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Hmm it was greed that led to her downfall.

I once experienced it once something similar which indicated get help method. Lol. The financial implication might clear over time but the mental truama of the rape (so called consentual rape ) is another whole new level.

She should just move on like most ladies advice men to do in such situation.

Hmm, I feel sad sincerely for the man sha.

No one will understand him only if they were in his shoes. Although suicide was the wrong option.

However my own opinion for young men out there. Live a free agent lifestyle. You guys don't understand how free and powerful you guys are. You have dominion over all creatures and thing around you apart from a woman.

Most men are just too attached to women. I have friends and I see the way they act around their so called 'girlfriends' , 'fiance,' or 'wife' and I just pity their ideology on life. They feel they are not complete without them until the ladies truly brings out her nature at the slightest opportunity.

Everyman must learn one way or the other that your happiness depends strictly on you. You can't make any object, luxury, or human being your source of happiness cause it is just a smoke screen. It is a delusional happiness especially if it is around your so called 'wife'.

This man must have thought all is hardwork and hustle was for his source of happiness ( madam and kids). Only to realise it after many years of marriage that it was just delusional.

Some men shaming the guy both above and below me, still don't understand, the sacrifice he made to make it work. But ended up seeing it was a waste of time. Some men too might have been woke and are insulting him because he was not emotional stable joined with the economic hardship he was facing . He was not rationale and logical. But too everyman his own weakness.

Hmmm Abeg make I go back to my life jeje.

Hmm this is where I respect Europeans and Americans. This is information gathering.

Now this author might not be totally right. But trust me out of every nonsense, there is a sense in it. This principle works for me nowadays.

Everytime I go out to pub, bars, gathering etc. I
seat down and keep quiet. I gather information from every single nonenses both my friends and random people are saying. And I get a little message or sense out of the nonense. There is always an epitome of truth in it. Even though it is nonenses. Lol

Try it in your personal relationship with people. Same goes here on nairaland. Read some stupid nonense comments and pick the tiny truth in it. Simple.

Lol. Finally na to dey swim now for Lagos. Just follow the boat for back.

Advantages

You will not spend at all in this economic hard time.

You will be extremely fit ( imagine swimming in the morning and evening while going back home)

You would avoid unnecessary human contact or communication in this Corona virus era.

You will be respected for taking a personal choice.

Disadvantage

You might die. After which no one will know where your body dey in that big water.

The choice is yours .

Enjoy.

So true

franchasng:
Don't mind them, women should direct their anger to their maker not the man nor the side stew!!


Ladies enjoy their life while single by selecting who to fvck, when to fvck, etc, while the guys are rejected cos of their economic status most times, and they labor to make money, it is natural for men to start enjoying their own life when married after they have settled financially, women should just accept that and play along for peace to reign


So as a single lady, before you marry, bear in mind by default that your husband must cheat once he is financially settled, and if at the end he doesn't you thank your destiny....and accept that fate or remain single for life because just as Lucky Dube sang: nobody can stop reggae, the same way, nobody can stop men from having mistresses and extra affairs so long as the world continues, if you don't like it, please turn to a lesbian or go to the Monastery






If you doubt me, check the pic below

Deep pure redpill truth.

Ladies prime is from age 18- 30yrs when beauty is still intact. They decide who and what they fvck. Females have most of the fun in life without hormonial inbalance, no sense, riding the cc.

Men's prime start from 35- 60yrs when they are financially stable. They can easily provide and are more experienced, so young ladies flock them like bees on honey.

This is why most men cheat after marriage. The amount of plausible deniability young ladies use to seduce them is just too much.

Madam deal with the truth or stay single. Simple.

Don't date or marry ladies that have nothing to add to your life.

If the man's wife had value and self worth, she would just request for a divorce. This will show the husband that she values her life and she worth more than a hoe/toto/pvssy.

But this is not the case. Most hypocrite will come hear and say what she did is right. But in reality, the husband is at fault, not the side chick. Simple.

gypsey:
Divorce her husband, simple!!! she is not nailed to wall in the marriage, is she? she should get out of the marriage and saved herself the humiliation.

who gave her the right to go about assaulting innocent girl with no prove that the girl slept with her so called husband.

You see you read my mind. Divorce the man. But she won't and you know why?

Because the only thing she had to offer is normal sex. Most women, especially fake feminist see their husband has trophies, income provider, etc. They rely so much on the husband and once the man notice this , the respect is lost.

Now another young lady has given the husband both normal, oral and anal. It is paining her. The same sex she use as a tool to mainpulate and control the husband. The young lady dey give the husband in various 3d version. Lmao

She feels pained but seriously I don't feel pity for her. She married the man. She should deal with it.

Simple

Hmm I hope she will use it to help the southerners instead of playing the loyalty politics to the North. Simple.

