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kingofchess:
I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help

I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.

There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.

Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.

To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).

Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.

zexy2030:
O boy take her name for prayers u will know better, getting married without sincere prayers is like running the highway without checkn mirrors. An accident would be inevitable. Forget that fake love, she is after something.

Please go for prayers if you are a Christian.
Make sure you find out who she truly is. It's very important.

dontjuststop:
Update:
I had to stay away from this post for some time due to some health issues I suffered due to excessive thinking and depression which got me hospitalised.

The result will be out by Friday as advised by the DNA clinic. Either way, I'll come back and post the results here. Thanks!

Today is Friday don't forget your promise.

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

Hope you are a Christian? Suicide will end you in hell. Please no place for that in heaven.

The world is full of evil and as each day passes by we learn from experience. Please put your self together and hold your self. Listen to Christian messages and ask the spirit of God for help and assistance.

As we have evil men so we have evil woman used by the devil their father to carry out evil act.
Before marriage I was unfortunate with woman, all that came my way always have the motive to destroy with fetish means. I had to vow that no girl comes my way for boyfriend/girlfriend stuff not untill I find the right woman .

Those days I wondered where are the good women and always tagged all women fetish untill proven otherwise through prayer no matter their look

Please you need God now than ever before. Please ask any where you fall short of his Glory he should have mercy.

Just have a relationship with God.

okooloyun1:
Thanks for your reply. This is mi cloud I'm talking about.

No I don't set those security lock.

Please be rest assured that if the device cannot be unlocked then the criminal won't have time to make use of the phone. (i.e inserting his sim) which will lead to fast recovery of the device.

okooloyun1:
I know that police got it for you but did you lock the mi cloud?

What does Mi cloud does? Am not too techy.

But one thing is sure. Even if u lock or unlock ur data can be wipe out.

My data... Photo, sms, apps, songs, movies gone.
Remember that this thieves are techy most times than u and they know tricks


Note that what u are after is recovery of your device.

Most times if the police are not serious the phone could not be recover. Or if the phone is taken from East to North East or Central most police will be reluctant to go after it because of distance

okooloyun1:
My redmi 7 was stolen today too. Pls did you lock your phone in mi cloud when searching for it?

Police got it.

Two days back I saw a debit alert from my bank to the tune of 5100 and the beneficiary was payarena
This fraud is getting out of hand

Everybody entering government or working with any ministry have a mindset to steal and nothing more again.

The house probing them only want their own share nothing more

Olayetan:
Were they able to get it and apprehend the theif?

They got the criminal but refused me seeing him or her.

They only gave me my phone, I believe they collected huge amount of money from the criminal

Fake news

North is safe we are only experiencing insecurity in Borno and some part of Adamawa and some few remote villages in kastina.

Kano is safe.
Kogi is safe
Sokoto is safe
Kaduna is safe.
Maiduguri is safe.
Jo's is safe.
And others like Zamfara, Jigawa etc.

Kano State is more peaceful and bigger than the 4 Eastern States combined together.

Arewa is healing


Arewa did I do a good job...? Pls I need my monthly 30k

anthonyuncle:
is there no 2x2 around where you are?

2 by 4 will do the job very well

That woman is a witch. Stay away from her

Millenniumlady:
Especially those useless Nigerian guys that calls themselves programmers mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

You can programmers useless? Are u for real

App with less than 10k downloads.

Yeye. He just want to trend

She is a runs girl.
See her blue eye bangle to charm men

Chai this people don finish Nigeria

Na ajebo car

yetmao:
I feel the case is extremely overheated. Maybe because a church was involved.

Am talking as an ex-boarding student from nursery to secondary. this case is small compared to what's going on in boarding schools. That place is a juvenile prison. I meant all boarding schools, kings college, queens college, unity school, remand homes, gss schools.

My only advice is that if you can avoid it, dont send your child to a boarding school.

Had it been your parents and other parents made effort like this woman maybe things would have changed for the better. Maybe our institution won't be a place where lesbians and gays are groomed or an holocaust detention camp.

Yeye man. The center table he is building in aba he has not finished it while his mate in Ebonyi that receives less allocation and less internal revenue has completed over 8 flyover.


Fool

If Adesina is the media aid he will say "why embarrass his excellency"

The NIN registration should be suspended instantly.

The centers are overcrowded and they are only few with slow network.

Please the Government should suspend it or do it in phases with several registration center in all poling unit or simply pull data from BVN and incorporate it to generate data.

BlowYourMind:
The woman is evil looking for unnecessary publicity, what measure has she taken in house with the school board members before unnecessary outburst, she should have seek redress with the school management before going public, I even heard that the state superintendent in Deeper Life, an old man came kneeling down for her in the hospital. I guess that was what really made the commissioner so bitter against her, the woman is evil.

One day they will rape your 9 year old son and those involve will come kneeling down begging.


Please forgive and forget and don't ask for justice.


The woman said she had gone to school to pick her son with other parents and she was there for hours and was wondering if her son was dead or alive this one no one want to allow her take her son.
She mentioned the school authorities running to give him multivitamins and other drugs to cover up.

It took hours to get the boy and when he finally saw him, she wept.

Yeye

Go and construct road like sliver.
Always doing like woman. Singing praises on social media all the time

Those who owns MBA Forex have probably right now launched 6 different schemes under different name

MBA reloaded
MCC forex
LMN Bitcoin trading
MSC instant cash out.
BSC lending team. Etc


By March next year, Out of the 6, two will become popular and Nigerians will sign up to put in their hard earned money

Congratulations opp.

Can you please mention the equipment one needed and the price.

Sonnobax15:
. Personally,I must confess that 2020 has been a great year for me despite facing a lot of uncertainties here and there...
During the lockdown,I had alot of blessings which came inform of disguise.....I was into a bakery business then,and the rate at which people consumed bread during the stay-at-home period paved more ways for financial breakthrough (tho I was just working under a superior)

I can proudly say 2020 has favoured me so far more than 2019 & 2018 combined.....

Las las,great nairalanders like Mr. Frowland coming to my rescue financially as at when I needed help the most made me to realise that there are still good men and women out there.

Tho it's been more than six months,but I can't stop thanking him...

May God never forget to bless you Mr. Frowland..

Can I contact you?

Am am setting up a bakery but proper guidance is what am lacking right now.

Land and a building already set.

Please I need advice

Lagos has reach it saturating point

Pacesetter123:
Ok,I was basing my comment on OP's write-up here.The nature of the abuse is not stated here.That was why I thought it wise to wait for the panel of enquiry to conclude their work before knowing wot to say on that.

The boy was abuse, they started chucking all type of objects. Turned him to homo. Just 11 years old