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Hmm kokun the controversial foundation is back Ooo

Still a good development. But does she understand what it entails in keeping and maintaining a car.

Taxi or Uber ain't easy Oooh. I think she might even realize that the bike job earns more if I stand by her 20k per day info.

But all the best of luck to her. Luck or hardwork na still the same result.

Lol wait for it my brothers it is coming.

Just wait, it is a matter of time.

Hmm

Kennyprince:
The first time sth like this happened to me at oshodi , the seller was gay!

He had a massive and beautiful provision store. I loved a particular kind of bread he used to sell so almost every evening, I would come there and get it with some other stuffs.

Later he started giving me some discounts and unnecessary attention. One the second week or so, this Igbo guy gathered the courage cos I was by this time free with him a little, thinking he was this generous person.

That's how on a Sunday morning, he told me they (gays) are going to Dubai for a orgy party and so I shd join he, that he likes me!!!

That's how I ended my coming to the shop. Thank God he didn't even know the direction to my house.

Well this one might be different sha. Just sharing

guy you are just funny. Lmao

MrMike96:
You be gay abi.

He is purely gay with perverted intention .The type you cannot leave your son with.

Eeeh where are we heading ooo.

Because they can't bond with any man. They see it as fun simple. Some will even start transactions with it.

Wait.

What is your problem? I needed to ask you first of all?

Is that your age to get married is getting close?

Or because he is tall and physically built with HIV Gbola?

Or money? Cause you painted Blue Cabana dinner like one big romantic event? If you are financially stable as you claim that.shouldn't even woah you.

It is as if you were never courted or treated right all through your dating life ba?

Now answer to your problem:

Now I am amazed that the number one rule of relationship, which is trust was broken from the initial foundation. He didnt tell you off his HIV status.

Imagine you were infected, this will be another story.Without prior knowledge and he claimed you infected him. This will be another story.

Imagine it was the opposite situation, will the charming Prince accept your lying infected hiv ass. Put him in your situation.

You met a guy who is rich with HIV and a liar /cheat with anger management issues . All this red flags and you are still claiming love.

My sister wake up before them bury you with one of the red flags above. I would have talk sense to you if you were my sister. You are in lust and deep infatuation. You are in a smokescreen which until you are infected, it will clear out of your face. You are just not logical and rationale. You are too emotional and its shows pure immaturity in you.

What are your longtime expectation from this escapade because to me you are the only one who thinks it is a relationship

You will.marry.and have infected kids out of love for a violent, lying and cheating husband ba?

You are just vexing me tonight. May almighty vex you as you have vexed me tonight. Maybe then the smokescreen will clear from your eyes. Psssh

Why package dollars in brown papers.

Nigerians at time dey amaze me. Simple.

Michellekabod2:
Mgtow and alpha male are different. I don't know why people use them interchangeable. Alpha males are those naturally endowed with some masculine traits that make them leaders and draw attention,admiration and envy to them. While mgtow is walking away from love based commitment because of the ideology of females being harmful or so.
I agree

Wrong. Who you describe are players. Using and dumping girls ain't a compulsory nature of alphas(some may do so,based on individual differences). Alpha males have power,they are the shapers of history,the ones who built empires and conquered cities. They are men of valour. People only see alphas in respect to love-dating. They may or may not love,if they do is normally logical(loving with the head).
. kindly do research on who an alpha male and don't conclude from the lens of PUAs....
. so he is weak. Alpha males know love doesnt exist. They know it is provisonal, conditional and transactional in most.cases. hmm tripping over a girl who will definitely change both mentally and physically over time sold him out as a beta and weak male. Simple. how does tripping over a girl makes you weak or believing in love makes you weak? What makes you weak is when you act stupid because of this feelings(like becoming a maga). Consciously loving a girl doesn't make you weak.

An alpha male is a unique male with some sought after masculine traits,what he chooses to do with those traits whether good or evil doesn't change him from being one. Being alpha is based on what traits/personality you have and not necessarily your actions(however our personality shapes our actions).


I agree Op isn't an alpha male.

Yes,we both agree on OP not being alpha male.

But most alpha male loose frame over the.years. do your research too. They start to exhibit toxic masculinity over the years or abusive behavior when that traits start leaving.

This most happen on a long period of.time.because humans constantly change. Except if he doesnt evolve and stays the same. Which change is constant. You.can never be up there for life keeping both.frame in business and.relationship.

Also you.can never be endowed with masculine trait. You build.up.on it. Both physical, mentally and financially. If not most men will achieve that level.

PUA and players are just lowlife. They feel good with amount of female body counts.which is a total waste of time and ressources too.

But to everyone their own.understanding. simple.

Michellekabod2:
Exactly,they believe once you sing the redpill mantra,open daily threads on relationships,troll female threads,shout #teamvirgin you automatically become one.


