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Fenrir:
40 have just vanished and because of mine did because of Tello619 and Tello916 making a new account for every 1 of mine that vanished 49 of yours will

Blame your own people not me

Ive just checked and everything ive posted today has vanished that means for the rest of today

Yours topics randomly vanish from now on

Thats 30 more gone at random now and as long as your people are corrupt and he deletes mine ill make it impossible for anyone to start new topics

Fenrir:
I have made another account, Fenrirwolf and I will not using it to post anything, just to do what that Tello619 and Tello916 is doing to my topics

Please Fenrirwolf account and read what it is so you understand why your topics are going to start vanishing until he stops and grows up

40 have just vanished and because of mine did because of Tello619 and Tello916 making a new account for every 1 of mine that vanished 49 of yours will

Blame your own people not me

Ive just checked and everything ive posted today has vanished that means for the rest of today

Yours topics randomly vanish from now on

I have made another account, Fenrirwolf and I will not using it to post anything, just to do what that Tello619 and Tello916 is doing to my topics

Please Fenrirwolf account and read what it is so you understand why your topics are going to start vanishing until he stops and grows up

Fenrir:
I have made another account, Fenrirwolf and I will not using it to post anything, just to do what that Tello619 and Tello916 is doing to my topics

Please Fenrirwolf account and read what it is so you understand why your topics are going to start vanishing until he stops and grows up

40 have just vanished and because of mine did because of Tello619 and Tello916 making a new account for every 1 of mine that vanished 49 of yours will

Blame your own people not me

I have made another account, Fenrirwolf and I will not using it to post anything, just to do what that Tello619 and Tello916 is doing to my topics

Please Fenrirwolf account and read what it is so you understand why your topics are going to start vanishing until he stops and grows up

realsportclub7:
Really?

Because words are taken back does not wipe them from your memory

The pain caused might remain for life.

Do you know the pain of a terrible slap would be forgotten latest within a year, but a bad word spoken to you might remain for life?

I’m just saying we shouldn’t dare to think that physical abuse is more damning than verbal abuse

Did I say it is? Im not justifying either of the 2
But men are bigger and stronger than women and 1 wrong hit in wrong place and thats easy deletion of a woman

The question is what is the lesser evil and male to female shouting is the lesser evil to hitting simply because of strength differences involved

A life ending hit in the wrong place at the wrong time is more damaging than words, its as simple as that, you shouldn't be doing either

But hitting can cause deletion

Emary:
Neither is acceptable. Don't do to your spouse what you don't want done to you. Some people are susceptible to verbal abuse, as it can cause depression and lead to suicide. Physical abuse is intolerable. Simple!

He said which is lesser evil, not which is acceptable

But in a hypocritical situation, say a husband and wife are having an argument and the husband pleads for his to just be quiet and let him have peace to claim down and then come back an hour later to talk it peacefully but the wife just will not stop, would you rather that husband.......

A) shout to get peace and quiet for an hour?

Or

B) start hitting?

I agree neither is acceptable at all, but some women do above and beyond to just antagonise and wont stop and the question was which is the lesser evil not what is acceptable

Its not acceptable to do anything like this in a relationship or marriage from the male or female side

Brendaniel:
But sorry, is a leader not supposed to teach the followers and not the followers teaching the leader?

So what is leadership all about if the followers are to be showing the leader how to obey the constitution?

Someone didn't like the truth last night fella
This country will never change simply because you attempt to erase anyone willing to stand up against it and actually fight

I spent 12 years in multiple conflicts, mainly Afghanistan fighting men like the ones you are complaining about

Your government are not leaders
My country and all western countries have sent Africa trillions, where did it all go?

Do you see it invested in schools?
Do you see it invested in health care?
Do you see it invested in infrastructure?
Do you see it invested into the economy?
Do you see it invested in security?

There is a difference between being a leader and being in charge, hes just in charge not a leader

Words said in the heat of the moment can be taken back and apologised for

No man in his right mind should ever hit a woman we are bigger, stronger, faster, tougher and more physically resistant.

I understand why some men hit women, you can be having an argument and ask a woman to be quiet and let you calm down and a lot will just keep the argument going for the sake of it instead of taking an hour apart for you both to calm down then talk it out but it is still not a valid excuse to ever hit a woman, as soon as you cross that line and actually hit your woman its unforgivable the only defence you should be using are words

Words can always be taken back but brushes take days to weeks to heal

Ndubuisipaul1:
What is that lie you were told before you got married only to discover after marriage ?