Pascopele:
Which of these statements hurts the most in a relationship?

1. It’s over between us.
2. I never loved you
3. You are not good in bed
4. I’m in love with someone else
5. I was just playing with you

Why take all these seriously.

It is just your turn. Even after marriage, it is just your turn. Most people married or in a relationships are in it for a reason. It is purely transactional and conditional . Once you understand that as a guy or lady. Nothing, including all the above grammar will bother you. Hmm ok oo

Gbam, finally the table done dey turn .

RIP madam.

LagosBoi2:
"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” ~ 1 John 4:18

Thank you for the observation

Ok the best thing/joy/ source of happiness in life are better kept secret. But once eye start preying into them, you start to learn or hear things you were not aware off.

It was a knowledge/ secret of happiness you should have kept to yourself.

Thanks for your Bible Qoute.
Here is one for you

Proverbs 12:23 The prudent keep their knowledge to themselves, but a fool’s heart blurts out folly.

Have a great day.

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

Error . You just exposed your source of happiness, whatever comes after Mr man take it Oooh.

Enjoy.

People in the south part of Nigeria are just too docile or not well informed. Things that happen in the north on federal employments will just make you know we can never unite or be one. Simple.

Lol, this PPPRA recruitment was just a scam. Lmao .

You won't believe it. People who eventually got the job, either paid, used connection or slots. It was not on any merits.

It was as if the E.S - Executive Secretary of PPPRA, Abdulkadir Umar Saidu, was against the east, middle belt, south or south west. Pure Nepotism of the highest order.

Federal Character Comission is a scam. Not all state got even one or two candidates. Whereas Northern state got 4-5 slots each (Katsina,, Kano, kebbi etc).This show you how decayed the Nigerian system is presently.

You will just be amazed at the nonenses and they expect this country to stand together. Nepotism will destroy us all.

Lol don't think I will share it.

Would give based on my assessment and their demands at that moment. No emotions attached. They are both the same to me which is equal.

If there are no demands or needs. I will leave the money in my account jeje until further notice. Simple.

Although I support the 10 percent tithe too sha. I go chill with me, myself and I. Chop better catfish and drink. Buy a chilled unsweetened yoghurt with vanilla or framboise cake on my way home for dessert. Then i go sleep well.

Lol

Hmm

earthgirl:
What was she doing all night that she couldn't tell us. Even if it's washing of clothes, tell us.



And what on earth is Callywood?

You read my mind. Hmm the matter tire Mathias Oooo.

Oyin she is doing well . Lmao

earthgirl:
What was she doing all night that she couldn't tell us. Even if it's washing of clothes, tell us.



And what on earth is Callywood?

You read my mind. Hmm the matter tie Mathias Oooo.

Oyin she doing well . Lmao

Mckandre:
Pls Help This Rape Victim



she's feeling all emotional and confused at the same time on how best to handle this situation, she even went to the station with food flask for the suspects .

Pls moderators help move this to the appropriate section.

Hmm Rape is bad.

However this part got my attention. I think she might have done what she wanted to do.

Food flask to feed the suspects. Those guys are in trouble. Might be poisoned . But they will learn from there misbehaviour .

eni4real:
You get time!!!

Why are you wasting your knowledge on shallow girls!!!

Save your knowledge for someone that will appreciate it!!!

Your point is valid sha.

But at times you need to let her type know that we are not shallow, egocentric, selfish, self-centred, attention seeking, emotionally dumb weak and sick minded like them.

It is just the truth.

xendra:
please apart from dick and money, what other impact does a man add to a woman's life?

asking for a friend

so many mentions yet not 1 thing, guess that's all y'all have afterall, but you want a woman to be everything including a mother, househelp, maid, prostitute, manager and nanny for you. SMH

Protection and security: A real man protects his lady from aggressors, criminal, animals, even reality of life at times. He suffers, cause love is sacrificial.

Provision: A real man provides, money, food, and support to his lady. Even if her ideas or business sounds stupid, he will still support cause he sees her as his pride

Keeps you company ( cure your loneliness): You ladies feel more lonely than man, especially when you have not found the right man. If you like have 8 boyfriends and you will still be lonely inside you cause you know there are not the man.

Children: The joy of every normal lady is to find a real man to procreate with. Not a lazy weak man. A real woman body's generally crave and was created to procreate children.

A home: Real man will provide you a home. A safe heaven on earth where you will always want to go.

Family: He gives you a family. Apart from you own family. You need to create a your own proper family . You can't achieve that without a man.

Listening ears to you constant nagging: listens to all your nagging nonenses that you ladies know can drive you too crazy.

Happiness and Fulfilment: your happiness and Fulfilment is linked with a man. Even if you don't marry you still need a child which still comes out from a man.

