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Nictos: @Flakeeey Hug recieved uhmmmm why so tight na abi u wan hurt my ibeji's .....lol thanks love
@Omonikiba, @Joyfullmum @ favored gal thanks a bunch jare.

I no dey cry again. Even my DH just call me now to ask me if i still dey cry...i just busted into laughter.
Thanks for sharing me up.

I cant repay you all but GOD will in no time.

happy to hear you are better....... your laughter shall be permanent in Jesus name

omonikiba: @Nictos, pele. Joy cometh in the morning. Continue to celebrate His Word and that which you hold, hold it tight.

@favoued girl, pls which online store did you do your maternity gown shopping? Thanks.

@ all, I took time to read some testimonies about pineapple core, I think we should give it a try at 3dpo and take it for 3 to 5 days.

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Nictos: Hello HOUSE!
Alwaystrue u knw mention me Evangelist Nictos for the kain word i send give Flakeey......lol. And as if the Devil wanted to test my faith say sebi u sabi talk abi? i gat my own dose of the cry yesterday.

Well i had to go see my Gneay yesterday after having series of unexplainable symptoms.
Let me rewind back to last week Tuesday when i wrote the story about the evil Cat experience. Af never come still and no show sign sey e dey come as i comot for office on dat day. So i decided to run to church after work to take Holy communion and also inform my Daddy G.O wat was goin on.
You wont believe it that right dere in the church na him Af show him face, i had to run to a small shop to get pad kiakia.
All the preaching in church was lost to me, as i felt dejected. I was trying to uplift my spirit with the word "Even though he slays me, i will yet trust in him".

Anyways to cut the long story short Af came for only two days+ that tuesday night very light.
I felt very very heavy on thursday of the same week. Even tried exercising maybe Af go flow more and relieve would come. For where! e no happen ooo.
On Friday my temperature shot up back to 37.4 and consistently rising over the days to even 37.9.
To add it up, serious cramping and backache, toothache, nausea,feverish, cough, indigestion/bloating, tummy heavy,stooling na wahala as e strong pass micheling etc.

I tried to fast on Monday morning, at 3pm my stomach was already in pains,my back was aching like mad, feeling like i would faint any minute. I had to rush to take drinks and snacks and immediately the drink went down my throat, i was relieved.

I couldnt explain all this symptoms, so i decided to visit my Gneay cos i was sure he would have an explanation to this.

After explaining in full details to the Old man, na him he con write drugs for me make i go collect from pharmacy and to do about 3 blood test.
My sisters-Low and behold d drugs na for cough and asthma and d blood test na for Malaria parasite, fever and blood count.

I have a free medical facility at Eko hospital but decided not to use any of their doctors for Fertility issues because i did not trust them that they did a gud job when i became pregnant and lost d baby eventually. So i decided to use a specialized Gneay for fertility related issues for which i make monthly payment since i started TTC journey in January. He came highly recommended.

In January, the Gneay gave me losts of cough medicine and only clomid
In February, gave me higher cough medicine and clomid
I came again in March, you still pack higher cough dosage give me and test again.......ABA! na him i vex scatter their clinic yesternight. They collected 20k frm me last night to run this their rubbish before i realized that come oooo. Since January till now, this man never say make him run test to even knw weting they wrong with this couple or even me that complains of serious cramps to find out why.

I was devastated, i cried my eyes out till i slept yesternight. My God why me, i kept myself intact for 28gud years despite all temptation. Should it be me that should be looking for a child or going tru dis wahala.

As am talking to you now, my back still aches, i am having pains in my abdomen, i cant even eat much else the Jeans am wearing becomes uncomfortable. I hardly could zip up my trousers now cos it inconveniences me. HELP OOOO my one and only TTC sistersss.

What do i do? any advise would be appreciated.

Hugs, i think its time for another gyneo....

aypelumi: Hello people, Does anyone know what the red and black bags used at the UK visa centres implies? Just curious as I see some applications put in a red bag and others in a black bag,

if you have gone to the uk in the last 2 years, black bag it is....everyother person....red bag

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Flakeey: hello everyone,

@Alwastrue, tnx for checking on me.

