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just don't know why all these married ladies won't just stay loyal to their husband, IF YOU EX WAS GOOD ENOUGH WHY DIDNT YOU MARRY HIM THEN? only a stupid wife go back to their EX after they had become somebody else's wife. OLOSHO/OKPO them,

betafuture:
I am very sorry, it seems like anytime I post on Nairaland is actually the time I have great challenges in my life, however, my posts also reflect the chronicle of my life. You may wish to check out my last posting about how I was sacked in the Bank with a debt that was guaranteed by a junior staff, whose job was threatened by the loan I obtained and she guaranteed for me. please find the link https://www.nairaland.com/2282140/loan-incured-before-termination-appointment Like I mentioned in that post, I got a job as with a Rep member and he appointed me as the Special assistant on a salary of 80k monthly and my boss paid my rent, of which I engage with my lender to take 50k with me monthly and right off the excess interest and stop disturbing the junior colleague, an arrangement they agreed to and everybody was fine, save that I had to struggle to cope with 30k monthly as a family man, working in Abuja. My wife never complained. I just gave her 25k from the salary, once received, to buy food for the family why I tried to manage with the remaining 5k. It was tough! Luckily, a junior lady cousin who works in a bank was posted to Abuja and we had to accommodate her. She was very kind and understood my plight. Sometimes, she drops up to 50k for my wife to augment the house expenses. She would tell me and sometimes, I would take additional 10k to ad to my pocket money.

The home was running, my son, my wife and my cousin, including myself were very happy. As a banker, I had learned the skill of marketing and networking and negotiation. In the course of my sojourn in the national assembly I met a head of a parastatal wjo needed me to do some strategic alliance between his organization and my boss. We later became great friends, and i realized I could access a scholarship to study in the UK through him. To cut the story short, I pursued this opportunity to the latter and I got a Federal government scholarship to pursue a Masters degree in the UK. I saw this as an opportunity to rewrite the story of my life. Two months in the UK, I began to look for means to bring my wife and son to join me in the UK. While I was in UK, I made it a point of duty to send 150k to my wife in Nigeria on monthly basis (Remember I was on scholarship) and I also do student work in the UK. Because we did not sell our car during the crisis, I also gave the custody of the car to her.

FIRST SUSPICION

When she was about coming to the UK with my 7 years old son, we decided to give out some of our home appliances and sell most of them including the car. Since I was not in Nigeria, she was to manage the transactions. Because I opened her e-mail address, i do see her mails, so i could see the alert on her GTB. The first thing that prompted me was that the amount she received for the sales of our car was 100k higher than what she declared to me. (The fund was meant to buy the flight tickets for her and my son). There were other expense transactions that were over declared, but the actual amount debited to her account were quite low. I did not confront her on these issues until she arrived UK with my son. When I did, I could see the way she manipulatively and professionally lied her way out of the whole issue. I did not pick an offense, hence i made her to understand that I was never convinced. Since then my instinct told me that if she could lie to me so much on finance, maybe there are other things going on in her life that I never known. However, I opened her Facebook account for her years ago in Nigeria, but I never bothered to check it. Out of curiosity, I tried login into her Facebook account and I discovered she has changed the password. My first reaction was to check it, but had I done that, she would have been conscious, then I used my skill as an trained IT security expert to crack her password and then access her Facebook. I ran through all her messenger message and everything was fine. Apart from a certain guy who always beg her for assistance and prayer, there was nothing really suspicious about her messanger and then, we continued with our normal life.

After a week in UK, she started to work as a carer (her visa permitted her to work fully), and she began to make money. I know how much enters her account and we decide how to spend. My son also start schooling and life began to have meaning again. I finished my masters with a distinction and the best graduating student in my department and my University offered me automatic admission for PhD, with part scholarship.l To remain, we needed to source funds to show evidence that my family can stay with me in the UK and show evidence of the balance of school fees. We sourced for money everywhere. She brought all she had and we had to borrow both from UK and Nigeria. My boss was very supportive and I commenced the PhD this September. As a family, we have a problem. My son is now 8 years and we have been trying to make another baby but it does not seem to be forthcoming. We have been to hospitals in the UK, we were both tested and once told my sperm motility was low, treated, but later we were considered both ok.

