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I know so many of us don't need a partner but if by chance we finally wanted one what are the 5 most criteria. also we all know that no one is perfect and we can over look other aspects except this 5.

here are mine.

1. The Gene.
There are some gene I don't take a second look at, and also some gene you like to pass across. genes matter to me so much. like how she looks and her mother/sisters.

2. Good Cook.
to cook is a talent. and in most cases it cannot be learnt no matter how one try. there are some hand that is so good with cooking and some hand that's is tereble.

3. Good Character.
any woman with bad character can't coexist with me even a short time because I get discouraged and irritated so easily. I can lose interest in a relationship with bad behavior and once I chose to opted out it's finished. no amount of beginning even from whatever person can remedy it. this is one of the reasons I may choose to remain single. I cannot be force to do things out of my will and neither will anyone want to change my behavior or whom I am. and also I will never try to change anyone if we are not match I back off.

4. Faithful and Truthful.
cheating? I don't want to go more into this issue. as we all know that majority of men will never tolerate a cheating partner.

5. housewife.
I would prefer housewife, but if she must work it should not be career lady. because we are trained that women should not be looking for big money or big career like men. women should be homely and take care of the house no running up and down looking for money. it's a big turn off for me. you can call it insecure or whatever.
women should not be giving too much money or power it easily corrupt them unlike men.

6. Bonus.
good luck woman. not the ones that attract badluck and ruin a man down.

God I leave this onto you.

cc: seun, lalasticlala

there is with a contract marriage. it well defined in develop countries but I don't know about nigeria.

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frozen70:
Beauty or ugliest

Any one that wants to cheat will cheat and reasons best known to them

If a man with small penis will cheat then ugly women will cheat too

small penis fat pocket.

remember poor men don't cheat.

frozen70:
Being ugly or beautiful is not and never a criteria for one to cheat, even men with small dick cheats too

the spend the money

I will buy it or iPhone this year by God grace

them de worry this one. village people at work.

more like he will never succeed in that journey. then what makes him think he will succeed back home. you need deliverance from bondage more than coming back home.

there are debate that marrying beautiful women is very risky as the chance of cheating is very high, as a result from too many men asking them out.

the point here is pretty women cheat outside their matrimonial homes. probably hotels and other places. very few or unlikely will be done in their home.

from what we have seen so far from women cheat right inside their matrimonial home are mostly ugly poor women. and from our investigations its the women who like the sex or demand for it and it's mostly free of charge. she can't afford hotel and no where else to go other then their matrimonial home. the man is only there for free and cheap ride with no string attached. while pretty ladies have men asking them out which means the men are capable of renting a house or hotel somewhere.

a wise person never get too close or attached to his best friend woman. call it pride or whatever. na so the whole thing dey take start and before you know feelings will start especially from the woman.


but to think of it. what is there that make this guy fall for it. sagging breast, ugly face and flat ass. chai some guys de Bleep up.

a wise person never get too close or attached to his best friend woman. call it pride or whatever. na so the whole thing dey take start and before you know feelings will start especially from the woman.

I don't understand does he want to buy the house or he want to share from the proceeds.

more like men are becoming too weak in this present generation. so many are not using their head God gave to them.

preferably New King James Version.
between N1000 to N2000 big bible.

you have no problem. your father is to be blame.

CalliDora1:
Hmm . I won't advise you to create enemies for yourself. It's not always good. Just try to be at peace with everyone in your hood if you can.

I'm at peace. God knows my heart I have no enemy literally. I use the word enemy for my alertness. not that I have evil Intension but for my safety and awareness.

mariahAngel:
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OK.

If it doesn't affect you, why did you create a thread for it?
Are any your neighbours on nairaland?

where did I mention it affect me? I said how I easily spot evil people. go and read the post again. how I detect people with evil Intension capable of harming someone. it there it's inside only need the right moment to strike. I have a spirit that detest them. and it has been saving me

mariahAngel:
This is no way to live life. If you continue this way, you're going to lose a lot of good people.
Trust people until they give you reason not to trust them.
Greeting people will not hurt you, neither will it take anything away from you.
Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt.
Maybe the problem is you don't understand people easily or people don't understand you easily. I detect paranoia too.
In any case, put more effort in relating with people.

thank but no thanks. no need to quote me with your advise. everyone is not the same. the earlier people understand the better for them.

there are poor people I will be giving assistance. after some time. they will begin to think wrongly that I am carry their star or destiny. we live in a mess up world where its encourage that everyone mind their business. my area for example despite I don't flow with people but they knows I am gentle and easy going and would never believe even if someone excuse me of being criminal if we must be sincere.

CalliDora1:
Roflol.. I don't know why I find post so hilarious buh mehn.. I'm literally laughing out here like crazy. Huh!

So if they "throway" spit for you to your hearing you'll now extend the blacklist to their family members. Lol .... Mehnn... You're funny.

yes since I spot their wickedness it means such a person need to be watch carefully and avoided. how do you avoid them if not cutting all tie with their family because they can pass through their to get to you. you claim to hate someone and if they ask you what the person did wrong. you have not tangible thing to say. is that not wickedness.

ibechris:
If u live in Africa,u must greet,yes I say u must greet.

Ur spirit is already creating problems for u and u know that. Do this in my office and see whether u will survive 2weeks not being transferred to a terrible area.

However u like it,dont destroy ur future claiming that ur spirit is controlling u,that is simply wickedness to oneself and the earlier u learn to change in this new year,the better u would become.

Greeting is part of our culture and no one has died greeting his kins men,therefore start to imbibe the culture that embodies what we stand for.

In conclusion:
U are the wicked one hear,and not the people u just labelled,except u change that ur spirit now or never.

what is this one even saying. SMH. go get sense. you are wicked

1. smooth plaster sand.
2. fine pure white sand.
3. smooth stone dust ( at first I thought it was cement until I ask the worker and he said it's stone dust )


I would like to know why the contractor is using the combination.

when school nor work. you go into business.
learning any sort of skilled work is a fall hand.
look for capital and go into decent and matured business.

StacyO:
Lol

Sex isn't the only thing to offer in a relationship (females)
Neither is money (males)

You can't have something I need in abundance and deprive me of it.
I'll be the one to dump you.
Unless due to some other circumstances you ain't financially stable,that's quite understandable.


Deprive me of our success and I'll deprive you so many packages attached to me.

what packages are you talking about

dreadsbee:
Oya nau� Let everyone be stingy in Naija

BnB beans flour available at different grams and kg

how much is 1 and 2 kg.

I'm ashamed as this doesn't make any sense. it's only pointing to prostitution.

umm. even when the girl is working and the guy is jobless. they still ask him for money or expect him to use his mind.

even now companies are employing more female than male. male is fast becoming endangered. protect the male.

just because it has a benz logo? that is 2005 model Benz.

even when a girl received higher pay than the guy. they still ask him for money it's So bad and disappointing.

even jobless guys still get asked for money.

9. sitting on his bed or cushion, when he has not said so. it's advise to wait until your host tells you to sit and where to sit.

8, refusing to go back home at when due, guys expect that you go home after a visit except he ask you to stay with him. unwise it will get to a point where you have overstayed your welcome.

maintainers culture and the Nigeria police are cat and rat. send it cut across all government institution in Nigeria same thing with the military barracks.

7. making use of his toilet. it's not a good behavior to use his toilet when still getting to know each other. tiolet is like privacy and it's better to avoid anything that will prompt the use of his toilet during the first and second visit. except he make love to you.

6, telling him to change the tv station from what he is watching or collecting the remote control. that is very rude behavior and majority of men don't want someone like that.