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There's no need to be afraid iya baby. Your son. Is trying to be economical with your money so no big deal allow him. Most mum will do anything for their baby to stop feeding on all this processed food. The only thing which I see as a liTtle issue is to ensure he eats balanced meal.if its amala make ewedu add iru with little stew. He loves fish which is good stock your house with it and make sure he has enough.you can also introduce him to soft beans,yam, fried egg,ogi,akara, moi moi and the likes. I hope he likes fruits too even if its only oranges?

There is no big deal let bygone be bygone. Go with your new girlfriend and make sure she's well dress and looking gorgeous. Tell friends around. There is no need to be ashamed she is the loser. If they ask why you are going tell them to wish her the best no strings attached. Forgive her n move on. Make sure you don't transfer your pain on the previous relationship to the new one and for the gift you can buy a rice cooker or something not more then 10k wrap well, put your name and your girlfriends name. At least with all this you have fulfilled all righteousness

Why not sincerely ask your husband what went wrong?what you did that turn him off. From your post he wasn't like that when you guyz started out so it shouldn't be so now. Am saying this because I do it too as a form of silent/frustrating treatment to my offenders don't do it to my husband though and your marriage is barely 3yrs you shouldn't be having communication problems.so ask questions. Also you both got it wrong when you decided to be sleeping in separate rooms. If he likes airy room follow him there n always spray insecticide every night. All the silent touches,space fight and all bonds couples and I hope you pray together?lastly ask him to forgive all your excesses just for the sake of moving your marriage forward and you should check yourself if there is anything you do that turns him off, stop such

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When can be funny at times and believe the issue of respect should be held high. This is a very small issue that shouldn't cause any strain in your marriage. Even if u feel you re not wrong for peace sake apologise to him so that your relationship with him can move forward and hold any resentment against him.let it go

@ayodele 123, sorry to hear I know we women can be a very hard bone to crack please try to mend the walls btw you two. Has you are hurting she is hurting even more. You can talk about it reminding each other how it use to be.God will help ur home

My husband is my best best friend. I believe in quality not quantity of friends so I have few of them. When am with my friends we chat and discuss issues they re goin through and other gist immediately my husband gets back not that I want to tell him but there is this force that I just must tell him and vice versa. Things I sholdnt no he tells me and all. We are buddies. Not easy though we have our differences but compare to things that bind us together they are minute

From the little I can gather you are yet to marry but you are living together with a kid in between. So he is not ur husband. Move out of the house aNd start your life again. If he really loves you he will come and ask for your hand in marriage. But living with him and fulfilling all feminine role in his home on the pretext that he will marry you is a deceit. Brace up,take the next step which is move out so that you can have value in his sight and his family's. If he comes begging good if not move on.

Situations has shown that age isn't equal to maturity. @ 21 you are old enough to enter into a relationship however be sure and know what you want so you don't make too many mistake.when we talk about relationship the next thing is sex. What's your position on this 3 letter word?do you want to keep yourself till your wedding day or otherwise this are things you should put into consideration. On a general note don't date a guy that doesn't know where he is going,one that will derail you from your destiny, one that will affect you academically or spiritually, one that is too demanding for sex and one that has no regards for your person.

What I did b4 I got married was to put my future mother n sister in laws in prayers. Infact for a long time that was my prayer point and today I have a good relationship with them all infact her son is always jealous self. Another thing is to treat her the way you will treat your mom. Don't get irritated with everything she does and don't act as a barrier btw her and her son. Another thing is for the husband to stand his grounds in his home. So his mom can understand her position has mother and the wife as wife.

This is how mothers destroy their children's marriage through their selfish and insensitive behaviour. Been aggressive with her and her daughter might make things worse for you coz from all indication her daughter is till her puppet. If you get to see your wife alone and talk sense into her head without the involvement of the mother I think its better you do if not result to prayers. If you can ignore them for at least a month or two while you settle things in the place of prayer. its your wife that is at the losing end. But make sure you stand your grounds your inlaw shouldn't be given any chance to rule your home. Pray about it all and in all watch and see

Lol kids add a lot of alacrity to information and its usage. just explain the basic to him about germs and all. And he should put his mind to rest.

Do they do pregnancy test?can pregnancy lead to job loss though you are qualified technically. Especially in a multinational company

Left to me its better you leave the house 4 them. From all indication you are more than the house and the proceeds will be less than 30million since its in the village. Let go and let God,I want you to seperate yourself from them for a long time no calls no contact nothing just move on if u want to relocate the better for you.just. Start on a clean slate. You've made the mistake already its time to put things right and one of them is separate from them and lost all touch with them so if you want to reunite with them later you will put them @ arms length

Are u trying to be funny or this is real?? A man told you he has a lady he wants to marry and you are still asking what should do.isn't it glaring that you are not his @ choice rather you are a substitute. Drop the idiot and move on with your life or is there something else you are not telling us?

