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Mooh247: Call a spade a spade. He is a SIMPle and Weak man. Your point doesn't hold one bit. Here is why. The wife is a public toilet and we all know that even to the friend of his own son don chop commot. He is a public figure and he was at an event where he would be recognized in history and this is where he decided to throw an emotional tantrum. He even laughed at the joke at first, before the real man (his wife looked at him). Then he decided to do what stupid and silly men do to show they protect their wife. This is the same thing, they will tell their children in school, do not hit anyone under any context. Behave yourself or Better still report to higher authorities. Now he is saying he did it for love. Bullock. He is a big fool and thank Goodness, his wife has been ridiculous showing it and providing him with more support to showcase it to the world . That is why nowadays, I envy nobody but myself. If you like have billions and think it is a leverage. Wait until the day you confront or meet men like me, who's competition and challenge is only themselves. Most men nowadays are just too weak . I see this in their altitude especially when Eve is around. They just get manipulated too easily, and quickly don't act accountable for both their positive and negative actions just like Adam did in the Bible. He blamed his Almighty Creator all because of Eve that never wanted to accept her role as a helper. Continue fooling yourself and looking for a valid reason to physically and violently attack a fellow man because of a silly joke. It will surely reach you soon . Here is another clip to buttress my point: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTBZGYur9Cs If you still have a valid point please enlighten me by qouting me. If not please be still. |
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faithfull18: Fellow men did you read what she said above. This why I tell you all don't marry these modern women. I don't trust them at all. No matter what you do they will still cheat. It is in their nature. The sentence above shows no regret or empathy for the man. Instead it is like a revenge or competition to men cheating. She didn't understand and analyse the situation. Bringing another man's children into your husband's house is way more terrible than cheating. Well since King solomon don talk am out of a 1000 women I found none that is loyal and trustworthy. This always remind me, that they will still cheat and are not worth being married. |
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Bmaster: Yes I am back sorry for the delay. I forgot actually. All the questions asked above are cool and the answer to all is YES. Infact everything learnt in life is self taught. In most cases the university and Educational certificate is just for paper work to prove you graduated. Most people who excel or succeed extremely in life acquired most of their knowledge from self taught principle. I will advise you to get a degree and just focus more on your self taught course or passion if you have one. Have a nice day sir |
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Bmaster: Hmm give me time during lunch I go reply sir |
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Lol make i chop finish I go give you analysis Money vs happiness , hmm it depends on your personality as an individual. Some have enough and still wants more. Some have few and are contented. Some have more than enough and are still looking for more. Some don't have and are still happy but not contented. Some are contented but don't have money. Personal money is good oo. But it can't guarantee your happiness that I know. You need to be able to be contented or happy without or little money. This will help you build your confidence and see life truly for what it is. You can't always have it all my people no matter how they preach it to you. Replace the book or education with happiness in the picture below. You will get a clearer picture of life generally. Na balancing matter. But as they say - this life no balance at all. 4 Likes
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Biglittlelois: Interesting your perspective is intriguing. Hope men are learning from all these comments and seeing the true nature of what they intend to call their queens. May God be with us all. 4 Likes |
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Lol in as much as most humans especially men haven't figured it out. 'She is just for the street'. Is a deep term most men haven't understood. Solomon baba of all playboys with riches and wealth beyond our imagination that our Almighty God gave wisdom, knowledge and understanding have said it all. It is vanity upon vanity. If you like give her your kingdom, last 24 hrs in bed. Be as Alpha with Alpha physics and all. You can't keep her. She will still go back to the street. Nevertheless there are virtuous ones (0.00001 percent) out there but are you as a man going to spend your entire life looking for her. https://biblehub.com/proverbs/31-10.htm When there is so much in this life to enjoy and explore. You that was giving dominion and control over all creatures apart from a woman you even named. 'Pray you find a good wife' - that is not just a coincidence in the Bible. 98percent of wives out there are similar to her. Just pray circumstances and conditions doesn't lead those 2percent remaining to such part. Out of the 2 only ( 0.00001 percent) are virtuous. The apko guy too is just a shameless LovePeddler. He couldn't find another lady apart from a man's wife. Men too are to be blame Sha. They can't just keep their third legs in-between and shut up. This life no just balance Sha. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