Since her arrival in the UK, I noticed that my wife suddenly repel sexxx. Sometimes, we had sexxxx just once in a month, she would find a way of brushing away by advances. At a level, i had to ask if there was any problem, but she said it was because of the new environment, her jobs and what have you. This further told me that all was not well in my marriage. She knows I love her and I would do anything for her. While we were yet trying to pay my tuition, her mum got a US visa and all the children were making contributions for her journey, I had to take from my school fees and send to Nigeria and manage my school to give us more time. I tried to ensure that we continually live like one happy family.

Do not let me sound like one perfect good guy. I had also lived a rough bad life in the past and she is aware. During my days in the bank, I had been sexually reckless and irresponsible. There was a time I left office to a gal house, fckked her and I never knew that the condom we used was stick to my shoe. I drove with it home, entered home very late at night, my wife was already angrily waiting for me in the house, only to see a used condom with sperm inside attached to the soul of my shoe. It was an issue that we had to battle with for weeks, even though I never confess it was from, I told a story that it must have got gummed to me at the mechanic village where I had gone to pick my car in the evening (She was aware that someone has accused my mechanic of having sexxx in his car, leaving condom at the back seat). after few weeks, we resolved the issue and we continued leaving normal life. However, there was also a time I suspected her activities on Facebook and I realised a guy whom she has known in the past has been pestering her and she seems to be encouraging him (That was during our period of financial crisis). I had confronted her, she had denied they never had anything but the guy was just pestering her. I apologised and went sober. I called the guy (who was also married) and lived in another faraway city. The guy denied having anything to do with her that she just knew her while growing up. The guy originally blasted me, but later called back and apologized and promised never to disturb her again. I was hurting for months, after which I forgave, forgot and moved on. Let me also state that during the period of my financial crisis, I made a covenant with God, after listening to a message, that whatever the case maybe, I will remain faithful to my wife. This I have manage to keep despite advances from both married and single friends and acquaintances.

THE REAL ISSUE

Now, we are living in the UK and very happy, she is working full-time, while I pursue my PhD full-time, work part-time and my son schools full-time and we were all happy, save the issue of delayed pregnancy and (to me, the poor sex life from her). Let me also state that I bought her a Samsung phone (when she arrived last year), which I have full access to because I know her password. Few months ago, she told me she wanted a bigger phone that she would send the one I bought her to my younger brother in Nigeria who had been disturbing her for a phone. Even though, I thought we did not need to spend money on a new phone at that crucial time because of the looming school expenses, I consented just for her to be happy and she got herself a Samsung galaxy s8 plus for 700pounds, which she would repay of 2 years. The first thing that prompted me about the phone was that she changed her password, but I never mind because I thought she was preventing my son, who always loved to play game on her phone from accessing the phone. However, after few weeks, I began to feel very uncomfortable about the whole stuff. My instinct just told me all was not well. Whatever was it, I could not place my finger on it. But after reviewing my work with my supervisor in the University yesterday, I just felt like going home to rest, instead of studying in the school and then, I met wife in the house with my son. She was trying to order some items online for my son for Christmas and on arrival, she gave her phone to select what we should buy for him, and then, the FB message came into her phone and I could read...'it is not what you think, I have been very busy'

