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Thought we ve moved away from stories like this

nlfpmod:

Drama as a man abandons a lady at a hotel after buying her expensive drinks and food. He reportedly told her he was stepping out to buy shawarma and ice cream, but hours later, he had yet to return. Hotel staff reportedly stopped the lady as she tried to flee without paying the… pic.twitter.com/tSS3xvOeNA

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) July 30, 2026

Let her go n wash plates jor

Its bad debt already

Hungry girls everywhere

Cmanforall:
Indeed, you know nothing about Europe


Hunger can not affect anyone in Europe , not to talk of Sweden

Moreover, Ethiopians have community and know how to ensure those guys integrate.

I probably know more than you do

People like this get caught n sent back when seeking food n shelter

israelmao:
Their talents will surely exempt them from hunger.Any man who can put his talent to good use and to the benefit of others can't be hungry or stranded.-

How many of them are talented

Dancebreaker:
Many of them may have relatives across Europe. Some may be in Germany, NL, Belgium and elsewhere by now.

Most times they don't

A relative will make sure you come through the right path

Easyincome24:
Over to experienced drivers in the house. What can he do in this condition to avert being plunged?

steer left then reverse with speed

Phyna is the real definition of Animashaun

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140176986]"Why won't you make your wife look like the woman you chase outside?" — Lady questions men over double standards

A Nigerian lady has sparked conversations online after questioning men who discourage their wives from dressing elegantly while admiring the same appearance in other women.

In a viral video, the woman criticised husbands who prevent their wives from fixing their lashes, wearing stylish outfits or maintaining their appearance because they fear other men may notice them.

She questioned why some men would proudly attend social events with women outside their marriages because of their neat appearance, while refusing to support their wives in achieving a similar look.

Lady challenges husbands over appearance and jealousy

The woman said, “So you don’t like your wife dressing neat, fixing lashes abi but your side chick will do it. What type of man are you?”

She argued that some men create a situation where their wives are unable to express themselves through fashion and beauty choices, yet they appreciate those same qualities in other women.

The lady added, “Why don’t you make your wife look like that kind of woman you would chase outside? I’m asking you now, why? Why won’t you make your wife look like what you want.”

Her comments have generated discussions about relationships, insecurity and the importance of mutual support between couples.

Nigerians debate expectations in marriages
Many social media users joined the conversation, with some agreeing that partners should encourage each other’s confidence and personal grooming, while others noted that couples should respect individual choices and avoid pressure.

The discussion has renewed conversations about double standards in marriages, with many highlighting the need for communication, trust and appreciation between spouses.

The video continues to attract reactions online as Nigerians share different opinions on whether partners should influence each other’s appearance or allow personal freedom.

"You don't like your wife dressing neatly, but you prefer to see your side chick looking good. What kind of husband are you?"

— Lady reacts. pic.twitter.com/wuJ29NHv6K

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) July 28, 2026

chicks are living fake lives. They can apply all those fake accessories

Not a bad business but the problem is that Nigerians don't honour agreement

Hunger will fish them out

fergie001:
Mister P

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baby adults

Samuel Peters came to mind

Just a shot on the forehead

Say no nysc

Fake love

Goo0dHardDick:
Our today's story is about Esther.

A guy met Esther and after a little chit chat, she gave the guy her number willingly. As usual guys being guys opted for a meetup and she outrightly rejected him. The guy simply moved on without bothering her. Esther got furious and after some days decided to reach out to the guy on WhatsApp. The guy took about 4 days before responding to Esther's messages and when he responded, it was dried and nonchalant response.

Esther noticed it instantly and then ask the guy why he has been avoiding her. The young man simply responded and said "you said you weren't interested and so I respected your decision and moved on". Esther couldn't believe the response. She wanted him to chase her harder and harder, more like non stop so she could feel special like she was the prize!. Imagine chasing someone you're going to spend on and help her life? Weird right?

Dear women, kindly tell us why you still expect a guy to keep talking to you after you rejected him? How does that make sense to you?

They love to eat their cake and still have it

Dpsychologist:
Lately, I have found myself asking a question that would have sounded strange a generation ago: Have we lost the ability to feel ashamed when we do something wrong? I am not talking about making honest mistakes because every human being does that. I am talking about the growing tendency to defend, celebrate, or even monetize bad behavior instead of acknowledging it.

More and more, it seems that being caught in a lie, exposed for wrongdoing, or criticized for poor conduct no longer leads to reflection or accountability. Instead, the response is often to attack the person who spoke up, accuse them of being jealous or judgmental, or rally supporters to drown out the criticism. It is almost as if admitting fault has become more embarrassing than the wrongdoing itself.

To be fair, human beings have never been morally perfect. Every generation has had liars, fraudsters, corrupt leaders, and people who abused the trust of others. History is full of examples proving that bad behavior is not unique to our time. What has changed is the environment in which we live. Social media has created a world where attention is a valuable currency, and in many cases, controversy earns more attention than character.

A person who behaves outrageously can gain millions of views overnight, attract followers, secure endorsements, and even build a career from the very conduct that would once have damaged their reputation. When society begins rewarding attention more than integrity, it should not surprise us that some people deliberately choose notoriety over respectability.

One trend that worries me is how quickly correction is now interpreted as hatred. Point out that someone has spread false information and you are accused of being a hater. Challenge dishonest behavior and you are told to "mind your business." Raise concerns about declining standards and someone immediately says, "Stop judging people." Yet correction and condemnation are not the same thing.

Every healthy family, workplace, profession, and society depends on accountability. Doctors are corrected when they make clinical errors. Pilots are investigated after accidents. Judges have their decisions reviewed by higher courts. Scientists constantly challenge each other's findings because truth matters more than protecting egos. If professionals understand the importance of constructive criticism, why should ordinary life be any different?

