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I believe only the violent take it by force in this ur present situation. Its obvious she using ur son as a bait to milk you off some money. Take ur child away you can take ur child and keep with your mother. dont let sentiments come in, the child's walfare is paramount

i believe wisdom is profitable to direct. you ve been told by men of god not to attend then dont attend. look for any excuse you can not to go. be careful not to listen to wrong advise. to obey is better than sacrifice

Dont lower your standard, Every lady out there is not a potential wife material. Dont worry am assuring you that there are still some decent girls out there seperated for good guys like you. Dont look focus, pray more to God,fast and also while praying, watch. pray with one eyes open so the good girls wont pass you by.

Beauty/Apperance can fade away. A bit of pressure and beauty is gone. In the same vein, money is there today and tomorrow no more because money has wings and can fly. but character, a man/woman without a good character is like adorning a pig, with time the real pig nature comes out.

YOu can live without beauty (beauty can be built and you as a person can bring out the beauty in your man or woman) and money but a bad character is a torn in the flesh of anyone

The concluding part.

http://feminineangle..com/2011/06/sexual-abuse-concluding-part.html



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Communication is the soul of any relationship. You need to ask him questions, ask him about the future of the relationship, let him tell you his plans for you so you dont have to waste your time in case he dont want you. Avoid nagging and pushy, ask him with seriousness of @ and lets see what happens

Yes you can trap a man with pregnancy but should anything go wrong with the man's life, career and all just get ready to be blamed for all his failures and also be blamed for forcing pregnancy on him

Yes it does. The only thing is you have to be careful. In normal male/female relationship there has to be boundaries. The fact that u are friends does not erase the fact that he is a guy. I have so many male friends and I enjoy their company.

I believe the woman in question should sacrifice her new job. The fact that the man is still struggling in his career today does not mean he will continue to struggle and marriage is all about compromise. If she goes then she is saying bye bye to her marriage. This is not about if he loves me he will allow me to go its about the effect of the job on the marriage itself And i dont think she's expecting her husband to follow her and in the process becomes unemployed or does she want to engage in long distance marriage for 5 yrs? Tell ur friend to be very careful. This is how women sell their birthright for a mossle of bread

You dont ve to go that far. You can stil get 3 bed 4 300k around ogba, ojodu,isheri magodo and olowora side. Stil spoke wit an agent last wk and if u re lucky d landlord can agree wit 1 yr payment.

I like the fact that you two want to keep yourself before marriage. Plz stick to it there is blessing in it. Now u are workn and she's about to graduate i gues her final yr. Pls wait for her to graduate then marry her. You dö'nt need to wait any longer so as not to giv the devil a chance. You could do a small wedn. Pay her bride price, get to the registry and u re married.

@ poster, am going to be very frank with you. The point yot missed it was when you lost intrest in ur husband. Truth b told he noticed it and he also startf losing intrest in you. Marriage is not a bed of roses it com with its thongs that we have to cope with. Since you want ur mariage back, u must be ready to fight 4 it and it starts with breakn away 4rm the guy u re sleeping with. dont let him use his fake emotions to ruin you. Break away totally from him then you 2 need to talk. I feel u you and ur husband started on the wrong note. Talk it out, everything become vulnerable with each other and confess bt let him know itz over. If u think itz beta to keep the affair secret you should know dat every hidden sin wil b out in the public and am sure you know there is a God up there watching you. You must b ready to make your mariage work. A woman has the ability to build and destroy her home. You must rebuild the trust btw u bt 1st confes. Your husband is ready, i want you to be ready too and do everything prayerfuly The Lord wil help you.

The major reason a lady cant stick with one man is because of the fear of the unknown, she's not sure her man loves her genuinely and does'nt want a situation where a man wil just break her heart. And you men are not helping matters. Also some ladies dont really know what they want. They just want to sample round and in doing this they miss the good guyz and marry d bad ones. Lastly some ladies are not content with what they have. They just want more of everything.

its obvious you equally like her and the best thing you can do since u dont want to be a substitute is to tell her off in a matured and polite manner. The lady in question looks like one that is looking for a prey so be careful

When a man realises dat something else is taken over the attention his wife gives him itz normal to b jelous and also normal to resist d cause of distraction. Women luv gist and gossip and datz what BB propagate. WHAT TO DO: Take advantage of d situation. Buy yourself a BB and starts sending luv im to her. Chat wit her on every and anything. However make her realise with wisdom that you stil luv to have her attention to yourself even if itz just few hours.

