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@all, im starting a 7 days fruit and salad diet from tomorrow. so sat - sat....no food! just salad and fruits.

i feel like i need some sort of detox after all the indulgence for my birthday.

My fav fruits are orange, apples, pineapples and pawpaw and i will be making a diff salad everyday, tomorrow, im starting with potato salad,

omonikiba: @Zeezy and Winneygiel, thanks so much bless you, I doubted it sha, hubby was made to do it as he no wan go hospital go re-do test to know how far. I doubted the result and was like he should go to hospital for a second opinion.

Well, I ask prof google and I saw something like that, but still skeptical.

@all, am going on break/leave so I won't be too frequent here for the period. I will continue to be in spirit with you guys, I hope when I return i will meet you all with great testimonies from my end and from your end.

May the peace of God be with us all. Amen.

Enjoy your leave

Tbaby4real: @ favoured girl where is our cake? Shuuu, na only thank you we go chop? Abeg send the e-cake before I bring out my koboko....
@mummyf thank you my sister I don get the Tab.
@all how una holiday......? Hope you all enjoyed it to the fullest. As for me, dh no rest oooo. Safe manual really work.....can't wait to know how you mummies in the house spent yours.....have pleasant day. Love you all...

lol, sending e-cake your way. open yur mouth and recieve. LOl

twingirls: Favoredgirl, weldone o,i can see ϔ☺ΰя̩̥̊ determination, U̶̲̥̅̊ ‎Fø̲̣̣я̅ don bcome babe by now o.

Yippee! I now weight 68kg, I'm loving it so much, if not ‎Fø̲̣̣я̅ my big bust a̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ bombom, U̶̲̥̅̊ ‎Fø̲̣̣я̅ call me lepa, does anybody know wat i can do to flatten my boobs a̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ bom?

Wia is evribori na, is it only favoredgal loosing weight now? Let's all congratulate blessedmom, she's already preggy so she's not on diet again, Ticha how now hoppe ϔ☺ΰя̩̥̊ treatment was successfull?  beg we await  ‎∙̣̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̣̣̇̇̇G∙̣̣̣̇̇̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̇∙∙̣̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̣̣̇̇̇O∙̣̣̣̇̇̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̇∙∙̣̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̣̣̇̇̇O∙̣̣̣̇̇̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̇∙∙̣̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̣̣̇̇̇D∙̣̣̣̇̇̇∙̣̣̇̇∙̣̇∙ news

Mamatrippplet, wats goin on, U̶̲̥̅̊ don lepa finish? Come on all, let's fight to finish, as ‎Fø̲̣̣я̅ me, I'm gradually increasing my intake, guess i need to take it easy, I'm looking too lean on my face, tired of pple asking me wats wrong with me

Well-done. 68kg no be beans

Iyabetajos: good morning fruithful sistas.so happy to discover dis thread.hope i can join u as i seriously need to shed weight.my gynae says its wat is hindering af from coming n i dnt even look my weight.he wonders were am storing up d fat.pls i am reading tru d posts bt i wil be grateful if i can get any tips.i c af only 3tyms a year

Hey, welcome, what do you currently weigh? and what is your height?

Amen, amen and amen

Thanks for the love @ all...im humbled

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cjnone2: @favoured girl dear, My main point is how high headed and egocentric some men can be in sensitive issues. I personally told the woman on several occasions that I will call it quit if I were in her shoes, but its he who wears the shoes that knows were its pitches.

Yup, you right. how body?

cjnone2: @berrybass, thanks for allowing dh bd last night. you hv given devil a knockout. well done.

@omonikiba. your response is wonderful. the devil is a bastard. he can't continue fooling the apple of God's eye. Its time to show him where he actually belongs. Enough of his lies and deceits.

@seanbell, am not supporting you neither am I against your views concerning dh and dw issues. my experience so far has thought me otherwise,

@all listen to this. I have a very very close family friend whose dh rose from nothing to greatness by the grace of God. this dh has a childhood lady friend married with kids. one day, my friend showed me a text msg from her dh meant for her dh girl friend but mistakenly sent to her phone ("my love pls collect key from the reception, its room blablabla, I will soon join you". my friend went mad, I encouraged her to ignore it, she refused, confronted her dh & her dh denied it & accused her of being the flirt. The issue was resolved. few months later, her dh traveled with this same lady friend, bought her an Indian wig & other things, some receipts bearing the lady's name was mistakenly left in her dh traveling bag. my friend saw the receipts. called her children, because she has four kids, told them everything, called her parents, told them every thing, called her parents, sister/brothers in-law told them everything, wrote a suicide note stating her reason of wanting to kill herself, @all, I was not aware of this issue until one day her dh asked me & my dh to pls see him the next day. We went, saw other people, like 20 pple, ie, the dw's relatives and man's relatives too.the man showed us the suicide note, told us his reason for inviting us was to say its over between him and his dw. He wants to marry that his girl friend as his dw has decided to kill herself because of a mere flirting. @all, non of us could speak. After a while, the men begged and begged him, he refused to yield, No bi small thing. we left, it lingered Upto a year, before the issue was resolved, during this period, the dw saw hail in her marriage, the man permanently relocated because he is a contractor,