@Heknowsmyname, congrats and pls go and get a test done.

@all, today, i'm on CD 14, ovulation day, no EWCM as usual, just something creamy and watery. i have finished one bottle of Robtussin with guaifenesin, the red one, nothing not even patches of EWCM just watery stuff infact i dont know what to do again, i drink lots of water, eat fruits, take EPO (Evening Primrose Oil) from period to CD 10, moringa seed and leaf, baking soda water/lemon.

our Pastor's wife used to organise prayers for those who are TTC, we were 3, now na only me remain for the prayer group. the 2 others ladies are pregnant. I was so ashamed and down, throughout the prayer session i couldnt hold back the tears.

i know dat GOD will not leave me out, HE will definitey answer me.

GOD please have mercy on us and open our wombs to receive your gifts. let it come quick LORD.

*sobbing*

its well...glad to know you are doing a lot better now

lizzyslaw: Thanks Sis! I will get my thermometer today, it seems d bbt trend can predict d arrival of aunty fllo and d likelihood of BFP but what r d alphabets on Nictus's chart? I can see, A, B, C, to G what do those mean?
@ Tanidabi, welcome. A fast and prayer session was declared here on the thread for all sisters for saturday d 9th day of march. We all cry wt one voice for desires of our heart, for mercy and for each other. Our sister Pinky is in charge of the list and will add ur name on request. Hubbies/partners r welcome 2 join d kabashing and we will also be giving to d needy in orphanages and otherwise on dt day. More prayer points r bound to show on this thread b4 dt day but we SHALL definitely be praising him for d babies he has showered this thread wt cause we hv all claimed his miracles in our lives.
Baby dust all.

i don't really understand her chart, however, when you ovulate your temp will rise by at least 3 degrees and stay elevated if you are pregnant but drop when AF is coming. the downside is that it will not predict ovulation for you. it will only show up in your temps after you have ovulated.

For instance, my pre-ovulation temp ranged between 36.4 to 36.6...however the day after ovulation, two days after a positive opk for me, my temps shot up to 37.1 and fluctuated btw 37.0 and 37.3 for 14 days. the 15th day i woke up to a temp of 36.4 and thought maybe it was the aircondition, for where, AF came that day...so you get my drift?

the basal thermometer is about N800 at health plus

lizzyslaw: @Nictus,

Pls am interested in this BBT charting but i wonder if it is ideal for me. Am nocturnal and hardly sleep. i often wake up in d wee hours of d night 2am, 3am e.t.c and sometimes read till morn or fall asleep say 4.am or even 5.am. i understand dt temp readings shd be taken at the same time every morn, do u think that my data will be accurate being d kind of sleeper i am?

go ahead
well, i am kinda like that too and i dint chart at exactly the same time of the day, however is till noticed a pattern, rise after ovulation and a dip the day i got my period, all this was last month sha...

not temping this month

lizzyslaw: @Cjnone.
Hmm my sister.. am sure u hv heeded the voices dt hv told u to run; but for emphasis sake what these pple do is dt dy tie the womb of the woman so dt within the 9 months her circle no longer flows. They then give some injections which simulate pregnancy symptoms i.e fuller boobs and after some months the tommy looks bigger, i dn't know which one injections. the ultrasounds don't show and if u dn't pay completely dy won't loose d womb to enable u "deliver". As I speak now,one of my best friends has been carrying the "PH pregnancy for almost 2 yrs" she looks really pregnant, big boobs tommy and even a shinning nose but her younger sister just got preggy and delivered but she is still "preggy." If u read some chats back i mentioned one of my dad"s friend who told my hubby to "try and increase the population" at another time he told my dad that if anybody is looking for a child that dy should come to him as he knows how to go about it. though she is a yr older dn me, i got married 2 yrs b4 her and i know dt dy wanted to show me and my family that dy r not "Barren" like me.