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Mercychen: The choice is still left for the boy to decide. Let's face it. There are some parents that will take your route or advice and the boy end up even more worse and juvenile. Same goes with my advice he might still become worse and juvenile. So there is no one way to the market. Let them decide the one suitable to them. Last last the decision and choice is in the boy's hand. Simple |
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Mercychen: You see your comments depicts an average or typical Nigerian parents. Well I guess your parents were like this so it is transferred aggression. Instead of you to advice her to dialogue with both of them and try to find a amicable solution. You chose the tryants and oppressors solution. One thing is for sure once that boy gets a good job after the parents followed this your suggestion. You will loose a child. Not because of the girl. You will loose him because now he has seen is parents for who they truly are. In Nigeria and commonly Africa most parents are tryant and abusive. They feel they have a leverage and can control you because they provide for their children. Who forced you to have one? I for once my family and folks know me. I am the untamed. If you like have billions or try to control me because of one small leverage. I will just walk away. You will here nothing from me. I will leave you in your delusion . I did that to several people in my life and I became stronger like a lone wolf ( though you will need a strong and stoic mindset - but overtime you are better off). What doesn't kill you make you stronger. |
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Okay I am here to say to you all. Make God bless us all ooo. And for you all watching this show there are different ways to enter into your blessings ooo. Stay safe. |
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lifeandjoy: Your advice is the best. But can people deal with sanity after growing in environment where sanity doesn't exist hmm. That is an important question you need to ask. It might sound funny and weird but it is the deep truth. Last last you will still come back naija. Lmao |
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Lol. This is just how everything in life no balance. On a normal day I would have blamed the woman and their gender but of recent I realise, it is the man that gives room for such act as Adam did. ( Adam in the Bible giving so much power, dominion, and responsibilities had no back bone). No wonder God was angry with him and cursed him first as Adam couldn't hold up to his position to lead and also accept his fault. The same problem has been reoccurring over time with men. Always misbehaving and losing position and respect because of female and later blame the devil, love, poverty, lack of money etc. For this Tega's case is similar. The husband(Adam) is just weak and have no identity. He didn't discover himself before marriage. He lacks principles and can't lead his own life not to talk of a home. This give the wife (Eve) leverage over him and she can do whatever she wants knowing fully that he will still accept her back. She can go and see Boma (the serpent), knowing fully aware that Adam will still SIMPle accept her back. He is the type of man that will raise another man's child in his home thinking that is his child. I always tell my friend that I have no pity or empathy for certain men and their situation. Because they are the cause of their own problem. May they continue to live happily ever after in this their blissful reunion called Marriage. 4 Likes |
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2ndtimeuncle: Hmm this is going to be long though so sit tight I read it and I am going to give you the scenarios of what might eventually happen. Let start with the typical option that almost every one is going to say. That she should quit. Hmm Don't forget they will advise you but they are not going to be there with her when the shit get real. Do you know how hard it is to train a child alone not to talk of two. Hmm I hope she is working well and earns well cause she will eventually end up being in the position of the other lady. She might eventually leave and the husband will be sending her money like the other lady and still be sleeping with her. She will do it for her children like most ladies claim. She will loose her home and still do the duties of a married woman. Her chances of getting another husband is 5% and that is even if she is lucky. She will now understand what life really entails. Don't forget paying for a child monthly allowance does not include her own rent, clothing, feeding, health and even stress of two children alone is mad. Marriage is for better for worst. I Will advice you not to even get involve and let her decide and take accountability of her actions. Or else na new problem for you. Don't get me wrong the husband bleeped up. But this is one of th most stupid sadistic double standards in life that favours men at times. I can't guarantee you the other lady is either praying for her to leave so that she can enter and swap role and position with your sister. She probably is giving your sisters husband sex just for that purpose or the purpose of survival for her children as we men most often don't think and only think with uncle Johnny or our third leg. My brother this is where I will fem on this matter. Best of luck to her and you better stay mute on the decision making of your sister. Simple. 1 Like |