I seen and heard about men who married a second wife or made their dw married but singe because of minor issues. Being confrontational as far as am concerned has NEVER and will never change men. A woman came to my working place few years ago to disgrace her dh and a lady staff because she hard they are dating, @all, after, that disgrace, the man and the lady are now inseparable, they are always seen together, I was told the man most times sleeps in the lady's house.

sorry for the long epistle as usual, marriage, dh flirting or other behaviors needs extra wisdom, men have serious ego and they will never seat back and watch a woman deflect their ego. they are ready to do the unimaginable to protect it, my council is @safe06 101 advice to @doublebles. Forget what you watch of TV/movie/pulpit. A wise woman builds her house while a foolish one destroys it with her own hand. silence is golden. Mostly importantly, I have leanrt to fight with my knees instead of my mouth.

(((e-hugs)))

What i get from your story is if the DW has ignored the matter, the DH won't have said he was going to marry his girlfriend? we can flip the story and talk of cases where the women were looking and the next thing second wife landed in their house.

Seanbell dint say confrontation was the answer, she just said for her, turning a blind eye wont work.

I personally believe one can bring up all these sensitive issues with a gentle approach, but not by ignoring it

For me personally, i'l rather be single than be with a man that my family will have to beg not to marry his girlfriend and he will still call it "mere flirting"! that kind of man is not even worth me answering his name in the first place. Is it until i carry AIDS or STD because mehn, how do you know he is using protection with the girlfriend

Anyways, i guess on this matter, to each their own, because everyone knows their Dh more than the other person and knows what is workable in her own situation

ilekeoba: I am so glad I found this forum.Please I need your help here.I have a 2yrs USA B1/B2 Visa - still very valid and I own a company in lagos with my husband and got the visa to represent our company at a business event last year.But now I want to apply for USA Summer tourist visit for my kids actually 4 of them,my husband is in lagos too he doesnot have a USA visa himself and he is not applying.
pls I just need candid advice on how to go applying for the kids for a summer disneyland holiday in the usa.pls all advice and experiences will be appreciated.thank you.

I think you should go ahead and apply for tall of them, its a family vacation and it is not a crime! Even people apply together as a family (family of 4, 5, 6 etc) and they give them, does that mean they are absconding? nope!

Just book d hotel in florida and make sure your story is air tight

doublebls: @berrybass, hugs love for your patience and dh acceptance last night. God will give you double for all your trouble.
@omokiba, your response was on point. the bible said my people perish due to ignorance.
@always true, thanks for the spiritual food. God will lift u higher in times of need.

@all, thanks for ur advice yesterday, it worked wonders for me when I got home. dh said his actions was not intentional. He actually entered one-way just because of me hoping to ease the hold-up stress. its well oo. This ttc has turned me to a nagging woman and constant anger is killing these days God pls help.

I agree, TTC can turn a woman to a stranger of herself......we must just remember to breathe. Its well

Joyful mom: My dear fruitful mothers of glorious children in the house, i greet u all. I thank God for the rain of bfps in the house dis month, God is indeed awesome. To all d recipients, i say CONGRATS!. To d rest of us , ours will manifest soonest in the name of Jesus.
I joined dis thread last yr & posted a few times here & on ivf thread but av bn a silent reader most of d time.

D last 2 wks was d lowest i av ever experienced in all of my over 7 yrs of ttc when my 2nd ivf cycle had to be terminated due to poor ovarian response. Dr said my enemies ovaries were behaving like dat of someone who is over 45yrs meanwhile i am just 35yrs o my sisters. Had only 2 follicles, d dr then advised egg donor but we refused dat we want to use my eggs o. Had only one egg at retrieval but unfortunately , d egg sef no fertilise & again embryo donation was suggested at dis point but we also rejected it. So dat was hw d cycle ended o.


