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We need to close down these chambers like Senegal did it would save us a lot of stress and money.

Can you please give us updates and stop this cyber bullying.

Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Terrible. A full man climbed a 17 year old and covered her mouth is not rape abi.

kumbalo:
COZA: WAS THERE ACTUALLY A RAPE?

Predictably, ever since Busola Dakolo "confessed" to having been raped by Pastor Biodun of COZA, the narrative has unabashedly flowed in her favour. Truth is, I can't hold an opinion just because it's popular. When a story is told, I simply put on my thinking cap, play it in my mind and take a personal stand based on the logicality or otherwise of the story . That's why we have individual brains which can neither be borrowed nor shared. So, the mob can't blackmail me into suspending my intellect. That's the truth.

Please, let me remind us that the accusation against the Pastor is rape not adultery.Anyone that reads Busola's version or watches her video without bias will definitely ask questions, especially if he or she is an adult like myself. You may not agree with me but Busola's account seems choreographed. It's very likely a script written to achieve a predetermined purpose. It was important she disclosed that she was just 16 when it happened. This means she was molested as a minor.

If absence of consent doesn't fly, minority would definitely nail the alleged predator. But who's going to argue on the veracity of this claim on age? Certainly not Pastor Biodun who has denied Busola's allegation. You see, it's not as straight forward as you think.

There's no doubt about the attempt to play the victim to elicit public sympathy. Of course, it's normal and natural for humans to tell contentious stories from their perspective with the intent to look good, or at least appear better than the other person. That's where unbiased investigation comes handy. Rape is a serious crime. Biodun cannot be prosecuted and convicted solely on the basis of Busola's own account. He must defend himself and Busola's testimony must be subjected to serious scrutiny. On what basis do you accept her version as an absolute truth and Pastor Biodun's as false?

This article is by no means intended to either justify rape, immorality or defend Pastor Biodun. It's objective is to plead for a little fairness, broad mindedness and objectivity. Most of us have at different times been blackmailed or misrepresented. Surprisingly, victims are always too willing to become culprits in the infamous Department of Gossip. I will never understand how a man enjoys sexual intercourse which is devoid of mutuality. That's how despicable rapists are. Consent is fundamental to sex. I hold both rapists and gays with the same amount of contempt.

I'm aware that celebrities, especially men of God are susceptible to blackmail. Some of the allegations may be true, no doubt. Some are definitely fabricated. The problem is that it's difficult for people in this class to defend themselves.

Again, Busola said she was raped. I sincerely have my doubt. Rape is rape basically owing to the absence of consent. Consensual sex can't be termed rape.

Look at the story again. Your mother traveled and left you with one of your sisters in the house- a duplex. The Pastor sneaked in surprisingly early in the morning and it turned out that his target was the one who opened the door for him. He must be very "lucky" to enjoy such precision of fate. As you opened the door for him, he pushed you to one of the chairs, removed his belt and had carnal knowledge of your virgin "womanhood". Satisfied, he made for his car and brought you krest to drink, ostensibly as a contraceptive and you obliged.

Wow! What a storyline!!. This movie is only good for the oft intellectually non stimulating and predictable Nollywood. I doubt if this heart rending story can pass the test of either legal or logical scrutiny in the face of an allegation of rape. It can ground consensual sex(adultery) or child abuse if the minority status of the victim at the time of the incidence is ascertained. Definitely not rape. If you read or listen well, you will agree that if sex occurred at all, it was consensual.

Only an insane man would go to a strange environment and take such a risky action without a detailed ascertainment and assurance of safety anchored on absolute privacy. Who assured the Pastor that the environment was safe enough for him to "eat" uninhibited? I'm sure without such assurance, even lesser mortals won't venture, let alone a celebrity Pastor. It's noteworthy that most genuine victims of rape suffer in the hands of trusted people who share apartment or proximity with them. For the other cases, there's always an ignored or accepted red flag. No man in the Pastor's position would just wake up and attempt a rape without first testing the waters. Generally, he must be reasonably sure of the victim's cooperation based on past and present interactions.

Busola's account wants us to believe that within split seconds, the man ascended and descended from the mountain unrestricted, went outside to his car, brought a drink, hands same to his prey, she gladly or grudgingly received and gulped as expected. Is it that easy and straight forward? What could have given him such audacity and reassurance in someone else's house? Unbelievable!

After such experience, the very next Sunday, the prey was in Church, albeit in low spirits. The fellowship continued into the future.

The second episode sounds even more weird. He drove you into an isolated part of the town, dragged you out of the passengers' side to the bonnet and successfully "ate the food" to satisfaction. No shout, no struggles!

The length of time it took for this story to be told publicly is in itself a source of suspicion. As a Lawyer, I know crimes can't be statute barred. But it's curious that a molestation she suffered in her teens was successfully managed through school until she married and became a mother of three before letting the monstrous cat out of the bag.

Sister Busola has already presented herself as having been a serious Christian from youth, in fact before she was allegedly defiled. I think there's something unchristian about her confession after many years had elapsed. Time should have healed her. If time couldn't, she could have sought counsel aimed at healing and forgiveness. Thankfully, the molestation didn't prevent her from loving her husband and giving him three beautiful kids.

