This is why I didn't feel any pity for them.

They don't care about their citizens. It is always about them first. This simple act proves that even if their was a cure that would cost millions, they will always treat themselves first. No sense of patriotism in our so called leaders.

I really hope they all get more infected.

In civilised countries your people/citizen comes first. You fumigate the street or schools or hospital first. This should have been the second measure after closing all the borders first.

But in Nigeria, it is the rulers first. They steal money to protect themselves. Normally they would have all ran abroad but as abroad too don cast now.

Pssh

bigiyaro:
thank God she did not come back.

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Deep truth. Lmao

Lol

Lol. This is the future of most women or ladies.

You see you did well by ignoring and running. She wants you take responsibility of her own issues with probably various men. Lol

When she was at her prime and fruitful years, responsibility was not in her dictionary abi.

Most ladies always want to be serious after they have some sort of baggage or the other. You know the worst part, even if you took the responsibility of her irresponsible act, she will still later insult and shame you in one way or the other.

You better let her continue been a public toilet up and down hoping to meet one of this Captain save a hoe, who will now carry her emotional baggages and trauma plus responsibilities join.

Advice for you also:
Find young ladies without baggages or responsibilities. Or else you will end up carrying another man's issues or problems.

Stop dating low hanging fruit. They are easy to pluck but are already rotten or spoilt. Their juice are not worth the squeeze. Simple.

Your text response was perfect. Safe brother.

She has no idea of the wall. It is undefeated. The wall will reverse on her. Let her continue the future go sweet die for men who understand this.

It is a seasonal thing. It goes both ways. It depends on the timing for both gender.

Initially nature favours ladies in their early age but as old age comes in, it favours male too.

So it is a matter of time.

Loose everything you have. Or act as if you lost it all for 6month and see if she will still claim this so called delusional love.

Moralgladiator:
Ever heard the words,"Advise a man,but never tell him how to act"? Sure,I just said it. Every man is born with a different mindset in pursuit of happiness which ever way he seems fit to get it. Now in trying to give out a man's life experiences, trials and conclusions as model for every other man to live by would be a social mishap waiting to happen. Now the miseducations and redpill messages comes to mind, remember that the real Alpha male is naturally born with a resistance out of this world. A resistance that sees him stand alone in a battle against many and still see him come out tops.
With women? Can the redpill messages carry them through? I seriously doubt it because women are very smart and will always detect a "wanna be" Alpha male. Then the true test comes when he is hit like you were hit. Question remains...will he come up like you can? The real Alpha male is a natural stunt man based on instincts that is why he thrives. So please my dear friends let these boys go with the flow otherwise you will be instigating incurable deppression for most of them when the hits come.

I am starting to see a trend here on nairaland just like in the Manosphere online. Once redpillers try to pass a message to other individuals they get disliked or abused. Instead of people to focus on the message, they focus on the messenger.

Now for the redpillers ( Alpha, Sigma, MGTOW, purple pill brothers). I have noticed some people just want to be in the plantation. They also want others to be with them. They self inflict misery in themselves and can not take the truth. That is why I personally watch people in their so called blissful misery and just walk away. I let them learn the hardway cause experience is the best teacher.

Infact I prefer to take advantage of the knowledge I gained and use it on them. Cause even when you try to enlighten them, you still end up getting shamed with shaming language.

Now I try much as possible not to tell them how to act cause just like the OP's point . Although it hard cause in the process of passing the message it actually seems as if I am insinuating them on how to act.

Last last we will all be fine.

Arthur21:

I have never associated alpha to being a broke low life,I share michellekabod2 definition of alpha. When I said pay for sex,I mean go an extra mile to get kitten like buying phones,paying rents...no! Alphas have girls queueing up for them to get laid so sex is easy to get for them.

Ok I understand you. But there is always a condition even for the so called Alpha.

RisenPhoenix:
It is not heartbreak that makes them to dominate men. It is men's behaviour. By the time a woman; especially one seen by her peers as attractive; has graduated high school, the number of dumb untrained simps who have grovelled before her, wept for her attention and stolen money from their father's pocket to buy her flowers are so many that she gets a hugely overblown idea of her own worth. Unfortunately, she will also tend to hold the belief that the unrealistic value she places on herself lasts forever. By the time reality hits her, she will first desperately try to hold on to the beauty which she believed gave her value; having neglected to nurture more lasting and valued qualities; before running from pillar to post in the quest for just any male to 'manage'. If she fails in the last step as well, that is when she starts subscribing to feminist ideologies and starts telling herself that she is happy to be 'single and successful', and that men are slimy beasts anyway.