It takes more than that. I have come across alphas in real life, they are never broke and their looks alone is jaw dropping. They command respect naturally. No woman debates over their authority because their masculinity is so intense.
Being alpha encompasses a lot,the way you think,reason,social intelligence, emotional maturity,financial stability,sexually/physical appeal,confidence,status in the society et Al


I don't know who reduced the standard of being alpha to be just believing the redpill ideology . it seems people believe once you swallow the redpill,grab your balls from ladies,you automatically become one...lol. It takes more than that.
That's why when I see some redpillers here calling others SIMPs/beta males,I have a good laugh because the margin between redpillers here and the SIMPs is very little, just an ideology separates them.

Great you have come across them and where has it led you?

Sincerly answer that question. Used and.dumped ba. Lmao.

Most.of you ladies Or so claim.feminists are alpha widows. You have all been.used and left for betamales like OP to pick up.

What.will the like of Op or other betamales do with alpha widows like you. Nothing tangible. You cannot bond,.too much emotional baggage carried from various alpha males.

That is just.the pure truth. Simple

bigpriik:
The problem with guys like you is that if I ask you the meaning of alphamale you go just confuse.

You see. You are just one of those white Knight. The female warriors all too gain attention.

If you truly need answer do your research . I am not alpha and.dont want to be one.

I thought alpha male were sensible until.I.found Mgtow and I realise the MGTOW and lonewolf life fits me well. Nothing to do with relationships (both short or longterm). I dont support marriage.

Alpha males both.relationship or professional wise are just asshole and selfcentered
They take advantage.and.channel their energy on the.wrong purpose. They really fit naija girls because of the.entitlement mentality and mind games. Even when alpha males marry, they end up becoming betamales or abusive in the marriage because of their toxic masculinity behaviours. Do your research you will figure it out.

I cant leave my life with such misery so I opted out. The OP clearly stated he was alpha and I had to prove him wrong. Simple.

Michellekabod2:
so alpha males don't fall in love?
Do study the meaning of an alpha male. A lot of people believe that if you ain't a mangina,cuckhold,or wimp,then you are an alpha male.

Infatuation can happen to anyone,how one handles it is what differentiates him.
I don't believe Op is an alpha male for two reasons: he let infatuation get hold of him and he comes to seek advice from people on how to run his life.

So someone is weak because he is thinking twice before acting on rumours?


By the way the alpha males on this forum ain't up to 10%, the sad thing about it is that they are mostly quiet and don't comment on many threads.

You answered it. Perfectly well.

I dont see myself as alpha male. I am mgtow level 1-2 not mgtow monk mode.

The op stated that he is an alpha male. That is where he got it wrong.. And yes alphamale dont give a fvck. They dont comment and that is why I.cant be one.

Alpha male take.advantage of female nature and that is why they.dont fall in love.

They use their understanding on female nature to fvck and dump lot of girls which is still.waste of time,.energy and ressources all just.for a pvssy easy attainable on tinder, bumble and other hook up apps.

It is just pure stupidity. Look at most alpha males after 10 yrs, nothing tangible to offer based on wasted channelling of energy to the.wrong purpose in life. Some even have children without their knowledge in different beta male houses. I am sorry, i cant leave such a life.

So he is weak. Alpha males know love doesnt exist. They know it is provisonal, conditional and transactional in most.cases. hmm tripping over a girl who will definitely change both mentally and physically over time sold him out as a beta and weak male. Simple.

bigpriik:
Good afternoon NL been long I posted.i have something bothering my mind lately I am the type that doesn't fall in love easily(alphamale ) but recently I am shocked and proved wrong, I can stop thinking about this girl though am trying not to be needy but it is a strong battle starring at her pics alone my mind has travelled into the future seeing her with my kids.i have asked her out already . something I rarely do because of the dating advice I got here but
because I really love this girl I just want to be natural as ever she is considering my proposal judging from her body language.
All of a sudden the devil rose out of the blue sea just like a Nigerian movie a friend of mine said he had a sexual encounter with though they never had sex but they negotiated in the past she agreed to sleep with him only if he can pay 5k he told me she is into runs after hearing this I cut her off I didn't continue the wooing I hated her .guess what now the feelings àre back again and stronger than ever it is now confirmed that I love this girl
Am 27 and am looking for a serious relationship so I can settle down this decade and she is the only one i see. I wanna marry her she is just 22
please I know I joke a lot in this forum but this is serious what should I do.

Hmm hold on,

Ok now let me start with you.
You are one kiss away from the plantation.

You are not an alpha male. And most ladies reading this comment know am right.
You are just one of those one wannabe Alpha male. You cant see it.

A Lady who's love is transactional and conditional with 5k and if well priced well in Buhari Era will drop to 3k. Abeg

Please marry her so that in the future we will reread the updates on this your matter and reference this your post as a lesson for the younger weakmen like you. Pssh

Hmm entitled little thing.

You just come online to get.validated for no tangible reason.

The wall is coming for you all like her.

Shiloh awaits you all.

virgoquin:
Must you guys touch any female that comes to your place.