For me I thought that married people enjoy regular sex . Your partner give it to you anytime you desire it . Few months of of getting married. My wife can just tell me she is not in the mood . And she doesn't care how I feel about it. I don't believe in having affair outside my marriage. But this sex denying can make someone go crazy.

On the other side this put woman on a higher advantage. Men need sex more often than them . If she is not in the mood, you will need to beg for it. If any party in marriage is begged for anything regularly. The individual begin to feel he/she has a higher authority in the marriage. That is why men cheat. Because if you expect me to beg for what I should get normally. Then I can get it elsewhere in other to make you feel less important.

The man of the house begging for sex . Makes the woman feel she is too important.

She is a good woman. But I just wish she will be in the mood whenever I need her.

Seriously, in your heads why are cheating, beating and the use of force the only options in your head? From the sound of it this marriage is 1 sided and you only married her for sex

If you are the man of the house then whats stopping getting home from work one day and saying something like "babe, no cooking tonight, get dressed up, were going out" just because you marry a woman that doesn't mean you stop dating her

Why are you begging? Sex is much better when she actually wants it, the tiniest bit of effort just randomly taking out on the town once or twice a month, a few drinks, a nice meal that she didn't have to cook and just talking to her like a human and not an object that opens her legs on your terms will fix all of your problems or once or twice a month, whats stopping you from laying the table getting some candles out, putting on some decent much, get a bottle of wine or two and you cooking something for her

Seriously the tiniest bit of effort once or twice a month will remove this problem from your marriage 2 days out a month where do just randomly do something genuine for her thats all it takes

Marriage is not the end of dating, the most successful marriages on the planet are the marriages where the couple are still dating while getting on with married life, you need to make the effort to keep the spark alive just as much as she does and its not that hard

naijapikin2:
Does reading the holy book make you a. Better person? Going by the dictates of the holy books is what makes one a better person not just reading them.

What makes books holy? Men cut down the trees to make the paper
Men made the ink
Men made the leather to bind it
Man's hands wrote them all
Men's twisted minds thought it all up control people in the dark ages

In4matic:
In one breath, you are Norwegian.
Swedish and Danish living in Nigeria.

Who speaks flawless Nigerian English despite the confusion of his origins (Norwegian Swedish or Danish).

Who happens to have a thing for Nigerian women.

Then in another breath, you live abroad and happened to have met both Nigerian women abroad.

Yet you are fully aware of the CAP number and provisions of the matrimonial act in the LAWS OF THE FEDERATION OF NIGERIA LFN.

Next you had married an Imo lady without performing any rites of paying bride price, you just "sent her aunt some money". Then you recant that you took her to registry with 7 persons!!!. Hmm

Only a kid will not know that as far as Nigeria is concerned, a registry marriage without the consent of parents is mere cohabitation. And there's only one way to obtain consent from Nigerian parents. That's by completing the traditional rites of bride price payment
But you and your alternate moniker are too ignorant to knows these things.

You think by using Google translate to Piece together a few Scandinavian words will help sell your misdirections?

Do a video call fella or be quiet

I was born in Norway
Dad = Swedish/Norwegian
Mum = Norwegian/Danish

Go through my other topics and you will clearly see i deleted own parents and was sent to the uk EMANCIPATED and a legal man at 13

And your traditions and bride price only need to be paid IF a couple choose a traditional wedding, its all a lie you tell yourselves none of it matters and none of it is a legal requirement

Not one aspect is legally required under human rights laws

And as long as something is paid a member of family than they can be quiet too, how does it impact your petty life? I did the same thing when I married my 1st wife except I sent her father to prison over it, all I had to do was record his lies and take it straight to a solicitor

None of you are traditional anyway or your fathers and uncles would make sure all women were virgins until marriage

But the nigerian man loves to beg fathers for pre efed woman that claim to be from traditional families to the point fathers of runs girls demand it as well, you are ridiculous and the joke of Africa

And FYI, I didn't take her to a registry
We left Nigeria for hawaii and took 7 people each for her dream wedding because she never wanted that traditional nonsense

She already had duel citizenship between here and Norway anyway
You men truly strange, you know that, right?

