₦airaland Forum

Sharingiscaring:
To be fair, if we had a working legal system, Tinubu should have been the first to be prosecuted for these stampedes for making life so miserable for Nigerians within a year of his Aso Rock tenancy.

And you too, needs to be prosecuted.....for attempting to cause violence in the society by luring someone wife for sexual escapades .



The critical of every action of leaders, when they themselves are DEVILS INCARNATE.

CrownOfClay724:
Went out to search for a job abi e follow GNLD people or one oloshi boy like that waka go?

Dem supposed flog don't-be-silly commot from her body.

Wen you cage an adult girl for so long, all in name of strict religion principle, while hormones in her body have since, extra developed to the level of explosion,....... Daughter would find all means to experience forbidden bedmatic exercise.



This type of girls, are the one eager to experience street but background is holding her seriously & painfully......I wouldn't surprise if she hasn't entered school, that would have been golden opportunity to explore body maximally.

Atm99:
Good day Nairalander,

This is to inform you all that the missing girl have been found. Base on the information I got I was told she went out to search for job without telling anybody including her mother for more than a month we have been searching for her. I was so disappointed in her for behaving that way. Anyway thank God she has been Found.

I Really Appreciate everybody for your prayers and concern may God reward you Aboundantly.

Searching job? If her excuse is through, she is most foolish girl.

It might even be statement released by parents for face savings, because it's seems the family is a religion type.

annolomy:
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How many people nowadays, dating for love?

Even pre-teens girl still billing her age mate with lots of financial and otherwise requests, despite she knows, he is not yet having income.


Wen a lady put soooooooo much financial strain on guys all in the name of relationship, there is no way the relationship will last, besides, having trying your best as man to meet the financial obligations that woman put, all in name I'm giving you sex, the woman would still be having several affairs behind the man,........so, why won't man sex and Japa?

They will say, it's only for two consenting Muslims, before you know, they would be forcing all religions,even people without religion to obey different archaic and troublesome Islamic laws, small small, community that hitherto, PEACEFUL, would engulf by DISHARMONY of jihadists.

Let there be peace, so that the extortionists would disappear from road block.

omoredia:
Only fools expect the truth from evil leaders

Dot-nationals killing themselves to spite others from time immemorial.

Saka will struggle with Arsenal and England teams until he grows old with nothing to show for his great talent.

Bigmouth3:
You are pouring water on dry ground. This our brothers will never learn. As I am speaking another nigerian has paid bride price for a community pussy all in the name of love

I guess Nigeria men will stop sleeping with themselves and leave women alone, at least, they will not become community hoes going forward.

PulaPower:
He also claimed that Chinedu's money was lodged into her account because he wasn’t eligible to own an account due to him not having a residential permit at the time.

Damnn!

This was where the problem started..

So, Chinedu didn't have Nigeria account as well? Perhaps, we are still in stone age, when he couldn't transfer money into his Nigeria's account from anywhere in the world.

ExAngel007:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/12/late-nollywood-actor-ernest-asuzus-brother-sh0t-d3ad-in-johannesburg-his-south-african-ex-wife-allegedly-seizes-corpse-video-2.html

Everything the deceased bought is bought in her name. ...... that's where I stopped reading.

Anything his eyes see when he was alive and now late, let him face it.

Even woman shouldn't buy everything in husband name,not to talk of man that married to stranger in a strange land.

How I wish Xmas falls on Monday. At least, dot-nationals will be in door while Nigerians celebrate Christmas.

Expecting him to also say, Muslim shouldn't go to Christian medical doctors for treatment and also Muslims should stop Japa to Christian prosperous nations.


The mad man that's giving advice now, he won't come out to tell us how he is defying his body with different women o, perhaps his jihad book allows him to go reckless.

Temitunz:
Ever been hit by boredom so hard you started counting ceiling tiles? How did you snap out of it? Share your boredom-busting secrets because who knows, your trick might just save someone’s day!"

With phone and internet availability, humans are not supposed to be bored again. Whole lots of FUNS, RESEARCHES, CRUISES, CRISES, EMOTIONS to read and react in other to whining away your boredom.

Meanwhile, in absence of data, you visit someone, which you know you can gists with for 24 hours nonstop, if you mistakenly jam each other.

For male, you go to joint, there you meet variety of people to going up and down to talk about, before you know night fall and you sleep for the second day.

khalling2008:
The governor knows that Sharia law is in Nigeria's constitution. He should not waste his time on something that is recognized in the Constitution. That's how they were shouting about Islamic banking, but God passed them; Islamic banking has now been established around the country.

I don't know why they are against anything about Islam; if you have better options than what Islam offers, why not provide it to the country and let everybody see what your religion can offer?

Islam offers a non-interest banking system; if you have a better offer than what Islam provides as non-interest, please provide it.

Islam provided bonds through Sukuk for infrastructure in the country; even most 80% of federal roads in the country were used by Islamic bonds (Sukuk). If your religion has a better offer than what Islam offers, please bring it to the table and let see.