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Toks2008: True talk oo. I know they cut anybody off oo. I dey put people for pause and then replay again ooo |
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Ooe33: As in you no need tell me . I dey hustle like mad oo. That is why I talk for the end say make I go face my life ooo. It is easier for most other genders but for you as a man or guy . Hmm you go suffer . God gone talk am say you go sweat and tile the land before you go get to chop ooo. 1 Like |
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Deep Now the truth at times is most billionaires or billionaires uncle's or inlaw are practically self centered and stingy. Most think they have to treat their families or relations as workers. In most case they are control freak and love monopoly of everything. They feel like mini gods among men. They try to control your destiny. I know a lot from family, friends , inlaw who are millionaires but they can't help you. They see you as a worker. Don't get me wrong. I don't blame them the society we live in creates such humans. Their kids suffer psychologically and families or relatives are in abject poverty. That is why I always say to people, pray Almighty God or Allah creates and pave your own path and way to success. That is the best way. Even if you have 50 million, you might live a fulfilled life better than these billionaires. As long you give praise to your wealth creator and cut your coat according to your size. You will never need to beg or have any psychological trauma that will lead to depression or suicide. What do I know self. Abeg make I go focus on my life and path. 16 Likes 1 Share |
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Lol he is definitely cashing out on the people and the state. Seriously those funds are badly managed. Read between the lines, his project are too huge or money intensive. Imagine 15 billion, just for one project, 10 billion for re-innovation of airport etc. So 25 billion gone just like that. Is the airport new ? Is the road new? Even if you had to build a new airport, that amount is way too much. Considering the state needs other visible infrastructure that he could build. He devoted 25 Percent of the total budget on two project . Aaaah this life people no get heart and joy. Now someone will come here and say he is rich and doesn't need the state money. Lol audio story. 5 Likes |
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Omo that one deep oo. Seriously we men at times do some stuff wey dey shock me. This one I agree. It is too discriminatory. This what feminist suppose they fight for say make them end. Not all this other stuff wey no make sense. I thank God say them done end am. It is really bad at times. Like we men seriously we always believe in this hymen crap. We need to stop all this old things. Especially when it is for work or equality or gender stuff. We need to evolve and really start taking women more accountable for real stuff not virginity test in the army. I weak small Sha. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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webizone: You are already going into MGTOW mode ( men going their own way) like me. Don't get it wrong. I have my rotation of girls who come in to do the needful. I don't chase or pay girls like some men think. Paying or trying to please a woman is the most simpish way. Now most people think MGTOW men don't have ladies or are incel. On the contrary . Na we understand female and their nature more. I don't expect loyalty from any of them like most men do. And that is most men downfall. MGTOW brothers focus more on their self improvement. Going your own way allows you to focus more on your self. You devote your energy, attention, time and money on yourself. You work on your mental, financial, physical and phycological growth. The fact you are going on your own way means you have started practising stoicism without knowing. The ability to walk away from women, humans, problem, stress or anything that might bother or hinder your peace of mind is blissful. In other words the ability not to give free fvcks is blissful. If you feel like taking yourself to a wonderful restaurant or travel or just be indoors and Netflix and chill without worrying about the outside world is blissful. You see most people have problems like bicycle. When you let them into your world means they bring in their own baggage and try to attach it to you. Now for your married friends, they mostly entered without adequate plan and just did it based on age , time, got a little job ( small finance) etc. Then they marry feeling they are prepared. Most ladies marry for provisioning or age is not on their side any more. Some marry for fairytale delusional love which we both know doesn't exist and is conditional. These put them not even at ease with themselves. Most of my married friends are unhappy. They don't like going home. They complain of been sex starved by their wives. They think getting married make them responsible. Being responsible is not something you attain automatically by marrying. It is something you practice when you are single. When you are single you should be accountable for your actions. You should have a long-term plan and evaluate your possible outcome even in the future. I had to explain the above before I answer your question to give you an insight of where am coming from. Now most ladies are like cats. Men are like dogs. Cats are fickle creatures. They get close to those who don't need or neither give them attention. Meaning once smart lady sees you as a confident man ( who confidence is not built on money or material things - like other men who's confidence and