@Cjnone, Run, if your legs are not enough, borrow mine and RUN!!! I would much rather go to an orphanage home and adopt and declare to the world that i adopted because i know dt "the tested quality of my faith works out endurance for me" and dt when Baba looks unto me at least he will say "that is my daughter, she waited upon me. she has d quality called "ENDURANCE"

Baby dust y'all

By d way, please take some time out of ur prayers to praise the Lord on my behalf. He saved me from burning myself and our house with fuel last night. my house caught fire as i tried to fuel the gen. HE sent a crowd of angels in the form of neighbours to put out the fire. I very nearly poured the fuel on myself but for HIS grace as the fire started in my hands. I have been to shocked to thank him enough particularly as i was home alone and DH was not around.

i reject barreness for you IJN...
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thank God for your testimony. you are covered by the blood

cjnone2000@yaho:
@all. how una dey
I hear something yesterday. I fear but I no run oooo
A good friend of mine opened up to me yesterday. she gave birth last year after some years of ttc.
she told me yestaday that she has a solution to my problem if I get heart. me wey get heart pass zuma rock. I ready as long as no be bad tin.
The lady told me she has a woman fertility specialist who resides in PH. that the woman will give me herbs to carry belle within 3 months inrespective of what my fertility issue is. that if I carry the belle, scan will not see the belle, no antenatal, if my dh give me money for antenatal, I should just come and relex in her house cos there is no need. The herbs will cost N340,000.00 while the cost of delivery ranges from N500,000 - N600,000.00 depending on the sex (f/m. She said the belle no go show within the first four months and might just show small after 5 months. that I must go to PH to deliver the baby in the womans hospital. that I might not be able to breast feed the baby cos my milk may not flow well. she went ahead to give me instance with close friends who has done it & has 3 - 4 kids now through the same woman. I was transfixed at a spot after hearing this. which belle scan no go see. my dh that has been rehearsing how to hear the sound of his child inside womb. He is ready to follow me to any hospital as long as it has to do with his child. how I go do. my ppl we sabi, I fear, but I no run.

my dear run o! i know i have read something like this from Blendy or so earlier threads.

It saddens me the length people will go....and maybe they cant really be blamed, TTC is hard with lots of pain.

However, i will rather adopt than take a mystery baby....that i dont know the source

May God give us the grace to do the right thing always

HawtMummie: Me, I can't shout o! My inlaws r just sending me on guilt trips anyhow. Mother-in-law's burial coming up soon. Do this, do that, yes ma, yes sir. Na how I go avoid prying eyes for that event I dey dread so. Holding on to my God more than ever esp after reading @nicto's post of d evil cat.

AF showed up today, 2days earlier: God knows best.

It is well.

It is well my sister....

muma: @beloved, thanks so much, i ve pco so i don't reaLly knw if i o'd but i noticed slight pain  day cd10 ǻn̶̲̥̅̊ԃ 11 .

Spotting (at least inn my own case, i have pcos) is a sign of an anovulatory cycle...usually happens when the immature follicles ruptures

my maternity clothes arrived today after getting lost in transit for over a month....

cant wait to get home and try them out in anticipation of what the lord will do in my life

Nictos: Dear House,
TTC journey hasnt been an easy one ooo, i just tank God i met friends like you. I cannot finish mentioning all your names. You have all been so wonderful and encouraging.
Let me share my ordeal over since yesterday evening till midnight this morning with you.

I went to test yesterday but it was BFN. I never felt more convinced that i am pregnant than what i went through yesterday. I have been pregnant before, lost the baby at 15weeks so i know every details of being pregnant. So when the result came out yesterday, i just shook my head and said this result was not for me. Went ahead to buy chilled drink and nice biscuit sidon in front of TV throway result somewhere start to dey watch movies jare. Not a hint of doubt my sistas. My NPles last night became more sore and unbearable, my temperature rose and i started feeling feverish even in that rain. I knew my baby was still very intact else my temperature should drop and not rise.

My mum came in last night and told me the vision they saw for me in Church (C.A.C) that every month i become pregnant that there is this cat that comes the day i will see my menses and starts crying like a baby and afterwards the pregnancy will just come down and the symptoms too, that i should watch out for it. She did not even know when my AF was due or that it was due today. She just came unannounced and with the leading of the holyspirit.