I selected the item I thought was ok, gave returned her phone, picked my laptop and logged in to her Facebook. My wife pretended she was enganging me in discussion, but was responding to the message from a guy, who obviously was her lover and she wrote (I was reading from my computer without her knowledge) 'You know I will ALWAYS LOVE YOU'. and the other guy responded 'I love you more baby' (By this time, I was already burning on the seat, but I somehow managed to keep my calm). She wrote 'But you don't call me' ...and she stood up and went to the kitchen (I wanted to gather enough evidence before I reacted), but immediately she got to the kitchen, she deleted the conversation. At this time, I could not take it. My son was in the sitting room, watching cartoon. I went to her in the kitchen and aggressively confronted her. She originally pretended she did not know what I was saying, but when she say the aggression and seriousness in me she started begging and crying. I lost control of my emotion. I was angry and shouting. My son was there. He was too young, but very intelligent. he understood everything and began to blame his mum, at the same time asking me ti give mum a second chance. I was bitterly hurting. I felt like tearing her into pieces, but if I tried that in UK, it will be straight to jail. She could not state the reason behind her action. She was still trying to lie. She said the guy was her ex and they recently became friends on Facebook and the guy is trying to rekindle the old relationship. The guy is based in Nigeria, they do not even see. Everything she said was incoherently sense. All she wanted was that I should forgive her. I should not tell anybody. She cried, wept and what have you. I was hurting. If it were to by Nigeria, she would have left my house yesetrday, but in UK, it is difficult. The love turned to hatred. She managed to convince me to enter room with her, so that she will discuss the issue with me, without getting our son involved. In the room, it was the same crying and plea for forgiveness and a promise it would never happen again. I told her i was ok, but she would not let me out. I had to angrily shove her away from the door and she hit her head against the wardrobe. i was too angry, too sad, and too hateful to care. i called her all manners of unprintable names. I cursed her, I was just too angry. She kept begging. I left for the sitting room and she came back, knelt down before me and kept begging. My son was crying that two of us were making him sad. The young boy even threatened to tell his teacher in the school on monday. I was too angry to listen. I just told her to let me be. She stood up with tears in her eyes to enter the toilet, I checked her Facebook account again and realised that the lover had sent another message thus: "My dear I don't call you always to protect your home, but I always check your pictures every night before I go to bed" As I was reading, she stupidly deleted that again in the toilet. (Please note that my wife always post our family pictures on facebook, stating how I am the best husband in the world).

My anger erupted again and I rushed to meet her in the bathroom and asked her why she deleted the last message of the guy and she tearfully answered that she did not want me to see anything that could aggravate my anger the more. I angrily snatched the phone from her and smashed it on the floor. She knelt down at my feet and continued to cry and beg for forgiveness, but I was hurting so badly. I left for sitting room again and my son was confusedly crying. She came back and knelt before me and continued begging and weeping and begged we should go back to the room to discuss, at least to protect our son. After a while, i followed her. There was nothing to say; the same weeping, crying and promises to not do it again and swearing that they never had anything together. I told her I needed to talk to the guy and she pleaded I should not. I told her she is giving me an impression that she is protecting the guy so that she could continue her illicit affairs with him and told her it would not work. The can change tactics, but its is only a matter of time. I told her, I would forgive her, but I cannot trust her again and when there is no trust in marriage, the marriage is gone. I also told her I must engage that guy that she should give me his number, but she said her phone is no longer working. I made her feel comfortable that I have forgiven her, but honestly I am hurting. I went back to my laptop, continued chat with the guy on her messenger, but he was now online. We both slept on the same bed, i realised she could not sleep. In the middle of the night she woke me up to beg again, she was offering a make-up sexxx, but I was not interested. I told her i had forgiven her, but I am still hurting and there is no way i could have erection with her. In the morning, I checked her messanger, i discovered the iddiot has responded, still claiming to love her. I checked his profile, I realised he is a muslim, who has a wife with two kids. His location was not shown, but most of his pics her in Nigeria apart from two which have foreign background. I also realize he has limited posts on FB, but the phone number on his FB page is US phone number.

