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Romance / Re: Lady Kept Waiting By Her Date Narrates What She Did by fellom(m): 8:18am On Apr 03, 2018
That is ladies for you they can date the whole guys in a city and not get caught, thats how they put promiscuity to practice that even after getting married they still get in touch with their Exes and side guyz. All in the name of being a social lady.
kenness:
U had a boyfriend and u still went out on a date with another person
hmmmmm

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Crime / Re: Maryam Sanda Organizes Birthday Party For Her Daughter, Alisha, After Release by fellom(m): 2:30pm On Mar 10, 2018
wife!, The reason why men die young since the days of Samson, may God safe us from all this wannabe Landladies ooo

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Politics / Re: Uchechi Okwu Kanu Vows Boycott Of 2019 Elections by fellom(m): 5:47pm On Feb 19, 2018
Who cares if you vote or not? You people should stop feeling important ooooooolike we care,
Ecstasy154:


http://guardian.ng/news/nnamdi-kanus-wife-vows-boycott-of-2019-elections/


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Celebrities / Re: Hottest Female On Air Personalities In Nigeria (2018) by fellom(m): 12:47pm On Feb 19, 2018
Moet ABEBE issa bae i Bleep with her.
Celebrities / Re: Hottest Female On Air Personalities In Nigeria (2018) by fellom(m): 12:32pm On Feb 19, 2018
Moet ABEBE issa babe I Bleep with her badly
ariketalks:
Nigeria is filled with beautiful ladies no doubt so it is only expected that our celebrities would be eye-catching. ArikeTalks brings you a list of the top 10 hottest female radio and TV personalities in Nigeria. These women possess beauty, poise, and of course, skills which we used in determining this list.


10. Moet ABEBE:

Moet (not the wine) is a young lady who started out as a TV presenter on her return to Nigeria from the United Kingdom where she had her university education. Moet prides herself as not just a TV/radio presenter but also a model and catering executive.
At only 28 years of age, Moet has sure made a name for herself in the entertainment industry and shows no signs of relenting soon.

9. Helen PAUL:

Wonder if we should call her Helen or Tatafo? And please don't even tell me you don't know Tatafo because i would be heartbroken. Lol.
Helen Paul started out as a stand up comedienne named Tatafo many years back. Tatafo was characterized by child-like expressions, actions and even voice which Helen played convincingly to the awe of Nigerians. Helen is currently a co-host on Africa Magic's JARA alongside Uti Nwachukwu.


8. Lamide AKINTOBI:

Stunning Lamide is a co-host of the popular "The Spot" on EbonyLife TV but prior to her involvement with EbonyLife, she worked as an anchor on Channels TV. The Ogun state indigene has been in the industry for over a decade and has consistently worked her way to the top.


7. Tolu "Toolz" DEMUREN:

Anyone who makes a list of hottest OAPs and exempts this lady's name is asking for trouble. I mean who would exempt a whole Tolu? She has the looks, brains and the toolz. *wink*
I knew Toolz from Ndani's "The Juice" which she no longer hosts but we are well aware of her involvement with Beat FM. Gotta love a lady who refuses to be bullied into hiding her curves to suit our messed up society.


Celebrities / Re: Davido And Hailey Adeleke, His Second Daughter Pictured Together In New Photos by fellom(m): 10:16am On Feb 06, 2018
if truly he is an amazing Dad! He should just get married to one of their mums and stop leaving them as single mothers!
WNRealm:
You just gotta love these beautiful new photos of Davido and his second daughter, they both look too beautiful together.

Davido posted the photo of his beautiful daughter on his Instastory on Monday, February 5, 2018. We all know Davido loves his daughters and he will never stop showing them off. Isn’t he an amazing dad?

http://wapnetrealm.com.ng/photos-adorable-photos-davido-second-daughter/
Politics / Re: Lai Mohammed Replies Obasanjo's Letter To Buhari (Full Statement) by fellom(m): 7:27pm On Jan 24, 2018
MR LIE you have not impressed me or anyone else as we all can see you were only doing your Job as Mr Lie muhammed for this present Government.

