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Your wife needs to be careful o. Haba! Babies develop rapidly and in a year or 2 from now the shoes become useless. Its normal to want to overspend on a new baby especially the first child but its your place as the man to curb her spending excesses.

Your wife needs to be careful o. Haba! Babies grow rapidly and in a year or 2 from now the shoes become useless. Its normal to want to overspend on a new baby especially the first child but its your place as the man to curb her spending excesses.

I don't borrow people money. No matter who you are, sounds harsh but this saves me from lots of headache. If you need to borrow 100k and I feel I can part away with 10k without feeling it, I give you the 10k without asking you for it. If you pay back fine if not that's left for u and your conscience. I just register the money as a seed or bad debt in my mind cause I dislike repeating myself over money

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Have never been a fan of loan coz I believe so much in living on ur income. And loans can be very frustrating when it comes to its repayment and servicing. Now is the time for you to be intrested in your husband business with the success of the business as a paramount reason for intrest.
Don't let him see you as choking him or interfering in business. Be wise about it.
You can still manage ur home with your little income and still be fulfilling your responsibility to your parent. Avoid too much loan. Encourage your hubby business can be funny within a year there can be turn around but he too needs to be prudent that's why you need to know what's going on in the business, sex sex sex. If you really want to enjoy sex with your hubby during this period then you need to let go of all your problems when having sex with him and your hubby to do likewise coz we get easily turn off when problems mounts pressure on us

I understand the side you are coming from and that's very considerate of u and ur sis to put your dad into consideration. No man wants his place to be taken by another especially when it comes to ceremony. Your brother should be able to compromise. He can have his registry and there after a small reception just to accomodate dad and later do his church wedding with a small reception. Extra cost but its worth it not for today but tomorrow.

We younger generations tends to take lightly things like this. He needs your fathers blessings whether ur dad is a pagan or not. Blessings and curses follow certain principles

hmm I want my husband for myself only o. None of the above.

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Who said women are extravagant in the acquisition of their asset? Men too can be very extravagant. Joint acc yes! Has a way of bonding you two but the issue is what's the purpose of the account?
Is it for capital expenditures and long term projects?then its a no go area for unnecessary spending.

Why not operate individual accounts as well as a joint acc which holds a particular percentage of each of you's salary so you can spend your individual money the way you like without any1 raising an eyebrow?

I feel you need to pause ur love for the guy a bit and ask him questions. left to me he's a no go area. 3 kids for different women or same woman?what's the position of this women now I mean his relationship with her or them? Can you get one of them and ask questions?does he want to make you another baby mama?
What exactly do you want for yourself?how do you see your marriage?is he ready to marry you?re u ready to be a step moTher?are you ready for the hardwork attached to 'step' issues?

1st sit yourself down ask yourself honest questions and provide honest answers then you can go ahead and ask him. Coz if you don't know what you want then u will settle for anything!

Hmmmm do u really love this family? Coz I really do o. NCCf was just wonderful! It was through NCCF I met a friend today, she's closer than a sister; infact we call each other 'my covenant friend'. Also it was while attending NCCF's programs that my now hubby noticed and started showing intrest. Its been wonderful since then.
My kids MUST be a part of NCCF! The experience is something else.

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Your husband's car is his second wife but not enough reason not to allow you touch it. Guess he is scared of you scratching the car. But he suggested a cab, will he be the one to pay? If yes why not use that if not discuss it with him not quarrel with him o and you could stylishly ask him to get you a small car

Marriage is about compromise. You must be able to give up the 'I' for the 'us'. So you want to cancel your marriage because of a job? Do you really love the man you want to get married to?
What are his plans for you? I mean if he is willing for you to sacrifice your job to relocate down to abj he must have made provisions for your well being pending the time you get a job.
What's your definition of a job? So many single ladies at the peak of their careers will give up their career for a man to ask for their hand in marriage. Yet you are throwing urs away because of a job. Let me ask is the salary that huge?
I feel you really need to sit and ask yourself deep questions and equally know what you want for yourself and don't expect the man to wait for you coz am sure he won't.

