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First of all who told you that your babe is a good girl.

Although you are stupid too. Infact very stupid.

Advice:

Let her have the child. Cause you might realise it is the best decision you ever made in future.

Imagine your so called babe too don abort and can't bear a child. Hmmm

Tell your girlfriend. If she breaks up with you good and fair which is the right thing to do. Move on.

Or break up with her, tell her you dont deserve her. She will beg and ask why. Tell her the truth and you sincerly feel she deserves better.
Trust me she will stay but watch your back if that happens.

Focus on your career and money.

Left for me. I for just accept the child and wont marry at all (none of the two).

Will enjoy my life Jeje.

Lol

Look at their problem. Hmm they are both not ready for marriage, if this simple question of comprehension and understanding between them is causing unnecessary.

How will they cope with the other serious main issues in marriage. Lmao

Hmm poor youths of Nigeria. These old men are now using us to scam the nation and chopping national cake at free will.

They play on desperation and willingness to better our lives. Imagine it.called G- money for agricultural empowerment for youths.

Now anlayse it.carefully before you quote me like a lazy youth.

So how many youths or young people will partake in this program?

After preaching education to us. They now want you to be a farmer or agricultural person.

Empowerment is always a scam cause in most case you can't follow up or quantify the success rate. Especially in a country like Nigeria where there are no data or means to keep check.

Politician use you as thug or money making avenue then spend the scam money they make on your future (hungry money , greedy, attention seeking wife or daughters) and still insult you as lazy youths. So deep.

You think ayade or buhari cares about you or the next generation. Well man think about your future and enjoy oo. Safe.

BOYLOVABLE1:
A lady send me a friend request on facebook since early last year which I accepted, from there we started chatting.

According to her that she's from India and she will love to marry, we talked a lot. I asked her so many questions about her and she said so many things that she a single mother.

After two months she went off and I also moved on. Just last week Friday, she appears again telling me that her account was hacked.

She has been sending me pictures also request for mine which I did send, she send both nude pics.

On Friday she also wants me to send mine which I declined. After much persuasion, I sent her my nude, she insisted that she wants to see my full unclad pic.
To cut the story shorter, immediately I sent her my full unclad pic, the next thing I saw was:

"You dey craze, I resemble your mate?". I should better comply or else....
When she is through with me I will know my myself.

I just weak, immediately I blocked her on Facebook. I think she wants to use my unclad pic to scam me. She has been calling me but I refuse to pick the call.

Please what will i do?

Don't mind mind my English construction.

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Seriously? How old are you?

Problem :
Naija desperation, hustle,.starvation , madnesss. Greed, greener pasture mentality has messed with.your brain.
That is just the truth.


Solution :
Next time when someone ask you for something ridiculous compare it to your main guys or family member. Would your mother who.carried.you for 9 month in pain ask you for such stupid thing? Then the.answer you get makes you know how to.reply to a stupid request. Simple

Hmm

brunofarad:
Chai

One family gone just like that because of immaturity.


For the unmarried ,
If you are not emotionally matured yet.

Dont get married yet

Marriage no be Beans

Hmm even emotionally stable people still have issues in marriages.

Better enjoy your life and stop all this societal norms.

Lol

biggy26:
Everything you talked about is physical. No one these days look beyond the body.
Marry a serious minded girl or guy if you are serious minded too. Discuss intellectual stuff. Connect spiritually and mentally. Such marriages always last longer than bakassi and six pack marriages even with issues that may arise!

I agree with you on my point being physical. But I stated financial and mental reasons too.

Now let start with spiritual ? Spiritual means religion is involved right. But in most cases religion are used to control people. Meaning one of the party will feel subjected or submitted to one.

Mentally? How, everyone grew up with.different experience and past event . Meaning our mental state will be extremely different. Based on upbringing , family issues, friends etc.

Considering that even the mental state of a man is extremely different from that of a woman.
You feel you can synchronize mentally with eachother. Someone will still be mentally advance in one way or the other and that still put him or her ahead.

Intellectual? hmm either the male or the.female will still be intellectually smarter so it is not possible. The smarter one will always be the one leading which over a peroid of time will still lead to abuse. ( must I always explain it to you).

Have you.ever been in an office or place where everyone is extremely serious minded hmm OK. Then no one will head that organisation. Cause everyone will believe is own way is the best, leading to conflicts .

And all.this point.you mentioned, your probability of.finding this in both.couples or individuals before deciding.to.settle down.is.rare.

You.will wait.for ages.to.find all.this specification in one person before marriage.

Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is not worth it for both side. It always favour oneside than another no matter how most people present it to you.