When they called from d hospital dat d egg did not fertilise, it was like d world had ended for my enemies because for dh & i, egg or embryo donation is not an option for us at all. So medically, it was like we had reached d end of d road. I was inconsolable , dh was so confused & afraid for me because no amount of talking, encouragement, quoting of scriptures entered my ear, i just would not listen. I began to doubt whether God will do it for me since i had bn praying concerning d diagnosis of premature ovarian failure for over a yr now & yet nothing has changed. And trust d devil now, because i permitted d idiot, he brought so many horrible thots & imaginations to my heart. I became afraid, discouraged, confused etc

I thank God because in all of it, i was able to go back to my father & maker 3 days ago & poured out my heart to Him , told Him exactly hw i was feeling & asked for mercy & for Him to help me & believe me i have gotten over d emotions. I have a renewed hope & trust in Him because since dat day i cried to Him, i have just bn coming across words & messages dat speaks to my spirit man. One of such places is dis thread.

@ Alwaystrue, d Almighty God will bless u greatly for d work u are doing here. I read thru d post and ur recent posts for d past few days spoke to my spirit, those words are just for me. D one abt medical report being a pharaoh so dat God's name can be glorifed, abt dis season being a season of d supernatural when all natural laws will be bypassed & also d diff btw Mary & Elizabeth situation etc . My sister, has u av watered me, d Lord will indeed water u.

@ Beloved1993, abeg where are u o? I saw ur post & realised dat our enemies have similar issues. Pls i need advice on things i need to do as regards supplements, diet etc dat can help in dis condition because i have rejected dr report dat its only by egg donor dat i can av a bfp. It is not my portion. Pls kindly send a mail to joyfulmom131@yahoo.com

My sisters, i beg una make u add me to ur prayer list o, i av decided to be actively involved in all d spiritual works on d thread now as God is my ONLY hope o and i know dat God is here.

So sorry for my long story, i needed to pour it out. Thanks.

Sorry to hear this but glad that you are doing a lot better! I pray God will cause his face to shine on you

SeanBell: I dey hail oo fruitful mothers!!
I'm here to just encourage and drop an observation.If you read carefully,you will find that as God has started showering Bfp's on this thread,another problem is emerging and that is issues with DH.
I acknowledge firsthand that TTC can become so consuming that we lose sight of our relationships with DH and maybe allow ourselves to get complacent,BEWARE!!
If you know something that you would not take if you were not TTC,don not start taking it now oo before something bigger than you consumes your home.
Personally,i am not someone that turns a blind eye to some stuff especially anything that rouses suspicion of infidelity.I would tackle it there and then to avoid it snowballing into something that could destroy my home.A couple of sisters here have said they saw flirty and indecent chats of their DH with other women and to my shock,some told her to turn a blind eye because all men do it..hehehehehehehe BEWARE oo!!You have the opportunity to nip something in the bud while you can,and you turn a blind eye?It could come back to bite you in the nyash.
I believe in discussion,dialogue,respectful confrontation in love.My sisters many wolves out there looking for who to devour,you have to safe guard your homes and make sure your DH is on board with you too.Ignoring something doesn't make it go away,why not tackle it?What if God has shown you this so that you can save your DH from making a fatal mistake before it's too late?before his conscience dies?Why let him tread a path that could lead him to destruction?A path that could lead to heartbreak and numerous what ifs?BEWARE!!
Confrontation does not mean you have to rave and rant like a lunatic.NO.It only means that you should pick the right time and tell him:DH i love you very much and i feel we have a problem festering between us, threatening our relationship,our marriage.Do you remember our vows?To stick with each other come what may?Why would you want to do something to shatter our happiness and invite the devil in?At this moment is when i would table my grievances and ask him to please defend his actions.Please,can you guys tell me any man with a conscience won't start begging for forgiveness and try to build the trust back?

Marriages are under attack left right and center,don't let your own be a statistic all because of the pressures of TTC.I understand how difficult it is to inject excitement into BD especially if it's O time but seks mistress SAFE06 has come up with lovely ideas.I believe we are all woman enough to blow DHs' mind,maybe not everyday, but often enough to give them something to look forward to.If you are shy,buy a bottle of wine to relax during the weekend and slowwwly seduce him till he's the one begging you.You can claim later that you were drunk. .Some music playing softly can be a real turn on.
Nice correct oily massage from his legs to his errrrmmmm tongolo area to his chest.put some oil on your palms,straddle him and rub the oil all over your self as he watches.then you can also ask him to help you out.Abeg while rubbing the oil,no use force oo,just slow and steady,few kisses here and there.I strongly reccommend some wine and music cos you have to be a bit bold for this.Try and look sultry,not with a wiked blak hairnet on your head while staring at him like a rat.You have to loosen up.Give him some minutes and he will beg,then you can deal with him thoroughly.
Are you trying to say that after all this efforts combined with safe06 bulbs,your DH wont be in the mood to tackle any problem headlong with you? Impossicant oo.

