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Christianity Etc › Re: A Guy Got An Epic Reply For Saying Something Nice About Jesus by Firstcitizen: 12:21pm On Apr 20, 2017
hahn:
"Did all those men you mentioned resurrect from the died"

cheesy grin
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Romance › Re: Man Stuck Inside His Friend's Wife During Sex From The Back (Photos, Video) by Firstcitizen: 12:18pm On Apr 20, 2017
dangotesmummy:
(I hope you know fear and discomfort are the major reason for vaginismus)
Please can you reference any medical journal or empirical research results where you extracted this theory. Many thanks
Romance › Re: You Can't Cheat On A Girlfriend, You Can Only Cheat On A Wife - Reno Omokri by Firstcitizen: 10:16am On Apr 20, 2017
Afam4eva:
There are widely held assumptions and that is why when your boyfriend or girlfriend is caught cheating, they start apologizing because they know that they've done something wrong even though not written.
Assumptions remain assumptions and untenable in any matter. I can assume the relationship is open. A simple recitation by each party of "Ye shall fvck no other than me" shall do the trick grin
Romance › Re: You Can't Cheat On A Girlfriend, You Can Only Cheat On A Wife - Reno Omokri by Firstcitizen: 10:09am On Apr 20, 2017
Afam4eva:
Actually, it depends on how you choose to look at it.

When you get married to someone, both of you have made an agreement, both consensual and documented not to cheat on each other.

When you become someone's boyfriend or girlfriend, there's also an unwritten rule that both of you will be faithful to each other.

The only difference is that the latter is not documented. But even the one that id documented is not binding as it's not a crime to cheat. It's only immoral.

I believe ones word should be their bond whether it id documented or not. If i become your boyfriend, you have agreed to be with only me, except it;s explicitly stated otherwise. So, when you cheat, you have gone against our verbal agreement, though it's not a crime.
Do you tell your girlfriend or boyfriend verbally not to cheat. The answer is no, you just assume and assumptions cannot form a basis for determining whether an agreement has been breached.

Until you start taking boyfriend/girlfriend vows like " and ye shall fvck no other than me" you no get case cheesy cheesy cheesy
Romance › Re: You Can't Cheat On A Girlfriend, You Can Only Cheat On A Wife - Reno Omokri by Firstcitizen: 10:07am On Apr 20, 2017
True though
Romance › Re: Man Stuck Inside His Friend's Wife During Sex From The Back (Photos, Video) by Firstcitizen: 12:50pm On Apr 19, 2017
dangotesmummy:
1.it doesn't happen to married people because they're not having sex with the fear of being caught. Both partners are comfortable so they don't rush but penis captivus happens when the 2partners are rushing and fearful
2.it happens to men who also sleep with other men's wives
3.it cannot happen to unmarried couples because any unmarried couple that has sex do that on agreement and no fear since both people have no commitment to anybody they just want to have fun.that includes one night stand
4.it happens both ways
Thank you for your response. However your assumptions and theory of fear as a factor is diametrically opposed to what science tells us hence is VERY invalid.

1."It's believed this phenomena may be caused by contractions of a woman's muscles during orgasm" It is the woman's nunu that clamps the penis.

2."This is extremely rare in humans (last documented case about 70 years ago) and usually lasts only a few minutes" All the cases seen in Africa lasted hours

I have scoured through medical journals on this issue and cannot find anywhere anxiety is mentioned as a culprit. Anxiety actually causes erectile dysfunction which makes penetration difficult.
Romance › Re: Man Stuck Inside His Friend's Wife During Sex From The Back (Photos, Video) by Firstcitizen: 12:03pm On Apr 19, 2017
Sanchez01:
Is the message that hard to deduce from my post? undecided
The guy asked some very valid questions. Do you mind tackling them rather than being evasive. We all want to learn.

1. Why does it not happen between married couples?
2.Why did it never happen to the woman's husband?
3. Why have we never had a case of such happening to the high population of sex hungry unmarried people?
4. Why does it only happen when the woman is married and cheats?

Your response will be highly appreciated. Thank you.
Celebrities › Re: Hunter Kills Buffalo In Etsako West, Edo State (photo) by Firstcitizen: 5:15pm On Apr 13, 2017
Kenyans gave water to a dying Buffalo to keep it from dying of thirst.