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Politics / Re: List Of 16 States Ready To Establish Cattle Colonies For Herdsmen by fellom(m): 10:36am On Jan 23, 2018
i was looking to see Lagos, Oyo, Ekiti, Ogun. all this ndi hausa them!
CeoNewshelm:
Sixteen states in the nation have agreed to establish cattle colonies for herdsmen.

The establishment of cattle colonies was an idea proposed by the federal government to solve the incessant conflicts between Fulani herdsmen and farmers. The conflicts have led to deaths of hundreds and the displacement of thousands.

Here are the states ready to establish cattle colonies for herdsmen:

1. Adamawa
2. Kano
3. Kaduna
4. Katsina
5. Zamfara
6. Kebbi
7. Nasarawa
8. Plateau
9. Bauchi
10. Gombe
11. Borno
12. Jigawa
13. Yobe
14. Niger
15. Kogi
16. Kwara

http://www.newshelmng.com/2018/01/list-of-16-states-ready-to-establish.html

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Family / Re: Man Sleeps With His Neighbor's Wife, Beats Her Husband After He Caught Them by fellom(m): 5:55pm On Jan 20, 2018
Eze must die knack person wife still shook him eye?
EZE MUST DIE oooooMAN SLEEPS WITH NEIGHBOUR’S WIFE, HUSBAND LOSES EYE





http://pmexpressng.com/man-sleeps-neighbours-wife-husband-loses-eye/

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Crime / Re: Thief Loses His Memory In Delta As Electricity Shock Him While Stealing. Photos by fellom(m): 10:52am On Jan 20, 2018
bros you wicked oooooo lol again?
Chidexter:
Make dem shock am again make we see whether the memory fit come back
Romance / Re: How Do I Know If My Girlfriend Will Get Fat When I Marry Her? by fellom(m): 10:03am On Jan 19, 2018
not only the mum in all cases but her father also or the grannies na regular sex and free food they cause am in most cases. LOL
BlackDBagba:
Check her mum out lipsrsealed
Crime / Re: Two Kidnappers Nabbed In Ajah, Lagos, While Escaping With Their Victim by fellom(m): 10:52am On Jan 12, 2018
wicked wicked slap done change their identity shocked tongue
laidelaitan:
Two kidnappers nabbed in Ajah, Lagos, while escaping with their victim

The Nigeria Police, Lagos State Command, arrested two notorious Kidnappers, yesterday, 10th of January, 2018, at about 9:43pm, at Elemoro, Ajah.

The criminals met their waterloo while escaping with their victim, one Mrs Mildred Mbajiorgu.

The tight security network emplaced in Lagos state by the Command Commissioner of Police, CP. Edgal Imohimi, did the magic as the Divisional Police Officer, Elemoro tapped into it to get the suspects arrested.

According to the DPO, SP Mohammed Shehu Limawa, he received a distress call from a lady who told him that she heard the voice of a woman crying for help in a dark blue Gulf 3 car.

She also gave the registration number of the car as KRD 845 EC. The DPO quickly alerted one of the Anti crime patrol teams along the route taken by the Kidnappers and instructed the policemen to slow down traffic to about 20km per hour.

The hoodlums ran into the gridlock and were arrested by the policemen who were in the waiting for them. The victim was rescued and taken to the hospital to treat the injury inflicted on her forehead by the dare devils using the butt of a locally made pistol.

Meanwhile the suspects by names, Igwe Sunday, age 28years and Chukwuemeka Bright, 21 years together with the locally made pistol recovered from them has been handed over to the operatives of the Special Anti Robbery Squad (SARS) for further investigation.

https://www.headofsocials.com/2018/01/11/two-kidnappers-nabbed-ajah-lagos-escaping-victim/

Celebrities / Re: Charly Boy Releases Prophecy For 2018 With His Crystal Ball (Video) by fellom(m): 12:01pm On Jan 02, 2018
Amen oooooo and me too oooo landlord things on my mind
cummando:

So shall it be. Your words are fire. Na so e go be for me too

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Romance / Re: Yahoo Plus, Handkerchief, Ritual Sex: Many Nigerian Female Students Walking Dead by fellom(m): 9:16am On Jan 02, 2018
hmmmm this one weak me ooooooooooooo
Flickzvill:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/6493156_humanpartsusedtoprepareconcoctiongtohypnotisevictimsyahooplusboy_jpeg636b42ee00a7eaf5cfa55d3920f0f7dc

Ok evening everyone, I am here to tell you what an old friend told me early hours of the day that has been disturbing me.