Prayer as usual is the master key but for me,faith without action is dead.I also swing into action so water no go pass garri.Do not let TTC destroy your loving beautiful homes.
I love you all.

DISCLAIMER: This is how i tackle my own problems oo.I'm just suggesting cos what works for a may not work for B.

Seconded!

iv never been a fan of "what you dont know wont kill you" or "all men are the same" or "turn a blind eye to issues consuming me", not in my nature at all but iv noticed it is the stance of many Nigerian women and besides what do i know? im in my 15th month of marriage, i have thus, stopped airing my opinion. I believe a woman should pick her battle and an issue of infidelity is too much to ignore

nodawa: Okay @favour gal i spent less than 7 minutes for biometrics and i was told to be expecting contact before 10 days.

Ok cool

nodawa: I did my biometric this morning after over a month submission but i was so suprised cos those people that submitted today would get their biometric done today as well.

They had it on their site, that from last week, you will get your biometrics done on the same day you submit. CONFUSED PEOPLE.

So how long did you spend at VFS and when will your visa be ready?

P.S my biometrics is next week monday (6th)

MamaTriplets: If Una see the kind Etigi wen I dey dance since Morning... WOW Congrats to Blessedmom and switcandy. My new names are now as follows; Babatriplets and Sasatriplets Goldenbaby, I dey shame for U as you dey follow pregnant woman dey quarel . Hehehehehe.... Skimpy, Chidinma and Alwayswit, I dey, FULL ground!!! I hold Baba for tight corner dey ask am to do much more for US ooooo!!! @Safe, hope wit dis 2 more BFPs Ɣ☺ΰ don know say no be words of mouth? Baba is INVOLVED!!! Pinkyluv I hereby ORDER U to adjust the list as there will be another Prayer night this saturday and on the 30th of this Month (Tuesday night) leading into the new month. Theme: I TOO WILL BE PREGNANT!!! I say this again, When wat you are Praying for is happening to those in your neighbourhood, it means Baba is around, Reach out, Touch Him and be made COMPLETE. You too will Testify, AMEN!!!

Amen. I second the prayers for tomorrow. April will bring forth more bfp s and may will be greater still

PRETTYMOMMA: I just want to thank God for this month's miracles. How can we even begin to thank Him? Its a month of mass declaration of BFP and its my earnest prayers that more sisters will get their miracles IJN..Amen!

Congrats........a BIG congrats to our new preggymamas. I pray that the 9 months will go by b4 you know it and that you will enter the delivery room and come out with singing!!

I wish all those waiting a speedy bfp IJN....Amen!

@favouredgirl...true it may not dislodge but if ladies who do ivf are asked by their Drs to observe pelvic rest why risk it?
Not that it will be fight o! Cos ovulation could be happening when one is supposed to be in 2ww cos without the follicle tracking, its hard to be very sure.
But if the person is scanning to pinpoint the exact ovulation date, den I would advise that after a few days of bding, pelvic rest should be observed.Violent org.asms can cause the walls of the uterus to contract and dat could dislodge an egg that is not fully implanted.

Though u are right that people bd and still get pregnant. Just my thots on it sha.

Hey...gd to hear from you. How is your LO doing? Hope great....im sure you are counting down?

On the 2ww I hear you and maybe its better safe than sorry, but I dont like mechanism sex that ttc sometimes imposes. I for one dont let my dh know when im ovulating talkless of 2ww. I feel im under a lot of pressure already so I try to shield him as much as possible cuz when he becomes anxious it will add to ny anxiety

Kaynee: WoW God is here with us. To think that we have this kind plenty bfp's this month alone shows that God has been moved by our prayers. Congrats to all d preggy mamas in the house and have a sweet 9months. So for all d sisters here, nobody miss me....... I just tire small, say mek I rest as kukuma dh no one coperate. Can u imagine during 2ww I beg dh say mek we cool down for knackson levels, him no gree o. He come remind me say d past months we suspend knackson, na bfn. Na soso knackson we dey o till Af show 2de. I no know agen wetin to do. I don go chater clomid, m2-tone, evening primrose oil, prgcare conceptn and vit e. Mek I see as this cycle go dey. Its my first clomid cycle and will take on cd 3-7days. It is well with us.

