concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
LegendHero: The moment I saw the premise of Chiamanda argument where she claimed most polls show Obi will win as her basis for her belief that the mandate thief call Obi won the election was when I know she is sick upstairs.
They shouldn’t take her serious. Defeat is hard to swallow for some people and their hatred make them take rash decision.
USA already congratulated Tinubu and strategically planning on how to maintain cordial relationship with Nigeria considering the fact that China is somehow strong in Africa now.
Shiamanda can write what she want, it’s her right. However, what she writes belong to the dustbin as USA will only work based on what their diplomat says and not some hateful tribal bigot like Shimpazeamanda.
You just dumb. Yes she said most polls shows Obi is ahead but she also mentioned that she was ready to accept whatever outcome. Everything happening today, will bite you people hard in years to come.
Ogonimilitant: Buhari is wicked. Why destroying this instead of giving them to the poor masses if you don't need them.
You obviously know nothing about monetary policies. Where in the world is cash meant to be destroyed, handed over to poor people? Have you considered how the inflation caused by that will bite you in the ass?
BigBrother9ja: Mumu Not all these daughters of Jezebel of this generation... Eat her food, eat poison and DIE! Few months after, she'll be riding another man while you rot underground.
STAY WOKE!
Hope you will stop eating your wife’s food forever? Poison avoider
seunmsg: At least, the debate about the best governed state in Nigeria is over. Peter Obi himself has acknowledged Lagos and not Anambra or Adamawa as the best governed state in Nigeria. If you want good governance replicated all over Nigeria, vote for the man that instituted good governance in Lagos.
uncleck: So the COVID came and they abandoned their followers and ran away? I'm sure they were still contributing offerings and tithes to send them abroad. The God that made it possible for their children to school in the US could not help their sheep in Nigeria
Call her bluff. She can go to hell for all you care. Even God will be angry with you for self sabotaging yourself because of a cheat, a manipulator and a deceiver.
An angry woman is dangerous. But this world is dangerous too. So there is nothing new there. Remember to pray always and not lose sleep over a loser of a woman who only wants to destroy you.
In your future endeavor with women, never display weakness. Tolerating nonsense shows to a woman you are weak. Women don’t support weak men. They punish them!
Your constant nagging and fights won’t change anything. Tell him you are not comfortable with him on the dating app and that should be the end of that.
Na u one give yourself depression. Overthinking no Dey solve problem.
dazzlingd: The number of foolish people in Nigeria I'm not talking about supporters of obi, I'm talking about those ones that attend the so called experience like a ritual. Ask hem why they attend experience or what they gain from it, nothing tangible
You are an idi*t. Nobody needs to explain to you why they need to go for a program. If they go for fun, then that’s great enough reason and the benefit is fun reduces stress. So get the f**k out of here.
God1000: A whole bishop is doing this, he has lost his moral authority
Shut up. Tell me one thing he did that is so bad? Wait, are Christians not meant to sing secular and contemporary songs? Please what songs were sang at the wedding of canaan? Worship songs I guess. Nonsense
habsydiamond: Atimes staying put where u are successful is better than seeking for another adventure cos the devil u know may be better than the angel u never know
If you don’t move, you will never find out. If you stay in one place all your life, you will cuss yourself when you are old for not making the best use of your youth.
First time I will use the word SIMP. You are willing to murder for pussy? Probably throw your whole life away? How much have you fucking spent that will make you consider that in your thick skull? How much?
Does your life mean nothing to you? Damn. Damn. For your heart to consider murder, you have done it already. You should be scared of yourself. You need to be protected against yourself. You need to grow.
I was in an accident twice. Underwent surgery on my shoulders. I was told I can’t use my hand in a year. If you look at me now, you wouldn’t know that all those stuff happened to me. My physique is amazing for someone that went through those physical, emotional and financial trauma. My hand that can’t be used for more than a year was able to pull 200kg deadlift 2 days back. My shoulder is completely healed and certified okay by professionals. People said this is the worst year of my life. People said I lost a lot of months due to treatment. I say it is my best year yet. It is the year God went all out to save my ass.
Most nigerian movies can be so meaningless. You can even fathom the message they are trying to pass. Always acting meaningless scripts with funny titles.
We also have a TV in our bedroom, so my wife was watching a Nigerian movie while I was working on my office files.
I can't even puzzle out the excitement in that movie. All I was hearing is some lousy actors making noise and the poor suspense sound track. You need to see my wife looking so tensed & serious, flapping her both hands like a bird that is about to fly while screaming “enter the car drive! drive! drive!
I said Aunty easy o, Then I asked her the title of the movie, she said "The pregnant ghost". I said pls came again, you say? She didn't answer then I picked up the remote to check the title then booom!! The pregnant ghost
I was just laughing seriously, I've to capture it. then I asked her whether she have seen a ghost before not to talk of a pregnant one? And she said what! If I want to know if ghost dey carry belle that I should join her and watch the movie too.
I jejely carried my office files and my laptop, walk straight to the sitting and continue my job. Because if I talk otherwise about that movie na problem for me and I don't want her wahala this night.
Then she asked where am I going? I said this movie is so interesting and it's making me loose focus on the work I'm doing, so I'm going to the sitting room were I can concentrate.
Abeg, those of you that watch this kind of movie, please what are the moral lessons?
Abeg leave her to enjoy her movie. If my wife like, let she watch Zeeworld, as far she is a good woman, make she Dey enjoy the nonsense dey go. That na small challenge when no need my attention at all
gloryhomemaker: This video gives a detailed do it yourself simple steps on how to make spicy peanut butter with a blender. You can enjoy this peanut butter with bread, garden egg, cucumber, cola nut, bitter cola, etc.
It's so simple you will wonder why you haven't been making it yourself before.
Ingredients:
Salted roasted groundnuts/peanuts Dry pepper Ehuru seeds Salt (if the groundnuts were not salted)
I used roasted groundnuts. You will need a high processor blender. Squash or pound the groundnuts first. Pour in the blender, add in dry pepper as you can tolerate, add in Ehuru seeds, start blending. Blend small portions per time. When it starts gumming, use spatula to break it up and keep blending. Blend till the friction melts the groundnuts into a running liquid. It thickens when it cools down. Pour into an airtight container and store on your shelf or fridge. Always scoop with a clean spoon to avoid contaminating the rest. Don't lick the spoon and put it back into the jar
Thank you. Being a foodie and an athlete, I always find your post interesting. Thanks for the update.
Something happened last night. I made 2 soups. Oha and bitterleaf following your pattern for the bitterleaf. I was told both soups are prepared same way except for the vegetables used. But the Oha didn’t come out well. I think the oil was too much. I’m thinking of buying Oha leaves and adding to the soup. I’m a Warri guy who likes trying different things in the kitchen whenever I get time from work or from the gym. Thank you.