Things mostly fall apart except if the foundation is strong which in most case it is never. Ladies love conditionally and men too the same. Once both ends can't keep up with their conditions, it will scatter.

Conditions like she got fat, stretch mark, her body, she keeps slutty single friends. For men he got broke, he doesn't care for me, he is never at home etc.

People expect both side will remain the same in everything after marriage which is not possible. After childbirth women will always change mentally and physically. After so much responsibilities men too will always change both financially and mentally.

And if one side manage to remain the same and the other changes, abusive, disrespect, shaming, insult etc will come in, no matter what. It is just standard reaction.

That is why no one or person both in my family,on TV, friends can sell marriage to me. I see it as a sign of weakness from both parties either Lady getting old quickly wants to retire, man getting old looking for legacy (children) etc

Study most married people at events or outing, they look sad and depressed most time but cover it all up with a fake smile. Pssh

What do I know. I am not even married. Elders I leave the floor to you.

In.other news, Dr sid the helper of aunty tiwa before baby wizkid enter. Lol your own karma don slap you too.

Collectively and individually , We are like black crabs, we dont like progress oo.

Ordinary train to improve transportation don turn shooting site. Aaa

Mdr

Aaa inside life

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

This is the case of most marriages in Nigeria.
Imagine even if she had a job, with wet and hvrny Toto for office with different real men readily.available. she go.cheat die. After them.give you head wey reset your brain , them go fvck you tire.

that's why marriage is just a scam both ways. We are humans we always want excitement and something different. Simple

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

The best reply.so.far.

A honest girl then na Naija. Lmao
My guy just know and.accept she is in.her slut phase. Most girls last in that slut phase even after marriage.

Just Laugh and be quiet now if she comes back. Dey chop with constant or double protection. Enjoy as long.as you want. Dont argue, dont.complain, dont invest financially and emotionally.

Anyday she talks about the future of the relationship or marriage, laugh and then go silent again. Then continue, I.realise this is the.best way.to handle cunning, conniving and manipulating babe like her.

Simple.

frosbel2:
Role model ?? Baby mamas ? Profanity ? Illicit sex ? Money craze ?

The Nigerian Youth is finished......

Almost ZERO Hope

Bitter truth. I have to admit.

ajericho:
so because say am exposed and informed,i shouldnt be excited when I see a superstar?

being informed doesn't mean you should be a sadist,,

enjoy life

You are out of topic youngman. No one said you shouldnt be excited.

And as usual, nothing reasonable or intellectual came out of your qoute. Well I guess Nigerian youths are actually lazy and dumb. They will produce more alike children in the future.

Continue your excitement and obsession with Davido or whoever you deem fits.

Qoute me if you have something tangible to say.

Deep

Reichel99:
Davido has more influence than your akinwunmi adesina, who knows akinwunmi outside this country?

Aaa I guess you are not well informed and enlightened. You.are just similar to those students who understand nothing about life.yet.

It is normal you would ask that.question. AFDB staff ,world bank , United nations, unicef, and those who appreciate real change for the general African populace .

You appreciate the likes of Davido due to no ambition and goals in life. You.focus on immoral and irresponsible activities. You better start.getting informed and exposed so.that your children will not be like you.

Simple. Qoute me if you.have something impactful to.say. if not I.leave you.at your own peril and.demise.

Hmm depend on the message you hear from his songs and how you.interpret it

We all read different books and get different message and meaning in it. Same goes for everything. Even life we all have different perception and see different meaning to it.

That is why this funny guy (marley) have different fan base across. I needed to reflect on this cause I couldn't understand why some (not all )responsible, .irresponsible, .good, bad,.normal,.abnormal, sucessful, useless etc people could like and be a.fan.

Don't.dare Quote on what mesage cause I.will still refer you back to the first message typed above. Use.your head.for once too. Simple

Lol.mgtow and redpoll knowledge would have enlightened you in advance but you weakmen that can't do without women's vagina will always learn the hardway.

The juice is never worth the squeeze.

ruggedtimi:
if you love ur life find a new girl, before u pay benita school fee until her finals and she leaves ur sorry a*s

Deep truth Oga. Benita.go.bait you in.and switch.later on. You.will now learn the lesson that.they.are all the.same. Mr lover.

Pussywar:
Your parents failed bad. You trying too had to make sense, but you're obviously an uneducated fool. Run home to your expired milk of a mother and tell her you've successfully disgraced her. I'm sure you don't respect her and she takes that bullshit, that is why you can come on the internet and disrespect women with your chest. Failure of a man.