Hey darl, me I dont think that sex in tbe 2ww will dislodge the foetus jare.....what of people that are not ttc that still take in with knackson in their 2ww.

Good luck with this cycle

switcandy: congrats Blessedmom. im so happy for u

Allah u r great. The Most Beneficent, The Most Merciful.

@all...
I cant thank God enough. He has done it for me.
Just took a hpt and got my bfp.

Thanks a million to everyone ere.

This month shall be a month of testimonies to many of us here. and this year shall not pass us by. i pray that each and everyone of u will get ur bfp soon.
continue to be prayerful, trust in God and remain positive. theres nothing God cant do.
Baby dust to u all

My God, you are too much, we worship you, we give you praise there is none like you

Congrats SwitCandy, happy 9 months

AF is due on sunday, fear no gree me use HPT, o well, lets see how April will end. I'm certain there will be more announcement IJN because it is obvious that God is in the corner..

Thank you Jesus for that you have done, that you are doing, and that you are yet to do

Blessed be your holy name

blessedmom: Come & see o,come & see
Come & see o,come & see
Come & see wat d Lord has done
Come & see wat d Lord has done

Praiseeeeeeeee d Lordddddddddddddd
God has done it for me o my sisters,I hv received my bfp.I just can't stop singing praises to God almighty.father Lord,I pray dat u wl settle everyone in ur waitg room b4 d end of dis year in d mighty name of Jesus.Amen

@all,gudmorng our God is truly faithful & he is still workg for our good.let's continue to pray,I know in my heart dat he has perfected all dat concerns us in d mighty name of Jesus christ.Amen

YAYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11plenty December babies It is well with you for the next 9 months.

Golden baby, go do HPT kia kia.

waistbead: @Favored gal,I am on Ovamit and M2-Tone from day 3 of my circle to 7,then injections from day 8 which is 2moro to day 12 and I'll go for scan dis day 12 which is 30 of april.after d scan,to check my follicles there's another injectn to release the Eggs...

Yeah,d fee includes tests,after d tests they diagnose high prolactin,I was placed on Bromo for one month..my DH his test came out clean..

@chi16,tanks dear,I wish u well too..

Thanks and good luck

Dreamsinbc: Abeg, no vex oooo. I bin dey wait make we end fasting before inviting you guys to my baking blog. Plsssss join up and start baking and creating desserts. New blog posts at www.frostedbakeshopng..com. Also, become a member of my blog and be notified of a giveaway coming soon.

I know say una go join, cos you ladies are darlings, sweeties and sugars (psych!). If this post is inappropriate, lemme know. Again, no vex o!

Its telling me blog not found o!

HawtMummie: @dreamsinbc! Na real valentinette/Valentino!!! All hail d comediennes in da house! Α̲̅πϑ so shall in be, Amen.
@Alwaystrue, u inspire the love for the Word of God in Me personally. Thanks ♈̲̣̣̥ō̶̲̥̅ϋ̶̲̣̣̥̲̥̅." So much sis.
@favoured, how body now? Regards to DH.
@Safe I dey hail oooo, wherever u are! Love u loads.


I have made God my Mentor. Yes. My teacher. I tell him everything. Even issues u see as mundane, I tell him all. I ask him to guide me always. This is a relationship that will keep growing, cos He is just Everything to me.
Love y'all.

Body dey inside cloth o! we are gearing up for the weekend. how your side? Regards

Oct 20: @dreamsinbc...am hvn problem wt the site,can't view using my email.wat shld i do?
@mummy f...God wil nt forget us.remember he is nt a man dat can say a word and nt cm to pass.people will celebrate wt us very soon.
I got married over 8yrs ago nd been ttc.my sibling are all married wt kids likewise my friends,am the only one left.my younger brother who happens to be d last born just had a son.medical test shows i hv high prolactin,fibroids,anovulation.my husbands test revealed fluid problem.we hv dn everytn humanly possible.i knw my God is on the throne,he reserves the best till the last.we will sn sing a new song.

You will testify soon IJN

waistbead: @Favoured gal,we paid 200k...

pls what is the process like, is it painful?were u given injections to stimulate growth of follicles? and does the fee include tests?

I pray it will be successful for you IJN

SOLD

waistbead: @pink22,thanks dear for remembering me God will remember you soon.
@memyselfandi,congrats.God that started this good thing will perfect it IJN Amen.
@all,that has keep this thread going,God will visit you guys soon..
AFM,av started my IUI procedure..WISH ME LUCK GIRLSS!
God Will Redeem every convernant he enterd with us IJN Amen..
MUCH LUV!!

How much is the IUI process?

ok thanks