For clarification, step one is arrogant misuse of her body, step 2 is photoshop, heavy make up and cosmetic surgery; step 3 is paying pastor to see dreams about brother x and brother y proposing to her, step 4 is joining the feminist bandwagon to make herself feel better about not having secured a man. And the way to emancipation of women from this path of self destruction is to stop treating them like angelic queens just because you want to get into their pants.

And for those men who slide into women's DM to praise them, you are part of the problem.

You hit the nail hard on the head. I must admit, I learnt something new from this your comment.

Arthur21:
depend on her age. Naive young girls can love(I am speaking from experience). I know young of girls in the university that overflate school fees to give their broke lovers,they live with him,cook for him with their money,give him sex,wash his dresses,clean his house ,commit several abortions for him and damage their rectum due to excessive anal sex. It is after their first heartbreak they don't love .
ladies this age range are aiming for the rich responsible guys because they gave their virginity to rogues and hoodlums. They want to make up for the days of giving free sex and cheap sex to street urchins so they aim for the best now.
Alphas don't pay for sex
I agree

Hmm Alpha don't pay for sex directly, but they please women financial. Now i mean expensive date, trips and shopping. They take ladies out on treats and make them feel special to the extent the ladies become delusional. They mess with ladies emotion and play the game well. Except the alpha you are talking about his broke or a Bleep guy.

I have noticed most people confuse alpha males for fvck boys. A true Alpha is an alpha in most areas of life. Financially, mentally, business wise and successful. Spending money to make a lady feel right and happy ain't a problem to him.

But if the Alpha you are talking is a broke one or stingy one. Oga he is a broke guy or fvck boy simple.

Skepticus:


I was about to say this too.

Mannazgee, women are highly incapable of loving and expected to be loved back. Irrespective of whatever bullshît, the popular media and girls love to say, their attraction to men is conditional.

Only men are capable of showing love.

As for attractive women being cold to love, they are only keeping their options open trying to pick the best mate to fuel their vanity. It's called Hypergamy.

Fisher007

Hypergamy is the order of the day.

Now let me burst your head. Firstly a woman's love is conditional, provisional and transactional. The more young guys understand this the less heart break they will get.

Now, Older experienced pretty ladies from age 25-35 upwards can never lover you. They have seen it all. They are alpha widows. They have dated guys way far above your level or paygrades. Especially the pretty ones, do you know how men flatter then with gifts , phones , money all in the hope of getting into their panties from an early age ( some as far as age 16 yrs).

For instance alpha guys that understands her love is transactional, they will pay her tickets, trips etc. To anywhere because they know it is a transaction. In her mind at that age she is catching feeling and thinking they are making her feel special. They will eventually get the only thing she can offer them ( pvssy). They will use her then stylishly push her back to the road. And this will continue for her on a long run because she will keep changing and branching from one man to another. Instead of her to work on her life and financial freedom. She will keep getting used up and down.

After all that alpha experience from age 18-25 with different men do you think a pretty lady can really love you. She will just use you as a retirement plan. You will take her at the end of her peak years with lot of emotional truama and baggages from the old relationship. You will be her Adam after several time spent with the serpent.

Wish the OP luck in finding love from an Old experienced pretty lady.

Skmoda360:

na true talk sha but I'm not single yet

You don't really need to be single to practice aloneness. You just don't prioritize somebody else over yourself. That is the key.

For instance you need to learn to make money, apart from office work. You need to learn to cook,cleans and do your laundry ( get a washing machine and cooker). You need to learn to have fun, watch movies alone ( both at cinema or at home) , eat at expensive or fancy restaurant alone ( without posting on social medias) for personal happiness and satisfaction.

You need to learn to hangout more often alone. Hit the gym and pool alone. Now this of course always gives you more opportunities to meet people. You need to travel to other states in Nigeria alone. Lodge in a hotel even if you have friends or family members in that state ( I learnt that abroad). Visit the city alone or with a tour guide.

You see you will have a stress free life. Now imagine you have to do that with someone else or approval. It will cost more. He or she will nag you that your timing is not right. He or she will complain that you are using them to cook, do laundry or travel pals etc He or she will complain of spending too much so he or she has to gain something in return. He or she will feel too entitled to your personal life or space. It will be a cohabitation or codependency thing . And over the years when he or she decides out of the blue to leave you. You will feel the effects no matter how masculine or feminine figure you are. Your 2-3-4-7years of codependency will make you think you can't do without another being.

