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SultanOfPuna:

Chaii God... U don burst ma brainn

Not yet. You need to keep observing how our fellow brothers both at work, home, friends and family act when they are around females.

You will see why the number of Simps will increase. Some even simp till death. Living a life just to please or be the hero for a female being who is selfish and self-centred. A lady always considers herself first in every situation, what is in for her, what does she stand to gain. But you see our simp brothers out there don't even think. They just act like what they are programmed to do. No mind or cognitive thinking on any situation.

Just merely observing people around you will burst your head. A lady once tried to put herself in the shoe of a man in dating( check YouTube) . She realised that she has being self centered all her life. She realised that the treat men give for free just to get to know a lady before intimacy, felt like being used just to be accepted by another being. Any brothers who argue with you ask him this question, what does she offer in return for all your effort for simping. Does she offer equal things in terms of all he offered her.

But let them keep suffering. We the serpent just dey chop and enjoy they go. Make Adam dey do the work and providing. Simple.

Hmm is it me or I just don't trust that guy.

But if that keeps is game incheck or intact, who am I to complain or expose him .

Lmao and they think he is a mumu. Ok ooo

Malawian:

Let me troll you small.

He wanted a choice between the two. If he wanted a third choice, his question would have been, should I marry either of the two.

This is how people fail jamb use of English. Forget any outside knowledge you know of and focus on the subject matter at hand.

Thanks.

You can get angry now bro. I will simply be drinking my whiskey/cocacola.

If trolling makes you happy. Feel free and enjoy your whiskey. It is a free world though.

Malawian:

Check the title of the thread again. Obviously he has decided on either of the two. Which of them did you advise on? This is simply reading and comprehension.

Ok to make it simple for you :

Free them and focus on your finance and wellbeing. Simple

Which indicates none of them.

So hope you ve got your answer.

Malawian:

Oga, he is not asking UA to list his errors, he is asking for the way forward.

And as I can see you still lack reading comprehension. Cause if you didn't you will see the answer to the question.

I purposely gave reason before the answer. So please read well next time and don't Qoute me for qouting sake.

Thank you.

Yep it doesn't.

SultanOfPuna:

A simp is a simp, period.. be it at workplace or financially.
U need to understand the root of Simps
It's starts at young age when the ideology that good people are rewarded while bad people are punished.
The most obiedent child get rewarded
The stubborn child get suspended..
In life it's quite the opposite.
So u can see how a child will believe that if his teacher will reward him for been nice and obiedent then the world should also reward him for being nice..
So he carries this ideology into the real world thats when reality kicks in and he gets bashed,used,dumped and heartbroken and wonders why life is so harsh.

Ok I feel we don't have the same ideology on the different Simps out there.

You may not be a simp at work or financially, but be a simp to women. It varies though.

Now let me focus on your simp based on feminine/ female/women which leads to simping in relationship and marriage.

The social programming of a man is to be a simp. Be a provider and a hero for women. You need to be a Captain save a hoe after all her body counts before marriage and marry her. You need to be a white knight. You need to always help females once she is in need. Now most women know this and capitalize on it. They take advantage of men trying to be a hero.

Recently I started calling normal Simps (Adam) and redpill awoke guys (serpent). You see women love and codedly hangout with the serpent while Adam is good at what he does ( simping and providing). Women disrespect Simps but end up marrying them because of what they can provide.

That is why most married women have practically no respect for their Adam ( husband) . They know he is predictable like Adam. He has no knowledge of what sort to offer. They have seen him finish. Most cheat discretely behind their husband and even if you tell oga, he will never believe it.

Most guys on nairaland at least 95 percent are simp. They have not taken the redpill yet. They still live in a fantasy and delusional world on female nature . They are all in a stage most redpill guys were before. They have been programmed since birth to be Adam. The music, movies, friends, colleagues and family they hangout have orientated them to be a Simp for life.

