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Myself:

Committed To Her.

What will happen if you call him ? Your phone go burst?

Something like this happened to me last year until I sat the girl down and spoke to her honestly why we can't possibly be together. That is your best bet.

What is the point staying in a marriage where there is no communication? You could try seeking help from anyone she respects.

Generally most africans like their women a little fleshy. Personally, I have always loved the slim woman.

I hope I have not been one of those people that wore you out. I just felt you should have done a risk assessment and told your self some home truths.

Going forward,always make sure it is what you want that counts.

That she probably is not as innocent and angelic as you think.

Go make money and heart break will be a thing of the past.

Lack of attention.

Does she not have her own fantasies? Let her bring them on.

You probably will have nightmares if we all put up our pictures. Some of us wowo.

I will need help to sell my own virginity before this bastards around me attempt to date rape me.

That guy ought to respect your country and your culture. I think its a bit selfish for him to want to have everything his way. My advise is that you get to meet the igbo guy and know him better,then you can make an informed decision. Goodluck.

What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for those people to help you run your life? Maybe your sister can help fix you a wife.

I am deeply sorry about your woman. She will need all your support and affection at this time more than ever.

How could you possibly treat the guy you claim to love with so much disrespect? The only chance you have is to go, sit him down and tell him the truth as it is and luckily he might still want you back.

Pally,

You did your best. Sometimes Love is not enough.

One man's tragedy is another man's opportunity.

make she go hit her head for wall naw.

ThiefOfHearts:
you better talk and stop suffering in silence. If he thinks less of you for giving suggestions then leave.

GBAM.

Why ask if you think something is not wrong?

I am not weird.

Respect is earned. Do you deserve her respect?

Look for a woman who bullies you and who can break expensive things when she has those fits of anger.

Now that we have given you all the strength you need,oya go ahead with the meeting naw.

No: If I cover up for my friend before his partner, how about before God where he supposedly took his marital vows?

Because everyone is dating.Do you want me to be left behind?

Five and below is Okay.

And how will you feel if you find that she is also cheating on you ? This is how you go about giving our women the impression that all men are the same.

@Topup,

Well said: You can give useful advises when you chose to.

@Poster,

Define the men you want and stick to it. What are the qualities I want in a man? How dependable must my man be? set specific goals and targets as regards the kind of man you want and accept nothing less.

Goodluck.

Why do I sense that we won't get to know when you finally meet him? You are excited about meeting him,why did you come looking for advice when you knew in advance what you wanted to do.

This people are dating for God's sake and whether she leaves her clothes there or not will get to sleep some day.What's all this talk about fucking and dumping?

Girl, Don't let this people spoil that beautiful relationship you have out there,savour every minute while it last.