They made noise about hijab in a government school for our female student, and upon all their noise, who won last? No matter your noise about the Sharia court for Muslims in Nigeria, you will all defeated because Nigeria's constitution recognizes the Sharia law, likewise, the Sharia court.

Abi oooo, can't you see,how Islam loves other religions whole heartedly.

Pls extend it to organisers of Anambra and Abuja as well.

Rechargeam247:
Lol, it's the plenty nonsensical comments here for me, women are more sensible and intelligent than men, take it or leave it.

Even your comment says alot about level of your intelligent.

I DOUBT IF YOU KNOW DIFFERENT BETWEEN INTELLIGENT & CUNNING.

TossTos:
I had to quote and I am sorry for that ..

I have similar this experience you stated above , I changed her phone , mobile number and piam, na him I saw the number called her again that beautiful day ..

She had forgotten she show me the number , I just have about 4 to 2 last digit of the number off hand ..

To cut the story short , she go her way after sometimes, I saw her with that same guy .. ( this damn true ) ..

She posted a picture of her on Facebook back then, I check the comment and saw the guy , go on to confirm if is another man or the same person I know only to found the same number she used for the Facebook as the number he always calls with ..


I no even know where the lady dey now ..

When I read where some guys said, he should cut off, I just laughed, if not ur comment I won't comment on such foolish advice, destroying SIM not solution but the girl herself, that girl only playing on his intelligent, by telling him, ex still calling her, maybe for the guy to be feeling frightened.

That girl still calling the guy and doing all sorts of romantic on and off phone.

brain54:
Poverty and frustration...

Reminds me of a guy way back in warri.

This guy, his wife, brother and brother's wife were all cramped up living together in a room and parlor like sardines. At the time he was just deported from Libya his brother wasn't doing too well also.

Every day it was one issue or the other. You could always feel the tension in the atmosphere.

It got to the point of this particular guy bringing out a cutlass to threaten his brother one day. They were separated by neighbors.

Now I met this guy again years later at an event with his family-the whole gang. His wife had put to birth and apparently he was doing well for himself. Dude had even built a house for himself, car etc. (yahoo money )

I couldn't help but notice how cool and lovey dovey everyone was and happy. So me and my big mouth jokingly commented on the day they were chasing themselves with cutlass.

What he said next amazed me. He said all those fights and quarrels at the time was due to poverty. That he couldn't even give any reasonable explanation as to why they were always fighting. That the cause of the fights sometimes were so trivia but it mattered then.

He went on to say that since they started doing well for themselves recently they had never had any serious issues as they always resolved any misunderstanding amicably without blows... He said they could have just killed themselves back then over very trivia issues that didn't even matter. That looking back he could not even remember what was so important to the extent of him raising a matchet for his own blood.

Poverty is really a terrible thing. It leads to frustration.

It's really difficult if not impossible to hear this kind of news coming from the rich folks.

Poor people problems!

Yes poverty, but the main reason was that, two adults that were supposed to be leaving in separate apartments were leaving under one roof.

Even today that, things have turned around for them, if all them go and be staying in one apartment again, they would start fighting.

To cut it short!

Mature people who are not married to each other, always find it extremely difficult to leave under same room

[quote author= post=133406343]Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/thesun.ng/man-kills-wife-over-yam-in-ebonyi/%3famp[/quote]This story is far more than ,how it's being reported now....IM VERY SURE OF EXCHANGE OF PROVOKING & COUNTER PROVOKING THAT LED TO WHERE THE TWO FIND THEMSELVES NOW

AngelicDamsel:
Most importantly, don't be a fool.

Not everyone will like you, no matter what you do.

From very time I started dating girls, after trying a little bit to convince girl to date me, but keep doing strong head, I cut her off immediately, infact, she herself would be embarrassed astonished with the level I used to ghost her.

Any lady, who doesn't have atom of feelings for you from very beginning, in which a man wants to date at all costs, it's calling for disaster.

eventainment:
Well, in your opinion it's a prejudiced way of reasoning which I won't debate because it's your opinion, but your opinions are very valid some men/women take extramarital affairs as a sport irrespective of how their spouses play their roles well these men aren't satisfied. I've seen men date women their wives are far better in all areas. Some persons start this infidelity habit because of peer influence and truth be told when you are with a like mind even evil can be made to look good. If we play a close analysis you'll still agree that if a man is comfortable at home he barely hangs around with friends except it's his nature to be around friends. In my conclusion, there are lots of exceptions to what I propounded the first time but if a man/woman who wasn't a chronic cheat begins it after conjugal bliss there is a high possibility that their own spouse is the cause.

What you just narrated, common when men are at 35-45, that are prime ages for men, to be "hot cake" for different women, most especially, if you are a type who is working in reputable organisation and having little change to give out as gifts.

By this age, all those hot women of yesteryears that had made serious errors by marrying wrong men, their eyes would have cleared, that, it's not "dark and tall" that are most important when choosing hubby. So, these type of women would be rushing for attentions of men in that range. If such men not careful, he won't know nwen he forgets his beautiful marriage.