You can't blame them. And the worst is they are not seeking the knowledge yet. Most will at old age when they realise their so called beloved wife/girlfriend/female friends placed them in an illusional grandeur of the real reality. They must go through that pain and suffering of being a simp. Knowing that they need to unlearn all the nonense and start afresh.

For your own peace of mind, let them be. Because if you try to explain or convince them, they will shame you, insult you or make you feel uncomfortable for speaking the truth. Simple.

SultanOfPuna:

A simp is a man who is too nice with women.
Women do not respect nice guys
A simp is a nice guy that is clueless of women psychology and behavior.
So he always gets manipulated by women
His wife could Bleep outside confidently because she knows her nice husband will believe her no matter what..
I can go on and on..

Please go on. Cause you have only based simping on women. But you can be a simp also in the reality of life. You can be a simp in finance. You can be a simp even at work.

But if you want or only want to focus on simp on only feminine matter then I will know our to address and reply you.

SultanOfPuna:
After going tru the romance thread
And reading some advice posted by guys
I can say so many guys lack O.T about women.
I understand alot of them are Mama's boys so no real knowledge about women..

Mama protected them from the streets but she was doing them more harm than good.
Now they are adults they have to deal with the harsh reality of the streets.

Some of them had father's that were Simps to their mother. So it seemed normal for them to be Simps..

It's a sad time for real men..

Please sir what is your definition of a simp?

Before I can really understand you and the perspective you are coming from ?

Hmm where do I start from?

First of all, You are an irresponsible young man but a hard-working type based on efforts you made.

You allowed the a baby mama to milk you based on your third leg. Infact thinking of it when you where enjoying the sex you didn't tell us.

Why should I answer you. I change my mind lol.

You need to distance yourself from the two. In reality both are not truly yours. It is high time you focus more on yourself. You need to work harder cause you have a brought a child to this world and you are responsible for him.

The babymama will never change. Once you distance yourself she will find another guy, which will lead to another baby. It is inbuilt in her case.

As for madam girlfriend, I understand her, but she needs to move on with her life. You can't keep her. If you do there will be more fight in the future. You have to accept that loss too. You can't eat your cake and have it. Unless na stomach ache you dey find. Simple.

Now for you, you have a legacy already, why are you still looking for women up and down. From your first experience you haven't learnt a thing ba.

You need to start using condom also cause I can sense you like deeping raw. You made a statement saying you still invite both girls on separate times. Meaning you are still chopping them. Oga you need to stop and face reality on ground. Na you set your table and the ball is in your court. Deal with it.

Free them and focus on your finance and wellbeing. Simple .

Lol he needs help.

Although he was right about out of 20 men death , 5 is natural and the rest is because of you know what. Most men at old age die when the real female nature appears at grey age. A life of thinking and depression. The only person they think they could really on will now insult and add salt to their injuries.

Out of all his nonsense there were a few sense in it. I can't wait to see the old age of my fellow brothers when the reality sets in .

Hmm hmm .

ichidodo:
Good..We are all learners...But you must also learn that when in a rotational schedule like us...You are the hero of your own story and not a bit player. You control all aces psychologically via playing with the female psyche ,romantic wise via making your validation very scarce,sexually via handling your business in that department very well etc....And you don't hide your lifestyle from any of them...Its easy when you tell them beforehand and 7 out of ten times they all agree...It even makes dating easier as they all fight to out do themselves just to be Number one. And if anybody gets on my nerves..I replace her without looking back. The main actor here is you...all others are bit part players as they come and go even in marriage...When you maintain masculine polarity, your wife will fight tooth and nail just to suck up to you..

