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Flakeey: @Uteh, amen and God bless

Good morning all,
AF was supposed to come on monday, till today, nothing!
i dint want to test cos i have no symptoms whatsoever, not even the normal AF signs i get, i am even doubting if i ovulate this month, neither boobss cramps nor tenderness, no pelvic cramps or heaviness, no NOTHING maybe the predicte sef no dey talk true sometimes, who knows?
hubby forced me to POAS this morning, nothing!! BFN
my circle has been btw 26 to 28days for over a year, i dont know what is happening this month.
No sign of AF, no sign of pregnancy!!!ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
soooooooo Angry!!!!

My dear I tire too o! I'm currently on cd 40

opelistic1: Thanks to u all, also thanks for d encouragement. Am so glad and happy to have u, if not for u I don't kw how I will b feeling now, I believe devil is a liar (o lagbara ko ni igbala) with the power that resurrected jesus from the grave we shall overcome, dis year is our year of plenty testimonies. Once again thank u for being there for me.

My dear. Your testimony shall not tarry for much longer in jesus name

opelistic1: Am trying to wait for tomorrow which will b day 29 to go for test, I believe dis is my first time dat it will b cd28. God please let it b dat am pregnant I will everly praise u.

amen....i join my faith with yours

opelistic1: @ favouredgal are u saying there is blue clomid?

blue pack

udoka2: Ebony13
I can understand long cycle, so frustrating. are u still taking fertilaid?

you wont really get that info by google. But we have two types, one on white packs anoher one on blue pack. The orginial is that of white pack, its made in Italy. the first time a friend here told me, l wasnt convinced until recently somebody told me she never responded to that of blue, but the white pack. The one we have in nigeria is mostly the blue which goes for btw 1k-1.5k, that of white according to the person is 2.5k, availalbe at reputable pharmacies.
you can lookout for it, if you dont respond to the regular one we have in 9ja.

See Udoka's earlier post but for me it was the reverse, the blue pack one i bought from the chemist made me ovulate, meanwhile this white pack one they give me for hospital, hmm, looking like it dint work...

i need to join this forum o! i and 6 feet 5 inches, used to weigh 68kg avergaely but became around 70kg/72kg when i started dating my husband, for the wedding i had 4 months of intense exercise and weighed 66kg.


After now, i have added 9kg and i weigh 75kg, its terrible, i have stopped exercising cuz it used to make my period disappear.
I eat once a day, but i hear its a recipe for disaster as it slows down metabolism. so going forward now, i have decided i'l be eating 3 small meals a day, eliminate rice completely from my diet, eat fish instead of meat and let's see how that goes. i am also on 1500mg of metformin

But i will do the one week of fruit diet t detox first starting on good friday

the white clomid is not as effective as the blue one, i knew it, when i had absolutely no side effect from it that something was up...

Hope I dint leave out anyone. Thanks @all. Reading your posts made me feel better.

I was thinking of resigning on monday, but I'll brave the storm and see how I can improve and get back on track again.

My husband and I spoke at great length yesterday and he basically let me know I shouldn't put myself under pressure from ttc, that God's time is d best and he loves me and supports me.....he even told me that if I want to quit work, he doesn't think I should but he'l support me in any decision I take.

Yesterday was his niece's (sisters daughter's) wedding and I couldn't help but think, kai, this girl will soon carry belle and all attention will be on me fully, but I quickly banished d thought and told myself its not a competition.

Yesterday at d wedding I exerted myself helped them serve, helped them share sovenirs, danced and danced and for the first time my inlaws dint have anything to say negatively about me, cuz its mostly complains complains which is largely my fault cuz I can be nonchalant esp when I knw u are gossiping behind my back, hmm, this one never get belle, etc. I'll just switch off, keep to myself and not bother to please anyone.

My dears, why its so difficult for me to comprehend: pple in the past have called me favored, iv been so favored in my lifetime. Everything iv asked God for he's given me, he's caused me to be outstanding esp in my education and career. So why he'll ignore me in this very important aspect and allow me to carry last. I don't understand.

But I submit myself totally to him, cuz his ways are not mine, I just pray he gives the strenght to carry on this hard, painfilled and uncertain times and I pray even more that then end is in sight.

As all of you has comforted me I pray the lord will visit you at the very point of your needs in jesus name. Have a good sunday

@pretty moma thanks a lot. our stories sound so similar and some of the questions you raised are what i toture myself with everyday! why dint i start trying immediately i fot married? maybe its this foolish work thats even preventing me from having kids, etc. knowing you walked in my shoes and today you are pregnant uplifted my spirit. thanks a lot.

thanks @goldenbaby, @always true

@chol8y, hmm, you opened my eyes to a new perspective, thanks.