MyExpression:
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This is the advice here ☝

Is she a kid that can't handle her ex or her past?
Why pushing it on you...she no get fear o.

A lady you love, will you tell her your ex is still disturbing you?
I believe you'd have cut it like a man, and tell the lady to stop calling you...else...

So she should get her shit together, take charge of her life and decisions.

Don't stupidly go and fight for love o...you'll keep fighting forever.

Tell her to go and fix her shiiii, you no get energy for ex wahala.
A lady that wants to stay, knows what to do to stay.

At times, you need to threatened a woman for her to know, you mean business, and for her head to receive senses. if you a man that wants your woman to always fix her issues alone ........ intruder would break in and destroy your beautiful marriage o.

Not everyone man wants to be married and remarried and litter every town and villages with uncaring kids ooo

Peterobiisathie:
https://gazettengr.com/tinubu-orders-security-agencies-to-eliminate-kidnappers-bandits-separatists-by-2025/

Why saying this publicly? Is this one even qualify to be in defence ministry? No wonder they say, he had hands in terrorism in the state.


I pity informants that would collect gadgets from him, they would eventually use him to count scores.

Olafada:
The Nigerian Gov’t is applying a diplomatic approach to manage the situation because if things get bad between Niger & Nigeria, be rest assured that Nigeria will suffer significant setbacks as Northern Nigeria will support Niger.
BH will be just the tip of an iceberg.

It’s dicey mate

Opinion but not reality. In international community, Nigeria only portrait herself as weak nation, Niger is too minor to be fear right and left by Nigeria.


Obasanjo can never ever week to this level.


You think north want to leave this union, that beneficial greatly to them?



Even the news i doubt it's credibility, no major news outlets carry it.

Vikto17:
she is the one telling me all this things ,, l did not find out myself

I pity who know pity you.

Let me tell you this. If your girl shout at him and warn him, in a strong term not to ever call her again, you think, the communication won't die a natural course immediately?


And for you, shout and warn ur girl In a very strong way you haven't done before and treating to cut the relationship, after that, go ahead to cut communication with her for just a week and see if the girl won't do the needful.

Women are like kids, they need carrots and stick approach,for them to behave normally and for husband to be in control of the relationship


If you do that and she doesn't show remorse, oga flee for your safety from bad girl.

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....
l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....
Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

If ur post is not figment, you need to study your girl very well, if her mind has made up to be with you or her ex. Oga, your girl still given him full access for communication, provided not still given him romantic gesture, and if you dnt careful, your girl would be going behind to warm his bed.

One behaviour that is certain and common to all women is, "woman cannot completely off her mind from anyone that has slept with her before".
If the ex, really know how to manipulate, it's a matter of time before the woman fall yakata again, irrespective how their relationship ended in the past, ex only needs communications to start flowing between two of them again.

Nazgul:
The defections in LP is as a result of greed and nothing more. The average Nigerian politician fights for his pocket and his pocket alone.

From Obi to the least person in LP, fighting for his/her pocket. Contrary to the notion you guys have that Obi is coming to turn things around, he only coming to register as a president that comes from Igbo and nothing more.

AFRICANS CANNOT GOVERN THEMSELVES TO PROSPERITY.

What they are saying online,you use as a yard stick to take decisions in life , you are finished!


Most especially relationship, religion and politics, soooooooo many are just posting for posting sake and many are deliberately to destroy people life.

confidant:
I think we need a doctor to break this down to novices like us. For me, as a man gets older his testosterone and want for women also decreases. Most men daily habits of drinking and less exercise doesn’t encourage the bedroom performance coupled with the declining testosterone. As a man’s libido decreases, the woman’s own increases. Fact. So, a woman in her forties always requires sex due to her increase libido. It is now a challenge for the man to meet up. Most men in their forties are beginning to realize the work of the prostrate and are also realizing more about their body - that their body is not the same as it used to be. They most times don’t tell anyone but harbor this inside until it becomes too late. I will advise most to see a urologist and open up on issues regarding their reproductive health.

This silent problem is eaten deep in marriages, but very difficulty to speak out, more reason pastors having affairs with wives of members

In future, I pray psychologists/ marriage counselors,won't be telling wives to do a little bit infidelity to spice up marriages.

Ballzproblem2:
Most times is because the women become out of shape after childbirth,women should try and maintain their shape ,I know it's not easy .

So, if the husband now abandoned his wife, such husband dnt have reason to angry if wide go out, to seek sexual pleasure outside oo

Raphsays:
This post does not tell us how to deal with sexual immorality in the church.
So what’s the essence of the post.

Accepting Jesus is just the first step , however, it doesn’t deal with sexual immorality in the church.
After all many so called born again peeps in the church are into sexual immorality.

Provide practical solutions and not rants

The post is about preaching, so it's "muddy waters", where it stains you, you make adjustments and correct it.