She was getting ready 2 kick him out cos of advice from NL.now the suprise.should she stay n see what happens or should she still go?
@mamagee,if i remember correctly you were among those that said kick him out.now it's let's move on.are u really this unfeeling?

I posted a thread before val about my friend's bf always asking 4 money n saying he wont get her val gift cos he was broke.almost every1 concured he was chopping and should be kicked out . Well we got the shock of our lives when he surprised her to a nice dinner and an outrageously expensive gift.we started wondering if he read the post and suddenly had a change of heart.he's not a NLander but one of his friends is.do you guys think his act was genuine?because knowing him his not that generous.my bf thinks he was warned.me too

I can't believe I just read that post.You are so not serious.
@190,are u the grammar moderator here?

Maybe she feels now you've slept with her,you'll see her differently.tell her nothing has changed between you two and you'll stop sleeping with her if she doesn't like it.but i think you'll find this part hard.girls are complicated and don't expect things to be as they were cos u guys have crossed a boundary.maybe she wasn't ready to cross it yet.just be patient with her.

I think it's the rebound.you are using him to forget the other guy.be careful,it's not usually fun at the end of the day.

A friend of mine has been bugging the life out of me with this complaint.after telling me the val gist,i told her that was it.no self respecting guy would do that.she said she just doesn't think it's enough reason to kick him out.i told her ok,let's ask NL people n see what they think.i think she's pretty convinced now the guy's a loser.i exceptionally like that 14 feb move.he will definitely get that special surprise.thanks people.

Why are the guys not saying anything?maybe you guys will help me understand.

I've been dating my bf 4 a year now.there are certain things i'm not comfortable with.he's always complaining he's broke and expects me to give him money.i won't have minded but what baffles me is that he has money to buy designers wristwatches and perfume 4 himself.he has already told me he wont be able to get me anything 4 val because he's suppose to be broke but asks what i'll get him. I'm not really the type that asks 4 things but i'm wondering if he's taking advantage of my generous nature.i know sometimes he's broke but is he not over capitalizing on it.sometimes he even lends out the money i give him.he's not a cheat.i've told him about it,he just told he wont have asked if he doesn't need it.should i not be complaining?how do i in about it?

Please how do i post a topic.i've gone 2 New topics but there's no provision 4 typing anything.

No letter to my ex.please how do i post a topic.i'm kinda new.

The story's not too far fetched.i had a similar experience last year.but i didn't invite d wahala,i only answered the door at my friend's room n dis guy happened 2 have the wrong room no.after telling him the person he was looking 4 didn't stay in the room,he started asking 4 my name,department,level,phone no.i thought what a freak show and gave him a wrong profile.only 4 my friend to complain some days later the guy has been coming around to look for me cos he thought that was my room.and i started noticing him outside my lecture halls.I made sure i was never alone from that day and stopped going to my friend's room.he even went to the extent of threatening my friend and her room mate to give him my addy.they had to lie that i wasn't really their friend but only come around sometimes and didnt know where i stay.after so much avoiding,i ran into him in school once and pretended i've never seen him in my life.i just disappeared from the place.anyway he stopped after sometime.though a friend told me he was a cultist.
I feel ur pain shaa.those times were not really funny.good thing u ve changed ur no.he might get tired soon since ur no's longer reachable.but be carefulooh,he might still be out there waiting.at least i thought the same after i stopped seeing the guy around.best of luck.

5 months's not that long.you may have fallen 4 her @ first sight,that doesn't mean she should fall 4 u too.she tells u she loves u-she is either gaining something from u n wants u around or she feels u are being too hasty.i think u should ease up on her.since u said she's beautiful,other guys should be into her too-na only u sabi good thing?u either stay n fight knowing it can go both ways or u forget ur feelings n move on.it's ur call

Just make sure your girl's being honest about the whole issue.wont be surprised if ur girl was giving him the green light and is now scared ur guy's going to rat on her.it has happened before.if it's true,kick him outta ur life after giving him the scare of his life.

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I love a guy who knows the drill.

You should ask yourself not us 'what you really want' because we don't know it.

Why do u think it's called 'make up'?To make up for the short coming in perfection.you should at least know that.
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