I came across an old friend of mine, mehn you needed to see his car, modern benz flashy rims and see his dressing we got to talk and I asked him the way forward, he said he did gee(Yahoo) and I was like how did you get this far? he replied " i plus up nw" asin (yahoo plus+) and I went foward to ask what he did, he didn't even hide it maybe bcz he trusted me this was what he told me.

"My guy as I start this gee tin e no pay me imagine clients go dey give me $200 why nw na em i go one baba like that, the man assure me say I go hit jack pot na just to do some rituals. At first I shake but after I go meet the man him give me hanky say if I sleep with any girl of my choice make I make sure say she sleep after sex then use the hanky clean the pussy then bring am for am.

My guy after i do am i go give the man like after 2 months everything begin click for me o sometimes e dey hard bcz you go do some girls the baba go say dem don use dem".

Jesus, I was shocked I couldn't believe my ears he went on to say most Nigerian university female students are walking dead and empty vessels and he said he has been doing this for like 9 months. Just imagine the amount of innocent girls that are useless just bcz of material tinz. I am sorry to say but most of you girls are in big soup you need deep deliverance.

Happy new year
Family / Re: My Wife Still Sends Pictures To Her Ex Boyfriend, I Feel Cheated & Heartbroken by fellom(m): 8:35am On Jan 02, 2018
its not that easy I mean for the kids's sake. on true fathers will understand
amunkita:
Dump the cheating ediot nah abi she use juju for you.
Politics / Re: "President Buhari Will Do Better During His Second Term" – Senator Gaya Says by fellom(m): 11:52am On Dec 30, 2017
Celebrities / Re: #EndSARSBrutality: Wizkid Calls For Youth Empowerment by fellom(m): 8:16am On Dec 06, 2017
if i am illitrrate like you just called your father! Then both of you are illiterates mumuleyin omo mumuni lol
Timileyin008:


You are just a worthless piece of shit...it is of no use exchanging words with an illitrrate like you...

Keep ur stupidity to urself pls.
Celebrities / Re: #EndSARSBrutality: Wizkid Calls For Youth Empowerment by fellom(m): 5:08am On Dec 06, 2017
I can see you have Degree in stupidity! go and feed your Generation for 1day first. Who cares where you work? Mad Idiot
Timileyin008:

U are such a disgrace to ur parent...i never wanted to take u serious b4 but i have to brush u a little..
Obviously u lack knowledge and u sounding like a stark illiterate to think i was forming whatever with that my comment...u know how foolish u are? Among approximately 4 million members here u are the only one that finds my comment offensive...how old are u by the way..? If u are someone below 30-35yrs then u are a disgrace to ur children with this ur shallow understanding...cant imagine a reasonable person could not comprehend that very simple comment..it wasnt even as if i write big vocabulary for that matter..
Do urself a favour by going back to the initial comment....study it for days like u preparing for ur english language...if u have any sense at all u shud be able to pick out where i offended u with the comment..
And telling a person like me 'e go better' well i say amen..
But i can boldly say that i will comfortanly feed u and ur family for 10yrs...i dont work for government neither do i work anybody...i run my personal business...not because u manage to get free MB u think u can just pick on any random person online....
I know u are not my peer...i wasnt suppose to go rigour on u but at times we need to school u to stop being such a bait
Celebrities / Re: #EndSARSBrutality: Wizkid Calls For Youth Empowerment by fellom(m): 6:57pm On Dec 05, 2017
Lol sorry cage breed forming porshe it take a hope less dude to identify a frusrated person. Dont worry e go better.
Timileyin008:

undecided
I dont know how that my harmless comment affected u sincerely....pls dont vent ur frustration on me
Celebrities / Re: #EndSARSBrutality: Wizkid Calls For Youth Empowerment by fellom(m): 11:31am On Dec 05, 2017
Bro what about you? DONT TELL ME YOU GREW UP IN A CAGE!!!
Timileyin008:
These set of people must have one or two bad experince to share...giving to their background and ow dey grew up from street...
Remilekun (reminisce) Olamide sidiQ and more
Note::note everyone from street are hoodlums..
Politics / Re: If Nigeria Makes The Mistake Of Bringing Back Buhari In 2019 - FFK by fellom(m): 9:50am On Dec 05, 2017
who want dash monkey Banana?
Penalty82:
If Nigeria makes the mistake of bringing back Buhari in 2019 … – Fani-Kayode