From my wife's FB account, I sent a message thus:

Hi, Mr Farouq, my name is Adams, I am Grace husband
I just wish to inform you that all the rubbish you have been doing with my wife are now exposed to me
I advise you in the name of whatever thing you believe, STAY AWAY FROM MY WIFE.

I also realize you are a married man. If you have any moral integrity and respect for family values, you will know that
responsible men do not run after married women or break homes.

I do not care whatever you claim you think of her, just heed this warning STAY AWAY FROM MY WIFE.

He read it an never respond. I went to her facebook setting and unfriended him.

I left home in the morning to go study in the library, but honestly, I could not assimilate anything. I am so emotionally broken down, so psychologically disturbed. The whole event kept playing in my head. I found it difficult to rationalise it. I continued to find fault in my being and my personality. I know I am very attractive handsome young man. Despite showing I am married, ladies still flock around me. I am also a passionate lovemaker. I dress well and look neat. I don't seem to understand where I have failed. Sometimes I just close my eyes and i feel tears dripping, but I have got to be strong. As for her, she has remained in the room since morning, hiding her head in shame and crying profusely. I have cut off communication with her since I came back from school and I have enganged myself in drinking spirit maybe my spirit will be strenghtened.

This is my story, this is my ordeal. Please I need advice.

Thanks.

you don't need a manual dear, Just grab em from the rear that's the best position to press any Bwest either large or small.

Muzanga:
To press this one, you gonna need a manual.

He said the back of Luth that must be Akodu or Onifade street.

DiegoNakel:
aszunky shey Na Ogun street for mushin dem carry u go abi Na for inside idi araba, which one ?

Yes oooo but not for senior women if she is below 30years its if not i pity her oooo

iambijo:
It's so sweet to be independant

Anyhow sha God knows best! 2 guys were caught but only 1 was disgraced

Can you define snitch first b4 talking shit? Am sure you are not a crime free citizen that why you are saying this shit.

pol23:
I hate snitch... I pray He never get anything...

Even EFCC self na scam! pay the wiseguy him money haba?

ChangetheChange:


Nigeria is indeed a joke, i am no longer interested in blowing whistle

Annie Idibia if na good thing you and your mama dey do for this lady because of her behavior to your brother may God in heaven reward you guys accordingly, but if na ride una ride her for her husband house may God bring you someone that will torment your marriage with Tuface too oooo Amen

Kolababe:
According to a video making the rounds on social media, this lady identifed as Doris, the wife of Wisdom, Annie Idibia's brother, Annie and their mom stormed her house on Friday November 10, to beat her, destroy her properties and abduct her kid. Doris who was in tears shared photos of things destroyed as she narrated her ordeal in the hands of Tuface's wife Annie and her mother.

According to Doris,Annie and her family have been treating her like a slave.She lamented that she was doing fine as a make-up artist before she met Wisdom Macaulay who stopped her from working. Doris said that anytime there is a slight issue,Annie's brother will dash to Annie's house in Lekki and they will return later in a Prado jeep with the mom and starts to physically abuse her.

The lady stated that although they have been living together as husband and wife for four years,she has given Wisdom Macaulay 2 kids,however he has refused to pay her bride price despite always reminding him.

She also accused Wisdom of always smoking Indian Hemp.

This is coming just barely a week after Annie Idibia organised a widely publicised women empowerment workshop in Abuja.

See photos below and videos below...

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/annie-idibias-brothers-wife-in-tears-as-annie-mom-attack-her-abduct-her-kid

you maybe right oooo cos am sure the woman @ 48 should be in her husband's house maybe na spell as you talk.

shizzy7:
Can sex actually lead to death??

There is more to this story
It could be a spell ...

GBAYI THIS MAN NA CONFIRM YOU TALK!

hooklover:
Many married ladies I know still bleep for money.if u have good cash they will bleep u well. They play away games wen oga is at wrk killing himself... M

Never trust a lady so u don't overreact wen dry surprise u.
Men who overreact are those that think their wife is a saint.
No matter how holy ur lady claim to be have at d back of ur mind is only wen u are around.

