Lol

Hmm abnormal things becoming normal. Well done ooo. And trust our nairalander feminist to see anything wrong with this.

Hmm hypocrites everywhere ooo.

My brothers hustle make your daughter no talks say she go marry your age mate. Lol

My brothers she has had her fun. Then one big fish uncle done marry am join. Retirement plan completed. Simple

Hmm you see until men get themselves and priorities right. Women or ladies like Tiwa will continue to slutshame themselves and role model for younger girls.

You see most ladies want to be like her. Have money, have a child and continue fvcking around. They dont consider marriage as anything. They only take marriage important when they need a male provider in their life.

Which is why I tell most guys that if Ladies were in the shoes of men. They will never marry. Once they know people's love for them is conditional, provisional and transactional. Ladies of this generation? Them go flex die. Ordinary in university and during youth service you can see how they are with little freedom, not when you now add financial independent join. Hmmm

Some dumb/ pvssywimped brother will come here now and be saying man up, do the right thing by marrying. It is, the religious and moral thing to do. Ode and weak simp , will still complain when he realize that the same Lady start messing around once he cant keep up with.the.conditional, provisional and transactional love.

Better enjoy your life cause I can see.what the.future holds for most ladies. Focus and dedicate more time on your money oo. Simple.

Gbam

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

Hold on

I had to go and read all the white Knights comments and weak men comments first.

Now Oga, you are totally right. You have the right to ask questions. You see everyone saying you are nagging and insecured are hypocrites.

If she was not your.wife and the mother of your child. Am sure you wont give a.damn. or if she was still.your.girlfriend or.fiancée, .that will.be a.total redflag for you.

Imagine the.case was the.other.way round that she found an infection curing cream in your.bag without her knowledge or.you.telling her. Hmm hell will.break loose today.

And also her reply of insecurity should already give you your answer. Which I wont say. She is attacking and looking for an.excuse in.advance. Remember the.best form of defense is attack. So if she decides to leave let her be. But make sure you clearly tell.her once she leave she aint coming back . There cannot be two captain in a ship. And once she jumps boat she should stay there and not change boat. Simple.

All.those saying why are.you coming on nairaland to ask, dont mind them. That is the mistake men make. We dont seek.advice and we end up.being miserable. Read as much comment as.you want. Pick the.one that.is suitable to you simple.

Lol we know it is manipulation. Oga you are the man and head of the family. She is the neck so she is trying to control and manipulate you.

Her emotional rants gives me the impression she is hiding something. Trust me she is attacking cause that is the best form of defense.

Give her the.option to leave if she wants Abeg. The smokescreen whoever is.giving her will clear from her eyes soon.

Safe.

Officialgarri:
Cosmetology? You mean make-up is now a subject in secondary school? /

I am shocked too ooo

Hmm

Brightgem:
Thanks so much for proving further that you are so, if you have my likes following you around, I believe you'll be smarter, now stop typing trash, okay. It's 2020.

There's no bitter truth in anything you typed, maybe your own life truth.

Hmm me and you are like 5 and 6 for this nairaland. You just dont know yet.

Better go and fix your life. Keep wasting your time judging mine. Hmm OK ooo

Happy New Year though. Later.

Brightgem:
Change your moniker to Fishbrain

Hmm this is a newyear. I thought I dumped you last year . But it seems you are addicted to me ba

I know you love hardcore, redpill and bitter truth.
Who am I to say no to your advances.

Continue following me around ooo.

Lmao

First of all who told you that your babe is a good girl.

Although you are stupid too. Infact very stupid.

Advice:

Let her have the child. Cause you might realise it is the best decision you ever made in future.

Imagine your so called babe too don abort and can't bear a child. Hmmm

Tell your girlfriend. If she breaks up with you good and fair which is the right thing to do. Move on.

Or break up with her, tell her you dont deserve her. She will beg and ask why. Tell her the truth and you sincerly feel she deserves better.
Trust me she will stay but watch your back if that happens.