This is very serious and because you have a strong religious belief then I will advise from that angle. The bible says a wise woman builds her home. Your husband needs to grow up. Leaving Nigeria doesn't mean he will find solution to his problems.back to you. Have you prayed about your present situation?what's Jesus saying?were u convinced he is your husband b4 marriage?well few things;sit him down alone and talk sense to him.he is using his hands to destroy his home,ask him questions like what went wrong,where is d love that held you. Two together from the beginning and encourage him to come back home and work on your marriage.prayer is the key my sis. Divorce is not an option!

Thank God you are not owing him please start looking for another house to rent coz it means even your kids are not safe. Yes both you and your wife should confront him and threaten him. If he tries to prove stubborn call the police. Coz he didn't succeed today doesn't mean he won't succeed another time and if you keep quiet about it then you've even him the approval to continue. I feel you should even expose him so that every other tenant will be aware of the evil called landlord they have.pls take action very crucial.

I feel you should do a proper medical test and if its still positive then you should keep your baby irrespective of the pressure around you. I hope u have ur job as well as an apartment to yourself and you are not a young lady.you don't know the child that will be a star tommorow look at clarion chukwuka if they had told her when she was 17 and got pregnant that clarence will be a star am sure she won't believe with all the humilation she faced. So take things easy and adjust to this new life.

First thing first let's confirm u re pregnant then I will come back.

If u can get ur hubby to agree with u that after given birth to all your children then you will stop work coz the truth is there re so many full time housewives that have poor relationship with their kids while the working class ladies even perform better in times of spending quality time and having good relationship with their kids. If he doesn't allow then get busy @ least he can't say you shouldn't be your own boss and since the money is there look for a niche in the market to occupy. Then start a viable business. Its only God that helps with children training no matter how we try. Don't take it hard on your self, all will be well.

I hope this guy doesn't abuse your sister physically?if not then let her stay in the marriage with all the necessary regret she can absorb.I always say it marriage should not be rushed into irrespective of the reason. Now she's regretting but its a bit late. I agree with your dad concerning her staying so far he is not beating her. Concerning his bluff am sure you guyz are not taken him serious.please tell your sister to concentrate her attention to her daughter who is her joy and avoid getting pregnant again till she is sure she wants to live the rest of her life with the man.however as a xtain will advise you pray for her that the Lord will calm every storm.

Why not?if she doesn't join cash with her husband then she has chosen the easy way out which is been a loser. She should sit and discuss with her husband,all properties and investment should be secretly between them and a lawyer and the clause of the property should be in the event of the death of any of the the other takes over the property.this vital document and others should be deposited in the bank to safeguard the childrens future. Also the man should be open to his wife on his current financial strength.openness, trust and communication will do the magic

It happens o. Its better she rent off some of her apartment and sell the sellable ones then move to another environment and start her life afresh with her children. This so called families are just rip offs. They want to marry her so they can still have access to the properties she got since their initial plan failed.

Why will you waste 5 useful years of your life,time,energy and resources on a relationship heading no where?is the feeling mutual?I mean with the lady?if not save her the pain and agony now-stop the relationship

You need to calm down and change your orientation towards your wifes new spiritual status. It will reduce the tension u re feeling.then sit her down and have a word with her on ur feeling and all. Don't discourage her or grieve the holy spirit that's a sin that cannot be forgiven so be care ful.I feel you should be happy with the new spiritual sensitivity of your wife its signifies great covering for your home

I feel your pain,but the fact that some 1 has been a help to you in times past doesn't mean he should now be a burden to u. Not that u're been ungrateful. Since two mature minds are involved,talk to him like a brother let him know the dangers or all this women also the kind of example is laying down for people around sighting your brothers example and then crown it up with ur landlord issue.let the environment 4 d chat be conducive so he won't feel hurt.its a very delicate issue that requires wisdom really.God help you

I still feel u don't have a problem n you should do fine since there re no kids yet. However I agree wit d person dat says cook n store. I won't subscribe to househelp 4 u rather a cook dat comes to d house mayb just weekends that does all d cookin n cleanin for u. All u have to do is warm d stews,soup n vegetables while u prepare wat u want to use to eat them

Sorry about ur loss. Anytime am with my family friends mom in her car she always insist I drop my bag on d floor instead of my laps to prevent theft

@poster feel u ve made a good decision abt d boarding school 4 ur children however make sure u re regular face in d school.as 4 ur wife no comment.
All d best

I support ur decision. Some co tanant can just b very funny. Continue to mind ur family n b careful when they come back to their senses they will b d ones comin over. However what u all shouild do like wat I did to a similar cotenant was to always greet her even if she doesn't reply and dats d only thing u shld owe them.

The man is very immature and the woman very foolish. She is using her own hands to destroy her home n also encouragin xtramarital affair where does she think he will b eatn this past weeks? Until d man stops comin home b4 she realises its too late. Am sorry does not reduce who u re even when u re right.