@ ekakids: Thanks,pleasd watch out for the concluding part of this topic @ Blazay: True,over 80% of sexual abuses are perpetrated by know people. Is that the reason why an innocent child shouldn't be protected from this wicked individuals? We ve a part to play. Please watch out for the concluding part of this topic

The rate of sexual abuse is alarming, Please read to save our children




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8 gud yrs! And ur friend is just realising she's got a bad attitude?coupled wit d fact dat she's pregnant 4 him. Y didn't ur friend break d relationship yrs ago? If he has been copin over d years while cant he cope when he marries her?has he sat down and tot abt it dat he has wasted 8yrs of a young woman's life who definitely had other suitors bt prefer 2 pitch her tent wit him?where wil she start from wit a baby in her tommy?re there no other waýz he can make her realise her flaws and change?is ur friend a perfect being? If ur friend waz d lady,ow wil he want 2 b treated?let ur friend answer this questions truthfully then make his decision

I really feel ur pains right now and i really understand wat u re goin thru. 11 yrs is a very long time u wastd on this unprofitable relatnship and feel u shld u shld ve seen this signalz b4 now. Mayb u ignored them. Wat has happend has happend. Move on, pray more,irrespective of ur age,if u package urself wel u wil meet d meet another man.let me know ow u re farin. It is wel

I feel this post is not xplicit enough, like wat waz re exuse on?re there genuine?are u d 1 dat doesn't want to c reasonz with her?or she just wants to unrealistic or unreasonable? I need to have a clearer picture of this situation so as to be sure of what to write.

True luv is not hard to find. Open up ur @ and b a true lover yourself coz it takes two to tangle

Abortion is a very sensitive issue that has become daily happeninz among.some by mercy has escaped d consequencies while other re stil facin d consequencies til now. Bt a questn every1 should ask is 'if as a foetus have been aborted wil i be who i am 2day? Irrespective of d circumstances surroundn d pregnancy keep d baby, that might b d only sucessful chid u might have. Plz b wise

The truth is you did the very right thing. In marriages when rules are made they must be followed
to the letter no matter who will be hurt at the end of the day. I know its not easy for your wife infact
i really understand her pain. She needs you more now. Ignore what your Aunt is saying up and down
thats her business none of yours.I wont be surprise if she is out of her husband's house. All you need to do is to get closer to you wife and give her all the assurance she needs
its sad she had a mis carriage pls make sure you help her get over it and move your marriage to the next level void of family
interference

Also, i recommend the trip to the states to stay with your parents for a while. she needs support of some members of the family especially your parents

well lily i really understand
its more irritating and disturbing when a man nags rather than the wife
but here is few tips hope it helps

- communicate with him. let him know he is hurting you.everyman has a soft spot makesure you know ur husbands'
- take classes or lessons on improving ur phonetics
- be more understanding: its not easy to live and work in the uk esp when only one party is the source of income
- pray more 4 him
-support him and always tell him words of encouragement


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yes she made enemies by staying in her marriage but who is laughing now? Of cause is she cause it paid off for her at the end. Divorce is not the way forward, forgiveness is a vital pillar of marriage. it will pay later for her and the kids

hmmm


I was really sad on hearing about this couple because this man practically tried to use his hands to destroy his home and marriage. But should the wife stay? i will say YES. marriage is a covenant and forgiveness is key. Its a very hard decision but just like hillary clinton did and is respected for, she needs to fight for her home.


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Here is the plain truth,

You have been a virgin this long why quit now? why should you sell your birthright for a mossell of bread. you have to been firm at this point. he must wait till after the wedding. please hold on. And if he disagree, then he is not worth it. your man will locate you. delay is'nt denial





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