You can have a girlfriend or boyfriend but practice aloneness during the so called relationship. Learn to be independent. Simple.

Westernlove:
Yes I'm enjoying myself by my myself. I eat whatever I want with rest of mind, I visit the cinema feeling fly with no worries... No nagging, no lies, cheating, manipulation, et all.....Fortuna, fountainyouth, mzrapper can come have this my leftover. Awon Ole alatenuje....

Lol don't try to explain it to anyone. They have to learn on their own. Embracing aloneness is the best way to enjoy life at it peak.

mannazgee:
I notice a particular pattern in women's approach towards romantic relationships.a woman's first love is her only ever love the rest are just to boost her ego even till marriage once a woman gets heartbroken by her first love that's all she switches to game playing she can never love genuinely again .I am 27 years old and all my dating life I have dated both beautiful and average women I noticed the average ones are the ones that fall more the hot ones are emotionless no matter what you do you can never tame them.pretty women are naturally red pill the can never love unconditionally unless they are unexposed.a woman hardly move on from heartbreak from their first love they will still hold some grudge and the next man will suffer it anyways only men love genuinely women don't.

Now, both old or young lady/women their love for you as a man is transactional, provisional and conditional. No matter what any body tell you that is the truth. She can never love you unconditionally. She can never give you the type of love your mind is telling you.

For instance, Some men claim Alpha get free sex or beta men provide to get sex. At the end of the day both are transactional. There is a condition to both case before she decides to sleep with either. You must have met one condition or provided which makes it a transaction.

Even broke guys who still get girls are good in bed or giving head or making her cum. Or you think all so called Alpha and beta guys can make a lady attain orgasm. Lol She will keep going back to the poor guy even though he has nothing apart from orgasm. That is still a condition that the poor guy is good at meeting . No matter how you put it.

Women's love for you is conditional, emotional or transactional. Simple.

Accept the truth and stop stressing yourselves.

Hmm

Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
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Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
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Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
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I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
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There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
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Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
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Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

Sincerely don't buy her the phone. Her demands will increase overtime. Stop all this being romantic or trying to please a lady with financial request or gift.

If you do, then just accept your relationship with her is transactional, provisional and conditional. If she really likes you, you don't need to go through this phase.

She must earn anything you give her by anyway you deem it fit.

Seriously are you her father? Or brother or relative? You better wake up and don't let a leech that will suck you dry into your life. If it was that cheap or easy they would have bought her the phone.

If you have too much money, buy your mum a new phone or your siblings or surprise your business partner or associate or worker with a new phone. At least they deserve it.

I repeat buying her a phone when she hasn't earn it is like trying to invest in a place that will bring more responsibility. At the end of the day you will have invested in a business that can never generate income.

Simple.

remonics:
This is not a show of sexual prowess. I just feel like sharing the story hoping that I might be liberated,and also for posterity sake. Am in my early forties, married and doing fine. I have had affairs severally with married women,most of which were instigated by the women or by virtue of my sexual sensitivity. I will take my time to tell you how it all started. Pls note that the aim of the story is to encourage parents to take proper care of their kids. If I get abused so much,I might be discouraged. If you are a young adult, u might be experiencing this. As for more me it has ended,but I still feel bad each time I reminisce.

Oga I am waiting for the story oo.

Tell them awon serpent squad. Their husband na Adam.

Please I need to read this story. I can't insult you because I understand. The fact you said they initiated it make me interested in learning.

I am waiting to read ooo. Don't chicken out ooo.

We learn everyday. Let's make a deal. Share the story and I will give you an insight why it happens.

kecee99:
bleep and go

Them serpent. Leave the guy make him dey form Adam. Lol

Lol why all the stress.

Give her the forbidden fruit my brother, be the serpent. Let Adam take is position.

Don't you know forbidden fruit/ things are the sweetest. Don't let social norm hold you down.

Her mind and conscious will always think about you for life even if she marrys the other guy. After all she is never truly yours or his. It is a turn by turn thing.

My fellow redpill brother understand. If you are having issues with this you need to evolve my guy.

A lady who has a boyfriend and still flirting with you ? What does that teach you? You are too emotional. You better man up and become rational or logical.