Focus on your career and money.

Left for me. I for just accept the child and wont marry at all (none of the two).

Will enjoy my life Jeje.

Lol

Look at their problem. Hmm they are both not ready for marriage, if this simple question of comprehension and understanding between them is causing unnecessary.

How will they cope with the other serious main issues in marriage. Lmao

Hmm poor youths of Nigeria. These old men are now using us to scam the nation and chopping national cake at free will.

They play on desperation and willingness to better our lives. Imagine it.called G- money for agricultural empowerment for youths.

Now anlayse it.carefully before you quote me like a lazy youth.

So how many youths or young people will partake in this program?

After preaching education to us. They now want you to be a farmer or agricultural person.

Empowerment is always a scam cause in most case you can't follow up or quantify the success rate. Especially in a country like Nigeria where there are no data or means to keep check.

Politician use you as thug or money making avenue then spend the scam money they make on your future (hungry money , greedy, attention seeking wife or daughters) and still insult you as lazy youths. So deep.

You think ayade or buhari cares about you or the next generation. Well man think about your future and enjoy oo. Safe.

BOYLOVABLE1:
A lady send me a friend request on facebook since early last year which I accepted, from there we started chatting.

According to her that she's from India and she will love to marry, we talked a lot. I asked her so many questions about her and she said so many things that she a single mother.

After two months she went off and I also moved on. Just last week Friday, she appears again telling me that her account was hacked.

She has been sending me pictures also request for mine which I did send, she send both nude pics.

On Friday she also wants me to send mine which I declined. After much persuasion, I sent her my nude, she insisted that she wants to see my full unclad pic.
To cut the story shorter, immediately I sent her my full unclad pic, the next thing I saw was:

"You dey craze, I resemble your mate?". I should better comply or else....
When she is through with me I will know my myself.

I just weak, immediately I blocked her on Facebook. I think she wants to use my unclad pic to scam me. She has been calling me but I refuse to pick the call.

Please what will i do?

Don't mind mind my English construction.

.

Seriously? How old are you?

Problem :
Naija desperation, hustle,.starvation , madnesss. Greed, greener pasture mentality has messed with.your brain.
That is just the truth.


Solution :
Next time when someone ask you for something ridiculous compare it to your main guys or family member. Would your mother who.carried.you for 9 month in pain ask you for such stupid thing? Then the.answer you get makes you know how to.reply to a stupid request. Simple

Hmm

brunofarad:
Chai

One family gone just like that because of immaturity.


For the unmarried ,
If you are not emotionally matured yet.

Dont get married yet

Marriage no be Beans

Hmm even emotionally stable people still have issues in marriages.

Better enjoy your life and stop all this societal norms.

Lol

biggy26:

Everything you talked about is physical. No one these days look beyond the body.
Marry a serious minded girl or guy if you are serious minded too. Discuss intellectual stuff. Connect spiritually and mentally. Such marriages always last longer than bakassi and six pack marriages even with issues that may arise!

I agree with you on my point being physical. But I stated financial and mental reasons too.

Now let start with spiritual ? Spiritual means religion is involved right. But in most cases religion are used to control people. Meaning one of the party will feel subjected or submitted to one.

Mentally? How, everyone grew up with.different experience and past event . Meaning our mental state will be extremely different. Based on upbringing , family issues, friends etc.

Considering that even the mental state of a man is extremely different from that of a woman.
You feel you can synchronize mentally with eachother. Someone will still be mentally advance in one way or the other and that still put him or her ahead.

Intellectual? hmm either the male or the.female will still be intellectually smarter so it is not possible. The smarter one will always be the one leading which over a peroid of time will still lead to abuse. ( must I always explain it to you).

Have you.ever been in an office or place where everyone is extremely serious minded hmm OK. Then no one will head that organisation. Cause everyone will believe is own way is the best, leading to conflicts .

And all.this point.you mentioned, your probability of.finding this in both.couples or individuals before deciding.to.settle down.is.rare.