You remembered in my earlier post when i said i would testify 5th of March of my BFP, only to wake up in the middle of the night to hear the cry of this CAT. No be small crying ooo even my Dog starts to bark.I just jumped up on my feet, heard my mum and brother already cabashing and raining down holyghost fire on the cat in their room. Na so me and DH jump up started cabashin too, raining down fire and brimstone upon the devilish Cat.

My sistas no be small thing for my house ooo midnight. My brother even went out to confront the Cat with his prayers and we did not hear anything again. When i touched my self, i was so cold and my sore NPles was nt tingling or painful anymore. Another round of restoration prayers started ooooo. Abba! dis one na "korokoro THIEF". i no gree ooo, kept on fireing prayer until i felt relieved in my spirit.

GOODNEWS-AF hasnt shown up yet, temperature level rising and my NPles is now back to sore oooooo.

Somebody shout Halleluya!!!
Now i know, we do not wrestle against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Eph 6:12.

I DECLARE I AM VICTORIOUS, I AM PREGNANT, MY BABY IS INTACT, MY TESTIMONY IS PERFECTED.

Amen, hang in there

Nictos: Helo BFF's in da house.
I want to share the experience i had with God dis morning.

At about 4:30am dis morning, i just woke up to a voice telling to start praying and asking for Mercy. This has never happened to me before. So i woke up and started praying for mercy, i kept on calling God for mercy till i felt relieved and decided to use the Ladies. We woke as usual myself and DH to kneel by our prayer alter and say our morning devotion. It was if my honey saw revelation, the praise and worship was different, almost not ending, then the prayer to was heavenly inspired. Overall i just knew God has sealed my testimony because i have been having fears that AF might show up today as the 27th day in my cycle. I was anxious and tensed. With all the prayers and Gods express voice i felt comforted. I usually have another round of prayers after seeing hubby off to the gate at about 6am daily. But today, God told me not to pray but go tune in the TV to a christian station(DSTV). I kept on turning the TV till i got to Daystar and Pastor Joel Osten was preaching today.
OMG! The message was all for me.

He said in his message that, God has already perfected some testimonies right now, he has fought and won the victory, but we keep back the manifestation of this miracle by loosing the war in our mind. We allow fear, rather than faith. He particularly mentioned my case. That i was doubting God i would ever be pregnant, afraid i would record thesame monthly failure this time around and so it is up to me to allow God's perfect his works by believing he has done it. When fear comes knocking at my door, i should confront it with Faith. I should declare God's promises that says i cannot be Barren. I am a fruitful being. His thought for me are for good and not evil, to give me a hope and a future even an expected end. For God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power and of love and of a sound mind. The spirit that God gives u as a child of God is not fear but of power and love and a sound mind. You have the spirit of adoption that you can cry ABBA! Father!, you have a spirit of sonship. It is the devil who creates fear and the bible says fear has torment. So let the love of God take control of your thoughts and life.

My sis, i was all tears when i listened to all he was saying, i knew God was talking directly to me. He was telling me how thru fear, i have crippled his hands in time past, how tru doubts i have experienced miscarriages every month. I wept and wept oooooo and tank God for this express message to me. I am stronger, i am declaring GOD IS GREATER THAN MY FEAR AND I AM PREGNANT. Af is suppose to show today marking the 27th day in my period and it has never failed to show before on the exact same day. Well some ovulation calendars says maybe tomorrow. Whatever! all i know is it will Never show until i have delivered my TWINS cos i have my BFP in Jesus name. Can't wait to do blood test to show DH that i am officially PREGNANT. Any ideas on how to break the news to him is welcome from ya'all. I love you guys more than you know.
Pink22
MamaTriplets
Alwaystrue
JoesQ
Adedoyinsola
Echala
Skimpychick
Godiyaalways
profeseur
omonikiba
Ipio
chi16
flakeey
Ebony
favored gal
chidima
wonyi
beloved1993
Hawtmummie
sen.tempest
Enaeni
kaynee
Blessedmom
Beetle
shiloh
tokerom
swit2have
bededlolo
Gr8babe
Uteh
Golden777
Slimphemmie
Redeemersave
Globusacb
Mrskemi09
Nguf
Greenfruits
Memyselfandi
Loliporp
heknowsmyname
July16th
Onyekaogu
Accutategirl
lanjum
Aladunni
kike100
zeezzy
Marygold
Rocksqueen
RolaRayo
Udoka
Napa
Santagelo25
lizzyslaw
ladyGuinivere
safe06
Muma
Rainyday
chok18y
phewme12
twingirls
nictos
dreasinbc
naffysa
joyfullmum
Maureen44
sorire
Oct 20
cjnone2000@yaho
waistbead
Opelistic
And the Newbies