Hmmm. Its easier said! Ask the woman in an abusive marriage and she will give you reasons why she can't leave the wicked man. When you talk about abuse which one?it is emotional, physical or sexual?

Before a woman delve into marriage with a divorcee especially one that has never been married, she needs to do her research properly. What caused her man's divorce? What re the 'irreconcillable differences'(that's the grammar they use this days) between the man and his formal wife.
The truth is like the yourbas will say its the same rod that was used to beat the 1st wife is the same rod that will be used on the second wife. This research is very important.
Ask outsiders too to be able to come to a firm conclusion.
Then is the woman ready for rejection from the mans kids?
Initially, she will be rejected and also there will be rift between her and the kids especially the mature ones how is she planning to handle it and show the kids she's not a rival?is she ready to share the love of the man with his kids?many at times women marrying divorcees ignore this but it is one of the majoor causes of rift in the home. Your place as a wife is different from their place as his kids never get jealous.

Finally is she ready to take this kids as her own?
Marriage to a divorcee must be handled with a lot of research and preparation and not allow ones emotions be cloud one's sense of judgement.

On point taryour!
By now you should have fewer single friends. The married ones you pick the right ones that are intrested in the success of your marriage and not it downfall. Friends can make or mar your marriage be careful.

@poster: yes am married. Don't nurse any fear about marriage just make sure you do your homework and your determination will help the marriage to an extent pull through.

@poster;sorry about what you went through what couples don't realise is that in the event of divorce the kids are worst hit no matter how they try. So many women and men alike enter into this institution without really understanding what they want all blinded by love.some are so immature that you wonder how they could be a father or mother, extended family issues, infidelity,lack of trust. Lost love and the likes. Once beaten twice shy you can make ur marriage work. Take your time and be prayerful, investigate his or her background before saying I do etc
Marriage is sweet but its hard work.

Yes and yes. There are times in our lives that everything seems to be crashing down and going haywire. And its true to feel more secure outside the confines of families and friend. But one thing is certain you need to be encouraged. Do you have any one outside family members you see as big brother?or a mentor?someone you respect and his God fearing? He or she can encourage you. Concerning your issue with your gf,I don't want to jump into any conclusion about it, if it can be handled medically then don't hesitate to seek medical attention. But in all, encourage yourself in the lord

The closer the better. The pay isn't about it all the time.been there for your kids is also crucial

@ogunmosu: big scam better run 4 ur money. Why will a company in malaysia not have a domain name but be using live.com. Am surprise you are not smart enough to discover loopholes in this job advert. You need a job but don't get desperate. Have you ask people about this so called company? Have you googled the company to find out if its in existence? Hmmmmm ok o

Ballotelli can't u see that its d same guy changing names and number anyhow?b smart

@ sophie
Ow much is d dress and do you have the ones that re longer?

Its obvious your mum is trying to save money at the detriment of your marriage. But nevertheless you need your man with you as much as possible. Ignore all her advances. If you are in doubt discuss the situation with your husband so you can understand his feelings and all. But immediately you put to bed to ur tent o! Don't stay an extra day in that house. Go back to your home and try to make up for the lost times with your hubby.

Every marriage has its storm only the strong and dogged sail through. Medically you are both allright and you are both xtains why not continue to look up unto God he doesn't fail. You can adopt if you wish to. What makes you think divorcing and marrying another woman is the way out. As a born again, what is jesus saying?there is a word that apply to your situation that you two should hold on to. Don't give in to pressure at the appointed time He will come through. Infact you should be supporting your woman coz she is going thru a lot at this point in time

That's because you are still dwelling on the book. Get busy, occupy your mind with better things. Counter the bad book with a good one probably a good author you love or like T suggested the bible. Next time be careful the kind of books you read since its like you easily get captivated by them

Yes yes yes. Is he a perfect person?of course not. Am I perfect?nope. But our little little imperfection has made us vulnerable to ourselves. Can't trade him o he's just RIGHT for me.

Probe further. It seems wifey isn't coming out straight.just make sure you ask probe in a very mature manner. Its better to clear your mind of doubts than sweep the issue under the carpet only for it to raise its ugly head later in the future