By Femi Fani-Kayode


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10209818860777649&id=1516216357
Crime / Re: UNILORIN Student: "Instagram Friend Drugged, Had Sex, Took My Nude Pictures" by fellom(m): 8:00am On Dec 04, 2017
BUHARIISCURSED:
Men are f00lz

A real man don't take nudes to harass a lady

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Birthday Mate Finder...drop Ur Date Of Birth, by fellom(m): 7:48am On Dec 04, 2017
I guess am the only one born on the 12th of August here?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Last Two Phone Digit Match For Opposite Sex! by fellom(m): 12:03pm On Dec 03, 2017
95/81
Politics / Re: Charly Boy Protests At Libyan Embassy In Abuja Against Slave Trade In Libya (Pic by fellom(m): 1:32pm On Nov 30, 2017
i think you are right! Charly boy, frenze , femi falana, and fayoshe are really trying for this country.
Xcelinteriors:
We need like 5 of charly boy in government to move Nigeria forward
Family / Re: Nigerian Mother In U.S Navy And Her Son Reunite After 7 Months In Sea (Photos) by fellom(m): 11:24am On Nov 30, 2017
hmmmm now i missing my late mum too
[/quote] embarassed[quote author=Priscy01 post=62839318]Mother’s Love they say, is unquantifiable!

This photo taken by Jessica L. Dowell shows the emotional moment a Nigerian woman serving in the U.S Navy reunites with her family at Naval Station, Norfolk.

It has since gone viral on social media…

The woman, identified as Navy Petty Officer 2nd Class, Amanda Odukwu was away aboard the USS George H.W Bush for seven months and she couldn’t contain her joy as she hugs her son upon her safe return.

http://www.torimill.com/2017/11/moment-nigerian-mum-in-us-navy-reunites.html

Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Whatsap Romance Group Creation Here by fellom(m): 10:31pm On Nov 29, 2017
thanki410:
Lets create fun at least, for FUN SAKE.
Sexists, pornlords , sons of bleeps .
Lets create a whatsap group. Drop your number
07066546995
Religion / Re: "Life Getting Harder For Nigerians Under Buhari" - Cardinal Okogie by fellom(m): 9:47am On Nov 29, 2017
This Administration should just do just one thing even if its power problem they will solve for us.
Omooba77:


http://punchng.com/life-getting-harder-for-nigerians-under-buhari-says-okogie/
Family / Re: Lady Finds Out Her Husband Of 4 Months Is A Car Wash Boy And Not A Car Dealer by fellom(m): 11:32am On Nov 26, 2017
I wonder oooooo and even if you are a graduate so? them tell you say non-graduate Rod dey sour? olojukokoro like you! marry you degree na!
JPENG:
Car wash Man no be human being??
Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by fellom(m): 11:14am On Nov 26, 2017
just don't know why all these married ladies won't just stay loyal to their husband, IF YOU EX WAS GOOD ENOUGH WHY DIDNT YOU MARRY HIM THEN? only a stupid wife go back to their EX after they had become somebody else's wife. OLOSHO/OKPO them,
betafuture:
I am very sorry, it seems like anytime I post on Nairaland is actually the time I have great challenges in my life, however, my posts also reflect the chronicle of my life. You may wish to check out my last posting about how I was sacked in the Bank with a debt that was guaranteed by a junior staff, whose job was threatened by the loan I obtained and she guaranteed for me. please find the link https://www.nairaland.com/2282140/loan-incured-before-termination-appointment Like I mentioned in that post, I got a job as with a Rep member and he appointed me as the Special assistant on a salary of 80k monthly and my boss paid my rent, of which I engage with my lender to take 50k with me monthly and right off the excess interest and stop disturbing the junior colleague, an arrangement they agreed to and everybody was fine, save that I had to struggle to cope with 30k monthly as a family man, working in Abuja. My wife never complained. I just gave her 25k from the salary, once received, to buy food for the family why I tried to manage with the remaining 5k. It was tough! Luckily, a junior lady cousin who works in a bank was posted to Abuja and we had to accommodate her. She was very kind and understood my plight. Sometimes, she drops up to 50k for my wife to augment the house expenses. She would tell me and sometimes, I would take additional 10k to ad to my pocket money.