Interesting though. Thanks for sharing your own perspective. Picked up few things to add to my own pattern. Have a great day ahead. Safe.

ichidodo:
That's a first...Reading how MGTOW has got different levels...But if you live in Nigeria or Africa then you must understand that MGTOW is an overkill....what kind?.. Yeah, like using a bazooka to kill an ant, kind of over kill. We understand how bad men are faring in Western societies but Tis not everything we have to imbibe as it might not be healthy to our sanity and socio-cultural lifestyle....In our Patriarchal based society here, going MGTOW is self defeatist...How can you finally get the knowledge to be rich and you decided to go philosophical and say no, that poverty is good? Thus you aren't willing to explore life and what it has for you so you voluntarily lock yourself inside a cave....In Africa when you go red pill instead turning MGTOW...You lay back and let some lady suck your dick..

It is true the dynamics is different back here in Africa. You can get the knowledge to be rich and decide the following:

Use it to get rich,
Use it to get wealthy which is above rich.
Use it to get rich and flaunt it this creating attention
Use to create a suitable and contented life that doesn't attract attention by been modest.
Use it to be wealthy and coded that people will smell it that you are rich, but can't prove it.
Etc.

This is the same way various men diversify the redpill knowledge. We are saying the same thing but we use it differently. That is just the truth.

ichidodo:
Man couldn't control ocean weather or ocean waves yet he was able ride them to circumnavigate the planet.....We are not going to control women..What we want to do is to maintain our masculine polarity...To act like men of yore and be in our frame. Something the female narrative today wants to rob us of and turn us to their beta-cucks

I understand you . But we both agree now that men can't control women right. That is very important point which all alpha or redpiller men out there must understand.

Now once you understand it, you can choose to ride on or circumnavigate women ( like you said ). You can find a way to work along or around with them. But knowing female nature too you must know they will shit test you till you die. As long as you have any form of cohabitation with them. You must be ready and always keep to your frame/ guards up.

Don't forget we all evolve both man and woman. So literally means you will spend all your life with an evolving hypergamous nature being , studying you and who is always seeking to manipulate you on a longtime all just because you want to circumnavigate her. Why don't you just move on and live a free agent lifestyle with no worries.

Trust me you said you had up to six rotation of ladies. Has it been easy? Is it not hard to keep frame with them all? Do you think they don't have male rotation too ? Do you think there is one out of them that you can marry? Doesn't it waste a lot of time, Resources and effort trying to keep alpha frame and keep them in check? We need to both look at things as a rational and logical being we as men claim to be.

This is a discussion, that I am learning from don't take it personal. I just want to understand a different perspective from another brother. If it was a female , she would have brought up shaming Language based on her emotional state of mind. I really appreciate your time and knowledge. We keep learning my brother.

ichidodo:
[b] Going "monk" mode is not a very healthy to do, you could go mental in the long run (nearly did myself)... Today's woman need an owner's manual for one to level the playing field as far controlling the power Dynamics in romantic relationships are concerned,without that red pill as the manual in question, men are hilariously and hopelessly outmatched and if we fall into the wrong woman. Then we're fvcked....The red pill as far as I am concerned allows us to understand what we are getting ourselves really into being in relationships with today's women and these women aren't what they're supposed to be right now....So we need knowledge and information..Tis like going into a dealership without your mecho and you buy this car which turned out to be a lemon...The fact that there are high chances to purchase a second hand lemon car does it mean there aren't cars worth a great deal out there?So you need red pill to separate the wheat from chaff and I believe after that is done, even, in marriage you can still get your 'great deal' whilst exercising red pill knowledge thereafter,as someone used to say "The way you start with a woman is the way you end with her"[/b]

I clearly stated that not MGTOW monk mode in the comments earlier. But I don't believe in marriage. What most men fail to understand is that you can't control a woman. You can't reason with a woman. You can't own a woman. They have their own reasoning too. You can only reason with a logical being not an emotional being. That is why most women act stupidly on pulse or feelings at times. If you think you have the redpill and alpha male knowledge and still end up marrying. You will loose your frame. You can't keep frame when you cohabitate with a woman. Lots of things will come in once you are married. That is just another bitter redpill truth.