Our Nigerian brother just murdered one and he is being hailed a hero in edo state
Science/Technology › Re: Delta Engineer Who Converted Keke To An "Aeroplane" Becomes Online Sensation by Firstcitizen:
Mediocre..................smh
Education › Re: Kebbi Commissioner Visits School And Meets Only The Students There by Firstcitizen: 4:22pm On Apr 10, 2017
grin grin grin Since na one of the northern states enjoying free school meals maybe the teachers decide too to wear school uniform to also the enjoy the FREE school meal
Politics › Re: Those Destroying The Naira Won’t Spend Their Loot — Adeboye by Firstcitizen: 8:41am On Apr 10, 2017
baby124:
What about the pastors spending tithe money on 3-somes... The silence from you has been defeating on that...
grin
Travel › Re: 9 Tips For Convoy Driving – By FRSC by Firstcitizen: 8:37am On Apr 10, 2017
MrRichy:
its only in Nigeria, convoils use double trafficator whether they are going left or right cry
Trafficator. grin It's been ages since I heard that word
Christianity Etc › Re: Stephanie Otobo Shows Money Apostle Suleman Paid Her Via Statement Of Account by Firstcitizen: 5:41pm On Apr 08, 2017
coolesmile:
What was he paying so much money for? huh
If some groupies perform miracles with your di.ck you go carry loan give dem sef. They there
Health › Re: FG Announces Discovery Of Epilepsy Drug- Vanguard by Firstcitizen: 2:05pm On Apr 08, 2017
The international pharmaceutical gangters will arm twist and blackmail the FG to kill this story soon.
Jokes Etc › Re: #9japolice: Hilarious Memes About Nigeria Police Trending On Twitter by Firstcitizen: 7:38am On Apr 08, 2017
fatdick:
9ja police. As their uniform black, na so their heart black. Once you join police, thats the end of our friendship. grin
If my own papa join police me sef go disown am
Politics › Re: EFCC Discovers N400Million Hidden In A Shopping Plaza In Lagos (Pics, Vid) by Firstcitizen: 7:27am On Apr 08, 2017
Why were they screaming and warning that "we are going live"

What were they hiding?. Are you thinking what I am thinking ?
Family › Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Firstcitizen: 7:13am On Apr 08, 2017
Ademola2017,

Going by the comments, I hope you have learnt your lesson for bringing your relationship issues to Nairaland. You have been hurt and in pain but coming here will lead you to depression with such brutal comments from imbec.iles and minors who hover round this thread like bees.

You have done nothing wrong by falling in love and following your heart. Even those that use their heads rather than hearts miscalculate a lot hence the marital social media drama we witness from our role models daily.

You are bold for following your heart. You are a man. The man. A strong man and you will handle this like.....a real man.

We all had past relationships and some are friendly with their exes even overly friendly. Some people tolerate it some don't. It does not mean something is going on but it can hurt a man's pride which is the case here. First thing is to take advantage of the present situation and put a total end to that.

Now the issue of past cheating before marriage and discovered after signing the dotted lines have been a controversial issue with divergent views from even relationship experts. I will break it down to the Nigerian context. Even the holier than thou in Nigeria does so especially among the ladies who are competitive with peers when it comes to getting the 'perfect' suitor. I will try not to be politically correct. The average Nigerian lady has one or two backup relationships in case things go pear shaped. It's now our way of life and somehow become acceptable. Marriage is the start of a new type of relationship and not a continuation of the other. That is why you are asked to forsake others when making your vows.

Do you forgive such?. Yes absolutely. As young adults we all follow the trend, want what is acceptable to others who sniff us and wish us to fail and want to show off. We make mistakes in the process but there is always time for redemption. This is it. Forgive this and move on.

Now the most tricky part which is her attitude towards you. You both share the blame. The greatest love is the one that is learnt. Her attitude does not mean she does not love you. It's just a bad habit you guys allowed to fester. Having 2 relationships means one treats you good and the other is a bad boy. All women are drawn to the one with a little bit of danger. So she gives all the bu.llsh.it she gets to the good guy to ease up her strain or to keep the relationship at a level it does not get too serious and spoil both. It's a hard job and some play it well while others mess it up. When you got married you should have helped her correct her habits She acquired to manage both relationships but you ignored it. Now She chose to marry you. Forget all what your mind tells you about being second choice. If she did not love you she will keep hoping for another Mr perfect. Respect that and move on.

Your wife made mistakes like we all do. This is an opportunity to correct all the faults in your marriage and enjoy it. Punish her a little, read out loud that riot act but still pamper her with moderation and forgive her. I think you just got presented with all the opportunity in world to have a blissful marriage.