Declare this with me as we go along ttc journey. GOD IS GREATER THAN MY FEAR AND I AM PREGNANT!!!!

Amen. go with faith and do a test...we shall testify this month of March

Happy sunday all.

So I went for a transvagina scan yesterday cd 14. Been taking 100gm of metformin since cd2. Also took 100gm clomid. Anyways my largest follicle measured 9mm or 0.9cm and my obyn said this cycle is burst. He gave me more metformin and increased my dosage to 150 per day. He also gave me 150 clomod against nxt cycle too.

However I did a bit of research and found out that follicles grow 2mm per day on the average. And 15mm is gd enough for ovulation. So I guess he was expecting me to ovate on cd 14. Meanwhile I can ovulate on cd 17 or 18. I quickly went on my knees to reject clomid next month. I will ovulate this momth and concieve ijn. My follies will grow. My egg will be viable. My husbands sperm will be viable. They will fertilize. I will concieve this month ijn. I believe and I recieve in jesus name.

No opks, no charting for me this month. Felt really tired this cycle.

Beloved1993: @zeezy and waistbead, don't disturb dh o, wetin me I go talk, me that I'm OB/GYN and can't get pregnant. I went for a naming last year and the imam was talking about drs that deliver babies and don't have their own. I wanted the ground to swallow me that day. I got so depressed I didn't work for months. I asked God if He will let me become a laughing stock in town. I actually thought abt changing professions. I have put all that behind and planning on doing fellowship to become an RE. If not for ttc I never thought of becoming RE.
Olorun lo n somo ( its God that gives), not Drs. If not, Drs won't have infertility.

Wow. This must be hard. The lord is your strength. You testify soonest

Pink22: Ok here goes the list:
Pink22
MamaTriplets
Alwaystrue
JoesQ
Adedoyinsola
Echala
Skimpychick
Godiyaalways
profeseur
omonikiba
Ipio
chi16
flakeey
Ebony
favored gal
chidima
wonyi
beloved1993
Hawtmummie
sen.tempest
Enaeni
kaynee
Blessedmom
Beetle
shiloh
tokerom
swit2have
bededlolo
Gr8babe
Uteh
Golden777
Slimphemmie
Redeemersave
Globusacb
Mrskemi09
Nguf
Greenfruits
Memyselfandi
Loliporp
heknowsmyname
July16th
Onyekaogu
Accutategirl
lanjum
Aladunni
kike100
zeezzy
Marygold
Rocksqueen
RolaRayo
Udoka
Napa
Santagelo25
lizzyslaw
ladyGuinivere
safe06
Muma
Rainyday
chok18y
phewme12
twingirls
nictos
dreasinbc
naffysa
joyfullmum
Maureen44
sorire
Oct 20
cjnone2000@yaho
waistbead
Opelistic

had to bring it to this page to make it easier for every one. You girls have been chatty lately b4 u know now na page 500 we go see. Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad babes wey don spoil, una morning
me i don my bedroom bulb to RED hehehehehhe wahala dey
oh and happy new month. In this month of March we shall March into our bfps IJN

Thanks

Ngchuks: Am new here, we hv married 4 sm months now pregt is nt coming i went 2 hosp was given clomid which i hv tkn as prescribed. Bt i hv discharges bt was nt ref 2 any text. Pls i need advice

Welcome. What kind of discharges? Have u been to d doctor about them?