It is the same mistake women make thinking they can own or control a man. The believe they are the neck and they control the head which is the man. They believe they can posses the man who was created to have dominion over all creatures either by manipulation or through their body(vagina). It always end up failing because the wall always hit them hard and the men will definitely look for a younger version with or without their knowledge. This is a bitter pill even redpillers find hard or don't want to swallow.

I still stand on my comments earlier about MGTOW stage of level 1-2 is the best. But going MGTOW monk mode is actually detrimental to one's mental and physical health.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC][b] Going "monk" mode is not a very healthy to do, you could go mental in the long run (nearly did myself)... Today's woman need an owner's manual for one to navigate the murky Waters of feminist

I never said full MGTOW monk mode. I said Mgtow level 1-2. MGTOW have levels. You can go your way at this level but pump and dump. You don't want to be an alpha, instead you choose a sigma male characteristics. You practice the lone wolf approach to life (embrace aloneness not loniless) . You practice stoicism philosophy. You understand the truth about life and what really matters to you is your financial, emotional, logical, physical and mental well-being. Most people in the Redpill community think MGTOW is full monk mode. But they are levels to it.

Monk mode is MGTOW level 5. Which I won't suggest to any one only if you are old above 70 or have been #metoo. Lol

ichidodo:
[b] But still in retrospect...I believe the red pill can still be useful while in marriage..These days marriage has become something of a joke because of the hypergamistic and narcissistic nature of today's woman. Most men have lost it and thus are losing their selves to something or someone this isn't if their own making... So because I got my sh**t together society expects me to rescue some female who has come close to the wall or gone past her prime...somebody that wouldn't even give you the time of the day in her prime?? What the fvck?! If married before the red pill truth...Then me and the missus will have tell ourselves the truth and re negotiate the power Dynamics in the relationship.... Whether she earns more than or at par or less than me....I don't give a fvck??.. Whenever she acts up and becomes all clingy or bitchy to me or mine...I don't give a fvck...Why?? Because as a red pilled, my masculine polarity is everything to me and nobody can take that away from...Not even my mother..[/b]

Been reading your comments on the wall, women's sexual market value, women on rotation, the peak years of men and women . I can see you have an in-depth knowledge and am feeling the vibes until this one.

It is always just your turn even in marriage. No amount of frame, alpha traits, redpill you keep. She will still bring out that female nature (hypergamous nature which will eventually leads to cheating, shit testing, manipulation, play the weaker gender move, slave you into plantation with or without your knowledge - subconsciously).

You will need to be passing shit test on a daily basis, if not you will become a statistic ( i.e get fed up and divorce).

Ubunja is great and still sane, at least he still believe in a relationship. My brother when you take the redpill (full extreme like me) you won't even want a relationship with women. You will enter level 1-2 of MGTOW. You will just pump and dump.

You will realize the following about female/women and work on yourself:

Women are incapable of love ( it is always provisional, conditional or transactional).

You can never make a woman happy.

Women are emotional being. They can never be rational or logical.

Women are full of false pride. They will never accept they are wrong.

You can never trust a woman ( even our mothers ) you need to remove that smokescreen that my mother, sister, cousin, fiancee are trustworthy.

She is never truly yours even after marriage, it is just your turn.

Once you hear I will never do that to you or not all women are like that. My brother just pull back or else it is coming for you.

My brother, hypergamy is real. It is in their nature. Women hypergamous nature is inscribed and embedded in their DNA.They act it unconsciously without even knowing.

Focus on your money, looks and status. Learn to embrace aloneness not loneliness.

Always stand your point and views with women, they always end up respecting you over time.

No cohabitation or living with a woman. You will end up regretting it.

Never validate or give women your attention. You will regret it because it brings nothing in return.

Control, manage and use your spare time for your self development. Cause giving your time to women will yield no interest or gain ( even if it is cuddle and vagina you get). It will only bring more liabilities ( infections, pregnancy, financial request, waste of time, emotional tappon and trauma).

The wall is surely real and it is coming for all women. It is undefeated.

