Elixirsblog:
Really whats special about this. A woman is interested in you, you told her you don't like her that way she left you be, now you're bringing her to discuss on NL.
why you guys gotta be so dramatic about stuff.
she say she's moving on with her life. Move on with your life too. geeeeeezzzz

He needs to enlighten other brothers and he need to discuss with other to know if made the right decision.

You see she might never have been thst caring if she wasn't a single mother. That is the worst trap a single brother can fall into.

I am glad she is moving on to the next available. Like ladies say ( we move). Even most single ladies say that they move all through their prime( from one tom, to Harry, to ade etc) Now when the clock is ticking and the wall seems inevitable, then they want a serious relationship and want to settle down.

The reality is brothers discuss alot and learn from each other the way ladies discuss at salons. Brothers are eating the apple and they are getting woke from the delusion our fathers had. The stupid society construct on dating and relationship is been modified to suits individual needs.

Simple.

Hmm where do I start from .

Wait make I go chill first will comeback to comment. Lol

At least hope still dey for some men who dey find wife.

Cause naija ladies are too entitled. Lol

Gbam

Now where do we start from.

I have no problem with him buying or showing appreciation to someone ( mother, father, children close friends, siblings, relatives or wife) who deserves it, if it is really genuine.

Let me start with the man. You see it is clear that he is highly delusional. Most men think all these gifts and cars gets to the real soul or Coeur heart of a women. Error.

It only buys them for a while and their demands increases. If you have a woman or girlfriend that you keep giving and doesn't give even 20-40 percent in return then you must be a special simp.

When things change for you and you can't keep up. Please accept the pain and trauma alone. We have seen men who did way better than that na divorce finish am last last (e.g Jeff bezo who was a billionaire and who gave his wife 37 billion dollars). Last last she divorce am go dey date her child math teacher in school.
Thank God Jeff rose back and his wealth went into 200 billion dollars few month after.

Some people will come here and say she didn't ask for it . But a real woman who loves (If that exist) unconditionally will tell you that is not needed . That the future of you and your kids is what matters and needs to be secured. Leading to generational wealth and legacy from your child to their child and onward. Simple truth.

Now for the woman. If she really love you and as she claim to do ( which real men know that her love is conditional, provisional and in some case transactional). She won't even display or show off the gift you bought for her to the world. She will appreciate it and be cruising it on the low. Highest she will praise her almighty God and give testimony of what the Lord has of done for her with her God.

But nope, she wants to show off on social media to the entire world and indirectly put preying eyes on both you and your entire family. Before you know the world focus on you and your source of wealth. She wants her female friends to envy her and start questioning their own husband and relationship.

Too me this was not needed. But what do I know. I know nothing Fisher007.

drinoayo:
Actress Uche Ogbodo has revealed that getting pregnant has messed up her life in a rather beautiful way, Igbere TV reports.

In an Instagram post on Sunday, the actress shared a picture of her baby bump.

She wrote:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CMrX4XkpAo2/?igshid=1auj01wwvgvnm

Uche recently announced her pregnancy after previously denying the claims from a blogger.

The 34-year-old actress who has a daughter from a previous relationship says she is happy having as many children as possible as a single mother.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWlqbe2XCe8

Gbam

Let's start from the age she is 34. She is about to reach the moment when she realise the truth.

A woman's prime is between the age of 18-25 . A man's prime start from 35- till death. Argue all you want the truth is bitter.

18- 25, if she is lucky it will reach 28. Once it is 30 her ability to give birth diminishes. She will need all this IVF, drama to have one.

Now beauty and attention is a woman's currency. The smart ones use it at that age to attain what they want ( wealth, connection, business and settle down with a (so called husband ) good husband if that still exist in this modern time.

Now she wants to have as many Children. Lol when the options were given to her in the past. she dey form beauty queen, slaying around abi. She is highly delusional. I pity men that will want to marry her now.

No matter all her rants the pregnancy has lowered her sexual market value. Let call a spade a spade. It is only men who are weak and not in their own purpose that will value her.

I believe she is learning. She remained a beautification object till 34 and now claiming another thing.

Abeg make I dey go work ( work which is an illusion by the way). That is another subject I have to talk on another day.

Quote me at your own peril.

Stay safe my brothers from another mother reading this

Ghostty:
Hello guys
Good morning to you all.

