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dangotesmummy:Please can you reference any medical journal or empirical research results where you extracted this theory. Many thanks |
Afam4eva:Assumptions remain assumptions and untenable in any matter. I can assume the relationship is open. A simple recitation by each party of "Ye shall fvck no other than me" shall do the trick ![]() |
Afam4eva:Do you tell your girlfriend or boyfriend verbally not to cheat. The answer is no, you just assume and assumptions cannot form a basis for determining whether an agreement has been breached. Until you start taking boyfriend/girlfriend vows like " and ye shall fvck no other than me" you no get case ![]() |
True though |
dangotesmummy:Thank you for your response. However your assumptions and theory of fear as a factor is diametrically opposed to what science tells us hence is VERY invalid. 1."It's believed this phenomena may be caused by contractions of a woman's muscles during orgasm" It is the woman's nunu that clamps the penis. 2."This is extremely rare in humans (last documented case about 70 years ago) and usually lasts only a few minutes" All the cases seen in Africa lasted hours I have scoured through medical journals on this issue and cannot find anywhere anxiety is mentioned as a culprit. Anxiety actually causes erectile dysfunction which makes penetration difficult. |
Sanchez01:The guy asked some very valid questions. Do you mind tackling them rather than being evasive. We all want to learn. 1. Why does it not happen between married couples? 2.Why did it never happen to the woman's husband? 3. Why have we never had a case of such happening to the high population of sex hungry unmarried people? 4. Why does it only happen when the woman is married and cheats? Your response will be highly appreciated. Thank you. |
Kenyans gave water to a dying Buffalo to keep it from dying of thirst. Our Nigerian brother just murdered one and he is being hailed a hero in edo state |
Mediocre..................smh |
Since na one of the northern states enjoying free school meals maybe the teachers decide too to wear school uniform to also the enjoy the FREE school meal |
baby124: ![]() |
MrRichy:Trafficator. It's been ages since I heard that word |
coolesmile:If some groupies perform miracles with your di.ck you go carry loan give dem sef. They there |
The international pharmaceutical gangters will arm twist and blackmail the FG to kill this story soon. |
fatdick:If my own papa join police me sef go disown am |
Why were they screaming and warning that "we are going live" What were they hiding?. Are you thinking what I am thinking ? |
Ademola2017, Going by the comments, I hope you have learnt your lesson for bringing your relationship issues to Nairaland. You have been hurt and in pain but coming here will lead you to depression with such brutal comments from imbec.iles and minors who hover round this thread like bees. You have done nothing wrong by falling in love and following your heart. Even those that use their heads rather than hearts miscalculate a lot hence the marital social media drama we witness from our role models daily. You are bold for following your heart. You are a man. The man. A strong man and you will handle this like.....a real man. We all had past relationships and some are friendly with their exes even overly friendly. Some people tolerate it some don't. It does not mean something is going on but it can hurt a man's pride which is the case here. First thing is to take advantage of the present situation and put a total end to that. Now the issue of past cheating before marriage and discovered after signing the dotted lines have been a controversial issue with divergent views from even relationship experts. I will break it down to the Nigerian context. Even the holier than thou in Nigeria does so especially among the ladies who are competitive with peers when it comes to getting the 'perfect' suitor. I will try not to be politically correct. The average Nigerian lady has one or two backup relationships in case things go pear shaped. It's now our way of life and somehow become acceptable. Marriage is the start of a new type of relationship and not a continuation of the other. That is why you are asked to forsake others when making your vows. Do you forgive such?. Yes absolutely. As young adults we all follow the trend, want what is acceptable to others who sniff us and wish us to fail and want to show off. We make mistakes in the process but there is always time for redemption. This is it. Forgive this and move on. Now the most tricky part which is her attitude towards you. You both share the blame. The greatest love is the one that is learnt. Her attitude does not mean she does not love you. It's just a bad habit you guys allowed to fester. Having 2 relationships means one treats you good and the other is a bad boy. All women are drawn to the one with a little bit of danger. So she gives all the bu.llsh.it she gets to the good guy to ease up her strain or to keep the relationship at a level it does not get too serious and spoil both. It's a hard job and some play it well while others mess it up. When you got married you should have helped her correct her habits She acquired to manage both relationships but you ignored it. Now She chose to marry you. Forget all what your mind tells you about being second choice. If she did not love you she will keep hoping for another Mr perfect. Respect that and move on. Your wife made mistakes like we all do. This is an opportunity to correct all the faults in your marriage and enjoy it. Punish her a little, read out loud that riot act but still pamper her with moderation and forgive her. I think you just got presented with all the opportunity in world to have a blissful marriage. Caveat: Take relationship advice on the internet at your own risk |
I am a starboy fan but ain't feeling this track at all |
Benita27: |
kilode100:Na wa oh. This tonto craze dey infectious. This one sef don mad. |
Just when you thought you have seen it all....someone comes by and surprises you. |
Nice legs |
Touch not my anointed brigade will also attempt to defend this one. |
youngest85:Some people get more foolish as they grow older. |
The guy has lost a lot of weight |
MrEgbegbe:What an idiot! |
smartty68:What is wrong in judging a man of God. Did Peter not Judge the leaders of the church in corinth? |
missyadorable:Well said. Instead of Nigerian Christians to practice what Christ taught which is love they are more interested in stoking the embers of division. |
11 dicks! ![]() |
masonkz:The condition you mentioned is well known and could be the case here however don't you think the fact that it is the second case from Kenya in recent times too much of a coincidence ![]() |
The Wedding night go be that thing wey apostle dey like |
eezeribe:Best advice |
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