Don't die of heart attack cos of ur wife pussy.U married her not her pussy.

The woman toto now go dey swear for the people that stopped her from receiving her holy water lol thats what a man get when he marries a slay queen like the other fool bragging about her having 5 boyfriends are you sure that one can ever be faithful in any marriage? So guys be wise. Cos puC no get metre and women cant keep secret except their infidelity.

You are very correct and you think dis1 will be faithful in a marriage ? 5? Some girls wicked oooo

pryme:
probably each of the 5 boyfriends knows there are not the only ones hitting it.

I get what you mean see we have them everywhere try the following let see if it works 1, always have another driver that can confirm and fault he reports about any of the cars! 2, get another mechanic to check the faulty car(s) and get repair estimate to compare price with that of your company drive! 3, locate a spare part seller around so that if he brings anyone with his normal 50k bill you can buy the parts on your own and pay the repairer for his service only its cheaper that way.

healthproblemo:
The summary of it is,
I work as an account officer of an average size company, and part of my job is being responsible for the company's mobiles (vehicles, drivers, and day to day spendings)

Now the problem is one of the drivers has decided to take advantage of my ignorance on motor mechanicals to extort money from the company. This he does by constantly bringing different fault on the company vehicles he drives. The logic is he arrange with the mechanics we work with so they give him a share of every bill they give to the company as the alleged repair. (Meanwhile himself was a mechanic before turning driver)

It is a major issue because it is becoming unbecoming, for a company that find it difficult to spend let say 10k then the driver and mechanic constantly call like 50k for different repairs, then making me to look incapable of minimizing expenses.

Now to make matters worse, he is one of the oldest staff and well trusted that the last time someone try to bring up a dishonesty matter again him, the person was crucified (technically) by the 'owner' of the company.



I had bent quite a number of very stubborn subordinate in time past, but this one is giving me serious concern coupled with the fact that I made a mistake one time which he knows about.

Please what can I do

Amen lol

Keneking:
Dry bones shall rise again

See brother am not supporting the police oooo but the issue is that vultures will only flocks where there is dead bodies or animals if criminals no they that area police cant keep coming there is no smoke without fire. MAYBE GUYS DEY SMOKE WEED FOR THAT AREA OR GAMBLING, THERE MUST BE A REASON OR MAYBE UNA DEY PAY THEM WELL AFTER EVERY ARREST!

solaltd:
Having known that the presence of the Nigerian Police Force is to protect the lives and the properties of the citizens of Nigeria which they have been doing, it is very unfortunate that some Policemen were unable to differentiate themselves from armed hoodlums by their actions on 27th October 2017 in Ifako Ijaiye.
The recent tragic scene that happened on that friday night at around 9:30pm to 11:00pm in some parts of Ifako Ijaiye (College Road especially) when some squad of Policemen from Pen Cinema Police Division, Agege AKA Chinese Rub, abandoned their Agege territory and moved to Ifako Ijaiye to threaten residents through unlawful arrest coupled with act of barbarity as they broke bottles, destroyed properties in some shops, forcefully arrested people in compound and a barber’s shops at adeyeri crescent, threatened women with battery and verbal assault. They came with more than 5 big commercial vans to arrest almost 100 residents and many sustained severe injury after release with no offence attached.
Yesterday 2nd November 2017, around 9:30pm the same squad from Pen Cinema Police Division, Agege, Lagos came with the same format of many commercial buses to unlawfully and forcefully arrest residents in their homes, compounds, shops, streets without any reasonably offence before we later heard that the Area Commander enforced their release based on limited space to occupy almost hundred they brought again.
The alarming rate of this violation of the Ifako Ijaiye residents’ human rights by The Police most especially the Pen Cinema Police Division, Agege is highly criticized and should be stopped with all necessary measures.
There are several Police Divisions in Ifako Ijaiye but none has posed harassment on us than these people. They should be sensitized to their primary duty as Police which is to protect lives and properties of citizen and not to threaten or assault citizens.
We are reporting this so that the uncultured and unprofessional display for duty should stop so that these people will not create bad image for The Nigerian Police and The Federal Republic of Nigeria in general. All necessary legal actions have been taken either.
Thanks for reading.
Imole

your father

BUHARIjubrin:
Only Yoropigs can fall victim of such cheap tactics

Never underestimate the power of voodoo my guy.