In summary it is only a legacy that matter that is if you eventually want one. But thinking you can be redpill/ Alpha be married and maintain frame is purely delusional. She will simp you over the years. Your freedom with peace , quite and tranquility will be lost at a particular time.

You might never enjoy a free agent lifestyle. You will be caged in a shining prison once you decide to settle with a woman. Safe my brother.

donbachi:
And u haven't learnt ur lessons...have u?

This was a true question that touch the heart but yet he as the (OP) didn't understand why.

The OP needs to deliver himself. He is not aware yet. So trouble sit down, yaga go wake am be your case. The rate at which men put themselves in both physical and spiritual problem all because of Vagina.

So OP decided to be a white knight, carry her from church to church to help her solve a problem she couldn't solve. A problem she brought to your life . At the end of the day for what? You couldn't marry her? She is married with kids now abi.

And have you checked yourself, maybe the ladies you sleep with do see other things in their dreams too based on what was transferred to you spiritually? Do they ever complain to you? How is your life in general? Since na spirituality matter we dey talk about.

Have you observed any changes in your own personal life. You saved her but might have carried a different baggage. You better be careful next time and control you damn third leg. Psssh

Lol

ubunja:
women can't win against a man who puts himself first. And ironically, women are drawn to this man like flies.

That is why most women live all their life trying to be equal with a man. That is the pure truth.

Instead of them to embrace the uniqueness of both gender and capitalize on their strength. They decided to fight the opposite gender. Don't blame them it is in their nature : you can't make them happy, they can't even make themselves happy.

No matter how they try they will always be drawn to men. Simple.

ubunja:
True. Men must learn to love themselves. If you love yourself first no woman can try to put herself above you.

Yep that is a deep one. But most brothers are so programmed to love female first. This programming goes way beyond us my brother.

For example, right from the beginning didn't you see our dear brother Adam in the Bible who had dominion over all creatures started simping immediately he saw Eve ( mother of chaos). He started chanting and ranting the bone of my bone , flesh of my flesh. Adam had the whole garden to himself for years but never cherished himself or the garden. But immediately Eve came he loved her instantly like a true simp.

The last time a brother in the lord spoke of love to me I told him clearly show me in the scripture (Bible - cause am a Christian) where they said woman love your husband. Anyday he can show me that I will believe women are capable of love . Till today he is still looking for it ( and am still waiting too). Lol

I understand my simp brothers out there still loving woman first. I was once like them until I ate the forbidden fruit of redpill. Since then I come first before all and in all in my personal life.

But time will always tell. The truth will surely set them free either now or at old age. Simple.

ubunja:
Exactly. Each woman has to prove herself to be different.

Yep that is true but in the process of trying to prove that difference is where the manipulation and errors becomes more visible. Cause she is trying to prove different from her true nature. Simple.

But time will tell . Let's give our fellow brothers time. They will learn.

Martinez39s:
In the manosphere, there are two groups:
1) GROUP A: they believe MOST women are like that, and there are still good women out there even though they are rare.
2) GROUP B: they believe ALL women are like that. Even the ones society believe to be "good" and the ones that present themselves as "good" are still like that. I belong to this group.

Funny thing is, more men from Group A are joining Group B each passing year because reality cannot lie. Even IAmPlato just joined Group B as seen from this thread of his:


Men in Group A had better have a good "shock absorber" because they are in for many big shocks in future.


Ubunja

You see men in Group A are delusional. It takes time I was once in that stage until I started reading patterns even in females in my family.
I removed that smokescreen and accepted they are all like that.

It is a transient stage they are in . They will soon join us in Group B especially when it entails people in ones family or close relatives. That will make them feel it more. It will be a personalized pain that will lead them to understand you can't escape the female nature . It is everywhere at work, home , schools, bus, road , offices etc.

It is a subliminal thing, it is stage by stage. So give them time. They will learn. Simple

IamPlato:
I Discovered That a Friend Of Mine Is Cheatin On Her Husband... Jesus Christ! I Could bet My Life That This Lady Can Never Do Such a Thing but I Would Be Dead Before I Know It. I Am Still In Shock!


