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Advancedman:
Rubbish.
Face the fact pls.

Ok..

samuelson06:
Just imagine. And then you ask, what exactly is he doing that for? One word, pride!

This is why the Bible says by their fruits, you shall know them.

Thanks for agreeing with me..

RealistRedpiler:
Hook up wannabe

No point as usual huh?
You went straight to name calling..

ShyBabe:
This one is everywhere, you sha want to be popular on Nairaland by all means.
Doubt if you have anything doing for yourself, aside from commenting on every posts on Nairaland.
Slawormirr wannabe

Keep crying..

sorority11:
He didn't make a mistake.

To continue or not to continue is the man's choice. Though he chose the safer option



Sometimes to let go is the best option.

He did exactly what you adviced dear

He talked about it, and they both communicated and he understood her and he chose to withdraw. And for him to put on 70% of the effort for long he is a patient person.

He doesn't want to force himself on her. Damn I no like guys wey dey force themselves on people. He wants her to heal and gave her time.

He is a reasonable person. He knows what he wants.

I don't think you would love to date someone who is still fixated on his last break up. No one wants that.

Guys are wise now. No one wants to be held down and kept in a bench. If you as a lady, you are not ready for a relationship, leave the guy and let him go.

No need fighting for a relationship that will give you headache.

You made a very great point..but don't you think he should have understood her and not mis interpret her when she said
"She's still recovering from the last breakup"

It's just like a doctor refusing to inject their patient cos of patient's fear...you have to take it slow on them.. emotional trauma is not something one easily get over....that's just the point I was trying to make..

Hang them all na.. stop wasting unnecessary time .. hang them and dump their body In a sewage pls..

MaxInDHouse:
ATHEISTS!
I know you guys are saying all these in order for someone to take you to where you can get the confirm one but nobody will show you where original money ritual could be found so doubt it from today till you die money ritual is real but those giving out the riches (Satan, demons and their human agents) deal with people on various levels.
For example all what Jesus need to do before Satan will give him all the riches in the world and their glory is just to bow down and worship Satan! Luke 4:5-7
But to humans who don't know how much that could mean Satan will demand something else, all he wanted is to make his costumer admit that you must turn your back on God.

So it's not the human body parts that's of any value in the spirit realms but your integrity as human to be destroyed as in kill your conscience so that you feel like doing anything even if it will make God annoyed after all He (God) hasn't given you what you want. That's the secret!
No atheist can get such opportunity from Satan because you're worthless already before God unlike a faithful believer whose existence meant so much to the true God! Job 1:8

Haha prove and stop bleating around..

Qatar2022:
Stop calling me boy before thunder go fire you, why do you fill all the thread here with bitter/ pained comments

You are still a baby boy if you can't respect your little self..

sorority11:
Help her out?

Is he a trained therapist? You overestimate the power of men.

He stopped calling because he felt she is not ready and was moving on, only for her to be angry and stuff he isn't caring.

He doesn't want her back, he is only curious about her endgame. It's a simple thing, are you in or out.

Oh and yes relationship is about both partners doing the work.
If it is left to only one person that is no longer a relationship.

One can't be doing everything building and the other one folds their hands, if it is so then what they are building is castle in the air.

Look at what you wrote in the bolded..
He stopped calling cos he felt..that was my point exactly and that was where he made a mistake..

In order for a relationship to work you gotta be understanding and patient except you don't love your partner...
Misunderstandings occur many times because of different situations and perspectives you gotta realize that..

There is what we call proper communication and understanding when it comes to a relationship..They are very important because without them you cannot truely know your partner...If you do not share their thoughts.. feelings..desires.. anger..
sadness.. fears and joy then your partner will never know you...And acceptance...Both people must be open but not judged..

As slawormiir said this story is fake and you Op is very notorious for posting fake stories saying someone sent this and that..

This is a framed up story to gather audience and random talks..

NoHopeForMe:
I have and it’s not working.

Problem is I masturbated throughout last week and now my babe is coming around 3oclock. But my deek has not been erect the whole day

When she comes over before you guys get intimate try to go into some minutes of touching and caressing that's a good way to go..

I feel her tho.. effect of drugs probably meth..that shits gets you on another level..
I hope you get a grip of yourself and take good care of your health..

Prettygirl200:
y would I They are confused people behaving like gods on a faceless forum while offline they would be worshipping women. Cowards everywhere

You used to have an account here ?

Execute this kids and stop handling them like mere persons..
Let them face the firing squad ASAP and stop recycling terrorist..
This Nigeria is a very Moronic country tho..

Hope they won't be released in the long run tho..why not execute them by hanging and dump their body in a sewage..

Alamkir:
So u see Alfa and church and made ur conclusion. May God help did country, We are the cause of our own woes

I repeat what does it mean and who were they going to beat?

knowyaself2:
Exactly, shishi you won't get.

Southernigbo:
do you know how it feels to go to work at night and be back at home and can't sleep for 3 straight hrs without unnecessary interruption ? it has psychological and physical effects

I don't get this your talk oo..are you in the same room with them or what?
That you can't sleep due to their noise..

sorority11:
He has nothing to prove here.

It is the lady that have something to prove.

He was the one doing most of the work in the relationship, that proves everything.

The said lady, is showing cold feet and still hasn't recovered from a break up or still hasn't gotten over her ex and she refused showing commitment to the new relationship.

She is the one that have something to prove to the man that she cares for him.

It is the one who is slacking that have something to proof.

This relationship thing is easy, if you are not blinded by gender.

Not until he decided to stop calling and asked her to leave the house..
You asked her out why not try to help her through her mental breakdown..you think relationship is all about i do most of the work and other petty things?

Alamkir:
But the issue is not about religion, the fight just happens to be in church premises

What does Alfa mean?

sorepco:
Never marry some1 ur family do not approve of. I know of a 1st born who wanted to marry a girl from same state but different town. But his family was against the marriage. In order not to disappoint his parents he said he will never get married to any other woman!
This git the mum scared and she relented. Now the guy is married to same lady with kids

Then that's his issue..

Unclesmart12:
I just want to yarn

Can you people see what I've been saying?
So you just created this post to soothe your weird attitude..pls stop disturbing people with stories and problems that you already have the solution..

Skyflygang3:
Stupid boy

You mean the man who... You?
Keep insulting me while I am piling them up..very soon you are out of the game..

Baby boy I am piling them up oo..once I am ready I will deliver to who's in charge..

Unclesmart12:
I'm not the only guy asking her out, one of them even bought her an expensive phone worth almost 100k as a birthday gift. I have better things to do with my time instead of competing to win a ladies heart reason why I just withdrew.

Then what's the post and complaint about tho?
What kinda weirdo are you?
You asked her out now you talking nonsense..
You sef ain't ready for a relationship are you?

Qatar2022:
You don't have respect woman

Respect is reciprocal baby boy..

She needs your care..win her heart and be a man..
Not all this I call you don't call you call I call..it's childish..
Prove to her that you are unique and different..

tiswell:
yea,help him facilitate his relocation if you so care or don't stress his life with questions

Ok..

Qatar2022:
Dont listen to this idiot to avoid war that will last forever , that war will be between you and your family and you will live to regret it

Baby boy what's your issue..

Sexual noise disturbing you?
Really?
Allow them enjoy themself pls..