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Reminderz:
Lol.. I just keep wondering what kind of experience will a person have that will make him or her detest having kids especially for a man? and also detest relationship also.. ahh nor be JuJu be that?.. leemao.. how dem take born them? well me nor get any problem with anybody oo.. anybody with his own problem. so does having kids makes your space intruded.. well me I came from a good home, maybe na the experience wey e get make am detest having children .. ahh omoo..

That's the issue. Mindset just as herbswork said in his first post to you. Because society has made you seen children as nothing but blessings you say how do they intrude your personal space. Are you seriously asking that? Let's assume you were give a three month old baby to care for. Isn't the baby intruding your personal space. Like the babies cry in the mid morning giving you sleepless night. Or you not being able to leave you apartment to drink because you can't leave the baby or take it with you. You know whatever decisions or action you want to take when you were living alone with have to be different because you will have to consider how it will affect the baby too. So now because you gave birth to it doesn't change all these things I wrote up there.

ma373733:
KingOg no be so na https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/happy/happy0055.gif https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/happy/happy0055.gifhttps://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/happy/happy0055.gif
You don't get it at all
I'm embarrassed on your behalf

Bro, if 2 to 3 people tell you, you do not get something research well about it but he rather see it as a criticism. He doesn't know difference between criticism and correction.

ubunja:
it's the same thing everywhere. People misrepresenting mgtow, I'm having to defend mgtow on many Red Pill circles it's not even funny. everyone should leave Mgtow alone.

A gamer having to defend MGTOW. After being brought to redpill in my search for game. I read about all the branches of redpill so I can choose the one that works for me.

Reminderz:
but make Una even check sef, how person go talk say you nor even wan born pikin? which kind mentality be that, and you get people wey dey follow you do this kind thing.. if to say na even baby mam you talk now, that one still better small although not the ultimate solution.. but you don talk before say you nor wan born pikin leemaom. if dem nor born you, how you wan take dey claim mgtwo monk... wahala omooo .. Your sperm just dey there for nothing be that.. mehn people wey dey think like this try oo

abi shey you wan adopt nii.. me I believe say if red pill men reproduce more it will even help spread the message amongst his seeds thereby increasing number of red pill sons and decreasing simps. me I don't know what experience you get for your childhood wey make you decide that one oo..

But that's there opinion and they have their reasons. Some people don't want to be born too. But since they weren't in control of that they can probably do the one they could control which is not giving birth. You get it. I don't even know why you people just get offended by people's decisions that don't affect you in anyway.

AccessME:
I can relate bro.. I've done jamb last year and this but I haven't been fortunate to secure admission. Just here hoping on God!

Don't worry all will be well. And don't be depressed. Time heals all wound as long as you are trying on your own.

Meedon:
Just leave the kingog he doesn't know the meaning of MGTOW.

Okay. But he's been corrected but he is intentionally bot taking corrections. But I will leave him now.

KiNg0G:
The fact that you couldn't come up with a well written constructive criticism to engage me in a mature manner, shows your the one with the problem boy.



Just read up your write up....what's your highlighted points? because I can't find any.

What are your facts? To false my comparisons between mgtow and game players?..I can't see any points here.


oh I forgot... with the way you started your write up.... you quoted me for cheap likes!

I'm not trying to criticize your write up. I'm only pointing out your wrong premise. It's like trying to compare dogs and cat to a customer and starting with cats are witches. As that aren't true who wouldn't know your argument will be against cats. So change the premise that MGTOW encourages us to masturbate which isn't true because as an MGTOW you can fvck women too and start your comparison again.
And I started with "what's your problem" because you've been told many times that only MGTOW monk don't have sex but MGTOW have sex with ladies but you've refused to listen.

KiNg0G:
MGTOW and game players (benefitting from women) will never get along as far the issue of sex is involved in our redpill community.

Just like salt and kerosene....they can never mix even though they both harsh chemicals. let's accept that fact.

Mgtow claims to be the realest of all redpillers, advocating for MASTURBATIÓNS and so many unreasonable shitx that doesn't make sense in a civilise word just to stay away from this female folks.

But am not here to judge, but to contrast and compare between the two .


They is an old saying that says... IF YOUR HAND IS LEADING YOU TO SIN, CUT IT OFF. but why will I cut off my hand, when I can learn to change my mentality not to sin?

because if I cut off my hand because of one sin today, how about when I want to poo? How will I cope in washing my assx...that na another problem have caused to myself.



MGTOW believes if your dîck is making you think too much about sex and women , cut it off or take drugs that will kill the urge just to stay away from This females and their manipulations. ( which they are actually doing damages to themselves )


But GAME PLAYERS, is teaching you how to MAINTAIN FRAME, SELF CONTROL, when dealing with this female folks... because no matter.. they are here to stay till infinity.



Mgtow with steady erections, says stay away from girls..men should go their own way.

Game players says. you can fûck any amount of girls... and still maintain frame.
And be respected by this female folks.because your dignity is intact.



So my opinion.



I see one trying to avoid an issue ( when the issue is already there)





While the other accepts that issue, understands the issue.... and contained the issue til the issue becomes favorable to him.

