Hmm

Skepticus:


Please don't mix Loneliness and Aloneness/ Solitude up.

You could be a social butterfly and still be lonely or be solitary and still feel much fulfilled. Loneliness (as I believe) seem to be a negative emotion.

I think you meant "aloneness" which means that you could be solitary or have few circle of friends but still have your mental game and sexual frame together.

Thanks for the clarification. I used aloneness instead of loneliness. But maybe she made a mistake. But your explanation shows me you understand the difference between the two words.

Safe.

Rodeoz:
Absolute truth Bro. I was dating this girl for over a year and I met her a V. I respected that a lot and still does everything a man does for his woman regardless of the sex deficiency.
It never mattered to me and I trusted her so much cause relationship ain’t about sex.

Fast forward to this year. She was getting distracted and I told her. We dragged the issue for a while and it led to us breaking up. Barely 2 weeks after the break up which I knew quite alright she was going to come back to her senses and come back and apologize. She told me she already had a romance with a guy. I mean a guy she barely knows.

I was mad when she told me. She wanted us back so badly but can I ever trust her like I did before.

She’s still there thou, hoping for us to get back. But I don’t believe a woman can be that cheap. Like really?

Barely 2weeks.

I understand you. My brother no women is worth your trust. No matter what you provide or give, they can never be satisfied. Everyman must learn this the hardway.

The reason why most men still believe a unicorn exist is because they have never really experience female nature at it peak. But time will always tell. Experience is the best teacher.

No matter how you try to enlighten some men, they will tell you that you are bitter. And most women will never want men to understand it. Even your female siblings will hide these truth from you.

Just focus on yourself . If any ladies bring the only thing she has to offer. Chop and clean mouth. Don't commit or don't invest in any lady cause they will never do the same for you when you are in their shoes.

Most of our fathers never understood this . So they can never teach you. They lived all their lives as a slave to women. The amount of paternity fraud back then and now is a living evidence that even in marriage, women are never faithful or loyal. It is just your turn.

The lady you are with, continue chopping her until you are tired. Then push her back to the street . Let her learn, she will eventually become a public toilet at the end of the day for men. If you decide to marry her, it will be your detriment.

Safe bro.

CHoccolaTE:


So much drivel, maybe one day I will have time to respond in detail to these jokes but for now no.

Imagine the nonsense, men are superior because they can lift heavy things?
Women are inferior because they 'age faster'?
Women need protection because so they are inferior?
Laughable

Does the fact that men carry out more damage and criminal activities not point you to the fact that you lot are actually a destructive and harmful component in the grand scheme of things? The fact that men are prone to be more bloodthirsty and sadistic not reduce them to level of harmful diseases and germs that cause death and destruction and should be avoided and wary of? How is that anything to be proud of? How is that superiority?
Women don't need protection from men, men need to stop being criminals and killers and rapists that's if it's even possible for them to do that. They should try and elevate themselves past the level of bloodthirsty animals and stop being robbers and rapists and scammers and kidnappers.

Let an epidemic or earthquake or global flood break out it will be more crucial for women to survive for the human race to continue, more men can die and humanity will not go extinct. Even your XY chromosome is an incomplete variation of female XX, the only functional part of your XY chromosome is the X, the Y part that makes you a man is just useless.

Stop wasting my time with your foolish arguments this morning because you want to talk to a female online. Go outside and talk to real girls.

You have replied like a true female, which is emotional and not rationale. Then you start insulting with shaming language. I made my points without insulting or calling women names or hoe . But I guess you were expecting such irrelevant arguments. You can't discuss or dialogue without emotions.

I don't blame you. Reasoning and having a logical discussion is not part of your nature. It is my fault for trying to reason with you.

Have a great day inferior being.

CHoccolaTE:


Societal pressure is mostly what makes women get married
Men are no longer sole bread winners so women have money to survive without men in their lives
You men are the ones that need to prolong your heritage and carry on your family name so you need marriage and children

I agree with your first sentence. And this prove to me marriage is still a scam. Cause if most women marry based on societal pressure, they end up marrying the wrong man.

I agree also with the second sentence men are no longer the sole provider. Which also means women marry or date men based on provision before. Which still proves a woman love for a man is provisional , transactional and conditional.

Now the last sentence of legacy is true too. But you forget one thing. Once a woman agrees to be the vessel ( çause women are most times one form of vessel or the other ) and after childbirth, she looses form which won't give her the normal attention and validation she gets.

Now let me tell you why women are not the prize. It is inbuilt in a woman to always want more. Women who earn still always want a man who earn more to give and provide for them.

Women always need protection. If you doubt me go jogging or take a stroll in your area at old time men easily do. You will be surprise at what might happen. This apply anywhere in the world.