Remember this thread I created sometime last year?

https://www.nairaland.com/5448693/accept-job-offer-continue-job

Well as God would have it, a Nairalander whose moniker is very popular on here(Wouldn't mention for obvious reasons) reached out to me and asked me to send my CV to his email address for review.

At first, I was reluctant and didn't want to send the CV considering he's always not serious with his posts and also a troll here or so I thought. But on a second thought I decided to give it a try. Few days later, he sent an email requesting that I meet him at a particular address the following day on the Island here in Lagos.

The following day I got to the address, it was actually an office complex with the company occupying about 6 floors in the entire building. I met with the Nairalander, we discussed at length and in the end he asked me when I would love to resume.

I later got to know he is the General Manager, Group Learning and Human Resources for the Company(A Privately owned Oil Firm) after resumption.

Fams, today I'm gainfully employed with a pay four times bigger than what the Chinese company had earlier offered me in my previous thread.

I want to use this medium to thank Seun Osewa and most especially God for sending an helper my way when I thought all hopes was lost. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

PS: Some Nairalanders are super rich and connected guys, believe me. Learn to respect people's opinion on here as you may not know who you're dealing with. For those who are still searching for jobs, please do not stop believing as your breakthrough is closer than you know. Thank you.



Modified:

I know you would most likely see this Sir. May God continually bless you, guide and protect you. I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart, God bless you. Amen!

I am happy for you man.

But you nearly fell into the trap of underestimating someone based on their ideology or comment.

But God gave you wisdom to forward your CV. I learnt my lesson the day I met one of this Anambra state men. So simple wears slippers and a t-shirt up and down. But his Rolex was mad.

I was first underestimating based on is way of talking and acting. A typical Igbo man until he pulled an impossible string for me in my presence. Guy I weak. I couldn't see it coming.

From that day henceforth, even if you are dressed like a shoemaker I will still give you the same respect I give others. Even if our opinion differs I will still respect you.

Cause trust me the real wealthy men don't show off. They live a low key life. That you will be shocked and choked on the shock ooo.

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

Hmm pelee am coming to give you a bitter truth make I chop finish

Now let start. You need to work out. That is all. All this complain you are making makes me feel you are too emotional.

He is even telling you the truth. However if oga too has belly. Tell him calmly that doesn't he think he should pay for both of you gym subscription so that you can both get in shape .

Most loved one don't like been compared to others. Except you have sigma or MGTOW mentality , then you won't give a fvck.

Madam work on yourself. Do squats, build your stomach walls. Madam at the end of the day. It is for your own well being. Simple truth.

milann:
You meet someone, got along well (you two almost dating). Next thing you found out, s/he is an atheist. What would you do? Would you quit? Would you go ahead? Would your belief in God hinder you from marrying a great person? Share your thoughts.

Hmm wait am coming to give you bitter undiluted truth.

Now lets start.

You said date not marriage. You see the best people to date are atheist. They are just themselves, no religious restrain or hypocrisy.

You will end up realising over time they are straight. The religious guy or girl most time use religion to cover their dirty truth. They hide under religion in most cases. Both Muslim and Christians.

They will preach and form holy to you. But if you find out their past or a glimpse of it . The shock wey you go get go even choke you pass 1000 Walt volts.

The religious dater will be using their Scriptures in the Bible or Quran to cage you. Trust me why do you think most become Shiloh worshippers or mosques attendants.

They give you an illusion they are pure and virtuous. My brother or sister run . I repeat run.

I prefer to meet an atheist who is not constrained by religion. Who is open minded and willing to explore every part of life without limits.

Trust me dating religious people are boring. They become religious extremist and too predictable.

But what do I know.

Keep safe

Nicenancy:
Why do some men find other people's wives attractive?

Doesn't the Knowledge that another man (her husband) screws her alone disgust such unscrupulous men

When there are innumerable single women pretty out there?

Hold on. I will give you a bitter truth.

Ok let's start.

You see most men think they own woman after marriage. Lol wrong. She is not yours, it is just your turn. Lmao. You cannot hold a woman down from exhibiting her nature.

You can have the whole world, able to fvck for 1hr non stop without coming, be richer than Elon musk. Oga she will still be desired by another man and she will still piped down someone else if she wants.

