Seun, Mynd44 or lalasticlala, who put this topic on front page? Knowing fully well it's just another Avenue for men to insult women and display misogyny.

I just tire for the woman hate on this site and mods are even encouraging it. Make una remember say you get female family members that your actions are going to affect.

lightangel65i:
Even the idi0t that made this post last last I bet you na broke guy she go marry, broke guys make up 60% of guys.

And if you hate being broke why not make the money yourself, instead of going to settle for a made man. Just see how your brain is filled with relaxer. De find husband material las Las na those drunks we de gamble you go marry

This is a broke drunk and gambling guy here, ladies please avoid him.
Thanks

Seun oya hire me as content creator on nairaland naa, I also know how to write stories like this own op concocted

Zabiboy:

Threads like this makes me laugh..
Every SANE guy ( Esp. TRP guys) knows he has to make enough money, have investments and all that before getting married ( thats if he decided to marry)
The question now is....DO YOU HAVE THE QUALITY THIS SANE GUY IS LOOKING FOR??...
98% of Nigerian Females dont, 99.99% of NL females dont, I can bet the OP doesnt...
GL

Stop suffering severe pains naa

It's not my fault you are broke, calm down

Lol, I love this story

I am sure the mumu husband denied her legal marriage because he wanted to have upper hand over her in case of when he wanted to either end the marriage or if he wants to marry another wife.

Serves his wicked ass right

Remaboy:
Make una no move anything anywhere o. Let this one and a few others remain in pains

Is it not a norm for girls to call men broke in the society?
Even when the situation doesn't concern it.

Woman enh. Small time, "men are broke".

Men have been tagged broke so much, that if a man doesn't knack it right, "you are broke".

If he comes home late, "you are broke" .

If she sees E-money riding 2020 Benz and you are using 2019 Benz, "you are broke".

Turn tables ni?

Ah, Don't let me swear for you o.

Mr man go out and hustle so that you will not start having heart attack anytime females broke shame guys on nairaland

afstrongest:


Why your Quran says husband depending on their wife or expecting support from their wives are infidels, my Bible says They are each other’s helper, they should be there for each other, obligatory or mandatory whichever

Yes

Woman help by taking care of house and children while man help by bringing money.
If it is not husband job to provide them God for no insult them for bible by calling broke men infidels

Snaagg:


fELiscatus strikes me as someone who was dropped on the head as a baby. There's something clearly missing from her prosencephalon, mesencephalon, and rhombencephalon.

And you strike me as someone who the mama attempted abortion with many dangerous drugs but it didn't work so that is why your brain is not normal again

Snaagg:


Grow up kiddo!

Go to retirement home old papa

Remaboy:
You no serious o
No one is talking about a woman providing here. Maybe you got the wrong message passed.

I refer you to KingSatan's comment.



Read it with an open mind.

You can't tell me that was a complaint, except you are irredeemable.

I am not going to read it, oya come and beat me

Remaboy:
Follow ke?
I just had a feeling you will do this.

Good, your feeling was right.

25tolife:
Op, i bet my kidney that YOU dont have up to 10k in your bank account. And you are here talking rubbish.

You think I am like you that is managing your last card 10k in your wallet?
My account balance and your account balance no be mate trust me. I get money pass you.

Remaboy:
Hmm.. I said it. The pains were much.

See as this wan go create separate thread.

Lol you came here

Stop following me you hear?

Naija246:
what's the logic in broke shaming a man when you yourself have no money

Ehen naa

Because you have seen my account balance
Mtsheeww

Lalasticlala, mynd44, farano, rocktation, seun, please help me with front page thanks

Everyday we see topics on front page advising men to not marry broke women please let's turn the tables for once

Mstick:
Will they hear?! They keep blackmailing them with love,one day e go better,what if the man now? rich man will treat you bad, why can't you build with him?

Some of them are still on that one day one day e go better bullshît since 20 years ago, now they're putting pressure on their kids.

Honestly.
Many of these "e go better" marriages only got worse as the economy got worse now with covid 19 and the recession Nigeria is about to plunge into na only miracle of God fit save them from eternal poverty.

Naija246:
you all should mark this comment, in the next 10-30 years most of you girls won't see decent men to marry.

The demand for "husband material" would be so outrageous at that time that it would practically be a miracle to land one.

Alot of you will involuntarily slip into menopause single..make una go mark am.

Btw, I know alot of you are already feeling the heat now, but trust me what you all are seeing now is nothing compared to what's coming.

Hahahaha

No be only, you broke men really think you are a prize that women are dying to get married to.
If you are broke no woman will want you, that's the bitter truth.
Even the boys that will one here to attack me will never advice their sisters or daughter to marry broke men.

Stacyomolola:
Ride on sis, i gat u, tho they are still coming for u

Favy1235:
Lol.
Mad oo.Sister they are coming for you.

Take note of all the guys that will attack me. They are the broke dusty guys this thread is talking about and they are in severe pains because I told girls to avoid them.

Remaboy:
The typical female way when they have no basis anymore. Broke-shaming

How can you ascertain that I am broke BTW? Are you a sage or a ghost or a soothsayer?
I am curious.

I would have asked if you were a relative but Remaboy isn't my real name, so no one knows me here.