Women will always age out fast before men. Get a man at age 35 and a lady at age 35 you will clearly see the difference.

Women are emotional thinkers , you need logical and rational thinkers to think ahead.

Single mother also is one the things that teach most ladies that they are not the prize. I won't advice you to try that cause you would regret it.

Women naturally are self-centred. You can earn a million and your husband earns the same. You will still want to take his share and add to yours. Which most men agree because they are natural provider.

Men and women are not equal in any term, we have unique features which is particular and advantageous to each gender . But Women always fight to be equal with men . Why ? Because you still see men as the prize. If not you will careless.

Physically and mentally men are still the prize. You can't lift what a man can lift. Both even in sport, career wise, thinking and well-being wise . Men are still the prize.

Women always need a man, no matter independent and financially stable they are. Because women are generally needy for one thing or the other.

The only way I can accept a woman as the prize is if she can prove to be independent and better in all areas mentioned above. Which if she tries, it will be to her own detriment on a long-term. She will have to end up childless, alone, and feeding cats. Even if she does IVF she will still needs a man's sperm. Lol

But if you have a logical or rational point to prove you as a woman is the prize. I am gladly interested. We learn everyday and I am open for dialogue.

kollinzgee:
I joined Nl last year because Harddons of dating drills I was very weak in mind and couldn't approach women and always get rejected many times but after absorbing the dating drills plus some tips here I overcame my fears with women and with life in general it was a blissful era for me I was respected by both male and females the my ego was bloated and I had my women in my finger tips I was never committed to any during this period I lost my virginity but I was getting so much love .I didn't take shit from women and people in general .I was selective of my friends and all.

just like all other things in life I suffered the disadvantages of the drills I was seeing as a fuckboy who doesn't have feelings, doesnt fall in love and doesn't respect women because I was cocky I thought maybe I should loosen up a little . on the other hand I was literally alone in my own world because I was totally surrounded by simps and betamales who saw worshiping women as a normal so whenever I educate them on things I have learnt here they just laugh it off I wish I had an alphamale friend but I didn't.

October last year i clock 27 within this period I had this sudden change in my personality the game gradually left me and I was gradually becoming weak and called it maturity I wanted to be real as possible with women because I saw the drills as childs play.i had so much pressure from home to start a serious relationship because i wasnt getting younger so early this year I met this very beautiful lady and some few dates we started dating she was a 9/10 I respected her as a lady , I spent on her and ensured she was happy because I wanted something serious with her that will lead to the future i forgot my about my other girlfriends and focused on her alone .

after 2 months in the relationship her attitude suddenly changed she was no longer friendly and homely as she was before , she no longer let me touch her she now being up excuses that she has personal problems she is dealing with and needed space but with the look of things Maybe another guy out there has caught her fancy though we have not broken up officially but she has totally changed and I might end the relationship.
my greatest regret is not that she changed but my greatest regret is that I dropped my whole dating game because I wanted to act matured and real but the exact opposite was what I saw
so this very moment I want to retake my redpills and never go back again there is no such thing as love women want a caring and matured guy but will later loose interest in him I regret I repeat I regret

Hmm first of all we will always welcome you back into the redpill community online. We told you most of you are a kiss or BJ away from the plantation. But we are glad you have re-learnt that the juice is not worth the squeeze.

This is for you alone and brothers who are redpill out there will affirm the following below. As for the Simps, feminist, white knight and captain save a hoe, read at your own detriment.

Now let me quickly remind you of some bitter red pill truth.

Women are incapable of love ( it is always provisional, conditional or transactional).

You can never make a woman happy.

Women are emotional being. They can never be rational or logical.

Women are full of false pride. They will never accept they are wrong.

You can never trust a woman ( even our mothers ) you need to remove that smokescreen that my mother, sister, cousin, fiancee are trustworthy.

She is never truly yours even after marriage, it is just your turn.

Once you hear I will never do that to you or not all women are like that. My brother just pull back or else it is coming for you.

My brother, hypergamy is real. It is in their nature. Women hypergamous nature is inscribed and embedded in their DNA.They act it unconsciously without even knowing.

Focus on your money, looks and status. Learn to embrace aloneness not loneliness.

Always stand your point and views with women, they always end up respecting you over time.

No cohabitation or living with a woman. You will end up regretting it.

Never validate or give women your attention. You will regret it because it brings nothing in return.

Control, manage and use your spare time for your self development. Cause giving your time to women will yield no interest or gain ( even if it is cuddle and vagina you get). It will only bring more liabilities ( infections, pregnancy, financial request, waste of time, emotional tappon and trauma).

This little welcome back to the redpill truth should quickly get you back on your feet. Could have continued but works call.