Perhaps the greatest danger is not that people make mistakes. Mistakes are part of being human. The real danger begins when mistakes are rebranded as virtues, when dishonesty becomes cleverness, when selfishness becomes self expression, and when refusing accountability is celebrated as confidence.

A society slowly loses its moral compass not because wrongdoing suddenly appears, but because fewer people are willing to call wrongdoing by its proper name. Once every action becomes "my truth" or "my choice," we remove the very foundation that allows us to distinguish right from wrong.

Healthy shame has become an unpopular idea, yet it serves an important purpose. Shame, in its proper form, is not about humiliation or destroying someone's dignity. It is the internal signal that tells us we have violated our own values or harmed another person. It pushes us toward apology, growth, and restoration.

A person who feels no remorse after lying, cheating, exploiting others, or causing unnecessary harm is not demonstrating strength. They are revealing a dangerous absence of self reflection. Without the willingness to admit, "I was wrong," genuine personal growth becomes almost impossible.

Perhaps the problem is not that people today are worse than previous generations. Perhaps human nature has remained largely the same while technology has amplified both our virtues and our flaws.

Social media did not invent dishonesty, arrogance, or attention seeking. It simply gave them a global audience and, in some cases, a financial reward. The responsibility therefore falls on each of us to resist the temptation to value popularity above principle and validation above integrity.

A society cannot thrive if it becomes uncomfortable with accountability. Progress has never depended on pretending we are perfect. It has always depended on our willingness to recognize our shortcomings, accept correction, and become better than we were yesterday. If we lose that ability, we may gain more followers, more views, and more applause, but we will quietly lose something far more valuable: our character.

What do you think? Have we become less accountable as a society, or has social media simply exposed flaws that have always existed?

Not only that, they also have supporters defending the shameful act

Uni cert isnt enough

You are the price, stop chasing girls or trying to impress them with money

Kalatium:
One of the most confusing things about relationships is this:

Someone who barely made an effort while you were together suddenly becomes thoughtful after the relationship ends.They never remembered your birthday before, but now they are the first to wish you well. They rarely checked on you before, but now they want to know how you are doing.

Naturally, you begin to wonder:

"Why couldn't they be like this when we were together?"

The truth is, there isn't one answer.

Sometimes, losing a good partner forces people to confront their shortcomings. Regret can be a powerful teacher. They genuinely reflect, mature, and become more emotionally aware. People do change.

Other times, what looks like change is something else entirely.

It may be loneliness or it may be guilt. It may be curiosity about whether you've moved on. It may even be the realization that finding another partner with your qualities is harder than they expected.

A kind message or a birthday greeting, by itself, is not proof of personal growth.

Real change is not measured by one emotional moment. It is measured by consistent behavior over time.

This is why it is important not to confuse attention with transformation. If someone truly changed, you won't have to guess. Their actions will remain consistent long after the emotions settle.

At the same time, avoid assuming every ex who reaches out has bad intentions. Human emotions are complex. Some people genuinely regret their mistakes. Others simply miss the familiarity of the relationship.

The wiser approach is neither blind skepticism nor blind optimism.

Observe. Take your time. Let patterns speak louder than promises.

People can change, but genuine transformation is demonstrated through sustained actions, not occasional gestures.

What do you think? Have you ever seen someone become a better partner only after the relationship ended? Or do you believe most people simply reveal who they have always been?

Okafor's law is strong n powerful

ManirBK:
Let's see who the real mathematicians are on Nairaland. 👇

B
I dont even need to do any calculation

Elusive001:
Hello house,

Please, which of these two SUVs would you recommend for a large family?

First option
1) Honda Pilot 2019 or

2) Toyota highlander 2019
Which one of the two above would you recommend.


The second option is
1) Honda Pilot 2018 or

2) Toyota highlander 2018
Which one of the two above would you recommend.

Specs
Third row seat
V6 engine
Consider equivalent trim levels

Highlander for both. ...better stability

ebubeson:
Which of these swallows is your favourite?

(1) Akpu
(2) Eba (Garri)
(3) Semo
(4) Amala
(5) Wheat
(6) Starch
(7) Tuwo Masara

You may add yours.

Pounded yam n isapa soup

F122Y:
Lol. They're cheaper than you would think. I got mine for about 28m

That's the future in Nigeria. Petrol is becoming expensive everyday

See discrimination

Candidates with any of the following need not apply:

a. Impediment in speech (stammer/dumb)

b. Gross malformation of teeth

c. Knock knees

d. Bow legs

e. K legs

f. Flat foot

g. Limb legs

Mam know man tinz

Politics everywhere

Can they just do away with this old logo

Lets start from what TAC is

Irrelevant fight

QuinQQ:
POLL! POLL!! POLL!!!

Folks please don't be very angry, we just instituted a POLL!
PLEASE GO AND VOTE!
The Poll Question is:
If a man refuses DNA test because he loves the child too much does that make him a simp?

Also comment here on the thread if possible, as to your reasons why or why not!



Also please help me welcome our resident Louisiana Creole who has never been anywhere near Africa and therefore thought Africans lived on trees. He has now repented and has accepted he has African blood - after reading what I wrote him below:

He is not a simp. People go for adoption, uses sperm donor and nurture the kids to be a great personality

Joke Silva that we all celebrate today was adopted from a foster home

One of the reasons she kept the family name even after marriage to honor them in agreement with Olu jacobs

dominique:
They started poorly in last WAFCON and they picked form as the tournament commenced and went on to win it. Let's see how they'll do this time around

This is different

No best loser

WC is at stake

ufotunang:
..the goalkeeper is too fat.. should reduce her weight

That's what moving to Brighton has done to her. She wasnt this big last yr