What's really your problem? Your premise is wrong so your write up will definitely not make sense. MGTOW didn't say you shouldn't fvck women or only masturbate except you are MGTOW monk then you don't fvck women or even masturbate. As a MGTOW the only thing is you don't give women commitment that's you don't marry or date them but you are free to fvck them when they show.

emmaodet:
I once told my mates in church that did they noticed that 90% of the married women in the church are either jobless or underemployed (virtually just doing something to be busy but not productive enough to fund the family).
I told them if we swap the situation and our women are the one gainfully employed while we are either jobless or struggling with a megre job that most won’t have dated or married us and any of them who did it did it accidentally and not deliberately- that is, the man was earning well above the woman but on the long run lost his income thereby becoming an accidental decision.
Most women I know always detest their husbands when they lose their incomes. The women mostly get tired of the marriage and want to elope from it. They see the men has unnecessarily burden that is not productive anymore.
My mom was always complaining about how tired she was when my dad retired and bringing in little income into the family from his pension while my mum was still at service as headmistress. If not for the olden days tradition and culture imbibed in her, she would have eloped.
My MIL same, no difference. When her hubby was earning higher, working as a doctor in Dubai in early 90’s and had a high SMV as a man then, she was enjoying the man and proud to be the wife of a well to do man. She was the envy of the average lady then in my area.
Today the man is broke and partially paralyzed and my MIL has lost interest in the marriage because the man is more of a burden to her than asset. He is a liability. If not for tradition and culture plus religion, she would have eloped.
She once said when she paid us a visit that now a days ladies are enjoying. That they can decide to pull out of a marriage if it is not meaningful unlike in the olden days when a lot of people would frown on them and the stigma was very high.
That if she is a modern woman, she won’t have married. She will just give birth and enjoy her freedom since she is a principal.
I told her too that I won’t advise a modern man too to marry because the stress, liabilities and all outweighs it’s benefits.
That if am to marry now, I won’t. I will just get a baby mama and enjoy my freedom. Travel round the world the way I like.
She was jolted up with that my statement. Said a man needs a woman in his house at all time. Moreover, I am a very selfish person.
These two women are traditional women. Religiously inclined yet still thinking this way how much more a modern liberal minded woman.

Cab you imagine the hypocrisy. You said the same thing she said but she feels you are wrong while she's right. Because you are make while she's female. And somebody is still telling me redpill is toxic. I mean it's okay when a woman enjoys freedom but selfishness for a man to enjoy freedom. These female wouldn't stop to amuse me

I'm not dating but I'm doing badly because I've not been serious. But now for my finals I want to start dating aggressively and still improve in my study. And datubg should even help you sef if anything because highly sexed people will have energy to study. The only thing is as I'm dating I wouldn't be having sex frequently.

bro, i am formally a deist now an agnostic.
Being a freethinker is the best thing that has ever happened to me.as a businessman I think more rationally than my fellow competitors which gave me a huge advantage.
I see things more clearly, and i am not subjected to bias
My rationality have fetched me so much money in my business shpere. I think more deeply before i made a business move
I know there is no God to save me. I dont discuss my religious convictions with anybody. I go to church if necessary and even i say good things about churches in most cases.

Bro, knowing the truth is a blessing. Trust me
You will have a very big advantage and will most certainly be more successful than religious folks if you are smart sha.
Dont discuss your beliefs unless you are sure the person is also a freethinker. And dont argue.

I'm a Deist too. And I'm not confused. I'm now a rational thinker too and I'm sure I will make it big. I don't I've to be an atheist before I can think rationally.

Contumely:
I regret being born at all. Not just being born in Nigeria.
Life has no meaning.
I wonder what we are doing in this world.

I regret my curiosity; which has led me to learn a lot especially about God and religion. It led me to deism and confusion.
At times, I wish I could format my memory and remain in ignorance-- bliss.

Bro we the same thing. My curiosity about God led me to Deism too. But I'm not regretting anything because I just want to live life as long as live.

AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me

Well I can't compare because I've got families that support me. I didn't graduate after 4 years in University too but I started all over again by writing jamb. I will be resuming my finals this Month. You not a failure for falling, you only become one when you refuse to stand again

Kirchhoff01:
I lost my virginity to a runs babe.
E dey pain me if I remember the event. And she no do me well.

That' has been my only sex

Same with me too though it hasn't been my only sex. And it's been 8 years. And I've only had sex with 2 females that aren't sex workers and they are the only ones I can't has my body count or official sex. But next year I'm increasing body count to 30.

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

Who are the people liking your post like this. 340 likes. Asking where the relationship is headed make sense but locking her private part? Not everyone is religious like you. It's insane to assume that.

stanliwise:
fat lies.
Na only woman matter una dey talk for that redpill.
Nothing there benefits a guy growing up.
Many guys are there forming hard guy with low self esteem, poor social skills and inability to live a mans live.
Na only cry all night about female gender.
Spitsssss

Forget it you won't understand.

Who else thinks this woman is far more beautiful than Tonto.