The home was running, my son, my wife and my cousin, including myself were very happy. As a banker, I had learned the skill of marketing and networking and negotiation. In the course of my sojourn in the national assembly I met a head of a parastatal wjo needed me to do some strategic alliance between his organization and my boss. We later became great friends, and i realized I could access a scholarship to study in the UK through him. To cut the story short, I pursued this opportunity to the latter and I got a Federal government scholarship to pursue a Masters degree in the UK. I saw this as an opportunity to rewrite the story of my life. Two months in the UK, I began to look for means to bring my wife and son to join me in the UK. While I was in UK, I made it a point of duty to send 150k to my wife in Nigeria on monthly basis (Remember I was on scholarship) and I also do student work in the UK. Because we did not sell our car during the crisis, I also gave the custody of the car to her.

FIRST SUSPICION

When she was about coming to the UK with my 7 years old son, we decided to give out some of our home appliances and sell most of them including the car. Since I was not in Nigeria, she was to manage the transactions. Because I opened her e-mail address, i do see her mails, so i could see the alert on her GTB. The first thing that prompted me was that the amount she received for the sales of our car was 100k higher than what she declared to me. (The fund was meant to buy the flight tickets for her and my son). There were other expense transactions that were over declared, but the actual amount debited to her account were quite low. I did not confront her on these issues until she arrived UK with my son. When I did, I could see the way she manipulatively and professionally lied her way out of the whole issue. I did not pick an offense, hence i made her to understand that I was never convinced. Since then my instinct told me that if she could lie to me so much on finance, maybe there are other things going on in her life that I never known. However, I opened her Facebook account for her years ago in Nigeria, but I never bothered to check it. Out of curiosity, I tried login into her Facebook account and I discovered she has changed the password. My first reaction was to check it, but had I done that, she would have been conscious, then I used my skill as an trained IT security expert to crack her password and then access her Facebook. I ran through all her messenger message and everything was fine. Apart from a certain guy who always beg her for assistance and prayer, there was nothing really suspicious about her messanger and then, we continued with our normal life.

After a week in UK, she started to work as a carer (her visa permitted her to work fully), and she began to make money. I know how much enters her account and we decide how to spend. My son also start schooling and life began to have meaning again. I finished my masters with a distinction and the best graduating student in my department and my University offered me automatic admission for PhD, with part scholarship.l To remain, we needed to source funds to show evidence that my family can stay with me in the UK and show evidence of the balance of school fees. We sourced for money everywhere. She brought all she had and we had to borrow both from UK and Nigeria. My boss was very supportive and I commenced the PhD this September. As a family, we have a problem. My son is now 8 years and we have been trying to make another baby but it does not seem to be forthcoming. We have been to hospitals in the UK, we were both tested and once told my sperm motility was low, treated, but later we were considered both ok.

Since her arrival in the UK, I noticed that my wife suddenly repel sexxx. Sometimes, we had sexxxx just once in a month, she would find a way of brushing away by advances. At a level, i had to ask if there was any problem, but she said it was because of the new environment, her jobs and what have you. This further told me that all was not well in my marriage. She knows I love her and I would do anything for her. While we were yet trying to pay my tuition, her mum got a US visa and all the children were making contributions for her journey, I had to take from my school fees and send to Nigeria and manage my school to give us more time. I tried to ensure that we continually live like one happy family.

