Lol you both are just funny.

I already read alot of comments and still they are all funny.

The ladies claiming oga needs to pay for all as he is the man. Lol

The men claiming equality since ladies love to claim equal to men.

It is just pure nonsense. You see your marriage is set for problems and issues. If you both can't agree to simple stuff like this. She feels entitled. You are not ready too for marriage sincerely oga.

After the so called marriage, she will always talk and rubbish you once you share the bills equally ( even though that is the right thing to do).

No matter what you do to please a woman, she will never be satisfied. My brother tell her what you can afford and keep to it. If she can't agree or abide by it, hmm free her ooo.

You can avoid all these future unnecessary issues now before it is too late. Ok oooo

Lol

Lol

Hmm

visijo:
Instead of buying him gifts on Valentine’s Day, just give him the money let him pay the people he’s owing.

You made my night. Lmao

Off point comment like this just always put a smile on my face.

Especially when most people are just blabbing funny things and I am trying to pick one or two thing out of the blabbing.

There is always a nanoscopic sense in people's nonsense. Simple.

Lol is it by force to marry ?

Always one issue or the other. You will just realize that your life was more peaceful without all these marital trivia matters .

Hmm ok . Keep commenting oo. I am reading and learning the more reason to focus on my path jeje.

Hmm

Riele:


What if it is true ?

Got a problem ?

Nope, just made things more clear and vivid to me now.

Have a great day.

Arthur21:
There are several groups of rude women
1) bitter frustrated ladies(example CHoccolaTE,lilmissfavvy) they are usually evening newspapers that have never found a right man for themselves thus fire at any male they talk to.
2)foolish ladies(riele,ladies forever group,amatarasha).. Just immature ladies with no common sense.

3)hot tempered ladies(michelekabod)- you don't want to encounter her when she is angry.

4) mentally deranged ladies ( missghosted,funmisticqueen)

So right on all these monikers

Riele:


Who said I wrote Neco ? .

My Waec result was out last year .

Please tell me this is not true

luminouz:


Your own comment is stupendously inañe too. Firstly,lagferry and the boats were commissioned last year when the okada ban wasn't in effect.
Secondly, there arw plans to increase the ferries and not all lagosians will use it,so what's the issue with you? Imagine 30-50 boats ferrying people to and fro everyday,that will surely help some people. Even lagbuses in their hundreds never stopped the traffic issue of Lagos,so what's your point.
Thirdly, you either depend on okada to survive or have dependents who do. You ignored the high influx of unregistered northerners who made the business high risk,constituted a nuisance and increased crime rate in Lagos? Why Dafuq did u think the ban was announced? Shiit is going on underneath that your myopic eyes couldn't see. So chill out and make do with the new alternatives..

Lastly,your moniker is fisher07... Shouldn't u be happy you will be closer to ur fish cousins when you use lagferry everyday?

You see I made my points and opinions clear without focusing or attacking anyone .
Now instead of you to state your opinion in a civilised manner, you decided to denounce yourself.

Let me help you so that you can find meaning and solution to your existence.

Your problem started from your father by not knowing which sperm and which womb to conceive it in.

I accept that your errors or lack of understanding came from the combination of your parents.

You see erection dysfunctional sperm or quick ejaculation leads to children who later become adults like you. If only your father knew he would have just wiped you off immediately or told your mother to swallow you.

Now see the end result of your parents stupidity and mistake. You now come on nairaland to just denounce yourself and exhibits pure stupidity.

Trust me you need inner reflection to understand and accept you were a mistake. Then once you've accepted, you can now find a solution to your problem.

I leave you with your circumstance. Qoute me at your peril.

Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

I shouldn't give you this advice, cause as a lady you should know what to do.

Advice 1:
The neck controls the head without the head even noticing.

Advice 2:
You are a lady. You know how to make small and short meal for two and half. Meaning you specify to your in-law that the food left is for Oga.

Or you prepare meal when oga is almost home. To ensure he eats it.

The two is for you and the half is for him incase he wants to complain.