You.will wait.for ages.to.find all.this specification in one person before marriage.

Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is not worth it for both side. It always favour oneside than another no matter how most people present it to you.

Things mostly fall apart except if the foundation is strong which in most case it is never. Ladies love conditionally and men too the same. Once both ends can't keep up with their conditions, it will scatter.

Conditions like she got fat, stretch mark, her body, she keeps slutty single friends. For men he got broke, he doesn't care for me, he is never at home etc.

People expect both side will remain the same in everything after marriage which is not possible. After childbirth women will always change mentally and physically. After so much responsibilities men too will always change both financially and mentally.

And if one side manage to remain the same and the other changes, abusive, disrespect, shaming, insult etc will come in, no matter what. It is just standard reaction.

That is why no one or person both in my family,on TV, friends can sell marriage to me. I see it as a sign of weakness from both parties either Lady getting old quickly wants to retire, man getting old looking for legacy (children) etc

Study most married people at events or outing, they look sad and depressed most time but cover it all up with a fake smile. Pssh

What do I know. I am not even married. Elders I leave the floor to you.

In.other news, Dr sid the helper of aunty tiwa before baby wizkid enter. Lol your own karma don slap you too.

Collectively and individually , We are like black crabs, we dont like progress oo.

Ordinary train to improve transportation don turn shooting site. Aaa

Mdr

Aaa inside life

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

This is the case of most marriages in Nigeria.
Imagine even if she had a job, with wet and hvrny Toto for office with different real men readily.available. she go.cheat die. After them.give you head wey reset your brain , them go fvck you tire.

that's why marriage is just a scam both ways. We are humans we always want excitement and something different. Simple

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

The best reply.so.far.

A honest girl then na Naija. Lmao
My guy just know and.accept she is in.her slut phase. Most girls last in that slut phase even after marriage.

Just Laugh and be quiet now if she comes back. Dey chop with constant or double protection. Enjoy as long.as you want. Dont argue, dont.complain, dont invest financially and emotionally.

Anyday she talks about the future of the relationship or marriage, laugh and then go silent again. Then continue, I.realise this is the.best way.to handle cunning, conniving and manipulating babe like her.

Simple.

frosbel2:
Role model ?? Baby mamas ? Profanity ? Illicit sex ? Money craze ?

The Nigerian Youth is finished......

Almost ZERO Hope

Bitter truth. I have to admit.

ajericho:


so because say am exposed and informed,i shouldnt be excited when I see a superstar?

being informed doesn't mean you should be a sadist,,

enjoy life

You are out of topic youngman. No one said you shouldnt be excited.

And as usual, nothing reasonable or intellectual came out of your qoute. Well I guess Nigerian youths are actually lazy and dumb. They will produce more alike children in the future.

Continue your excitement and obsession with Davido or whoever you deem fits.

Qoute me if you have something tangible to say.

Deep

Reichel99:
Davido has more influence than your akinwunmi adesina, who knows akinwunmi outside this country?

Aaa I guess you are not well informed and enlightened. You.are just similar to those students who understand nothing about life.yet.

It is normal you would ask that.question. AFDB staff ,world bank , United nations, unicef, and those who appreciate real change for the general African populace .

You appreciate the likes of Davido due to no ambition and goals in life. You.focus on immoral and irresponsible activities. You better start.getting informed and exposed so.that your children will not be like you.

Simple. Qoute me if you.have something impactful to.say. if not I.leave you.at your own peril and.demise.

Hmm depend on the message you hear from his songs and how you.interpret it

We all read different books and get different message and meaning in it. Same goes for everything. Even life we all have different perception and see different meaning to it.

That is why this funny guy (marley) have different fan base across. I needed to reflect on this cause I couldn't understand why some (not all )responsible, .irresponsible, .good, bad,.normal,.abnormal, sucessful, useless etc people could like and be a.fan.

Don't.dare Quote on what mesage cause I.will still refer you back to the first message typed above. Use.your head.for once too. Simple