A woman mind is way too complex for me to understand. Some men think providung for her will do it. She end up Fvcking a f-boy. Lol

Some think Fvcking her well will keep her and she will stikk fvck the one that can provide even if he can last for 2 mins

You might think you might be good in bed and provision but she will fvck the romantic one that gives her only attention. Lmao

Men think they have the ultimate freedom to fvck around like me. But don't forget too she wants to explore too. She is human too like you. Change is constant in everything in life

When she fell for the husband and she was in a delusional state called love. She married oga because of his lifestyle and trips oga was giving. Overtime oga will change and start giving a different vibes from the initial stage. But oga always forget of all his vibes intially at the early stage which attracted her.

Now she starts to look for the serpent instead of Adams ( the provider). Adams (oga) who is still giving the initial routine.

Ladies love to explore too. You think most women don't want to get double/ triple penetrated and want to explore their (dark femininity ) sexuality.

There is also something called the vortex . Which envelopes a woman at a certain age where she wants to fvck anything apart from her husband. She also cannot only
be eating the normal sausage alone. Some need the spicy, dark long, BBC fvck.

The Bible say pray you find a good wife.

Men I have learnt.

Simple.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Feel questions first?

What is your SMV ( sexual market value ) in relations to her own?

Are you financial, mentally stable without her?

Have you found happiness in your own self and doing your alone time?

Have you heard of female nature and hypergamy?

Do you have a plan for yourself ( goals) first of all in 5 years to come? Then what is your plan for the relationships?

Answer this. Then I can give you an answer cause the short description you gave above is too small to deduce an answer.

Although other people might be fast to jump and bash or rush into conclusion. Then start insulting you and your babe.
Not me.

Lol

Delusional simps meet entitled creatures.

Love only exist for the delusional simps cause he/she will provide, protect and die to an entitled creatures.

Whereas the entitled creatures only is bother about is own survival. The creature feeds on it counter part like a leech. Either financially, physically, emotionally and mentally.

For this story you all are typing above to work. Someone has to take the position of one.

It can either be male or the female that will assume one position. The feeling or smoke screen you all call love appears.

One of the party will either get woke and realize that it was all delusional from the start.

Well till then enjoy yourselves.

Pure bitter undiluted Redpill message. Always hard to swallow.

Lol This picture says a lot about females.

Look at the dress displayed by Annie's mother, Annie herself and her daughter.

You will get the message.

The wall is invisible and inevitable for all women. They must hit the wall.

May she find a simp or captain save a ( you know) to help her.

I walkaway from this, the power to walk away is the greatest power a man have .

Men age like fine wine, women age like

I guess we all know

Lol, in as much as what she is doing doesn't look rationale too most people. But she is wise. Why?

Her instinct for survival as a female or women is deep.

She can sense what is coming ahead. ( Attacks on senators, people in power both past and present ) . She can sense it as a female.

Most male in power are being decieived by the power they think they have. This little video have made her free from attacks from the youth both now and in the future.

She could only do this since there is a new Lion King in the Kingdom. she needs to show or manipulate submission or cooperation to show her loyalty.

Most woke guys understand this. Most normal guys will be wondering what the f am I saying ?

Well make she enjoy. What do I know?

Hmm tomorrow I will comment. Lol

Like seriously.

Please can anyone enlighten me on male privileges ? And give examples.

Please I don't want to hear standing up to pee or making shirtless videos. Abeg I need something tangible and knowledgeable.


We learn everyday. Thanks

Hmm my opinion:

Various things may be involved:

1) she is mentally deranged

2) she wanted to hurt the husband and decided to kill, what she felt he loved the most - which his the man's legacy (children) - dumb move though.

3) she felt, she had no more value in her husband's eye, since he wanted a new wife. ( That is why i try to tell guys planning to marry in the near future, don't date valueless babes even if she is offering the best sex. ) But they don't listen.

4) she might have reasoned she needed a new start, by divorcing the husband and the only thing that could link them are the kids. So her delusional self decided to kill them ( dumb thing ).

But any of the reason or opinion did not necessitate killing a being . Not to talk more of your own children that you carried for good 9-10 months each . The pain of child bearing. The husband might be traumatized or depressed right now. Hmm she is the biggest loser.

Most young single ladies will also learn this the hardway after several years of jumping from one man to another. Even after marriage, it has a psychological effect on them. Well that will be the issues of their future husbands. Make I walkaway abeg.