Advice 3:
Use your femine trait and power, you have it. When oga don satisfy discuss with oga the wey serpent discussed with you wey you take convince am for the garden. Lol

Although this should be the last option oo. Lmao

Hmm

This doesn't add up. Most will say nice move to decongest Lagos. But trust me this is a dumb move.

Why

First of all, past week ago, he cut or reduce most of the working transportation means that have been effective over the years.

Only to introduce only 10-20 boats not transportation ferries. Seriously. This means of transport that any problem or accident means 80% death for commuters.

In developed countries, people build on existing system and improve on it. In Nigeria we stop or destroy that for personal gains.

Even reading some comments both above and below shows me why we are in this state.

Hmm kokun the controversial foundation is back Ooo

Still a good development. But does she understand what it entails in keeping and maintaining a car.

Taxi or Uber ain't easy Oooh. I think she might even realize that the bike job earns more if I stand by her 20k per day info.

But all the best of luck to her. Luck or hardwork na still the same result.

Lol wait for it my brothers it is coming.

Just wait, it is a matter of time.

Hmm

Kennyprince:
The first time sth like this happened to me at oshodi , the seller was gay!

He had a massive and beautiful provision store. I loved a particular kind of bread he used to sell so almost every evening, I would come there and get it with some other stuffs.

Later he started giving me some discounts and unnecessary attention. One the second week or so, this Igbo guy gathered the courage cos I was by this time free with him a little, thinking he was this generous person.

That's how on a Sunday morning, he told me they (gays) are going to Dubai for a orgy party and so I shd join he, that he likes me!!!

That's how I ended my coming to the shop. Thank God he didn't even know the direction to my house.

Well this one might be different sha. Just sharing

guy you are just funny. Lmao

MrMike96:
You be gay abi.

He is purely gay with perverted intention .The type you cannot leave your son with.

Eeeh where are we heading ooo.

Because they can't bond with any man. They see it as fun simple. Some will even start transactions with it.

Wait.

What is your problem? I needed to ask you first of all?

Is that your age to get married is getting close?

Or because he is tall and physically built with HIV Gbola?

Or money? Cause you painted Blue Cabana dinner like one big romantic event? If you are financially stable as you claim that.shouldn't even woah you.

It is as if you were never courted or treated right all through your dating life ba?

Now answer to your problem:

Now I am amazed that the number one rule of relationship, which is trust was broken from the initial foundation. He didnt tell you off his HIV status.

Imagine you were infected, this will be another story.Without prior knowledge and he claimed you infected him. This will be another story.

Imagine it was the opposite situation, will the charming Prince accept your lying infected hiv ass. Put him in your situation.

You met a guy who is rich with HIV and a liar /cheat with anger management issues . All this red flags and you are still claiming love.

My sister wake up before them bury you with one of the red flags above. I would have talk sense to you if you were my sister. You are in lust and deep infatuation. You are in a smokescreen which until you are infected, it will clear out of your face. You are just not logical and rationale. You are too emotional and its shows pure immaturity in you.

What are your longtime expectation from this escapade because to me you are the only one who thinks it is a relationship

You will.marry.and have infected kids out of love for a violent, lying and cheating husband ba?

You are just vexing me tonight. May almighty vex you as you have vexed me tonight. Maybe then the smokescreen will clear from your eyes. Psssh

Why package dollars in brown papers.

Nigerians at time dey amaze me. Simple.

Michellekabod2:

Mgtow and alpha male are different. I don't know why people use them interchangeable. Alpha males are those naturally endowed with some masculine traits that make them leaders and draw attention,admiration and envy to them. While mgtow is walking away from love based commitment because of the ideology of females being harmful or so.
I agree

Wrong. Who you describe are players. Using and dumping girls ain't a compulsory nature of alphas(some may do so,based on individual differences). Alpha males have power,they are the shapers of history,the ones who built empires and conquered cities. They are men of valour. People only see alphas in respect to love-dating. They may or may not love,if they do is normally logical(loving with the head).
. kindly do research on who an alpha male and don't conclude from the lens of PUAs....
. so he is weak. Alpha males know love doesnt exist. They know it is provisonal, conditional and transactional in most.cases. hmm tripping over a girl who will definitely change both mentally and physically over time sold him out as a beta and weak male. Simple. how does tripping over a girl makes you weak or believing in love makes you weak? What makes you weak is when you act stupid because of this feelings(like becoming a maga). Consciously loving a girl doesn't make you weak.