Nyenyenyenye

Stop waiting for a womans money, provide for yourself

kcowen:
Her mum is almost retiring which means she should be between 55-65 years old, someone that should be resting, she went to buy a car for her.. let's assume if something happens to the mother, the brothers will take over the car
Do the know if the husband was annoyed was because they have unfinished project they haven't completed!!!

But if a woman comes here to complain that her husband refused to go to market and cook food inside the kitchen for herself and the children you men will start shouting that she is disrespectful.
If a woman expects her husband to stay at home everyday taking care of their children while she goes out to visit friends you will say it's the wife's duty to take care of kids.
If she sits down to relax during weekends and tell her husband to clean the dirty house and wash clothes because it's his duty you people will swear for her.
If she comes back from work and expects her husband to enter kitchen and serve her food while she watches television nairaland men will crash nairaland servers with their insults.

At the same time the same men feel that a woman is under obligation to provide for them and buy things for them.

UjuJoan2:


Is the lady's husband pregnant? Is his calf swollen and his stomach the size of an elephant? Is he breeding, not just his bur THEIR child? How is it that you can't see that the two scenarios are completely different.

That he bought his mother a car is not even the problem here. He is driving a car himself and is letting his pregnant wife jump buses. That's where I have a problem.

Is it that you guys dont get the fact that a man ought to provide and cater for his wife? She is breeding his children for goodness sakes, shouldn't her comfort come first, before even his own?

In thia scenario the lady doesn't work yet and doesn't need a car. So the man is right to buy one for the mother first. But when the children start coming, he needs yo step up and buy a car for his wife to take them to school.

@bold, if you tell them that they are selfish and entitled they will get angry but that is exactly how they are. Expecting a woman to suffer pregnancy and childbirth for children that will answer another person's name and belong to another person's heritage but they still dont think they should provide for their wives.

Remaboy:
At bolded, no dey copy me na

See how she carefully nit-picked that "women don't think" part of the comment just to start her childish insults.

Lol you are not serious.

Lol
Cry me a river broke dumbass

Remaboy:


Women don't like to read nor use their brain.

Shebi your mom is a woman

cococandy:
This woman’s entire life has been limited by the man she married. Pitiable

she what?!!!
Oh lord.

This woman had no one in her life who loves her enough to advice her appropriately? So does the drunk husband have a better job to provide for her like her Exxon mobile pay would have provided for her?

@bold, that's unfortunately the case in many African marriages
All those men do is pull women down and retard_ their progress because of ego and entitlement

xendra:
Nobody is as entitled as a Nigerian man, yet they'd be the first to scream "entitled" towards a lady for asking anything in return.

plus their level of insecurity and low self esteem is out of this world.

Honestly
Very irritating set of people

Remaboy:

Hian! Just 2 mentions is giving you orgasm like dis

The average Nigerian woman finds a way to broke-shame men when they have no basis to argue about.

Mostly when their brain is empty and they still want to make the man feel inferior, thereby resorting to childish insults.

No be today una start. Stale shit.

Blablablabla

Continue crying, dont go and look for work and stop being broke

Never settle for broke guys oooo




If you are searching for a husband, never settle for broke guys please, except maybe as last resort or out of desperation.


Look for a guy that has something meaningful doing as a source of income before getting married because men are obligated by both Bible and Quran to provide for their wives but they always try to run away from responsibility and blame women for their failures.

The Bible describes men who cannot provide for their families as infidels and islamically it's forbidden for a man to expect his wife to take care of him but because many Nigerian men are lazy and selfish they will demand that it's the wives job to provide and submit 100% and also be the home builder and child carer.

Even if you must contribute to home finances, do it on your own terms because breadwinning is not your primary responsibility as a woman. If you tell a man to start cooking to going to market or taking care of children while you relax he will never agree that it is his primary duty as a man.
They want you to provide for them and be submissive housegirl at the same time.

Run from broke guys, never settle for one, economy is hard and it's getting increasingly worse everyday with terrible and criminal politicians, never settle for broke dust guys expecting them to become rich in future because the chances that he will make it in future is far smaller than the chance that he will remain poor forever.


I know that this post will cause severe pains for many of nairaland men because they are broke and frustrated, they will soon come here to start whining as usual. That's all many boys are good at, complaining about women like stupid bitches.

Remaboy:
[s][/s]
Wasted individual, so you didn't see anything meaningful from this thread.

If we say women don't make use of their brain now, they will start nagging and bitching.

Better STFU and change una ways.

Frustrated individual

Why is my post paining you like this, see how he is quoting me up and down to cry on my post

cococandy:


In your own words, it means there are many monkeys on this thread

Yes
On this thread and on nairaland as well

So so Monkeys everywhere

yettymuse:
Never marry a broke ass!

Run away from a Dusty!

Don’t settle for a Dusty!

Guard your money if you no fit guard your heart!

You’re forever the prize!

Choi

See as you wan give them heart attack

You know that 99% of nairaland men are broke and dusty, this post will really give them severe pains ooo

Remaboy:
[s][/s]You are either a woman or a fa.g
This your pains no be here.

I am a woman yes.

You men are frustrated, na everyday una dey cry ontop woman matter