From your username I know what you ve been through pussywar. Your pvssy has fought so many wars and as usual.that is the only thing tangible you.feel.you.had to.offer. Dumbfvcked pvssy.

You have nothing to contribute. I stated my opinion without insult at first. But as.usual you.all will bring.shaming language and make it personal.

Which I.expected and am not surprise.
My attention for.you.too.is over.

If you like use a new username to quote me at your peril.

Please keep us updated. This seem like a nice story.

Ivebeenbanned:
Is that what you watch your sweet wine dad do with his spoilt milk everyday? I knew someone like you must come from a demented family.

Speaking.from experience with.your.boyfriend or husband ba. You know how una.dey swallow am nah. You little slimy cunning bvtch


My.attention for.you.today.is over.

Qoute me.at.your peril.henceforth.

eni4real:
So, how do we solve all these entitlement sickness??

Just dont rush into marriage. Infact.if.you have the.opportunity go into MGTOW level 1-2 mode. Dont.stress.yourself.because most.ladies are emotional and mentally damaged especially most.from age 25 above. It will take.the.grace of God to find one that is not.

Even Eve wey God give us for Bible, na.blame.we still.blame baba God when she misbehaved and.lured.us to eat the.forbidden fruit. That is why Bible talk say." Pray.you.find a Good Wife" cause most are not.

The.rate.of infidelity with married couple past bachelor's and single ladies own.

The truth is bitter. And when.you talk am na curse them go dey.curse you up and down instead of them to be rationale.

Safe my brother.

Ivebeenbanned:
Your spent... How many minutes? Typing this nonsense. This is all that could come out of your juvenile brain. Typical. You people always want to console yourselves because you see Young girls marrying old men, so they can spend their money while having young lovers outside. And so, you're patting your sorry self on the back, that's its not too late for you. While typing nonsense, the thread is one about a boy who married a 'spoilt milk'. I wonder how many times in a day you father yells "spoilt milk" at your mother. I wonder how you look at her and say "this milk done spoil, tastes bad". You're a disgrace to your parents. They should have sent you to school. Wine. Mtchew

You see.I said earlier listen.to.the message and.dont.insult.the messenger. But you decided to go.on the shaming path. By insulting your parents. Well I blame.your father for not.wiping you off with a.tissue paper or not allowing.your so.call mother.to swallow you.

Simple

Ivebeenbanned:
How exactly are you using them, when its your money they are spending while pretending to love you? Who is getting used and dumped? You sound like one of those heartbroken Nigerian men that has been used several times, in reality there's still another babe who's rent you're paying. You must be ugly.

Let.me enlighten you.a little.since.you.asked an interesting question.

Please in.advance listen to the message and dont insult.the messenger.

Now guys like me dont mind spending money ( my fruits) on girls why.because my tree ( wealth.foundation ) is solid. I have worked on my.financial literacy, that spending the interest which comes automically without stress on entitled.young fresh girls doesnt bother me. Now i.have made mistakes in my.early years ( by being a.simps- beta males - which.is most likely.90 percent of the male population).

A woman is like milk,.they easily get spoilt ( max 18 - 25 yrs - which.is.your.prime.years) after that.you start tasting spoilt. Never wonder.why your mothers start rushing you for marriage after that.age upwards because.they.know and see what.you.cant.see.

Meaning getting a husband might.be hard for.you. You might end up marrying a.guy.you dont like or.love based on.your sexual market value.in the market. You body.( only thing most ladies have.too.offer in most case) start.giving up.on.you ( boobs are slacking,.ass becomes shapeless, toto don wide/slack, hormonial inbalance ,emotional.traumas from.past guys like.me). Might start devoloping.childbirth issues (with.or without past abortions).

You spent.most.of.your life.sleeping.around. with.various guys as a.source of finance instead of working on.your financial.literacy which.is never taught.both.in.school and.at.home.

Now guys are like wine. The older we get,.the.better we become. Our sexual.market value start from 35 yrs ( some.early.thirties when we are lucky) and ends at 60yrs.

Why.do.you.think most women always police their husband.around.at.the.age of 35-55yrs above. Because they know.he.is.stable and have what most.slutty.young.girls want. (Money., power and status). Most wife know.because they were young.and in.the young girls shoes too earlier in.their lives.

Now about the paying a babes rent. I.dont, but wouldnt mind paying a young girls rent.in.her.18, she will.just be slaughtered and.used.as a sexual fantasy and object. Am sure you watched the movie fifty shades.of grey ba. All the.BSDM, Anal,.sexual fantasy.will.just be.fantasized.on her. Nothing more.