Do not let me sound like one perfect good guy. I had also lived a rough bad life in the past and she is aware. During my days in the bank, I had been sexually reckless and irresponsible. There was a time I left office to a gal house, fckked her and I never knew that the condom we used was stick to my shoe. I drove with it home, entered home very late at night, my wife was already angrily waiting for me in the house, only to see a used condom with sperm inside attached to the soul of my shoe. It was an issue that we had to battle with for weeks, even though I never confess it was from, I told a story that it must have got gummed to me at the mechanic village where I had gone to pick my car in the evening (She was aware that someone has accused my mechanic of having sexxx in his car, leaving condom at the back seat). after few weeks, we resolved the issue and we continued leaving normal life. However, there was also a time I suspected her activities on Facebook and I realised a guy whom she has known in the past has been pestering her and she seems to be encouraging him (That was during our period of financial crisis). I had confronted her, she had denied they never had anything but the guy was just pestering her. I apologised and went sober. I called the guy (who was also married) and lived in another faraway city. The guy denied having anything to do with her that she just knew her while growing up. The guy originally blasted me, but later called back and apologized and promised never to disturb her again. I was hurting for months, after which I forgave, forgot and moved on. Let me also state that during the period of my financial crisis, I made a covenant with God, after listening to a message, that whatever the case maybe, I will remain faithful to my wife. This I have manage to keep despite advances from both married and single friends and acquaintances.

THE REAL ISSUE

Now, we are living in the UK and very happy, she is working full-time, while I pursue my PhD full-time, work part-time and my son schools full-time and we were all happy, save the issue of delayed pregnancy and (to me, the poor sex life from her). Let me also state that I bought her a Samsung phone (when she arrived last year), which I have full access to because I know her password. Few months ago, she told me she wanted a bigger phone that she would send the one I bought her to my younger brother in Nigeria who had been disturbing her for a phone. Even though, I thought we did not need to spend money on a new phone at that crucial time because of the looming school expenses, I consented just for her to be happy and she got herself a Samsung galaxy s8 plus for 700pounds, which she would repay of 2 years. The first thing that prompted me about the phone was that she changed her password, but I never mind because I thought she was preventing my son, who always loved to play game on her phone from accessing the phone. However, after few weeks, I began to feel very uncomfortable about the whole stuff. My instinct just told me all was not well. Whatever was it, I could not place my finger on it. But after reviewing my work with my supervisor in the University yesterday, I just felt like going home to rest, instead of studying in the school and then, I met wife in the house with my son. She was trying to order some items online for my son for Christmas and on arrival, she gave her phone to select what we should buy for him, and then, the FB message came into her phone and I could read...'it is not what you think, I have been very busy'

I selected the item I thought was ok, gave returned her phone, picked my laptop and logged in to her Facebook. My wife pretended she was enganging me in discussion, but was responding to the message from a guy, who obviously was her lover and she wrote (I was reading from my computer without her knowledge) 'You know I will ALWAYS LOVE YOU'. and the other guy responded 'I love you more baby' (By this time, I was already burning on the seat, but I somehow managed to keep my calm). She wrote 'But you don't call me' ...and she stood up and went to the kitchen (I wanted to gather enough evidence before I reacted), but immediately she got to the kitchen, she deleted the conversation. At this time, I could not take it. My son was in the sitting room, watching cartoon. I went to her in the kitchen and aggressively confronted her. She originally pretended she did not know what I was saying, but when she say the aggression and seriousness in me she started begging and crying. I lost control of my emotion. I was angry and shouting. My son was there. He was too young, but very intelligent. he understood everything and began to blame his mum, at the same time asking me ti give mum a second chance. I was bitterly hurting. I felt like tearing her into pieces, but if I tried that in UK, it will be straight to jail. She could not state the reason behind her action. She was still trying to lie. She said the guy was her ex and they recently became friends on Facebook and the guy is trying to rekindle the old relationship. The guy is based in Nigeria, they do not even see. Everything she said was incoherently sense. All she wanted was that I should forgive her. I should not tell anybody. She cried, wept and what have you. I was hurting. If it were to by Nigeria, she would have left my house yesetrday, but in UK, it is difficult. The love turned to hatred. She managed to convince me to enter room with her, so that she will discuss the issue with me, without getting our son involved. In the room, it was the same crying and plea for forgiveness and a promise it would never happen again. I told her i was ok, but she would not let me out. I had to angrily shove her away from the door and she hit her head against the wardrobe. i was too angry, too sad, and too hateful to care. i called her all manners of unprintable names. I cursed her, I was just too angry. She kept begging. I left for the sitting room and she came back, knelt down before me and kept begging. My son was crying that two of us were making him sad. The young boy even threatened to tell his teacher in the school on monday. I was too angry to listen. I just told her to let me be. She stood up with tears in her eyes to enter the toilet, I checked her Facebook account again and realised that the lover had sent another message thus: "My dear I don't call you always to protect your home, but I always check your pictures every night before I go to bed" As I was reading, she stupidly deleted that again in the toilet. (Please note that my wife always post our family pictures on facebook, stating how I am the best husband in the world).