I Just Cant Imagine! Her Husband Is Also My Friend, they Are Both Good Friends To Me But I Felt Shame When I Discovered This...


Ladies What Is Your Problem? I Used To Have It At The Back Of My mind That There Are Few Ladies Who Wouldnt Dare Cheat but If This Lady Can Cheat then There Can Never Be Any Lady Who Cant Or Wont Do Same.


Cheating Could Be Flirting, Kissing or Sex... For Me I Can Tolerate Those Stupid Online Flirt cause Most People Do That Even Men but The Moment You Pay Him A Visit Sorry, I Am Done, na Divorce straight

this lady got married as a virgin but still cheating... being a virgin doesnt stop cheating

Ok rule number one never trust anyone especially a female. You will be in for the type of shock you just got.

If you know how many partners that are aware of their spouse cheating and still decide to stay in it. It will shock you even more.

I am glad you are going through this shock, and I don't feel pity saying this. You are about to take a truth pill. You better accept it as soon as possible so that you will learn to careless and be limitless like me.

Love is transient. Love is magical. Love is blind.
All these statements above proves love is a scam. You better get prepared for more shock like may be your friend's kids aren't his. Hmm

Ok I reserve my comments. I am sure you know what pill to take. I will prescribe the beginners pill for you. 3 ubunja articles perday for now. If you need an increase dosage. contact me for more details.

Martinez39s:
...but men who have terribly suffered in marriage might still be blue-pilled and would think their wives are just the bad ones... and there are still "good" women out there.

They might hide their experiences from their sons because they fear they might scare their sons out of marriage, negatively change their sons' views of ALL women, and prevent them from ending up with "good" women (whom the fathers think exists) and giving them grandchildren. I might be wrong but it's virtually impossible for a REDPILLED fathers to hide the truth from their sons except they are wicked and selfish. Some might, in my style, allow their sons to come of age and have little experiences with women before they start feeding them the redpills because experience, either firsthand or by observation (observation being my preference), no matter how little, helps in swallowing the redpill.

I learn everyday.

Now your first paragraph got me. There are still good women out there. LMAO
The unicorn law for the men still searching.

Your points are valid though. That I must agree too. A true redpill father will tell you despite what the outcome might be. But a wicked one will let you go through the experience which is painful but you will learn faster but with backlashes.

We learn everyday though. Safe

Martinez39s:
Fixed. If your father knows the redpill, he will tell you except he is wicked. Women are aware of female nature (their nature) and know that all women are just like that but they will never tell their sons because just as blood is thicker than water, sisterhood is thicker than blood. As Ubunja said, if you fail in relationships because you don't understand women, or you operate with the ignorance of female nature to your detriment, hold your mother responsible.

Hmm you don't know some men. You think all fathers tell their kids the truth. Then you still have a smokescreen over you. You think most men tell their male kids the emotional abuse and truama they receive from their suppose wife ( mother of their children- if he is even lucky).

Well I will modify to most father but opting out fathers totally from the equation means I am decieving myself and other young men out there. The truth is bitter both mother and most fathers still hide the truth from you. They leave you to learn and discover it on your own. Simple.

ubunja:
the Redpill is not for everyone.

Even among my friends only two are Red Pill. The rest are Blue Pill Mangina Simps. I dont preach to them. I just flow with them. When they cry about their women I comfort them and life goes on.

When they decide they have had enough they'll wake up. And I'll guide them. They marvel at how easy my relationships flow. But I don't think I can tell them the truth yet. They're still chasing romance and love.

You can't un-program what has been programmed for years immediately. They have to seek for wisdom and un-program themselves.

Some have to go through a personal experience thus leading to the truth. The truth is extremely bitter. You can't teach thing s their parents didn't teach them. You can't force a horse to drink at the river even though it is free.