Will.she know or learn the secret to.wealth? Will she.think with.her entitled mind how.to.better herself? The answer.is.no. because ladies generally are not rational and dont.think.far. You all live in the.present based on your emotional.feelings. That is just the truth.

So answer the.question who is getting used? Me or.the.ladies psssh.

Not all guys are dumb and can.be used as you ladies.think.you.are doing. We just play.the.fool. we act like a.monkey.to catch.the monkeys and.we.feed you all.the.so.called bananas ( money and dvck) you love . Then in most.case push.you.back to the.street or your parents house where.you.came from.

Deep ba. It is just.the.truth most.guys wont.tell.you..infact they.might.come for my head for exposing this. But since you.asked a question. I.needed to enlighten you.

Think.of.all.your past.relationships or.your. female friends past relationships with uncles, sugar.daddies, boyfriend.The.puzzle will start clicking and making sense to.you.

Have a wonderful day.

MedicH:



Lol the worst part is after doing all these you gain nothing. You start to toil in the morning, wash the car, service it u no wan hear say it broke down, check your instrument cluster everything good. You go and carry the piece of shit then go all places upon her request and in the night highest u get shell. Whether u be 2 or 5 mins man na u know then u lie down to sleep out of physical and mental exhaustion and by the time u woke up u ask urself wetin u gain and see nothing then mood swing starts.

As Wetin you gain. That.is so true. At times I personally feel dissapointed and.disgusted with some cause you will realize, it wasn't worth the.stress.

Especially when all the push.up.bra, fake hair, nails, eyelashes, smelling V. Then they will now be a burden to you. They start.calling, up and down as if you don marry.them already after one night. Aaaa

The juice is not worth the squeeze. Simple

showafrica:
You are shaking there table oo, they will soon come for you. However, thats pure definition of a 9ja lady, to them, there Pusssy is gold mine. If you dont meet up with the demands they give you the impression that someone else is willing to take it at a higher price. Then at 40 they will be at Shiloh after numerous body count and end up with one innocent Jew man. Lol inside life

Shiloh dey wait for.plenty, especially this millenial ones with.no moral.ethic and values.
My brothers just.focus on your money and how to keep.it.growing. Cause they have nothing.to.offer you apart.from.the.public toilet simple.

Lol he doesnt understand the game yet.

Nigerian ladies.are full.of entitlement mentality. You need to capitalize on it and use it to your advantage. That is how you handle Nigerian ladies. They always want something and they feel they are entitled to it because you have shown interest.

You will pick her up and drop her at home. Take her out and make her feel good. Buy her what.you.can.afford. Now in.her mind she feels she can just ask.for.more. Lol make unimaginable demands because you like.her. demands she or her parents cant make or.keep up.too

She will.never appreciate all the effort, you put into getting the.car in.good condition.
Your.fuel in.the.car with AC blowing her head. (Girl way be say na fan dey her house.)
Your finance or money.you spent on.her. your time and.attention you dedicated to her for that.day.
Your ability to pick a good outing.venues to make her.feel special.

All this, she didn't spend a dime.but wont still.appreciate it because she feels entitled. simple

She will just appear and think she can act any how and demand for more.

That.is why most guys use and dump them. Their body counts will make.you.realise most are just public toilet or community urine house.

So learn and observe my brothers. They are all so.entitled. simple.

bluecircle470:
Mumu boy. Meghan don twist his brain so he can go deal with him in a neutral land and she will have the opportunity sex around with her bf without being monitored.
Las las she’s going the Diana way....

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My brother Nigerians wont like this your opinion, but it is just the truth.

The Prince is a Child. He married a divorced Lady more older than him. Megan grew up in a disoriented home with family issues. She is a.C-class actress who will eventually divorce him.

He decided to leave the Royal family and all the.entitlement to relocate to America ( specifically Canada ) with the dumb excuse of living a normal life. If Princess Dianna was alive she will purely object to it and talk sense into his head. Why because it is only females who truly sees and understand the conniving and cunning games other females play.

He cannot.see it because he is the one playing. He needs a coach outside the game to tell him his errors and Princess Dianna ( his mother.) Would have been best suited for this

As.for Megan she just hit the jackpot. By the time the.divorce case land, .when she collect half of his leftover British entitlement or.wealth, with.child support and alimony. She is made for life.

Dumb guy. I.see lot of Nigerian men too making the.same mistake because of.toto calling it love. Experience is the best teacher. Simple

Lol this is just awesomely mad.

Like seriously the hustle is real.

You can't even trust anyone nowadays (boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, husband, wife etc). They might be planning to hustle you oo.

Hustle oo make them no hustle you. Lol

Inside life things aaa aa