I don't know why guys have this mindset of trying to act funny when a lady visits them

Must you go the the guys house alone when no mutual feeling is involved.

This is why I never believe rape stories. You wanted to size the guy up or wanted something.

No random ladies come to a guy's house alone for visit. Either married or unmarried.

It is not morally right. Stay at your house. Simple.

Attention. She will get.

Please she should post another one after two or one year. We need to confirm if it is still the same.

Dumb girls that their parents can't put in order.

Well I trust our Yoruba demons. Lol food don come. And no.idiot should Qoute me about her age.

You get what you.ask for in life. That is the simple truth.

Hmm

Trust me in it doesn't matter in this part of the world.

Nigeria is by link and connection. The sad reality. Even person with 3rd class dey get great job before Distinction / First Class.

Person with.international degree with.both foreign and local work experience ( in addition speaks foriegn language ) still no.get job but.someone with no work experience and pass certificate dey get job based on.favour and connection.

Trust me.if you want to.go.down that.part.you are thinking and heading, .depression will fvck you up, especially in the.current situation of this country.

So ignore all.the degree class and try to.get a.stable job or start entrepreneur (still scam)part but might work for you. Simple

Dating and marriage na.scam.

Just do and send them back to.the road.

It is just.your turn.

Trust me those are signs of insecurities

Ask matured minds and they will tell you.

Chioma too sitdown like sexual object. Where are the feminist. Am sure they cant see anything wrong with this picture.

Hmm

Lol

Hmm abnormal things becoming normal. Well done ooo. And trust our nairalander feminist to see anything wrong with this.

Hmm hypocrites everywhere ooo.

My brothers hustle make your daughter no talks say she go marry your age mate. Lol

My brothers she has had her fun. Then one big fish uncle done marry am join. Retirement plan completed. Simple

Hmm you see until men get themselves and priorities right. Women or ladies like Tiwa will continue to slutshame themselves and role model for younger girls.

You see most ladies want to be like her. Have money, have a child and continue fvcking around. They dont consider marriage as anything. They only take marriage important when they need a male provider in their life.

Which is why I tell most guys that if Ladies were in the shoes of men. They will never marry. Once they know people's love for them is conditional, provisional and transactional. Ladies of this generation? Them go flex die. Ordinary in university and during youth service you can see how they are with little freedom, not when you now add financial independent join. Hmmm

Some dumb/ pvssywimped brother will come here now and be saying man up, do the right thing by marrying. It is, the religious and moral thing to do. Ode and weak simp , will still complain when he realize that the same Lady start messing around once he cant keep up with.the.conditional, provisional and transactional love.

Better enjoy your life cause I can see.what the.future holds for most ladies. Focus and dedicate more time on your money oo. Simple.

Gbam

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

Hold on

I had to go and read all the white Knights comments and weak men comments first.

Now Oga, you are totally right. You have the right to ask questions. You see everyone saying you are nagging and insecured are hypocrites.

If she was not your.wife and the mother of your child. Am sure you wont give a.damn. or if she was still.your.girlfriend or.fiancée, .that will.be a.total redflag for you.

Imagine the.case was the.other.way round that she found an infection curing cream in your.bag without her knowledge or.you.telling her. Hmm hell will.break loose today.

And also her reply of insecurity should already give you your answer. Which I wont say. She is attacking and looking for an.excuse in.advance. Remember the.best form of defense is attack. So if she decides to leave let her be. But make sure you clearly tell.her once she leave she aint coming back . There cannot be two captain in a ship. And once she jumps boat she should stay there and not change boat. Simple.

All.those saying why are.you coming on nairaland to ask, dont mind them. That is the mistake men make. We dont seek.advice and we end up.being miserable. Read as much comment as.you want. Pick the.one that.is suitable to you simple.

Lol we know it is manipulation. Oga you are the man and head of the family. She is the neck so she is trying to control and manipulate you.

Her emotional rants gives me the impression she is hiding something. Trust me she is attacking cause that is the best form of defense.

Give her the.option to leave if she wants Abeg. The smokescreen whoever is.giving her will clear from her eyes soon.

Safe.

Officialgarri:
Cosmetology? You mean make-up is now a subject in secondary school? /

I am shocked too ooo

Hmm

Brightgem:
Thanks so much for proving further that you are so, if you have my likes following you around, I believe you'll be smarter, now stop typing trash, okay. It's 2020.

There's no bitter truth in anything you typed, maybe your own life truth.

Hmm me and you are like 5 and 6 for this nairaland. You just dont know yet.

Better go and fix your life. Keep wasting your time judging mine. Hmm OK ooo

Happy New Year though. Later.

Brightgem:
Change your moniker to Fishbrain

Hmm this is a newyear. I thought I dumped you last year . But it seems you are addicted to me ba

I know you love hardcore, redpill and bitter truth.
Who am I to say no to your advances.

Continue following me around ooo.

Lmao