@lizzylaw thanks a lot

@igbabe @kaynee @Omonikiba @adeyinsola @opelistic1 hhhh@accurategirl @echala thanks

Yesterday I got very bad appraisals at work. A "D'. I have never gotten even a C in my 7 years of work so I felt enraged like my boss was picking on me. However, on getting home my hubs said he believes I deserve a 'D' that iv become a different,distracted, distant and unrecognizable person in recent times and went on to list a whole list of my wrongdoings

I was angry with him for not suppporting me but the more I think about it the more I realize they are all right

Ttc has changed me, for the first time in my life I'm failing,and I can't seem to help myself. I'm failing at concieving, I'm failing at my marriage, I'm failing at my job. I can't seem to get anything right anymore.
I don't know how to handle failure.

I'm so tired, I'm unmotivated, I'm frustrated, I think I'm tending towards depression. You know, like an out of body moment, I see myself spiralling down a dangerous path and I feel helpless to help myself or even pray or even encourage myself

Chokl8y: Pls ladies... I need answers from everyone.

HOW DO YOU COPE WITH QUESTIONS ABOUT BABIES WHILE TTC?

One of the worst questions I hate is “what are you waiting for"?



Are you kidding me?!

Then the well meaning advice from different people on how you get pregnant faster by forgetting about it.
Pls how do you guys cope with it cos even when I smile and answer politely, it gets to me.

it used to make me unhappy and depressed, but these days i have come to realize that these people mean well...and also that God's time is the best..those two thoughts keeps me going

MamaTriplets: Hi Mothers of Nations. ℓ̊ want to speak to a discouraged sister. You are tossing and turning on Ɣ☺ΰr bed, not able to sleep. You have called on God and don 'everything' possible to be a Mother. Praised, Prayed, Fasted, Read the Word, Sowed Seeds, Vowed, Medicals and many more. But it seems not to be happening and you are loosing hope. You are saying silently 'how could this be'. Will it ever happen? God is saying to You today that 'This too shall pass'. Baba says All We need are Intercessors that will stand in the gap, He says He speaks and we hear but we doubt. Retrace Ɣ☺ΰr steps today, get on Ɣ☺ΰr kneels at Ɣ☺ΰr Altar of Prayer. Y☺ΰr Babies are Already with you, Our God will give Ɣ☺ΰ divine direction on how to ©º♏Є Out of this Situation and You shall be VICTORIOUS!!!

Amen

cjnone2000@yaho:
@adedoyinsola. Can't wait to respond to ur post. how long hv u been ttc?. sorry if that got u sad. I have a aunt who was ttc for 20yrs. throughout that 20yrs, there was no Af. in the 18th yr of ttc, she adopted a baby girl. very beautiful/sweet girl. within few months of adopting that girl, God opened her womb. she conceived and gave birth to twins last year, a girl and a boy. what can this God not do. can you imagine what this lady went through within these years? may God not allow us wait this long.(Amen)
God is so faithful, he can never allow us go through what is more than us. A colleague told me a story yesterday. She said a lady in her village was so old that everyone thought she will NEVER marry. despite her single life, she was a devoted christian. long story cut short, God gave her a handsome man who had never married before, within three months of her marriage, she conceived and gave birth to triplets, as if that was not enough, she conceived again and gave birth to another triplets. God settled her for all those wasted years. What can God not do. it is not how far, but how well. What kind of children do you want? destiny changers, world hero's or just anyhow child?. God is preparing the best for you. just hold on to faith. ttc will soon pass away. your mother gave birth, your ground mother did, your siblings have also given birth so you are not exceptional. God is fighting your battles. clean your tears. look around you dear, most of your mates are not yet married, some are dead, some have one challenge or the other, non is without problem. cheer up, its well. hugs love.

GBAM...nothing to add

layefaid: Thanks, i havent done any test yet i got married nov last year but i have been having sex for years even before i got married, i have neva gotten pregnant even by mistake. My hubby is acting like he isnt worried but i know he is. I need to know how to go about temp, fet chart, ovulation kit and all

i'l advice you to go see a gyneo.. if youhave been having unprotected sex for over a year without conception, the next step is to go and do various tests to know wassup.

However, in the interim, buy OPKs thats ovulation prediction kitand follow the instructions, buy a basal thermometer as well and see if you can see a trend in your temperature over a complete cycle. temps are expected to rise by at least 0.3 if ovulation takes place

Flakeey: yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!

IT IS MOI BIRTHDAY!!!

I AM 31 TODAY

GLORY BE TO GOD FOR THE GIFT OF LIFE...