Be safe my brother. I know they have a lot of weak blue pilled men around us. I just shut up and let them learn on their own. It is just most learn at a late age.

CHoccolaTE:


Hahhaha
O my gosh, you Nigerian men really think you are a prize

No be only no fear.

Hmm generally in a rational and logical thinking, men are the prize.

It is just most men don't know and ladies are good at making themselves feel like the prize.
Men are the prize because they have everything on their side.

Sincerely analyse it what makes you think women are the prize?

DontBullshitMe:

If only these girls you intend to overlook their past will consider you if you were a homeless, broke guy.

You better wake the fuçk up and never settle for anything short of a virgin.

You said it all. Most young guys are dumb. They don't use their brains and never think rational or logical. They work with their emotions too much.

A rational person will want a virgin and to be sure after birth na multiple DNA test. Now being a Virgin doesn't guarantee success or faithfulness in marriage. But you are sure of your first and second seed.
Marriage gan is still a scam. But at least your children/legacy shouldn't be.

After even if she cheats you can free her and let her be used as public toilets by othermen. Experience will personally teach her lessons. When she realise she holds the key to sex and not the key to a stable relationship.

But trust all these Zeeworld/ telemundo infected men out there, who believe all their life is to be in plantation/ slavery for a woman. All this Adam /provider wanna be brothers. Time will tell.

My man . Lmaoo

Lol make I park here today. Sit down they read comments.

Jaqenhghar:


When they say you are sub-human you will start foaming at the mouth and convulsing in rage. Tomorrow you will carry this same shithole mentality and disgrace yourself among decent people. See the case of basketmouth for instance.

Hmm you think you made sense out of that comment right. Ok enjoy.

Agboriotejoye:


Demise ke?
Na u kill am?

Lmao. My bad. Her downfall I mean. Will change it. Thanks

Jaqenhghar:

If your daughter is raped flippantly ask her to move on okay

Lol why so pained. You lack logic and rational mind.

Re-read the new. It was consentual in a way. She allowed them because of what she believed she would get. Oga emotional. Lmao

Hmm it was greed that led to her downfall.

I once experienced it once something similar which indicated get help method. Lol. The financial implication might clear over time but the mental truama of the rape (so called consentual rape ) is another whole new level.

She should just move on like most ladies advice men to do in such situation.

Hmm, I feel sad sincerely for the man sha.

No one will understand him only if they were in his shoes. Although suicide was the wrong option.

However my own opinion for young men out there. Live a free agent lifestyle. You guys don't understand how free and powerful you guys are. You have dominion over all creatures and thing around you apart from a woman.

Most men are just too attached to women. I have friends and I see the way they act around their so called 'girlfriends' , 'fiance,' or 'wife' and I just pity their ideology on life. They feel they are not complete without them until the ladies truly brings out her nature at the slightest opportunity.

Everyman must learn one way or the other that your happiness depends strictly on you. You can't make any object, luxury, or human being your source of happiness cause it is just a smoke screen. It is a delusional happiness especially if it is around your so called 'wife'.

This man must have thought all is hardwork and hustle was for his source of happiness ( madam and kids). Only to realise it after many years of marriage that it was just delusional.

Some men shaming the guy both above and below me, still don't understand, the sacrifice he made to make it work. But ended up seeing it was a waste of time. Some men too might have been woke and are insulting him because he was not emotional stable joined with the economic hardship he was facing . He was not rationale and logical. But too everyman his own weakness.

Hmmm Abeg make I go back to my life jeje.

Hmm this is where I respect Europeans and Americans. This is information gathering.

Now this author might not be totally right. But trust me out of every nonsense, there is a sense in it. This principle works for me nowadays.

Everytime I go out to pub, bars, gathering etc. I
seat down and keep quiet. I gather information from every single nonenses both my friends and random people are saying. And I get a little message or sense out of the nonense. There is always an epitome of truth in it. Even though it is nonenses. Lol

Try it in your personal relationship with people. Same goes here on nairaland. Read some stupid nonense comments and pick the tiny truth in it. Simple.

Lol. Finally na to dey swim now for Lagos. Just follow the boat for back.

Advantages

You will not spend at all in this economic hard time.

You will be extremely fit ( imagine swimming in the morning and evening while going back home)

You would avoid unnecessary human contact or communication in this Corona virus era.

You will be respected for taking a personal choice.

Disadvantage

You might die. After which no one will know where your body dey in that big water.

The choice is yours .

Enjoy.

So true

franchasng:
Don't mind them, women should direct their anger to their maker not the man nor the side stew!!