An alpha male is a unique male with some sought after masculine traits,what he chooses to do with those traits whether good or evil doesn't change him from being one. Being alpha is based on what traits/personality you have and not necessarily your actions(however our personality shapes our actions).


I agree Op isn't an alpha male.

Yes,we both agree on OP not being alpha male.

But most alpha male loose frame over the.years. do your research too. They start to exhibit toxic masculinity over the years or abusive behavior when that traits start leaving.

This most happen on a long period of.time.because humans constantly change. Except if he doesnt evolve and stays the same. Which change is constant. You.can never be up there for life keeping both.frame in business and.relationship.

Also you.can never be endowed with masculine trait. You build.up.on it. Both physical, mentally and financially. If not most men will achieve that level.

PUA and players are just lowlife. They feel good with amount of female body counts.which is a total waste of time and ressources too.

But to everyone their own.understanding. simple.

Michellekabod2:

Exactly,they believe once you sing the redpill mantra,open daily threads on relationships,troll female threads,shout #teamvirgin you automatically become one.


It takes more than that. I have come across alphas in real life, they are never broke and their looks alone is jaw dropping. They command respect naturally. No woman debates over their authority because their masculinity is so intense.
Being alpha encompasses a lot,the way you think,reason,social intelligence, emotional maturity,financial stability,sexually/physical appeal,confidence,status in the society et Al


I don't know who reduced the standard of being alpha to be just believing the redpill ideology . it seems people believe once you swallow the redpill,grab your balls from ladies,you automatically become one...lol. It takes more than that.
That's why when I see some redpillers here calling others SIMPs/beta males,I have a good laugh because the margin between redpillers here and the SIMPs is very little, just an ideology separates them.

Great you have come across them and where has it led you?

Sincerly answer that question. Used and.dumped ba. Lmao.

Most.of you ladies Or so claim.feminists are alpha widows. You have all been.used and left for betamales like OP to pick up.

What.will the like of Op or other betamales do with alpha widows like you. Nothing tangible. You cannot bond,.too much emotional baggage carried from various alpha males.

That is just.the pure truth. Simple

bigpriik:


The problem with guys like you is that if I ask you the meaning of alphamale you go just confuse.

You see. You are just one of those white Knight. The female warriors all too gain attention.

If you truly need answer do your research . I am not alpha and.dont want to be one.

I thought alpha male were sensible until.I.found Mgtow and I realise the MGTOW and lonewolf life fits me well. Nothing to do with relationships (both short or longterm). I dont support marriage.

Alpha males both.relationship or professional wise are just asshole and selfcentered
They take advantage.and.channel their energy on the.wrong purpose. They really fit naija girls because of the.entitlement mentality and mind games. Even when alpha males marry, they end up becoming betamales or abusive in the marriage because of their toxic masculinity behaviours. Do your research you will figure it out.

I cant leave my life with such misery so I opted out. The OP clearly stated he was alpha and I had to prove him wrong. Simple.

Michellekabod2:
so alpha males don't fall in love?
Do study the meaning of an alpha male. A lot of people believe that if you ain't a mangina,cuckhold,or wimp,then you are an alpha male.

Infatuation can happen to anyone,how one handles it is what differentiates him.
I don't believe Op is an alpha male for two reasons: he let infatuation get hold of him and he comes to seek advice from people on how to run his life.

So someone is weak because he is thinking twice before acting on rumours?


By the way the alpha males on this forum ain't up to 10%, the sad thing about it is that they are mostly quiet and don't comment on many threads.

You answered it. Perfectly well.

