not boring to my girl despite my girl boring, i used to be a talkative but to other girls i am mute...

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offspec:
yes the OP has to prove otherwise cos here is the link to CharlesNneji1 own version https://www.nairaland.com/2160203/talk-girls-these-3-ways

and what is your gain in this,small pikin with small mentality,

And after saying all these, what else are you gonna discuss the following days. Teach me discussion that interest ladies

Be a church rat

The relationship can not workout under any circumstances, the girl chose to break the vow, if the guy greedily married the girl, the chance that they will finally break up is 1, and if the guy is not careful he might end up die prematurely......

MrFlavvor:
choi!and you no reach fuc.k her? sorry

I thank God i didn't fvck her... All hole no be port

You are right... It reminds me of one useless girl in my Area her name is Onome, she's typical of this nature, I subscribed the girl almost 2 times,taking her out 247, even buying her chocolate, i was planning to be serious with her she's just a bitch,she is a fake, she can lie, and she can abuse, i end up bully her a day she insulted my Mom. Bitch is a bitch no matter the level you place hem

queencalipso:
When she says she is not in the mood and sleeps lke that be a gentle man and respect her decision

lol.. Respect in this case, Na operation fire for fire

kwencypresh:
i don catch u
If u like put ur fone for motor mode

lol

shaiba:
No be only signs, please send 26 wonders he's not cheating.

lol. 1. He will burn his airtime only on you.
2. He will keep updating you ,247
3.He won't put security code on his phone when you are around
4. He will be glad to know your parents and your family
5. He will plan his future with you
6. He will help you in kitchen
7. He will keep your pictures on his phone especially the one you snap together..
8.He won't be suspecting you having another guy.
Etc........

when your Girl says she is not in the mood but sleeps like this.

Nothing really bad about the dressing, just that the girl is really hot for real,still they reason what makes the pastor upload such thing on Fb, is she advertising booty, cos d pastor only show us the booty

santos876:
den prepare t suffer for life

it's like you don't know the future threat on the business you are into.. Don't worry i will follow they bleep that ur unloyal beautiful girl

Mzflexydeeva:
sure! Just drop ur pin

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halfrica:
[s]Provin ow ur hand works faster dan ur brain omo yoruba deni mi o[/s]

Bt broda e lo ya opolo lo mehn!

But, i don't want to insult you ooooo but you lost a virtue...

Dundi Igbo girl, na dem dey talk kwa

Mzflexydeeva:
lol! If I be vampire e 4 mk sense ooo! Just been funny noni..... like d funny faces.

i for fear you.... Can u add me up on bbm

lawvelyn:
Hmmm nd I was truly sorry didn't mean to

then you need prove

nickkylawve:
his angry because I mistakly unloaded my ex boyfriend's pics on bbm nd I removed it immediately, nd now his mad at me!! Just hope he forgives me from his heart

what's your ex pic still doing on your phone, that's unloyalty for you.... If i am ur bf, i will tag you as a cheater

nickkylawve:
his angry because I mistakly unloaded my ex boyfriend's pics on bbm nd I removed it immediately, nd now his mad at me!! Just hope he forgives me from his heart

what's your ex pic still doing on your phone, that's unloyalty for you....

ladyF:
Hian....this is not true.

Its like saying fine girls are not God fearing...which is not true too.

beautiful girls are not loyal,their beauty deceive them a lot