Ladies enjoy their life while single by selecting who to fvck, when to fvck, etc, while the guys are rejected cos of their economic status most times, and they labor to make money, it is natural for men to start enjoying their own life when married after they have settled financially, women should just accept that and play along for peace to reign


So as a single lady, before you marry, bear in mind by default that your husband must cheat once he is financially settled, and if at the end he doesn't you thank your destiny....and accept that fate or remain single for life because just as Lucky Dube sang: nobody can stop reggae, the same way, nobody can stop men from having mistresses and extra affairs so long as the world continues, if you don't like it, please turn to a lesbian or go to the Monastery






If you doubt me, check the pic below

Deep pure redpill truth.

Ladies prime is from age 18- 30yrs when beauty is still intact. They decide who and what they fvck. Females have most of the fun in life without hormonial inbalance, no sense, riding the cc.

Men's prime start from 35- 60yrs when they are financially stable. They can easily provide and are more experienced, so young ladies flock them like bees on honey.

This is why most men cheat after marriage. The amount of plausible deniability young ladies use to seduce them is just too much.

Madam deal with the truth or stay single. Simple.

Don't date or marry ladies that have nothing to add to your life.

If the man's wife had value and self worth, she would just request for a divorce. This will show the husband that she values her life and she worth more than a hoe/toto/pvssy.

But this is not the case. Most hypocrite will come hear and say what she did is right. But in reality, the husband is at fault, not the side chick. Simple.

gypsey:
Divorce her husband, simple!!! she is not nailed to wall in the marriage, is she? she should get out of the marriage and saved herself the humiliation.

who gave her the right to go about assaulting innocent girl with no prove that the girl slept with her so called husband.

You see you read my mind. Divorce the man. But she won't and you know why?

Because the only thing she had to offer is normal sex. Most women, especially fake feminist see their husband has trophies, income provider, etc. They rely so much on the husband and once the man notice this , the respect is lost.

Now another young lady has given the husband both normal, oral and anal. It is paining her. The same sex she use as a tool to mainpulate and control the husband. The young lady dey give the husband in various 3d version. Lmao

She feels pained but seriously I don't feel pity for her. She married the man. She should deal with it.

Simple

Hmm I hope she will use it to help the southerners instead of playing the loyalty politics to the North. Simple.

Pascopele:
Which of these statements hurts the most in a relationship?

1. It’s over between us.
2. I never loved you
3. You are not good in bed
4. I’m in love with someone else
5. I was just playing with you

Why take all these seriously.

It is just your turn. Even after marriage, it is just your turn. Most people married or in a relationships are in it for a reason. It is purely transactional and conditional . Once you understand that as a guy or lady. Nothing, including all the above grammar will bother you. Hmm ok oo

Gbam, finally the table done dey turn .

RIP madam.

LagosBoi2:


"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” ~ 1 John 4:18

Thank you for the observation

Ok the best thing/joy/ source of happiness in life are better kept secret. But once eye start preying into them, you start to learn or hear things you were not aware off.

It was a knowledge/ secret of happiness you should have kept to yourself.

Thanks for your Bible Qoute.
Here is one for you

Proverbs 12:23 The prudent keep their knowledge to themselves, but a fool’s heart blurts out folly.

Have a great day.

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

Error . You just exposed your source of happiness, whatever comes after Mr man take it Oooh.

Enjoy.

People in the south part of Nigeria are just too docile or not well informed. Things that happen in the north on federal employments will just make you know we can never unite or be one. Simple.

Lol, this PPPRA recruitment was just a scam. Lmao .

You won't believe it. People who eventually got the job, either paid, used connection or slots. It was not on any merits.

It was as if the E.S - Executive Secretary of PPPRA, Abdulkadir Umar Saidu, was against the east, middle belt, south or south west. Pure Nepotism of the highest order.

Federal Character Comission is a scam. Not all state got even one or two candidates. Whereas Northern state got 4-5 slots each (Katsina,, Kano, kebbi etc).This show you how decayed the Nigerian system is presently.

You will just be amazed at the nonenses and they expect this country to stand together. Nepotism will destroy us all.

Lol don't think I will share it.

Would give based on my assessment and their demands at that moment. No emotions attached. They are both the same to me which is equal.

If there are no demands or needs. I will leave the money in my account jeje until further notice. Simple.

Although I support the 10 percent tithe too sha. I go chill with me, myself and I. Chop better catfish and drink. Buy a chilled unsweetened yoghurt with vanilla or framboise cake on my way home for dessert. Then i go sleep well.

Lol

Hmm

earthgirl:
What was she doing all night that she couldn't tell us. Even if it's washing of clothes, tell us.



And what on earth is Callywood?

You read my mind. Hmm the matter tire Mathias Oooo.

Oyin she is doing well . Lmao