I spotted for three days then it stopped. Although I had no pain with mine. Pele. Have you gotten the results?

Chokl8y: Happy New Month moms. This is a month of testimonies. We are marching forward unto a new level of bfps and pregnancy stories. We are leaving ttc behind. In JESUS' NAME, AMEN!!! Me, I am really excited about this month.

My husband and I prayed this morning and I was close to tears at his words. He said, Jesus has already paid the price so we are whole. Nothing missing, nothing broken. I had a hsg scheduled for today and initially he told me to leave it that it's a waste of time but later, he agreed cos he knows that part of my problem is anxiety. The fact that I have not really done any investigations makes me feel like something terrible might be wrong with me. He feels I am fine and that all my worries are uncalled for.

Anyway, so I did the hsg this morning and it hurt like crazy. I did not take any drugs before cos my doc said it wasnt necessary. And the docs kept telling me it wasn't painful, that I am just thinking it is painful, even when it was as if they were trying to pull out my womb! It was not mind over matter O! It was MATTER, Period! I think part of the pain is from anxiety. All those big equipment made me feel like I was in a theatre about to be have my bones reinforced with iron like X-men's Wolverine. actually, that thought helped me smile and relax a little...a very tiny small little...cos I felt like shouting 'Oga Dr, e don do O...! Thank you o, make I close my thing carry am commot!' Lol

Anyweis, I am still bleeding or spotting. Whatever, blood-like liquid is sha coming out. Is it normal? I had the proceedure at about 8.30 dis morning. How long after did your spotting end for those who have done it. My hub is already teasing me that I have INK in my body so no bedroom tinz :-) smh

.......and thou shalt know that I am the Lord: for they shall not be ashamed that wait for me.

Isaiah 49:23b

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COngrats Marygold....This one you will carry t term in the mighty name of Jesus

rainyday: My dear,I feel ur frustration for unanswered questions. I too have asked a question on dis thread bt no one seems to acknowledege it too... I miss d likes of Udoka,Seanbell,Rocksqueen and some of d oda old posters ere...they dished out a lot of info dat was very beneficial. Then,I gained a lot from dem. Pls wherever u ladies mayb...may God see u thru and I pray u pop in once in a while. We really need to enlighten and educate ourselves more on dis thread pls..I knw its nt easy bt let's jst try,no info is wasted. Babydust.

You need to consider that people may not just have the answer to your question not that they are ignoring or not acknowledging you. For instance, i live in Lagos, i dont know a gyne in Abuja.


As per your hubs sperm count, pls read previous threads,a lot of info has been given on how to boost sperm count. As for your heavy menses, i suggest you talk to your gyneo about it and lets hear what he will say. Baby dust

Happy birthday MamaT. God's blessings on you

mamaT glaf to know you feel better. Amen and Amen, thanks for the wishes

thanks @ Flakeey and JoesQ

amen. thanks @ Alwaystrue

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LadyGuinivere: And she won't IJN. She has gone to visit the single girls that pray for her visit every mth

lol. amen

@HAwtmommie, i dont think your life should standstill cuz you are TTC..i will say follow your dreams, just discuss with your husband and make sure you guys are in agreement..goodluck

@ Safe06 amen and thanks

@LadyG...i bought ovulation prediction kit...(OPK) by dr Greg, cuz i think its easier to read than Predicte. I started checking from CD11 and got a positive on CD 15/ I tried the OPK again yesterday (CD16 and got a negative).

I have also been charting my temperature using a basal thermometer and it has been 36.6 mostly, however on CD15& 16 it dipped to 36.5 and today it was 37.0 so its safe to say i ovulated yesterday as temps generally rise after ovulation but I'll confirm over the next 4 days. Also all the twinges, bloatedness and left side cramps has disappeared and most importantly, the midcycle spotting that has plagues me on CD14 normally did not happen this cycle ...

@ :Lizzylaw...right steps....good luck

Got my first positive opk yesterday so I guess clomid worked for me. Had left side cramps for like three days but its stopped today so mayb I have ovulated. Il confirm with temps tomorrow.

Congrats at adeturanyo