Happy birthday darling, ipray God gives you a specialized gift this year that will make you shout for joy and testify

twingirls: My sis we plenty there o, normally i ave serious pregnancy symptons evrimonth, so  ‎Fø̲̣̣я̅ don begin D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ do test by 10dpo here gist

10 dpo, bfn ME , it can't be, not wit  way I'm feeling, I'm sure dis(predict early preg test) is not pickin d hcg yet, i won't even use it again its not working, its Ĵüڪ† costly

11dpo ME let me Ĵüڪ† do it a̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ remove my mind, i know its stil early (afta test) hmnn dis cheap hhpt sef, shld av waited til 2morro, av Ĵüڪ† wasted it, tank God its 50N

12 dpo (lookin frm different angle) it is not possible bfn? Its like inplantation Ĵüڪ† happened,  can see anor line but its so faint (na lie o) let's c 2moro, it wil be showing

13dpo bfn again, maybe I'm really not pregnant o, why is it stil negative? Tot  saw 2 lines ysterday!

14dpo ME hmnnnn!  tire o, stil negative, God dis month again, pls help me God, (aftertot) maybe I'm preg, i wil wait til 2moro,  can't be feelimg like dis a̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ not be preg

15dpo ME iv not stil seen blood  must be preg, but why is dis hpt showin negative na?

2hrs later ME (seeing blood) but its so light,  can stil be preg, why dis light na

16dpo ME chei! Dis is no longer light o, God make dis new cycle my cycle of pregnancy



My sis, na so e D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ be o, but dis cycle, no symptoms at all, so  no bother to check plus I'm concentrating more on weightloss a̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ climbing scale evri 5hrs to see how many pounds iv lost!
It is well o, 2day is cd26 ‎Fø̲̣̣я̅ me, no symptons at all

abeg dey climb the scale dey go jare

Dreamsinbc: I wish we had a 'Hug' button, I feel like sending you a hug, favored gal
. HUGZZ!!!

hugs too, thanx

Dreamsinbc: Pls o, I bin wan ask since: how do u mums cope with the 2ww? The thing tire me o! CD24 today and my cycle is 30 days. I'm not finding the wait funny o! I actually don't want to count, but I can't help it. My greatest dream is to go to the hospital to treat malaria one day and my doctor will say "Madam, u r 8 months pregnant" LMAO! Don't I just wish! Or "Madam, your baby is coming" and I'm like "I didn't know I was pregnant!"

R u guys sure I don't have malaria?

hahahaha you can say that again, normally i wait out the 2 weeks by testing fro 10dpo but the disappointment of week in week out test don tire me. i am on CD29 now and i have no desire to test or anything, mayb because i dint use any opk or temps so i dont know what point of my cycle i am

Goldenbaby: @Dreamsinbc and favored gal, thanks a lot, am really hapi dat am here,ave really learnt wat I don't knw before, God will grant all our hrt desire Amen

@mummyf. Amen ooooo

amen

profeseur: @favoredgal cycloprogenova is wat helpd me gt AF stable, befre den AF was very irregular, sometyms 3months without AF
About d injectables, yea was refering to Gonadrotopins

ok

Goldenbaby: Hi ladies, am new here, have been ttc for 7months now but no result,my cycle is 25days,pls when likely will I be ovulating? And I don't ave much cervical mucus,wat can I do to increase it? The last tym I went for scanning,d result showed dat all is well.and he wrote on Impression-PID,POD. And when I went to lab they saw I had staph, and I was given medication, pls can staph prevent preg?

Hmm, you need to see a doctor about the staph and about ovulation, invest in ovulation prediction kit and Basal thermometer at least for 2 months to see if there is a pattern

Best wishes

Chokl8y: @ Lizzyslaw and twingirls, I am also kind of a cycle buddy. Today is Cd22 for me. No pregnancy symptoms because I refused to think about it. I think knowing what early 2ww symptoms are is one of the worst things a person going thru ttc needs. I used to visit one countdown to pregnancy site and those days I was like a psycho. I even sometimes felt a baby KICK in my tommy, during the 2WW!!! My dears, no be small thing.

I also told God that I will have a stress free pregnancy. The only symptoms of pregnancy that I will have is BIGI BELE! Then maybe all the good symptoms like the glow.

btw, I have been absent here cos I have not had much going on. Did the cd21 hormone test yesterday. I am yet to get the results of all my tests including HSG. My doctor sef is not in a hurry. He told me to come back next wed. And af is supposed to be due then. I am just happy cos he will just help me confirm my pregnancy sharply! No home test. Btw home test kit is also one not-so-good things a person ttc needs. The money I used to but Hpts, I for use am dey buy baby things.

Amen o!

