₦airaland Forum

Nnamdipapa:
I honestly do not understand why people think genital mutilation is a cure for female promiscuity. Some of the elders nor get sense at all reason I don't take everything coming from them.

RaulteeSupremo:
keeping ur virginity does not means you are 100% morally sound

richmond500:
I am also not Ronu.
Maybe u don't understand well with that ur 2milimeter brain

DatNiggaDaz:
Their cancellation of the meetings has proven that no Governor aside the Governor of Lagos don't trust Tinubu & his Tax reform.

Their is no trust between the State Governors & the FG.

This Tax reform will be difficult to sail through under the emilokan government because the maladministration has trust, competence & integrity issues

Britishpea:
Hes not as wise as you think....He s driven by power and his stomach just like his fellow others... else he wouldnt be played like a kite by Tinubu with the way he hated him...He even fought Tinubus fight on his behalf. He even almost looked his saviour Buhari in the eyes becaue of tinubu

Factcheck0001:
see ehn I am beginning to see tinubu as a master strategist

Do u know y?

He's doing everything possible to bring people who opposed him last election to his team n also do well for people in his team during election

What I'd happening with el rufai case is that tinubu is using proxy to finish him, after reducing him to nothing n humiliating him through proxy then he will turn to him during election n el rufai will have no option than to come on board

Indeed politics na chess game, it requires sense

Eyinju112:
My upbringing might be the problem. I am a Jehovah’s Witness and we believe in sex after marriage. If I have sex before marriage, I have fornicated. And there is a huge punishment for that in the congregation and in my family. They all gonna disassociate from me including my family because I’m stained and i should be immediately removed from the congregation so I don’t pollute it. Yeah!!! I couldn’t forfeit my love for God, my family and the congregation. I love those 3 things and I watch them stand while I watch my romance life sink. I have no regret so far.

Eyinju112:
Lol, so true love revolves around sex to you? Hahaha, your mentality is weird. You sound so much like a person who has never being in love. Love that will turn you into a complete fool, love that can make you a slave to it. Someone hurt you and you feel like you need to walk away and the next day you coincidentally meet the person with his bended knees apologizing then you forgive. This process can go on a 100 times until you find someone to drag you out of that bondage. True Love can’t be controlled, it’s a beautiful thing but at the same time the most dangerous thing. If you can’t relate what I just said to what happened to me please rest. Don’t quote me anymore.

Eyinju112:
Which country did this one happen? Gambia? Lol. Because if you wanna tell me this happened in Nigeria then jokes on you. The only reason a Nigeria woman would willingly tell her husband to marry a second wife is if she’s barren. She might pity her husband especially when she confirms she’s the problem. It’s normal and wise for her to implore her husband to marry a second wife. It is cultural believed by yorubas that children bring more children, she might be hoping that her paving way for her husband to get a co-wife and they bearing children might open the way of child bearing for her. And sometimes there are selfish ones that immediately they give birth through that process, because truly that process sometimes work, they begin to envy the Co-wife because she has the heir, and then problem begins in the household.

Eyinju112:
I do not agree. I understand you might not have tasted true love from a woman, so my darling, speak for yourself. Women are Mumu when they are in love. I once loved one dude years ago. I can tell you it was real love, because I was the one spending in that relationship, dude never gave me 1 kobo. I would visit him, buy foodstuffs , cook, clean and all, Because I couldn’t open my legs then, dude left me for a lady who was willing to open her legs. The betrayal I felt then broke me into pieces. I promised not to love anyone but I was lying to myself. I kept loving and loving and still loving.
Even the bible mentioned Ruth who loved her husband till death. So don’t think every lady coming your way don’t love you, that mentality won’t give you a happy home. Love and be opened to be loved. Have a blessed day.

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

fabolouz1:
90% of our politicians lacks ideology , they only go where they would benefit for the time been.

hisexcellency34:
https://thescrutinyng.com/2025/01/05/thisday-suffering-nigerians-deserve-man-of-the-year-award-not-tinubu-adedayo/

kettykin:
Trust this man at your own risks.


A railway on a narrow gauge instead of a standard gauge? A glaring step backward. Igbo entrepreneurs, stop waiting for a government that has sidelined you since 1970. Seize the opportunity, obtain the necessary licenses, and develop the Anambra Basin yourselves. Dependency only deepens the marginalization.

otipoju:
So if your younger brother is misbehaving and frustrating the hell out of you, you will not tell your husband...because to you na outsider ?

Like I said you never marry before.

kings59:
Typical Nigerian mentality

otipoju:
It's obvious you have never been married.

When time reach you go talk true.

I agree both of you should never stay in a family house though, and even staying close to both inlaw is not ideal...but pretending that members of your family are saints and do not have faults will land you in back in the streets eventually because you will never be fair when conflicts arise between your family and him. Your husband will see through you and will resent you for this even if him no talk, but him affection for you go dey reduce dey by day.

Secondly you still see him as a stranger...if you are still referring your siblings as your family. Who you husband come be? you never ready.

Pojomojo:
Silence is golden Don’t be the 1st one to call 4 a dialogue when there is a dispute. He is the man. Let him call the house to order

Never ever stay in a family house 🏡

Never talk down about your family members to him

Bennysam:
Girls love differently

DeBrain045:
Okay actually this question poped up in my mind for a while now, are Tall guyz really attractive to ladies at first sight??
I have alot of friends thou and colleagues any time we hangout together there this kinda feel i notice from ladies when the taller ones talk them or wo them me personally have experienced it, pls keep character aside o, dat why i said at first sight am not short sha

PantShifter:
Being married to 4 women in this harsh economy is highly commendable but the guy has serious work to do to keep them happy.

Anyway he has 4 different pùssies so he won't get bored

beyep:
The female gender and its love for hair styles


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZt4WYztvyU

Saturnalia:
Women of this generation have taken their promiscuity to a whole new dimension.

Ibkay32:
For someone in their 30s living under their parents' roof, the situation can bring about a mix of emotions and challenges. However, just because someone isn't living with their parents doesn’t necessarily mean everything is going perfectly in their life. It’s easy to assume that independence equates to success, but the reality is that every situation, whether living at home or on your own, has its own set of struggles. People may face pressures in other areas of life, financially, mentally, or emotionally, regardless of where they live. Sometimes, staying with family offers a form of support that others might not have, and that's something not everyone can easily understand. Each person's journey is unique, and outward appearances don’t always reveal the full picture.

Fineman2:
https://punchng.com/video-i-was-raped-five-times-iyabo-ojo-opens-up-about-abuse/

kcpumping:
Well, Mr blogger, the truth is that what has happened here is a normal thing in the eastern region and it helps to build stronger bond and to reassure the ladies parent that she will be well taken care of where she is going. If you watch the video very well, you will agree with me that at a point the guy on shirt was even been told to slow down while he winked on the brother and smiled....ike adighi eme na ogo. No man goes to his inlaw place to fight them...Happy new year