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IAmStrange:
When all your mountains have fallen and you're approaching menopause right?

Continue!

JBoss25:
hmmm So you used to share your bumbum at oshodi for 1800, nice to know

DenreleDave:
Anytin?

DenreleDave:
I need a job. Lagos.. Quote me if any

Cc: fatymore

Dextre:
Yh let us be the same... Make he sha cut out,marriage is not a do or die affair. The woman clearly said she is looking for someone else too and here you are singling out the guy,as if he is the only person wanting out of the relationship. Una kind ehn

henribj:
You are sounding so bitter.

engrchykae:
some women think that because you married them,they have earned the right to make a man miserable.
Turn against your family and want you to take side with her.
Mock your friends,even the ones that helped you without batting an eye.
Then they will always guard you to church so that the church would influence you from treating their mess.
My wife tried that nonsense,I left her and am happy and free.
I don't care what a silly pastor or members would say.
Advice your fellow women to have sense.
Nowadays we don't order women to leave our house,we leave the house for them and vamose.
Nonsense and ingredients

anochuko01:
Agbara is in Ogun state. But it's astretegic location with close proximity to Lagos and Benin Republic.

crackhaus:
Well it was just a suspicion on my part, but now that it seems you won't let it go, I take back my suspicion.

Fair enough?

crackhaus:
Perhaps it's because I find you interesting in a comical way.

crackhaus:
Stop giving me reasons to.

crackhaus:
That you meant all of it does not make them less comical.

crackhaus:
I was actually. Good thing you could sense the comical nature of your responses.

crackhaus:
Or what?
You will shout, yell, and scream my PC screen off?

crackhaus:
Or what?
You will shout, yell, and scream my PC screen off?

crackhaus:
That you even believe you had any case to begin with is a testament to that IQ thing.

I wonder why a woman who insists her husband should sign an undertaking to never raise his hands on her wouldn't want to sign an undertaking to never raise her voice on him.
I thought it was a partnership.

You are certifiable.

respect80:
Undertaken korr,,, undertaker ni...
There's more to marriage than meets the eyes.
Marriage isn't all about being with someone who will never offend you, it's more about being with someone whom you are ready to tolerate his/her shortcomings.

Most of u with this idea of the husband signing an undertaken think the man hit his wife probably because he didn't love her enough which maybe very wrong. Love is not all about perfection but more about forgiveness.
In this case, the man was wrong to have hitted his wife but they both should find a reason to forgive one another. The wife on the other hand overreacted by involving her family despite the man going down on his knees to beg and show remorse for his action.
One thing I wished every man and woman understands is "the power of silence" especially when someone wrongs you.
For me, silence is a strong force I use to overcome difficult situations as regards my relationship with people. Everyone ought to master it because it gives you time to think and respond to situations rather than reacting to them.

Lastly, don't forget marriage is an adventure and not a bed of rose.
Peace!

crackhaus:
That was not an insult.
I only suspect, meaning I'm not sure. The rest is up to you.

crackhaus:
I suspect your IQ is on a single digit, that is why you would think all of that was a justification for beating.

Good morning to you too.

eyinjuege:
Many have loose screws on their heads. Even from the OP's story alone, I blame him a 100%.
Which responsible married man comes home by 2am, drunk?
His offences:
1. Going home late by 2am.
2. Not calling to inform and update his partner he has been delayed and will be home late. What kind of person has not even such basic respect for their partner? I guess the kind that hits their partner.
3. Drink driving
4. Physically assaulting his wife
5. Exposing his child to such irresponsible behaviour
Some even have the audacity to expect the wife not to involve 3rd parties in her beatings.
Wetin Musa no go see for gate?
Dis una wicked people with wicked counsels cannor make heaven o...