Some men love to be in the plantation. They self impose themselves even though you try to free them. Just like during slavery, some slaves decided to stay with their masters even after freedom. It is a personal decision to make.

For me I only contribute as a contributor. I don't force my opinion on anyone. If you like accept the redpill truth , if you like perish in your blue pilled world and once you come nagging at me. I listen , nods, smile, comfort you and send you back to your plantation. It is a personal decision. Simple.

Goodbloke:
I cannot help but relate with all this guy says in his teachings, they are so full of life and rewarding to those guys out there who have sense.

I wasn’t a goodbloke per say just in between tho and i have decided to take some lessons learnt here and make good practice of it . I really can’t believe I read this stuff for good 8hrs non stop digesting every bit of detail

Thanks Ubunja your the best bro.

Welcome to the forbidden truth. The hidden redpill truth even most fathers and all mothers won't tell you.

There is no going back. Ubunja is great but you need to diversify. Listen to few of these guys : sandman, replicant fish and both coachgregadams and Gregory redpillmanhealth on YouTube . Your life will never be the same. You will see the social programming that has messed us up from birth . You will start to realise most things are scam. You will eventually unplug yourself from the matrix.

Once you have done this you become limitless. You will see your fellow brothers and pity them in their self inflicted misery. You will realise the world has a different perspective to things apart from the social norm we were all simped or programmed to follow.

Once again welcome to the real deep reality of life.

MiVida:
I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.

But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.

My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do!

Hmm focus more on yourself my brother. You might end up not being with her after school.

Work more on your grades, have as much female friends as possible. Don't limit yourself to a self centered and jealous being. At the end of the day all is still based on your success.

Although meeting the parent is too fast. And there is no unicorn out there. I can see you placed her on a pedalstone and you will eventually suffer for it over time.

Work on yourself, more my brother. She can leave if she decides too. Don't enclose your life because of her, cause she won't do the same for you. Simple.

Hmm this is not new or news anymore.
It is a common thing nowadays. The height of paternity fraud as skyrocketed recently.

The reason being DNA is now widely affordable and accessible by all. Although this case above is different. The husband didn't even bother to check because he is oldschool and still in love.

Love is magical. Magic is a scam strick. Equal love is a scam. You all better start learning from these experiences and marital secrets nowadays. Some funny people will be like my case will be different. My brother there is nothing new happening under the sun. Your case will be similar in one way or the other. Simple truth.

I stop supporting and believing in marriage.
As a man, I have eating the forbidden fruit of redpill knowledge and my eyes are widely open now. I see the deceit, scandal, societal norms, abnormalities, and peer pressure placed on me as an individual. I came out of the matrix. I see the shinning prison both men and women put themselves in all because of their social and societal programming.

I don't have a problem in bringing a child to life but it has to be mine and I am ready to take responsibilitiy of him/her. I believe in compatibility in one form or the other and not love. It disgust me to see people lie to eachother on the marital altar everytime ( for better for worse bla bla bla). While we know all those chants are just a mirage of the real deal coming up ahead.

Nowadays when I read or hear stuff about love or marriage or relationship gone wrong , I am not puzzled or surprised at all. Even if it is a marriage or Union of 30 years, trust me alot of hidden dark secrets that will make you laugh and wonder why go through all these stress.

Well to everyman is personal choice. Enjoy it while it last.

Escabado:
Them born you and a man the same year , both of you entered primary school till university and go service and after that you feel unbothered to get a Job or open a business .and you keep calling men broke .are you not ashmed of yourself ? Is it a crime for you to buy a car in your name, build a house and earn your own income as a women . You Nigerian girls are really a disgrace to womanhood. Visit Ghana and other African countries and see your fellow woman working day and night and making a living for themselves. You are here shouting gender equality and feminizm when you sol depend on a man's money after sex for survival. My brother's please why are our girls like this add yours

@ubunja , @lefulefu , @iLegend , @Airforce1

It is called entitlement.