If forgiveness was impossible (as unchristian as it is), she should have sought the prosecution of her assailant. I can't fathom what the resort to media trial is intended to achieve. Is it healing, forgiveness or vengeance?

Friends, let's stop unnecessary pontification. There's definitely something about this scandal hiding very safely from us.

If you are a Christian, pray for Pastor Biodun, Sister Busola, her husband and children. It's as serious as that.

Omen Bassey©

I wonder if you have a conscience was that the first time he was going to their house. He even met her mother at home once. He was more like a father figure to her.

KingAzubuike:
If I was fatoyinbo, I'd sue that idiot for defamation and blackmail. These women can be very devilish. They wait for you to be successful and popular before telling the whole world of a rape case that happened in 1945. There's no single evidence yet but see how people are already against an innocent fatoyinbo. God will fight for him.

Mumu. She is even more popular than this Coza Pastor. Timi has used her in Numerous music videos.

RemiTinubu:
Before you accuse or believe that story, remember Neymer's case

Had it been that the innocent guy has no evidence by now the world will be tearing him limb for limb
his club would have sacked him and all endorsement destroyed.

Yes you heard me right
All these would have happened without proper investigation and done out of emotions and sentiments because the world frowns at rape (including me) and sometimes take actions on the accused without investigation due to gender ish.

Nowadays desperate ladies capitalize on that to pull down any man they feel like and the world won't even ask questions and just destroy the accuser without proper investigation.

I use to join the band wagon until Neymer's case showed me how wicked some ladies can be
who would ever think that such innocent looking latino will ever accuse neymer falsely.

The world have started believing her story till neymer luckily presented a solid proof to end the allegations.
ask yourself this question.

Neymer went free because he gat some evidence to prove his innocence.
What about numerous guys in the same situation that gat nothing to back up their claims?

I rest my case here.

Please I'm not defending COZA Pastor, infact i don't like that guy but let's be logical in our reasoning SOMETIMES.

You are dumb to compare this with Neymars case.

Big boy Bad boy

7sperovs:
So because busola accuse a pastor of rape, the man automatically becomes a rapist. Who is to say the man isnt innocent. I never support rape. But if a girl of 17 claims to be raped severally in her own father's house by an outsider, i dnt believe oh..After the first incident she didnt at the least lock up herself somewhere every time he showed up, she probably enjoyed it, i do believe she wasnt that dumb.
For those speaking plenty grammer of statutory rape and all...u have to prove that before u claim it as such. What evidence will she have after so many years.
Rather than stage pointless protest. People should encourage rape victims to speak up.
Trauma ko, trauma ni. So what if the man is innocent, do we realise what trauma he and the family will be going through.
What do they plan to achieve after so many years...
Persecute and punish his reputation and family? will her trauma then cease to exist then..
Abeg if person rape u. Speak out dont wait a hundred year

Mumu go and watch the interview she was raped 1ce in her house and the second time on the street. Be guided.

It's too late to apologize.

justflow1:
like you missed your logic class?

Shut up already. She was talking to all convicted rapist don't be stupid. He hasn't been found guilty yet.

justflow1:
An intellect as Abike, needn't have to outrightly subscribe for a jail term for the man of God yet. "a person is innocent until he is proven guilty" tho might be fallacious in its real sense, but the bottomline is that, unkle Biodun had not given a reply yet, and there are no evidences yet either major or circumstantial. hence prudence care need to be taken.... i think Abike is suppose to be a diplomat? now she is offending the other party, no wonder our brothers and sisters are bagging jail term up mid east without any substantial step been taken by her office to curtail such demeaning act

BTW, I subscribe a death sentence for a rapist that had been proven GUILTY beyond reasonable doubt by a court of competent jusrisdiction

Did she mention the man of God?

Who told you Timi can't afford a good lawyer?

Jay Z done sign Wizzy thats big man.Richest musician alive.

First team to qualify for Nations cup. First team to qualify to the next round at nations cup. UP NAIJA!!!!

I go switch am Well I go even clean the seat for am.

Nigeria is building cones they are building drones.

Ballers.Wish Nigeria had a better structure may be I would be in the NBA now.

Mad man I have also been playing Wizkid since 2009.

Let them marry na. Atleast Emir of Kano is worse.

cosmatika:
CBN and EFCC should also investigate Boullion van landing in Tinubu's house

Abi o.

He should sha be careful thats how the owner of Leicester city died

Premium times could be sanctioned soon

He should shot up

Aina should have won it.

U that you have killed people.

If you see the crowd that welcomed him at the airport ehn. They brought about 10 BRT bus.

Iran should attack anoda Drone let's see what would happen.

We can't beat Burundi Burundi.

I have been vindicated for those that have been attacking me that we needed Mikel back in the eagles. You can see he isn't good enough.

flowx:
Let them rename the estate to Snake Island...

Snake Estate would be fine

Is This 1 news just go and plant some repelants to chase away the snakes. Snakes are every where.