Do a video call like ive said to lots of you, let me press the screen record and post the call on here to clear it for everyone so 7 other people like you finish this and close your mouths on this issue

Brendaniel:
But sorry, is a leader not supposed to teach the followers and not the followers teaching the leader?

So what is leadership all about if the followers are to be showing the leader how to obey the constitution?

You hes a leader? Caught selling drugs in America, clearly mentally and physically sick and a lot older than he said and had already bought the title of president months before an election? He doesn't care about his country or his people

Brendaniel:
how does this relate with what I said?

The law is the law
The constitution is the constitution

If the average citizen wont uphold it and live by it, then why would the leader of your country?

And you are missing 1 huge thing, what particular religion are these bandits? And what particular religion is the leader of your country? And 52% of your country?

Now what religion are the people being robbed and deleted by those bandits?

I fought this exact same thing during the war in Afghanistan, peace talks will never work and you cannot pay them to stop what you are doing is only encouraging them and nothing more

They just see you as weak waving an olive branch at them and saying peace

Seriously, why wont you actually fight for your country? Its my country too now im a citizen and some parts of it are truly beautiful im willing to fight for it, so why wont you?

Brendaniel:
Happy that Tinubu is failing ?

Because last time I checked it is his constitutional duty to protect Nigerians...

Its in your constitution to be quiet when 2 people want to get married and let them do it how they want regardless how the parents and extended family feel about their choices but you dont uphold that so hes just being the average Nigerian by breaking it from my perspective, none of you actually care about the constitution most of the time anyway

Why are you making deals with criminals in your country anyway?

You have a police force
You have an airforce
You have an army
You have a navy
Your population out numbers them with able bodied fighting age men

Does this nonsense happen in my country or would we do something about it in Norway
Or why doesn't your government hire ex military Europeans like me to sort it? Two or three units?

I could use the exercise and a little fun, I really dont understand you men here all you do is complain but I never see you do anything about it at all ever, at some point you are going to have to actually start fighting it

naijapikin2:
Whoever told you that religion makes you perfect

Religion makes you a better person not a perfect person. The world would have been o e helluva criss ridden hell home had it not been for religion. I personally don't give a rats a.ss if you believe in God or not. I also don't give two pins what diety you offer obeisance to. God does not need your minute validation to remain the intimate being.

It's your choice how long you choose to live on this earth and through what means you decide to evaporate. The choice is yours. Know that in the end you will answer to the supreme being now or in the after life. So you and your very meagre number of ineffectives cannot sway us from what we believe in. 🙋🙋🙋

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttJ24ADsPOE?si=AHwsEwZ9QJvabOZT

Seriously?

Religion makes people better?

Have you ever read the quran or the bible cover to cover yourself?

naijapikin2:
Whoever told you that religion makes you perfect

Religion makes you a better person not a perfect person. The world would have been o e helluva criss ridden hell home had it not been for religion. I personally don't give a rats a.ss if you believe in God or not. I also don't give two pins what diety you offer obeisance to. God does not need your minute validation to remain the intimate being.

It's your choice how long you choose to live on this earth and through what means you decide to evaporate. The choice is yours. Know that in the end you will answer to the supreme being now or in the after life. So you and your very meagre number of ineffectives cannot sway us from what we believe in. 🙋🙋🙋

Yeah fella, religion makes people better.

Like seriously? Religion has deleted more people throughout history and modern times than anything else in history, wars are fought in the name of one God or another everyday even your Christian god

When have you ever heard an atheist causing it in the name of nothing


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Tamara69:
Im his wife and I told him I didn't want the bride price paid I find it insulting that our families use marriage to profit from us. Gotta go, putting our child to bed.

Jeg elsker deg dronning

In4matic:
So you didn't meet Anyone to pay her bride price, so you paid via western union money transfer right?
Or no, you must have credited her Dads Bitcoin wallet.
As I said before, this is an adult discussion.

And if you check my very first topic A hole, I didn't even marry her in Nigeria
We took 7 people each to hawaii and had a destination wedding, her dream destination wedding

In4matic:
So you didn't meet Anyone to pay her bride price, so you paid via western union money transfer right?
Or no, you must have credited her Dads Bitcoin wallet.
As I said before, this is an adult discussion.