Deep

DaddyRochie1642:
Am a big fan and great admirer of Lovely drawn Tattoos.

That guy's tatoos are not Attractive at all. They look like "Dark Patches" on the skin.

He's dark Skinned and he still went to draw

Nah.

The tattoo represent different thing to him.

One of them is the demon chakra on his belly. Reference his admiration to Naruto ( Japanese anime character) - meaning unlimited chakra- energy in a fight.

So you can't blame the young man. Nah him body Sha. Lol

Bauchi state. I have been reading bauchi state in most incident like this . Weird

Lol

Thousand cvck stare, belong to the street + captain save a hoe , simp = all this that we are reading.

They should face their issues. When them dey flex for PDP era and enjoying all the benefits, issues no dey oo.

Na this buhari hard time una want make we dey help you. Abeg leave matter for Mathias. Simple

Believe her at your own peril.

Lo----- ki ni?

Objectified sexually to gain attention. Irrelevant attention. Well what do we know awon WAP club.

Hmm

Chii59:

Story story. He knew what he walked into. If my brother wants to date a Cardi, it's his choice. He's an adult.
Offset knew what's up. He knew the deal breakers and broke them. So whatever happens, he caused it.

This your reply says it all. I wish your brother could read this. I can not have a sister about to walk into such a relationship with a drug dealer, rapist, mentally deranged guy and I will say it is her problem.

This prove a point out there for you brothers. Women like you are to be avoided. You only care about yourself. You are self centered and narcissistic.

My attention for you ends here. Qoute me at your peril.

Chii59:

You didn't predict offset's cheating ass has been forgiving one too many times? Oh wow! I guess as usual, shortsighted.

There some relationships that are easily seen terrible and that can't last. Example why would any brother in his right sense go into a relationship Cardi-B.

If you had a brother would you allow him to be in a relationship with such a (cardi b) woman? Even if it's for money or fame? Would you?

A woman who is into drugs, she drugs men and take their money. And she proudly says it .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9q7haE3tKNM

A women who is proud of her slutty sexuality and promiscuousness and labels it female empowerment or sexual liberation.

A woman who tells women to sell themselves as far as the dollar is involved. A woman who promotes female sexual objectification in every of her lyrics and manners. Which proper man would call that a wife and not still look for something else somewhere?

She is a whole lot of drama. Too much child hood, emotional, drug abuse, immature, and unnecessary baggage for a woman to bring into a man's life.

You can turn a hoe into a house wife. You can't love and understand a woman at the same time. You must choose the one you want has a man. You love her means you can never understand her. You understand her means you can never love her.

The reality is most women know this too that the guy that they truly genuinely love, can't understand them. And the one that can understand them perfectly can never love them for who and what they are truly.

No one can have both. I wish the nigga luck in the divorce case. He will learn and is learning the hardway.

We guys in the manosphere did see that coming?

Classic bait and switch. I am not even surprised at all, not even an inch of naive surprise.

You don't need to watch this movie . Here is the spoiler and summary.

It is going to be a movie about either sexual/ domestic/ mental abuse for both men and women. Then the husband or wife will accept the crap load of abuse to remain with the suppose spouse to claim they love each other. Total and classic work it out in a marriage message movie.

How did I know this? Are my a soothsayer or someone who looks into the future? No.

It is the same message they show in most Nigerian movie. One or both party must learn to accept abuse to make it work. Hmmm hmmm

ibkonekt:

Because theybtruly do not want the responsibility that comes with rejecting the impulses and lies that society masks as freedom and liberation. Female nature. They truly enjoy sleeping around because they have been told that there is no consequence..its just having fun...well reality will wake them up

They will learn. They feel they can sleep around and lie on their body counts not knowing that men can sense it or from staying with them for a minimum of two months, they exhibit signs and red flags showing that they belong to the street.

They want to sleep around at their young age and be called a house wife for retirement plan at old age. Men nowadays know, You can't make a hoe/slut a house wife.

Lol most ladies don't understand a lot about the sexual dynamics or sexual market place value. They just jump from one guy to another until they become desperate to get married .

Then they settle with the last option but still continue to jump up and down, still thinking they can eat their cake and have it. Because he wasn't what they bargained for initially.

The sexual liberation and feminism has led to the downfall of most ladies. They can't see it yet.