Lastly gives you focus and reason to be. I am sure you will argue. Most ladies don't have focus. Let be truth to ourselves.

If a man was not so useful, why do you all want to be equal with a man. Simple truth.

This qualities which I personally opted out from cause I can't enslave myself for a lady who still won't be grateful at the end of the Day.

But seriously women what do you provide apart from sex?

mainman7:
Normal. Would have be suprised if the news is vice versa. Since it's not bh related activities, how you expect malos to excel in it. The only reason why they rule and enslave is because myopic men here love and prioritize Money, Religion and Material things over than our fellow Southerners.

Capital YES. Expecially all southern states' men who value their own belly and lust than protecting those that should look up to them. What is the motivation of an average southern man?! To buy lastest car, fashion and stiffle fellow southern men with envy. That is it, we focus on trying to achiev to that we can flaunt the achievent to kill our haters(fellow southern men) with envy! And get all the girls! Very childiah mentality. They undetstand this our foolishness, that's why your brother that is regularly given crumps would look the other way when... hmmm... They refused prevent when they could, still blinded by this self-desrructive ego, they refuse to unite and fight courageously to stop the killing of their sons and raping of their wives and daughters. Shame, shame, shame!

Truth is always very bitter. The next generation shall never forgive this current southern generation of "chop and lose sense, my belle and lust is more importat than my brothers lives". I love subtle intelligence of women so much and how they codedly pass accross their message why the southern men still gyrating and deceiving themselves to be men. Have you notice how most southern girl and women are now always dressed in black? They now see their mem as walking dead that refuse to rise to life and responsibility of defence when most needed. The cloths maybe stylish designs etc, but black have suddenly become so popular among our females. They have already seen that the men that God created to protect them have become useless weaklings and slaves to intruders that could have been conqured since, who have betrayed their females' trust. Being a man no be only to fvck and produce children like pigs. Real Men are Men! And we know ourselves: very few in the south, so we couldn't do much, we were also betrayed severally by the weaklings whenever we planned to.... True life story. Southern women now look up to God, southern men have fail them woefully.

You just spoke my mind in a different manner or dimension. The southern men are just annoying.

For Abuja, you will see how Northern men have controlled and killed the south with our southern leaders. They give them crumb and they sell us out, just like during slavery.

Our southern leaders are so focused on their pocket and belly, only to flaunt it to attract female or dominate their own southern siblings.
I thought, I was the only one observing this. They are weaklings.

Ordinary to get a federal government job in a ministry or agency , You will apply for the job and they will still pick a Northerner over you with third class or pass.

They will talk of Qouta or Federal character but the North will have way more slots than the south. Our southern leaders who are meant to fight for our right and equality will be bribed and they will keep quiet. The shameless money collected is just to come and oppress and sleep with ladies.

So annoying useless set of southern leaders we have. Psssh

He is jobless.

Now think rationally before you Qoute me.

When he was constantly at the senate for hearing, he use to flaunt is car once in a while, but this one is becoming a job.

Seriously we know he has passion or love for car back then. But this constant car buying and showing off means he has nothing to do and so much time at hand.

Or he is trying to attract unnecessary attention. When they come for him now, he will start lying on sick bed with POP on his neck.

Psssh

Lol this is so true. The number or percentage is even small.

Me I feel 40 percent of the country's population. Why? If you see the way people consume drugs and alcohol to kill depression, it is alarming.

Why do you think beer parlor sell and make enough. Why do you think there is drug epidemic in the north? All the alcoholic concoction in the south ( iya alagbo and co). ?

Even me wey dey laugh and comment gan fit get am wey I no know yet.

Hmm ok ooo

Lol you see the comment above mine should show you that there is something funny about this corruption fight in Nigeria.

Do you think an individual can still 2.5 billion dollars without the help of people in the past and present government not been aware?

Are they so dumb that they can't extradite her for the past 6yrs?

Who is fooling who? Lol

They are all partners in crime, both Magu involved. You need to think critically and not read the crap given to you.

Shekinah.

Lol

Lol Hmm something is fishy here oga/ madam

You are not the first individual Google is doing this too. So I am wondering why you are trying to prove or claim innocent .

Now that is where I got the clue , you might actually have been there but you want to quickly prove innocent before being accused.

Point two, like someone said above it also shows you have trust issues in your relationship. It is like Google proposing tea to me , then I go on Twitter to state I don't drink tea. Seriously.

That is the way people expose themselves (dey selfcast Una self). If we go to the spot or hotel now and ask workers there . I won't be surprise this person is a constant customer.

Why buy a cow, you have to feed it, protect it, nurture it, milk it and process it just to get the milk.

When you can always get the various fresh milk with different brand and some case freely without buying.

It doesn't add up to me sha

Hmm