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No: There should be some form of attraction.

I did forgive once and she did it again. An adulterous woman will never change.

Adiaha Eka,

I hope this is more of love than money. I hope you not considering becomin the heiress when this men is gone. I can not begin to understand the rational behind this move.

How long can this marriage possible last ? how prepared are you in becoming a widow ? Maybe unless you are more interested in the coins.

I think you need to have another look at this your strategy.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Not all ladies.

People are rarely content. [/color]

Well said. Human beings are flawed. They will always disappoint.

Rebrand wetin? who bin brand am before ? Talkless of rebranding.

Whats the dying part for ?

Secretz:
In cases like this, I can never really blame a guy for introducing a pre-nup. It's not about trusting the person. Some people are very good pretenders and would bleed you dry in the end. I am not saying she should leave completely empty handed, but not half of his money and assets, especially not after just a few years of marriage.

Secretz, very thoughtful and my points eaxctly.

I am all for pre-nup especially on all I have aquired before the marriage. I don't want no woman no matter how much I love her to walk away with half my assets.I don't mind sharing half of all I have earned with her.I am comitted to making my marriage work and I don't want any woman working away with all that I have earned prior to her arrival.

Diva1:
I agree with you a 100% and I'm not justifying any fact. I came here because out of 3yrs, it was the first incident that had happened I went far, and came on here to seek advice from different people and hear their opinions. I know it was wrong and that was why I apologised and pleaded despite ALL he had done prior to that.
I met my friend's dad yesterday, and talked to him about what had happened, him being an older and a married man with more experiences, gave me his mind, that what I had done was wrong HOWEVER, considering what he had and has been doing and all I put up with, he should have at least had a little compassion for such and if genuine,3yrs, he would have tried to make up after all the pleading and apologies. He wasn't innocent either, i have done my part and even though he is a man and would advise me as a father too, that I even went too far pleading, for months and I had tried, it was time to stop. He is at fault too.

I do not justify women insulting their men, or am I saying I was right but I know it is more to that, after all he has been introduced to the movie business here abroad with all these single actresses around so there must be something more to that. Men are everwhere, why did I have to put up with his nonsense? Because I loved him and tried to tolerate for a while so why do I have to make one mistake, which he pushed me, just one, and it had to be this way? I come from a decent family, why would I wake up one morning and start texting some foul words to someone I supposedly care for out of the blues? Of cause not. That's why it was a MISTAKE, a one time, mistake.

I think you did your best and hence gained experience from that MISTAKE you maid. You need to get a grip on yourself and don't blame yourself too much.

Even ugly husbands or boyfriends must have some beautiful aspects.

What will your amenities according to you do for you? As men, we are more interested in internal beauty than external. Boys will rush at external beauty, men will go for internal beauty.

The two both of them. Monied men do no wrong.

I am very impatient with children.They can't make a decision and stand by it.

Pay him a surprise visit, catwalk for him naked and hopefully he will come around.

Three Months.

The Correct Name is Eseme Eyiboh.

The transient nature of every thing Human.

Rest In Peace Michael away from the travails of this world.

luxoire:
na so you dey use yarn decieve all the young chicas ehhh - we will always have a special attachment - even if i dump you 2moro for d next virgin kpa??

_{(joke) i beg no vex}

Lux,

You don dey find my trouble O.

I honestly will need to just walk away.It sets me free from all the anger.

Sistawoman had said it all. Respect is earned.You must work to earn it.

Sistawoman had said it all. Respect is earned.You must work to earn it.

She does have a right to change her mind.

Sure: But you probably will have to spend your whole life proving you are not a gold digger.

Out smarted.

One man's tragedy is another man's opportunity.

What has superiority got to do with two people who consent to having their sexual hunger satisfied ?

The truth is that most men don't trust the sisters anymore.They want to be sure that the women they are married to still have wombs and can bear fruits. An elderly boss of mine even told me I must make sure my girl is pregnant before taking her to the altar or waka dey throw eggs around all the nearby streams/rivers.

Why do you possibly need the advice? You mentioned you have a relationship,that should suffice.