leverage is based on provisioning ( money). They will definitely come to you. Once you don't flaunt it or show off . But they see your composure and know you have it. They know a man who is focus on is business and mental well being will not devote most of his time chasing them around. Women read men more then we read them. It is only men who have no purpose in life that will be chasing and woeing women up and down like a job. This same theory above applies to women. It only an unambitious woman with no goal or purpose in life chase after men. Cause they believe they really need to leech or secure a man for provisioning. Simple It is only gold diggers that will solely want you because of money. But in as much as you don't spend it based on their request or exorbitantly, they will know you have a long term goal for yourself. The smart ones will make themselves available to you. They will give you choosing signals and approach you on their own. They know you are the prize. They will try everything to please you . Even manipulate you to see them as the unicorn you have been looking for. My brother ( or sister Incase your monicker is showing the wrong gender) focus on yourself. Spend more time alone and you will start enjoying your own company. Even if you accept few ladies like I do. I enjoy my quality time more either at the gym, pool, restaurant or at home. Most of the ladies on my rotation understand it. I care less what they do when they are not around me. I am not bother cause I know what I am worth ( not being arrogant here.) Just continue focusing on all aspect of your self improvement and watch them Chase you as time pass by. Stay safe man. |
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webizone: The age dynamic is similar to smv ( sexual market value). As a man, your prime officially start at 35yrs ( some 28 yrs) till death. Especially if you are one of the Top earners. As a lady your prime start officially from 18 ( in some cases less 16yrs) and ends between 35-40 max. As a man you should date ladies in their early age to form a bond and lead. Once you start dating them from 25- 27yrs upwards, get ready of lots of crap. There drama, emotional abuse based on past relationships. They will mostly just want to outplay and manipulate you to settle down with them. After marriage comes more problem. This which will be pretty annoying to you. That is why most men in marriage end getting frustrated and sex starved. They married a woman who age dynamic doesn't suit theirs. You see as a man between the age of 16-22 yrs sex and relationship couldn't have been your priorities. You had pass jamb, get admission, graduate, get master, get a job and on top of that compete with other men. But you are sure of babes in that age bracket on campus. From one uncle to another sugar daddy to another banker to senator to etc. They were in their prime. They gather experience with men who are way above you. They have seen it all. Deja Vu. Now when you finally start earning and your building your wealth you can't settle with such an individual who have been used, traumatized, emotional messed with, ovaries are gone, mentally unstable, no logical and rational thinking. No accountability. Even if you want to bond and build up with her, it will practically be impossible because of her past ideas from uncles, boyfriend, daddy,banker etc. She will never follow your lead. She will be a feminist with a messed up ideology. Once you try to accertain your position as the head she will call it slavery, torture master, abusive, etc In other words or conclusion The age dynamic between you and the lady you want to marry must be in sync with when you both start or enter your prime. It gives you both leverage to build and understand each other. You both will bond and grow together. That is if you want to marry or settle down. If it is just for dating and putting them back to the street my brother you don't need all the above. Just smash and move. Simple |
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Hmm he was making sense until he said they will come back home to him after playing around with other men. Now that is were he lost it. So he is the backup plan. The retirement plan. The option T - Z ( literally their last option). He is the one who bags the prize ( lol). I mean used up, emotional baggage and trauma prize. The keeper of the abused (knowingly or unknowingly). The caterer of their souls. The uncle beta simps. He feels that he can bond or create anything tangible or worthwhile with them. He doesn't understand the sexual marketplace or value. He doesn't even knows is value. He doesn't understand the age dynamics. So after years of focusing on your mental, physical and financial well being. You wait for a used , manipulative and self-centered creature whole didn't build with you to then come to you. At times, I just pity my own gender our mumu too much. No wonder eve could put Adam out of God's grace. Well I wish all men luck in there pursuit of happiness. I come in peace. |