Caveat: Take relationship advice on the internet at your own risk
Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid Ft. Drake – "Come Closer" (Video) by Firstcitizen: 1:17pm On Apr 07, 2017
I am a starboy fan but ain't feeling this track at all
Romance › Re: 'If Guys Knew How Many Times Girls Wore The Same Bra Without Washing It' - by Firstcitizen: 4:27pm On Apr 06, 2017
Benita27:
It still doesn't mean bra should be washed daily. The only exception should be white bra.
shocked shocked shocked so it's true
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Apologizes To Azuka Ogujiuba "I Said She Was Offered Not Paid" by Firstcitizen: 6:04am On Apr 06, 2017
kilode100:
You that can comprehend and know/speak English more that the British, how far? Are you richer than Mark Zukerberg whom you are far far older than? Who are you and what is your name? Don't ever in your miserable life come for me again.

Idiot.

Churchill Olakunle is a bloody rapist and an adulterous bastard.
Na wa oh. This tonto craze dey infectious. This one sef don mad.
Crime › Re: Couple Drug, Rape Wife’s Friend In Lagos Hotel And Upload It Online by Firstcitizen: 5:00am On Apr 05, 2017
Just when you thought you have seen it all....someone comes by and surprises you.
Romance › Re: Bride-to-be Locked Up In Prison For Pre-wedding Photo by Firstcitizen: 11:56am On Apr 04, 2017
Nice legs
Crime › Re: Winners Chapel Pastor Beats Wife In Benin, Threatens To Kill Her & Marry Another by Firstcitizen: 2:59pm On Apr 03, 2017
Touch not my anointed brigade will also attempt to defend this one.
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man, Henry Esin Killed Outside A Nightclub In The UK. Photos by Firstcitizen: 2:48pm On Apr 03, 2017
youngest85:
Say no to cultism
Some people get more foolish as they grow older.
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Johnson Suleman Arrives Cyprus For A Crusade (Photos) by Firstcitizen: 2:47pm On Apr 03, 2017
The guy has lost a lot of weight
Business › Re: Temi Otedola Writes About Her Autistic Brother (Photos) by Firstcitizen: 12:16pm On Apr 03, 2017
MrEgbegbe:

That guy is not autistic

He's mentally stable

If he's autistic then what is Kemi Olunloyo ??
What an idiot!
Christianity Etc › Re: Nigerians React To Pastor Adeboye's Tweet About Facebook Wife & YouTube by Firstcitizen: 5:42am On Apr 03, 2017
smartty68:
In as much as its wrong to judge a man of God, I'll say Adeboye was wrong for making such a comment
What is wrong in judging a man of God. Did Peter not Judge the leaders of the church in corinth?
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Wrong For A Christian Husband And Wife To Attend Separate Churches?" by Firstcitizen: 6:41pm On Apr 02, 2017
missyadorable:
It doesn't matter...

I grew up in a home where my parents attended same church,sat on same bench until my dad was made an elder

But they fight monday to saturday and continue after service on Sunday...
Elder always maltreating n beating his wife and nothing church could do about it.

Now,am married...my husband is catholic and attend 6am mass.I don't like catholic church...I rarely follow him.I attend Winners Chapel close to the house with our baby.

The most important thing is : We are at peace with each other.

Bottomline: Church doesn't matter!
Well said. Instead of Nigerian Christians to practice what Christ taught which is love they are more interested in stoking the embers of division.
Romance › Re: Lady Shares Photos Of Her 11 Ex-Boyfriends Online by Firstcitizen: 10:04am On Mar 31, 2017
11 dicks! shocked The inventor of a web based digital toto meter is sure to be the next silicon valley billionaire grin
Family › Re: Married Kenyan Woman Stuck With Boyfriend While Having Sex (Photos, Video) by Firstcitizen: 3:41pm On Mar 30, 2017
masonkz:
Africans don't like to learn...
The condition you mentioned is well known and could be the case here however don't you think the fact that it is the second case from Kenya in recent times too much of a coincidence smiley
Events › Re: Video From The Wedding Of The Man Who Married 2 Women In Delta.C How They Danced by Firstcitizen: 6:58am On Mar 30, 2017
The Wedding night go be that thing wey apostle dey like
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Using Another Guy To Play Games With Me by Firstcitizen: 7:11pm On Mar 29, 2017
eezeribe:
Just end the relationship
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