Greenville990:
I have been with this multinational company for about 8months now.

What I have seen is way beyond the imaginable. The very fellow I report directly is full of crap.

Gross misconduct at highest level. I wonder how he rose to his position.

You might say I'm beefing, but how would you explain a man that have sex in the office while we are in the rest room. He also speaks terrible grammar.

Anyway these attitudes and more come to the notice of the America born boss of ours.

Initially She will confess saying how on earth did she give him that position. Then she threatens to get him out with all powers that she has. The next the you will see Mr Misconduct will travel for two days to his home town. Finally he's back and oyinbo is back to factory settings

obinkita means heart of dog! yes oooo they didn't receive beating at all.

sunkanmihassan1:
Where they really dealt with by an angry mob? they only look exhausted and malnourished.

you are very correct. thats why some ladies always bath with perfume, some pussy smell like Ogiri even when then legs are closed!

Samsimple:
Smell pass smell oohh... Some smell from vagina can choke you

this will serve as a lesson to all you cuckoldries Bleep AND DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

40ng:
@VIVIANGIST

Update!!! See Photos Of The Nigerian Woman With 4 Kids And Her Lover Who Died While Having Sex Inside Their Car


Remember the married Nigerian woman, with 4 kids, and a man (believed to be her lover) who were found dead in their car in Ogba, Lagos on sunday morning. while many where in church, their corpses photo have just been posted online by a facebook user;

Lovers found dead in a car Sunday morning behind NIJ Ogba Lagos. The husband of the woman said he was aware of her infidelity but chose to keep quiet.
The lover who happens to be the son to their landlord was said to be a close friend to the husband of the late woman. The two were found by bypassers early in the morning with the car engine and ac still running.
They quickly contacted the police who took the bodies to the morgue and according to the police, an autopsy will be conducted to ascertain the cause of their death.

Read Previous Report

https://www.nairaland.com/4145146/married-woman-lover-die-unclad

A woman, reportedly married with kids, and a man (believed to be her lover) were found dead in their car in Ogba, Lagos this morning.According to eyewitnesses at the shocking scene, their naked bodies indicated they were allegedly having sex before their deaths. More tweets and photos below.

I just saw the weirdest and saddest thing yo! . I saw people gathered watching a car. Initially I thought it was an accident but it wasn’t

I saw a man and a woman both naked the engine of the car still running even the AC is still on. They apparently were having sex and died

The man has his hands on his part and the lady stretched out naked. The car was parked on the road.

I couldn’t take pictures still shaken by the fact that I just saw 2 dead bodies this early morning. I can’t un-look it

Via : http://www.viviangist.ng/update-see-photos-of-the-nigerian-woman-with-4-kids-and-her-lover-who-died-while-having-sex-inside-their-car/

Cc; lalasticlala

Thats very correct!a dog will always remain a dog!

DopeBoss:
You've got a man and u're still cheating, Well there's only 1 reason.. Dat's cos a bitch will always be a bitch..

lol see sharp guys ooooo

rerhji:
once de stop trying to price anything jst keep walking till u give dem a reasonable distance nd de can walk up to u once de re done if u re nt willing to pay

sarrki:
http://dailypost.ng/2017/10/24/fashola-others-banned-using-generators-sunday-oduntan/

you are very correct sir am with you on this!

kingjomezy:
Sooooo.... Make we Con crown your d**k

his new title is DICKson!!!! so tey na barbecue fish be their bait!