Hmm last last na turn by turn. Lmao

sexylassie2:


you are expert in giving names, you know all the keywords, alfa widows, alfa cow, alfa fish etc, it is very funny reading the garbage you wrote down

you are mgtow, level 2

so basically you guys are playing games or what

are you guys even matured to warrant all these funny keywords all because of an idealogy

bunch of your guys are joke, suffer from low self esteem, masturbate till you get tired

if you guys were really so macho, you would have gone out there and fish instead of wasting the whole day argueing over irrelevant stuff

how will this put food on the table for you.

Your last sentence still prove my point. It is always about providing or transactional. I read your earlier comments but laugh at them all.

You want attention and I will give it to you only once to prove my point. Which is female nature always need an Adam the provider. Your love is provisional and transactional. Your comments keeps proving that point without you knowing subconsciously.

This is the only Qoute I will reply too. The rest is your problem. Figure it out or pick a sense out of all the nonense you claim I have been spilling. Cause trust me I have picked one out of all your emotional rants and nonesense ( which is you all are always looking for a provider after a wasted prime years and life of dick carousel riding). The attention ends here . Qoute me at your own peril.

Bye.

Arthur21:

I can't remember Michelle claiming to have dated one talk more of getting dumped by one. She said she has encountered them ,don't jump into hasty conclusions

Hmm you don't know. You think she will tell you. Well let us all live in your ignorant notion that she never dated one. Lmao

You learn from experience and trust me when I asked her that question where has it led her? I got the reply I needed.

At time you alpha widows or white knight (captain save a hoe ) lie to each other. But experience is the best teacher. Safe.

DoubleEngine007:
You're wise bro.. We need to deal with these generation of girls.. They must stop those manipulations and tricks they use in fooling and making mockery of Adams( Good boys/men) by force.

My brother that is why we ( the serpent) exist. In our prime years between 35- 60 yes we must deal with all of this new fresh newbies in their prime of 18-25 or 30 max( cause that is their prime years). We must show them that a serpent exist in the garden before their so called new Adam ( 18-28 yrs old boyfriend) who is still in the beta male simp mode understand what is going on.

We just seat back and enjoy our time cause they are not even aware of their own nature. They are still thinking it is an emotional problem. Not knowing the earlier they own up to their female nature the quicker they mature before the undefeated wall (of aging faster than a male ) hits them. This is the deepest truth you can get from a redpill brother. Simple.

Liposure:
my question 4 u is dis. How do we treat our women rite without changing 2 simps

Now this is an interesting question. It is a very hard question to answer based on personal and shared experiences from various men.

Trust me it is easy to treat lady right. But she has to treat you equally right. You might be an upright guy, the provider/ Adam . The loving to no fault guy without cheating. But the disadvantage to that is she will get bored of it. She will start seeing you as predictable and once you enter that stage. She will disrespect you. She will take your care and loving as a weakness. She will start shit testing you. Even trying stuff to prove to her fellow female friends that she has your mumu button.

You are like an amusement park for her. She needs to be constantly amused. So even if you work hard, give her time, travel with her and provide her needs. She will still get bored and use to it. There is always a new challenge to overcome.

That is why I don't believe in the some men who talk about maintaining or keeping frame with ladies to keep them in check. For how long will you do that. Infact you are being fake to her then expect her not to fake the love.

See you can never satisfy or make a woman happy. No matter what. Even Solomon the wisest man had 300 wives and 700 concubines. He couldn't satisfy or find one that was honest and upright.

This why I chose my solitary wolf /mgtow level 1-2 mode. I can't be bothered about trying to please a lady who can't even achieve her own personal happiness.

allandutch:

Yeah, people forgot that this alpha that we're all talking about is more of a mindset and not demographic.
Is the lady on this platform? I'll like to see that her alpha description.

Ok her username is Michellekabod2

Her comment below
Michellekabod2:

Exactly,they believe once you sing the redpill mantra,open daily threads on relationships,troll female threads,shout #teamvirgin you automatically become one.


It takes more than that. I have come across alphas in real life, they are never broke and their looks alone is jaw dropping. They command respect naturally. No woman debates over their authority because their masculinity is so intense.
Being alpha encompasses a lot,the way you think,reason,social intelligence, emotional maturity,financial stability,sexually/physical appeal,confidence,status in the society et Al


I don't know who reduced the standard of being alpha to be just believing the redpill ideology . it seems people believe once you swallow the redpill,grab your balls from ladies,you automatically become one...lol. It takes more than that.
That's why when I see some redpillers here calling others SIMPs/beta males,I have a good laugh because the margin between redpillers here and the SIMPs is very little, just an ideology separates them.

