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Ignorance these days is a choice.

These courses are worth over $1million or more.

I'll paste the links to over 700GB worth of courses on Udemy.

A friend forwarded this to me. I thought I should share.

Udemy Course 1.
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I served someone breakfast. About serving someone else another one.

Somebody help me.

Amotolongbo:
Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband.
A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.

Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on.
I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway

If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf
There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.

Wisdom.

Stupid woman with poverty mentality.

Small money, she don dey misbehave.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Suppressing your feelings for peace to reign?

The one keeping the peace always holds less power, as such suffers the most.

Don't be afraid to rock the boat in your relationship!

Don't be the only one trying to keep the peace.

Nat404:
Hahahahaha. Sounds so funny. Not all men. I am tall and slim.

So you are saying you look like broom. Even freeze will blow u down. How can u defend her looking like that?

GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

Your bad mouth is on another level. My kind of lady

I'm so sorry you had to go through all that.

Mod, pls move this to literature section o...lol

BluntCrazeMan:
Smooth Marriages are Just so smooth.
There is no need sharing anything about them.
That's why we don't get to read about them so often.

There's need to share about them. People should fantasize about them too.

What you think, you attract.

writeprof:
Proverbs 31 wife and mother- a wise woman builds her home. She is enjoying now I believe!

Yes o.

We now live in our own house, a 4-bedroom duplex with one well furnished Visitor's room and a Master bedroom for my parents. Though my dad is retired, his pension and her salary is keeping them afloat.

Just yesterday, she was paying some ladies that comes to clean the entire house every month and wash the curtains. This is a luxury we could not afford before now.

You married a baby girl. Even with all the karashika behavior you still love her...kudos.

Pregnancy is a different thing all together. Even dutiful wives can give you wahala when pregnant. Bare with her.

I worry your house is going to become a dustbin after she gets birth, if she can't keep it clean now.

Get a mature house maid to help her.

After she gives birth, have a talk with her. Buy her car Biko.

inumidun2010:
Bros abeg you dey Lagos?....

No, Sir.

Love800:
. Bro abeg where u take download d korean movie. Am having issues downloading films

Nkiri.com

Seasoned advice.

Dailyparrot:
Let me share my experience in my house.

I am the type that don't talk to people and this makes them assume that I am arrogant and proud.

So, the whole people in the compound are just waiting for anything that they will use to mock me but I didn't give them any.

When I see people sitting on my car, I would scream and tell them to desist from that.

Boom, they are gossiping that I feel like I drive one kind big car that no one else drives.

Secondly, because I like moving with slim girls with pretty face, they gossip that I carry under age girls.

These were gossips that they had within themselves until I had a little misunderstanding with one of them, voom, she started vomiting all that they have been talking at my back but I give no single f_ck.

I told them to call the police on me any time they see me move in with any girl they suspected to be underage and as for my car, you can't carry your oversized self and sit on my bonnet as though it is a seat.

I still no send anybody.

I've been indoors all through, waiting for work to begin again.

I downloaded the Korean Movie "Jumong" again from Episode 30... I'm in Episode 72 now

KiNg0G:
If your in your early 20, marriage issue nor supposed consign you.

My pickin start to reason how to plan your life first

I wonder how well you are planning your own life since you don't bother about planning your own words here. Polluting this trend with your typos and self acclaimed maturity.

Kriss216:
Women and Gossip


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tueh!

Stop making stupid and immature generalization.

It seems bashing "women" is what sells on this platform now.

Bashing is what people do now when they have nothing to say.

You don't want to buy from her for reasons best known to you. I don't see the crime in that.

People will talk shit about you especially when you want to "dey your lane". If you hear it with your own ear, sit them down and talk to them, assertively. It may just be a misunderstanding after all. If you hear it from the "Dem say" gang, I would ignore.

Some people can just be bitter and spread shit about you sha. Those kind people, straighten them up.

If you don't want trouble, trouble will surely come to you.

Jay5mie:
You and who wan read this thing?

Women talk plenty, especially a woman that has something bothering her. If you are not ready to listen, then you aren't ready to have a woman in your life.

Acrimony

Some years ago while my father was still in the Civil Service commission, I remember a particular incident that led to his temporal suspension from the office. Someone framed him and all that. I won't bother you about the details. However, this incident took over 8 months before it was resolved. Prior to this time, we lived a very comfortable life.

What my mom did in the light of this situation is what I won't forget in a hurry.

We mom started selling cold "pure" water and drinks.

We went back to the farm, planting yam and cassava and the rest.

All these coupled with some money my father had saved kept us all.

We didn't stop school.

My mom didn't create a scene that will bring elders from the village to "settle" issue.

My mom stood by my father.

Just saw a trend about a man telling us of the kind of gut his wife has.

I will be brief.

I've noticed countless times how marriage is bashed on this platform. If there are 10 topics about marriage, 8 will be a complain of what one spouse did to another.

What we don't understand is that we are being subconsciously socially engineered to hate, fear, and dread marriage. Too much bad news everywhere.

The kind of stories I read here, me self don dey fear marriage.

Yet, I'm from a complete family. My parents have being married for 26 years and they are still together. I'm not saying it's been blissful all through, but they are still a team, gist mates, yab mates, etc.

What I want us to do is simple:

Share a story of when your mom stood by your dad, when your wife stood by you or when your husband stood by you during a difficult time.

I won't be surprised if this doesn't make it the FP because people love reading bad news too much.

CaptainAyub:
That is if you're not the type wey get craze for head.
Cheap olosho na 5k around my area,you go fit negotiate 5k hotel too.
If you touch madam she do guy,you dress up comot,enta by morning feeling happy ee by the time e happen twice,if na the ones wey get good upbringing them ģo behave.

Interesting!

Won't your children see you when you are behaving like that??

Can imagine my children asking me, 'Daddy, where did you sleep?'

I shock!

Long overdue.

You deserve all the insults here. Op, that is not a scar. U lack gratitude, bro. It's really difficult to be grateful when depressed but you have a learn it.

People have worse scars. I know someone who have an accident that affected his lips. It's lips is completely divided. Yet he is hale and hearty. I know someone else who had groundnut accident in the kitchen. Hair no longer grow on one side of his head... and the size is 4x of your own.

Barb skin if it helps.

Stop putting on the cap bro...Jezzz

On the left or right side so that I can jejely enter church at the beginning of the service and disappear immediately after the "Grace"

Oga, you sef you ORDER your wife? In this generation? No wonder she doesn't listen. Both of you are there fighting for power. Now, it's about Food. That's her office Sir. Time 4 her to decide...

If you are following this post, be careful.

That idea that if you beat your woman, she will remain loyal is demonic.