I dont see myself as alpha male. I am mgtow level 1-2 not mgtow monk mode.

The op stated that he is an alpha male. That is where he got it wrong.. And yes alphamale dont give a fvck. They dont comment and that is why I.cant be one.

Alpha male take.advantage of female nature and that is why they.dont fall in love.

They use their understanding on female nature to fvck and dump lot of girls which is still.waste of time,.energy and ressources all just.for a pvssy easy attainable on tinder, bumble and other hook up apps.

It is just pure stupidity. Look at most alpha males after 10 yrs, nothing tangible to offer based on wasted channelling of energy to the.wrong purpose in life. Some even have children without their knowledge in different beta male houses. I am sorry, i cant leave such a life.

So he is weak. Alpha males know love doesnt exist. They know it is provisonal, conditional and transactional in most.cases. hmm tripping over a girl who will definitely change both mentally and physically over time sold him out as a beta and weak male. Simple.

bigpriik:
Good afternoon NL been long I posted.i have something bothering my mind lately I am the type that doesn't fall in love easily(alphamale ) but recently I am shocked and proved wrong, I can stop thinking about this girl though am trying not to be needy but it is a strong battle starring at her pics alone my mind has travelled into the future seeing her with my kids.i have asked her out already . something I rarely do because of the dating advice I got here but
because I really love this girl I just want to be natural as ever she is considering my proposal judging from her body language.
All of a sudden the devil rose out of the blue sea just like a Nigerian movie a friend of mine said he had a sexual encounter with though they never had sex but they negotiated in the past she agreed to sleep with him only if he can pay 5k he told me she is into runs after hearing this I cut her off I didn't continue the wooing I hated her .guess what now the feelings àre back again and stronger than ever it is now confirmed that I love this girl
Am 27 and am looking for a serious relationship so I can settle down this decade and she is the only one i see. I wanna marry her she is just 22
please I know I joke a lot in this forum but this is serious what should I do.

Hmm hold on,

Ok now let me start with you.
You are one kiss away from the plantation.

You are not an alpha male. And most ladies reading this comment know am right.
You are just one of those one wannabe Alpha male. You cant see it.

A Lady who's love is transactional and conditional with 5k and if well priced well in Buhari Era will drop to 3k. Abeg

Please marry her so that in the future we will reread the updates on this your matter and reference this your post as a lesson for the younger weakmen like you. Pssh

Hmm entitled little thing.

You just come online to get.validated for no tangible reason.

The wall is coming for you all like her.

Shiloh awaits you all.

virgoquin:

Must you guys touch any female that comes to your place.


I don't know why guys have this mindset of trying to act funny when a lady visits them

Must you go the the guys house alone when no mutual feeling is involved.

This is why I never believe rape stories. You wanted to size the guy up or wanted something.

No random ladies come to a guy's house alone for visit. Either married or unmarried.

It is not morally right. Stay at your house. Simple.

Attention. She will get.

Please she should post another one after two or one year. We need to confirm if it is still the same.

Dumb girls that their parents can't put in order.

Well I trust our Yoruba demons. Lol food don come. And no.idiot should Qoute me about her age.

You get what you.ask for in life. That is the simple truth.

Hmm

Trust me in it doesn't matter in this part of the world.

Nigeria is by link and connection. The sad reality. Even person with 3rd class dey get great job before Distinction / First Class.

Person with.international degree with.both foreign and local work experience ( in addition speaks foriegn language ) still no.get job but.someone with no work experience and pass certificate dey get job based on.favour and connection.

Trust me.if you want to.go.down that.part.you are thinking and heading, .depression will fvck you up, especially in the.current situation of this country.

So ignore all.the degree class and try to.get a.stable job or start entrepreneur (still scam)part but might work for you. Simple

Dating and marriage na.scam.

Just do and send them back to.the road.

It is just.your turn.

Trust me those are signs of insecurities

Ask matured minds and they will tell you.

Chioma too sitdown like sexual object. Where are the feminist. Am sure they cant see anything wrong with this picture.

Hmm