And why are these the only options in your petty head? All a person needs is the bank account sort code and account number for direct bank transfer? That way you have evidence and not western union or money gram or any of that nonsense any scammers can use, a bank account you actually 100% know who its going to and you can check a bank to verify its legitimacy

In4matic:
So you didn't meet Anyone to pay her bride price, so you paid via western union money transfer right?
Or no, you must have credited her Dads Bitcoin wallet.
As I said before, this is an adult discussion.

Her parents are gone, brown bread, 6 foot under, pushing up daisy's

All I did was send her aunt some money
I will never listen to a Nigerian father or uncle, I wont ever do anything they say

I dont need to, as long as woman consents under the law cap M6 lfn you can just take a woman and marry her

Stop spreading the dark age nonsense, none of you are traditional anyway

In4matic:
You're either delusional, or a very bad liar.

Which Igbo girl did you marry without paying her bride price? Where is she from?
Does she have kids for you?

This is an adult discussion, not a story for kids.

Fella shes from imo and I met her in Norway when I was 35 and still grieving my previous wifes death from cancer she was 22 and her Nigerian partner was beating the crap out of her so beat the crap out of him

Im 40 now and shes 27
And I have a child from my previous marriage

And what does it matter? That crap your families say about kids and bride price not being paid is nonsense

If a womans family try to take the kids without a court order that's kidnapping, and no grandparents in this country or extended family have any legal rights to a child unless a court grants it

No family
No traditions
No culture
Nothing is above the laws of the country

In4matic:
You're either delusional, or a very bad liar.

Which Igbo girl did you marry without paying her bride price? Where is she from?
Does she have kids for you?

This is an adult discussion, not a story for kids.

When will you understand that when i talk about traditions, I dont mean the bride price

I mean all the crap, its irrelevant unless 2 people want to do it

No consent needed
No permission needed
No introduction or knocking needed
No extended family or kinsmen needed
No Nigerian outfit or kneeling for a blessing or prostration needed

None of it is needed no matter what your families say unless 2 freely say they want to do it without coercion

In4matic:
You're either delusional, or a very bad liar.

Which Igbo girl did you marry without paying her bride price? Where is she from?
Does she have kids for you?

This is an adult discussion, not a story for kids.

Go read my other my topics and you will understand

And FYI, I did pay a bride price, I just didn't meet anyone to do it and I didn't do any traditions at all

She didn't want me paying it and I had to go behind her back to do it

There are 230 million of you, do you really think everyone here thinks the same way as you? Especially if that woman lived outside Nigeria for half a decade?

In4matic:
Please spare is the male bravado BS, so what should be do? Beat her into submission, or have an extra marital affair?
With the hookup menace in Naija, do you know the dangers of STIs? Or the overhead cost of side chic's that sees dating married men as a full time job, draining the man's resources like a leaking tyre?
Isn't it best to report her to the persons the wife listens to? If that person happens to her mother, what's the crime there?

Im Norwegian
A different nationality
A different ethnicity
Different colour

You dont beg and you dont beat and you don't use force

You just treat her right, even if you are married whats stopping you from still dating your wife?
Get off your backside and take her out to dinner occasionally, make her feel like you still value her

Taking your wife out once or twice a month for dinner and drinks isnt that much effort and it doesn't cost much, what is wrong with you men?

Its not that difficult to understand once you men actually marry a woman thats it in your heads.

Why are the options in your heads cheating and beating?

Why you cant just be men? The women here cheat because you do, whats good for the goose is good for the gander

You are hypocrites
You want to be in relationships and in marriages but single at the same time and you wonder why your whole society is messed up? Loyalty is not a concept to you?

naijapikin2:
Whoever told you that religion makes you perfect

Religion makes you a better person not a perfect person. The world would have been o e helluva criss ridden hell home had it not been for religion. I personally don't give a rats a.ss if you believe in God or not. I also don't give two pins what diety you offer obeisance to. God does not need your minute validation to remain the intimate being.

It's your choice how long you choose to live on this earth and through what means you decide to evaporate. The choice is yours. Know that in the end you will answer to the supreme being now or in the after life. So you and your very meagre number of ineffectives cannot sway us from what we believe in. 🙋🙋🙋

Stephen fry any better?

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