Medicineguy:
Every dick is small to an olosho expecially when she is mad and angry at you

IamHeWrites:
Davido’s hypeman, Special Spesh has been called out by an aggrieved who claimed that he had sex with her for free, promising her a car, which are all promises he never fulfilled.

The lady who claimed that Special Spesh is nothing with Davido wrote;


http://www.torimill.com/2017/10/you-fck-me-for-free-with-your-small.html

your are mad and you believe that? you no well at all ooo even Davido no buy you keke so na him hypeman go buy you Toyota.

JaneMafrodite:
I am just a little curious and Decided to ask you guys on Nairaland.

Like when a guy and a girl want to do skydiving, why does the guys always rub the d**khead before Putting into the Promiseland.

Honest answers please and No insults.
Saints and kids should keep off!

..........

Thanks.

its a normal ritual b4 sex and its usually done unconsciously,wink

henrylowe:
This thread is nothing but the bitter truth but watch how the guilty ones will lash out at the OP calling him derogatory names

Anyway, I once dated a lady that possesses the traits of 1, 2, 4 and 8...Omo I grab race at last ooo

sharp guy move ahead lol

McBrooklyn:
Probably cos most of those ladies haven't realized yet that a big dick is a pride to the owner while a large pussy is a shame to the owner...

you are very correct.

tosyne2much:
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Source: http://www.tosyne2much.com/2017/10/10-types-of-ladies-that-are-in.html

Don't blame them they are created that way!

PrinceDerrick:
6 months after my previous relationship parked up, I added her on Facebook. We got chatting and I assisted her twice without even asking to see her.
Based on her several requests, I allowed her come to visit and we happen to have a lot to talk about. Fast forward, she could stay one week stretch with me, (wtht nacking fa, i swear) do all cooking and cleaning and never asks for money. I gave her at will.

She caught my heart. And I became attracted to her,(she dresses sexy) I made some advances at her, she only accepts lips kissing and handling nothing more.
She said she can only 'do' in a relationship heading somewhere.
She told me about her strict upbringing and all, I told her about my past rltnshps (nothing horrible), but she only told me about two relationships she's had and said she lost her virginity to one.
I was not ready to loose her and was thinking of taking her to Mama after two months of our being together.
I got the impression of a good girl and wife material.

Somehow she logged in her Facebook on my laptop and left it.
I was inquisitive and went through her inbox. I ran into 8 guys/married men she has slept with in different towns strictly for money within this year, some didn't pay her as agreed and they quarreled. I also noticed she's visited two of my FB friends but no evidence of the activity.

Last week, she went to visit a guy, after the 3rd meeting he was asking her if her ass still dey leak?

As I type now, she's in a guys house and they are meeting for the first time.

She doesn't know I know all this yet. Like I said I've never entered her, its not really my thing.

LESSONS LEARNT
1. Guys beware of ladies that throw themselves at you, they are probably hiding something.
2. She pretends to be decent around me and not demanding, yet she receives money and banana else where: hmmmm

My question: How should I react and get her out of my life?

Its normal for any lady to pretend, guy count yourself lucky to have discovered the person she is early enough, if what if you only discovered this after you must have married her?. but its a pity she was caught cos we all have our past just. but she refused to mend her ways.

his ball should be chopped off

Johnnyessence:
The Police in Katsina have arrested one Abdullahi Sani of Jabiri area, for allegedly raping a three-year-old girl to death.
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The police spokesman in the state, DSP Gambo Isah, in a statement on Monday, said Sani was arrested on October, 12. Sani allegedly lured the toddler to an uncompleted building and forcefully had carnal knowledge of her.
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The little girl was said to have sustained serious injuries from the act and was rushed to Funtua General hospital where she died the following day. Sani was said to have confessed to the crime.

source:http://www.pressnewsng.com.ng/2017/10/man-50-rapes-3-yr-old-girl-to-death-in.html