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baby124: The fact you didn't still get the message shows that you are one of those creatures that bleeds every month without dying. Well I never expected any logical comment from your type. Gay? You couldn't come up with something better. Well shaming language isn't a form of argument. Come up with something tangible next time. Now if they say your gender is full of emotional decision and you all lack critical and logical reasoning . You futuristic female gender gets angry. Let me Indulge you a little more. No one said it is ok to be with FFK or forced her to be with an abuser. She knew what the man was but still married him because as usual your gender is irrational and unlogical when it comes to reasoning. She was forming love all throw PDP era. We didn't hear of any stories instead all people saw was delusional fantasy of a ride and die chick standing with her husband. She had her past trauma from abusers before FFK from her uncle and families. But she still insisted on marrying another abuser. Ok she divorced and started claiming Miss independent ( another delusional grandeur - your gender exhibits once they have a little finance) But I guess that couldn't last long. Now she is looking for money to milk from her abuser. She wants to ask for what her work or father can't even offer. She is greedy and self centered like every of her gender. Any man still intending to marry any of your types in this generation and the next to come should expect more instability, drama and suffering. They should accept the pain and chaotic nature your gender exhibits. |
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Lol Now am about to address men. If you feel the future is female please move to the future and ignore my comments. This is what await most of you men planning to marry. Drama upon drama. Either now or later down the years. From wife cheating to trying to steal or attain your wealth one way or the other. You men, believe in the delusional fairytale fantasy called love. You will only suffer and get accustomed to one form of pain or the other. This lady's case is similar. When the going was good always praising the abuser. Now he is out of power she needs to find away to extort money from him while returning back to the street. Well he could have avoided all this problem but he decided to fall in the so called delusional state . Now he is going to suffer for it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
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Vyolet: Well because it is not the same. If a married high value man cheats. He is exercising his options. If a married woman cheats it means she want to return back to the street where she belongs. Switch the role for once. Try being man with so much societal pressure and expectations of how you have to be a provider, protector and successful. Then when you achieve success, marry a man. Pay all most all the bills and responsibilities. Protect and keep the family running. Be the head of the house, fix and repair. Be rational and logical in all the decisions you make to ensure your husband and children are safe. Devote attention, time and money to this your husband. Knowing fully aware that all you have worked for is still for the husband and children. Knowing you will die before him. And everything will still end up been for him even if you will it to your children. Cause the end game is that he will still have all your years of hard work and hard earning after you are gone. He will own your house in some civilised country. He will collect family and child support from you even if he divorces you. Practically you are a slave to him all because of his reproductive system and legacy. Then expect him to cheat and see if you can accept it. I come in peace. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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Lol sex and attention starved pastor |
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ChiefSosa: Oga please do and Marry. Then you would understand. And if you are already married. I don't want to tell you the probability and ratio at which wives are disloyal. You will figure it out over time sir. Have a wonderful married life . Hmm 3 Likes |
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Femzaremz: My fellow redpill brother, they will learn. You see marriage is a scam no matter how you want to see or sell it to any logical and reasonable person. The lady knows time is clicking . She senses the undefeated wall even if she can't understand what exactly is the wall. Her mum knows too that the attention and charades around her daughter is going down. In Asia most women over 25 are leftovers women. Men don't care about them. In Pakistan you don't even exist at that age. Even the Muslim men here in Nigeria literally just marry the old one just to have an haram of ladies. In the US guys now pump and dump girls above that age. In Saudi Arabia/ UAE they just use them for fetish potty potty party. The reality is women brought this upon themselves. Why marry? When you literally take responsibility of an entitled creature without rationale thinking. You pay for everything in most cases, you must provide and protect, you are basically growing a pet ( invincible- Omni man reference lol). All they do is form love to you after all their past years of riding the cock carousel. Then they bring more trauma and emotional baggage to your life. I am happy for those Marrying Sha. There must be Adam ( the provider/ husband) and there must be the serpent ( the Uncle, ex boyfriend, just a friend, colleague, gym buddy, driver and red pill brothers). No wonder everyone especially the male attendee at the wedding says our wife. Lol 41 Likes 4 Shares |
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Fisher007: Think and analyse the recent occuring well oo There must be a bigger plan. |
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![]() I think there is a pattern and aim to this? Destroy their security post or base to weaken the state. Then invade. Cause before a virus or bacteria to takes full effect on you, it weakens your immune system, then take full control. I might be wrong Sha What do I know self. 1 Like 1 Share |
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