My anger erupted again and I rushed to meet her in the bathroom and asked her why she deleted the last message of the guy and she tearfully answered that she did not want me to see anything that could aggravate my anger the more. I angrily snatched the phone from her and smashed it on the floor. She knelt down at my feet and continued to cry and beg for forgiveness, but I was hurting so badly. I left for sitting room again and my son was confusedly crying. She came back and knelt before me and continued begging and weeping and begged we should go back to the room to discuss, at least to protect our son. After a while, i followed her. There was nothing to say; the same weeping, crying and promises to not do it again and swearing that they never had anything together. I told her I needed to talk to the guy and she pleaded I should not. I told her she is giving me an impression that she is protecting the guy so that she could continue her illicit affairs with him and told her it would not work. The can change tactics, but its is only a matter of time. I told her, I would forgive her, but I cannot trust her again and when there is no trust in marriage, the marriage is gone. I also told her I must engage that guy that she should give me his number, but she said her phone is no longer working. I made her feel comfortable that I have forgiven her, but honestly I am hurting. I went back to my laptop, continued chat with the guy on her messenger, but he was now online. We both slept on the same bed, i realised she could not sleep. In the middle of the night she woke me up to beg again, she was offering a make-up sexxx, but I was not interested. I told her i had forgiven her, but I am still hurting and there is no way i could have erection with her. In the morning, I checked her messanger, i discovered the iddiot has responded, still claiming to love her. I checked his profile, I realised he is a muslim, who has a wife with two kids. His location was not shown, but most of his pics her in Nigeria apart from two which have foreign background. I also realize he has limited posts on FB, but the phone number on his FB page is US phone number.

From my wife's FB account, I sent a message thus:

Hi, Mr Farouq, my name is Adams, I am Grace husband
I just wish to inform you that all the rubbish you have been doing with my wife are now exposed to me
I advise you in the name of whatever thing you believe, STAY AWAY FROM MY WIFE.

I also realize you are a married man. If you have any moral integrity and respect for family values, you will know that
responsible men do not run after married women or break homes.

I do not care whatever you claim you think of her, just heed this warning STAY AWAY FROM MY WIFE.

He read it an never respond. I went to her facebook setting and unfriended him.

I left home in the morning to go study in the library, but honestly, I could not assimilate anything. I am so emotionally broken down, so psychologically disturbed. The whole event kept playing in my head. I found it difficult to rationalise it. I continued to find fault in my being and my personality. I know I am very attractive handsome young man. Despite showing I am married, ladies still flock around me. I am also a passionate lovemaker. I dress well and look neat. I don't seem to understand where I have failed. Sometimes I just close my eyes and i feel tears dripping, but I have got to be strong. As for her, she has remained in the room since morning, hiding her head in shame and crying profusely. I have cut off communication with her since I came back from school and I have enganged myself in drinking spirit maybe my spirit will be strenghtened.

This is my story, this is my ordeal. Please I need advice.

Thanks.






Celebrities / Re: Roman Goddess At Oritsefemi & Nabila Fash's Wedding, Bares Cleavage (Photos) by fellom(m): 8:42am On Nov 26, 2017
you don't need a manual dear, Just grab em from the rear that's the best position to press any Bwest either large or small.
Muzanga:
To press this one, you gonna need a manual.
Crime / Re: My Experience With An Atm Swindler by fellom(m): 11:24am On Nov 20, 2017
He said the back of Luth that must be Akodu or Onifade street.
DiegoNakel:
aszunky shey Na Ogun street for mushin dem carry u go abi Na for inside idi araba, which one ?

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