I had to Qoute her after to ask her where it led her too after dating the so called alpha she described though. Probably she is an.alpha widow.

DoubleEngine007:
I pity any guy or man who thinks a lady truly love him.. They are around a man for what they will gain.. They keep claiming victims.. You're wise bro..

My brother, love is sacrificial. Love is pain itself.
Love is being able to forgive even when being hurt. But most ladies don't understand this. The only time they come close to the real definition of love is during childbirth. Simple.

But before that the love a women has for you is transient, transactional, conditional and provisional. Simple truth.

allandutch:

This reminds me of something I came across.
The contextual alpha. Where a guy can be alpha in a particular area of his life and be a complete chump is every other areas.

Yep. Most guys or so called Alpha guys are not aware of this. They only think of it in relationship with women. They don't understand that you can be alpha in relationship and in every other aspects of your life you are a complete simp.

That is why I try as much as not to classify my self as Alpha. I prefer sigma. I do my things my way. I am in no competition with nobody. I embrace aloneness and solitude, because is in that you truly reflect on your life and personality.

It is really hard to explain this to people (Alpha) who have not even done there research and personal analysis on it. They have not even done an inner reflection on the totality of being called a true Alpha male.

Shockingly enough the only person apart from you on this forum that understands this is a lady who once tried to have a logical conversation with me. She defined the alpha characteristics in an almost perfect manner. She claimed to have been with one but as usual got dumped over time.

Glad to see someone else out there understand it in another whole new level. Safe.

DoubleEngine007:
Must you depend on men to survive? You will only be used and dumped like the trash you've turned yourself into. I don't have time to be talking to community sperm bank,who lacks common sense.. Go get a job,and stop being a sperm bank(Sex object)My next reply to you will be silence,cux that's what your likes deserve .. Meanwhile.. Follow the instructions below..

You see read her comments. She thinks a woman is the prize. So self entitled and self centered. I hardly reply comments from females because they are too emotional. Women are never logical and rational.

Now when they see they are not making sense. Abuse and shaming language will come him. They will start making it personal like they will rape or kill your sister or wife. I laugh when females enter that mode because they are not making sense.

They think all men see them as the prize ( trophy wife). They don't know some of us are not bothered. They are yet to realise that we understand clearly what they and their nature are. We like them for what and how hypergamous they are. You can see her saying she will leave for a better person or they will take your wife away. Like seriously.

The next man is just his turn too. She will keep jumping up and down until the wall hits her. Then she will start hating the younger version of herself and finally become a feminist with cats at home.

This is why I always tell guys, even after marriage she never truly yours. She is still looking for the next tree to � monkeybranch.

Time will tell. Let them keep hating .

DoubleEngine007:
You lie man.. Provide for a woman everything she needs .. If she wanna cheat ,that won't stop her. Buy her a private jet,she will go f*cking the pilot.
So chill bro,get the message and stop attacking the OP.. Enough is Enough for these young women who feels the world revolves around their wrinkled asses and sagging breasts... They have manipulated men enough.. The nonsense must stop..

Am so glad this response came from another person. I wanted to type exactly the same thing about even if you provide the world, you are the prince of the earth, she will still cheat on you with the weirdest person in the universe. It is just a female nature thing. They are never satisfied, her hypergamous nature for something better will always take place.

You see, they don't understand a man's nature too. We have our own. But if they want to know that they should go to a female discussion forum too to learn that. But you know what? Any female who know male nature too hide it instead of sharing it with other women. Why? Because women don't like themselves so they won't share it among each other.

Women don't like the truth, they hide behind deception and manipulation. That is why I still have a theory of most men or guys who succeed extremely with women are liars, deception specialists, manipulators, and cunny guys. Women love to hear lies. The truth is extremely bitter to them. Because I onced tried it. At my early stage of being redpilled in my rage mode. I told girls (single and both in relationships )things their so called boyfriend never told them and you won't believe the results. I got tired of it over time cause i knew I was being fake to make it with them.

Now I tell them straight up no long term relationships and am only in for the fun. My brother see them still calling me cause the Adam they have or called boyfriend is too predictable over time. He is not wild like us the serpent. He is not spontaneous. He is not amusing. He has no forbidden fruits to offer them like we the serpent. This just made me realize that the squeeze is not worth the juice.

My brother I leave you with this Qoute:
Why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free.