Hayee:
then why are your fellow redpillers insulting the op

Because he is insulting the redpill. And the post I'm referring to as the basic of redpill is your post that I quoted. Not the rubbish the Op posted.

Hayee:
hahahaha o wicked gan
You want them to have heart attack
Dear op please right now focus on yourself and your improvement from your own philosophy of life
Have a mind of your own not just following a group blindly
It is only these type of people I see that know what they want in life
Set goals make sure you achieve them by taking no for an answer

Redpill is just an ideology I might work others and not you doesn't mean you are stupid, useless or a simp

See what you listed up there, is what redpillers are talking about. But we only form a group to share experiences and talk about the facts. We even encourage people to follow what work for them and not force theirselves to do what they can't do as long as you are self improving and not allowing anybody to manipulate you. But it seems we against women because due to how the society is built men that have been able to be immune against all sort of manipulation but find it really hard to fight against sex-manipulation. That's what we are trying to help with. Now tell me saying not to spend on a woman who isn't related to you to develop her but use it to develop yourself. Does that sound like hatred. It sounds like love to me. To love myself.

Martinez39s:
Ex-redpiller indeed.

Bro since you are here already I don't expect you to just let him go with that comment. Put him in his place.

ExRedpiller:
I saw this on a subreddit. I'm a member of the exredpill subreddit.

My eyes have been opened.

First when you talking about rich athlete talk about average citizens too who are asked to pay $300 child support per month when all they make is $1200 per month. And continue to increase it because while the pay is still fixed without caring one bit about the man and throwing him into prison for his inability to pay like he will be able to pay in prison. Instead of reducing his child support or working on increasing his pay they rather much throw him in prison which is to show they are only interested in putting him down rather than showing the child(ren) care.
What about those who did paternity test and Found out the child isn't theirs but still forced to pay child support. About about the rich man that have to pay child support to a woman that took his sperm from a used condom without his permission and impregnated herself.
And if you say it's only the rich athlete and artist and rich people that are being forced to pay child support then why is the Canadian citizens refusing to get married. The rate of marriage going down. Redpill is not stopping you from following it just but don't try to discredit it's help by creating topics like this. Just go and get burnt your way. I've never been heartbroken before. The highest is being rejected by a girl and I will feel emotional by a few days and even become friends with the girls but I've witness, heard, seen and critically thought a lot to think a Lady is different. There are ladies who are different but the percentage is low to risk it. Redpill isn't even about the only ladies but relationship as a whole. Friends, relative,family, bis partners e.t.c it's about putting yourself at an advantage because in this world human can do anything at anytime at all and if only got one life and if you let the life get away through your ignorance the world would go on. Your loss

Martinez39s:
That guy is a known blue pill troll. Ignore him.

I answered him because I've been seeing the Moniker here. The guy should actually leave this thread because his still holding unto happily ever after dream marriage. Nobody is actually stopping him from going into it( to get burned because I know he surely will) but what's it with getting offended with people who don't want to marry. Even some blue pill person don't want to get married because they've looked at it critically abd see it doesn't favour the man.

Martinez39s:
That guy is a known blue pill troll. Ignore him.

True.

Fiscus105:
Pain you? How many times u will lament, wen has it become abomination to say amen to ur heart desires?

And for foolish people that satanic agents on social media are misleading, I think this is enough evidence for you.

A word is enough for a wise oooooooooooo

I actually said Amen. And I didn't see where I insulted. It's you who is actually pained and bitter. I only stated my belief that I follow the notion that you can only bring your heart desire to reality not by sitting one place and praying for it to come to reality.
You actually not very intelligent. Because I didn't see any lamentations in my first post.

Jessepaid:
hehehe.....


You are finding out about Black tax the hard way...

I get where you coming from. But also remember this is Nigeria

Iyaebe:
Women hardly cheat,it's almost an impossible thing for a woman to cheat on someone she truly loves which is what we are seeing here

Eeya. We hardly seeing things from the same perspective. Women cheat too. And infact find it easier to cheat than men.

Fiscus105:
Amen. God will surely make ur desire come to reality. Even more than your expectations.

Amen. Just that I believe in you making your own desires come to reality. I'm a Deist. You can google search that to understand my angle.

Jeon:
Lol I love ur entertainment. Lol Lool loool
Things dy happen ooh
Look what ur fellow grown penis ass wrote.
If nah him babe another man talk to like this wetin for be his reacti
5 I just accepted him this morning and he don start to daydream. He even texted his number to me and I deleted it instantly.


Funniest part is that I stated my relationship status on my profile [public ].

Who are these stupid boys disturbing fati. See as they are disgracing theirselves. See reason why we preach death to people like this. If only they know you don't even deserve them.

Just today I've seen at least 3 thread that's been recycled from more than 3 years ago. What's happening?

I've even thought about ghosting my whole family. Strive to make it and start sending them money from time to time. I will only let my brother know about where I live with a promise not to disclose it.
Then I will come out after I'm financially free and most especially powerful. Having family around have a way of limiting you. They are your comfort zone. Nobody grows in a comfortable field.

RAGGA40:
it will be a surprise package to them.

Yeah. Because that's what every normal man should do. Abd they believe I'm still normal(society standard)