About HPTs you can say that again, i have decided no more for me again. ABEG....the disappointment of seeing one line even outweighs any money spent.

profeseur: @favoredgal...i hav pcos too but cycloprogenova had kinda stabled AF, my circle was btw 28 to 35 days until i took fertilaid n it increased to 54 days n den stopped. I'm stil on metformin ...I've also tried clomid in d past bt it dint wrk...tried it fr 3 circles. I'm in btwn DRs at d moment jare. D last Dr i saw wants me to strt on injectibles...dats y i decided to tke a brk....n jst chill befre i strt on dt path....want to giv my body a brk

what is cycloprogenova? il check google now sha.
What injections? Gonal F?

Mzora: Wonderful mothers of great children I greet you all.....plz 4 dose dat hav used fertilaid b4,hw effective iz it 4 hormonal imbalance/irregular cycle. I want 2 giv it a try.

Have you been properly diagnosed to know what the issue is? well, like people have said, it worked for some and messed some up.


Good luck with your choice

profeseur: @favoredgal me sef i run...my circle was manageable before....now no AF fr almst 2 n half months

Well, i have been officially diagnosed with PCOS with LH: FSH levels 3:1, normal testosterone, normal prolactin levels (although high levels of normal, long and anovulatory cycles so was prescribed clomid. I ovulated, no spotting and had a 30 day cycle with clomid unlike the 42 day cycle with fertilaid....

This cycle i am doing clomid and metformin.....

No AF since Jan thats long o! are you seeing a gyneo? is this normal for you?

napa: Feeling very unhappy. Being having lower abdominal pain for sometime so decide to go for a pelvic scan this afternoon, lo and behold it revealed that i have PID and fibroids, though i knew about the fibroid since Dec last year but hoping for a reduction cos of some medications i've taken but alas the thing has grown bigger and is now multiple. What could cause PID? I don tire sincerely from one issue to another. Crying silently inside because i dey office, i know say na serious outburst when i get home.

God show Thy mercy, tired of chewing drugs day in and day out, tired of giving my DH ugly reports everytime, though he's been a darling but still i don tire.Bring me out of this situation, walk through my life and make me whole again.Seriously dejected

amen. his mercies are your portion. were you given any medication? if yes, take it and lets hope for the best

profeseur: @igabe...apart frm wt Cjone said, u myt hav genital herpes...said so becos of how u described it. Genital Herpes is a virus u cn get from cold sores...cold sores is actually herpes..d only difference is its on ur lips .....n if u've had it for so long, its typical.... As der is really no cure just drugs u cn use to manage it. It resurfaces wen der's been stress, heat or hormonal changes which explains y u see it during or aftr AF
Myt b wrng bt Check dis link and see which is closest to ur symptoms
Even aftr checkin stil see a Dr.
http://www.officialhealth.org/Swollen-Sore-Bump-under-Skin-by-Vagina.html

i dont think its Herpes...herpes is small and usually more than one

profeseur: @favoredgal r u still usisng fertilaid?

Na, i am on my second cycle of clomid. The one month i used fertilaid i spotted on CD 14, 21,22....i ran kia

opelistic1: Good morin mothers, pls wat can I use to stop dis inching from my private part especially my clitoris

go and see a gyneo

Chi16: good morning fruitful mothers of great generations.
@alwaystrue...thanks for checking on me.

morning dearie

santagelo25: Good morning fruitful mothers and fathers.@Mama Triplets..I just laugh at your prayer for Alwaystrue.I love it and was praying inside me that it spread to everyone TTC in this forum.A lot have happened recently to some of us.I know IT IS FOR A WHILE:That is my consolatory remarks now.
Because Jesus christ is not barren,cannot be delayed by any sickness or disease..we are not barren and cannot be delayed too.
Welcome to all the new members.Your stay in this thread is for a while.We shall all migrate to the after pregnancy thread very soon in Jesus name.Amen.

amen and amen

profeseur: Na wa o......alot has happend, I've laffed and cried, n been depressed n been lifted up again.....a rollercoaster of emotions, this ttc journey is jst crazy.

Honestly most real families are not even as close as the mothers in this forum. God bless you all plenty. God will surely grant us our heart desires.

As for me, I've stopped taking drugs...I'm jst tired of all dat..decided to go on a break frm it all. Haavnt seen AF since january which was the time i stopped taking fertilaid. I keep having cramps on d left n ryt side of my abdomen, headache....back ache sometyms n nausea n alot of BFNs....so I'm jst taking the mustard seed mixture now and prayin dats all. I'l revisit d whole med thng latr bt fr now I'm jst resting frm all d running helter skelter.
I thank God fr dis forum, come here almst everyday...dnt knw how I'd hav remained sane without dis online family. Babydust to all!!!!!!

@pink22 thanx fr always remembring to include my name )

well, sometimes is good to take a break, especially if one has been taking these drugs for a long time....my prayer for you is that you won't need to go back to these drugs because you will get you bfp soonest to the glory of God