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donsalvy:
he's now a professor in Elena's college.

I know,I meant I thought elena is suppose to be a medical student.

This episode was intresting,so stefan`s new chic is still alive,I guess enzo is not truly a monster (like michael in TO who kills for no reason) and I feel all of them have bin so insensitive to stefans feelings including caroline,by the way, surprisingly I didn't miss her in this episode. @Ella,I don't understand I thought alaric was a history teacher when they were in high school,how comes elena is still attending his class.

jude33084:
Funny one boi!


But speaking as a Chelsea fan I don't think that the match will end well for us.

ManU might just do something fooool*sh

. ON the contrary I feel chelsea will be coming with full force because to be honest chelsea this season is highly motivated....even fabregas is back in form unlike the way he was in barca.

The society is becoming unconventional and fluid when it comes to lifestyle,some people are cool with it while others aren't,but personally I can't,How can you claim to love someone but yet still have your eyes on someone else because atleast, there must be some form of attraction towards this third party (wether sexually or whatever).......In essence I feel they are objectifying each other. #My opinion.

Hey guys I saw this on facebook and I think its funny. . #‎Van_Gaal‬ - hello Wenger
#‎Wenger‬ - Gud day mr Van Gaal
#Van_Gaal - did u watch d match?
#Wenger - which match?
#Van_Gaal - Chelsea champions league
#Wenger - yeah" they won 6-0 witout D-Costa
#Van_Gaal - Can a team skip a match in EPL?
#Wenger - Nooo, why do u want 2 skip a match?
#Van_Gaal - I am not prepared 4 them now
#Wenger - Very Simple" while D match is going on, just push #‎Morinho‬ in d chest, & d match will end in 2-0
#Van_Gaal - I also heard dat Diego costa is playing against us on sunday!
#Wenger - Jesus" then Protest, Costa is overAge.

And them no ask am wetin be the purpose of his night crawling, babalawo tinz!

carefreewannabe:
Let envy be in church, in the neighborhood and even on the moon but not in my family.

My mother didn't have to compete against other women for my father to appreciate her.
And my father didn't have to worry that envy will eat up his wife and their children.

. No offense, But You lack Inner Peace and you truly need to silence your mind.

Klaus-“I assume I have the misfortune of speaking to my mother“..... , its really a misfortune to have esther as a mother. ,

The boss is back, haters be like oh no,not him again...

freshdude2:
Damn!

. This one pass damn,na Daaayuummn..!!!

Bootybuttchic:
and its the man who gets all the blame,this man just said something thats bothering his marital life,and everyone is leashing on him like hes a woman hater,too many hypocrites on nairaland,so u tink a woman cant do all he listed up there smh....its why i avoid female freinds.....why cant u just advice or ignore......,..,nairalanders and their super perfect life..mstweeew



mk3jax and @op God will help ur marriage just be praying,remember God can do everything....and try communicating with her.....i pray she is the type that can understand sha..,.cos when u talk to some people,what they understand iswhat they are thinking from their own mind.....they just go all anticlockwise on u.....it is well

.Thank you for beign honest,the woman is beign unfair to him yet everyone is still advicing him to pet and cajole her as if she is the victim,suppose other wise was the case we all know how some lot will be sreaming foul play\abuse urging her to divorce him. @OP just like freshdude said its time to be in control of your life and don't hesitate to speak up mind,too trying to please her or feeling as if you are the one at fault all the time will further increase her disdain towards you.

I want make arsenal release flamini by january,na the guy cost us the first goal,its like I even prefer song pass him.

No shaking..we go win this match. Arsenal 4-0 hull city

:PFor your mind you feel say you fine, me too self I fine,if na like check out my pics.‎

McWhillion:
Download it through this link, its faster

https:///ppSL5eNd
tell me if you were able to download it.

. Dude pls can you send to my email, faruk10on10@yahoo.com

Nice.....I think “Am I wrong“ is among my favourite song of the year.

CNN) -- I am a Muslim, but I wasn't always. I converted to Islam in November 2001, two months after 9/11.
I was 21 and living in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. It was a bad time to be a Muslim. But after four years of studying, poking and prodding at world religions and their adherents, I decided to take the plunge.
http://www.cnn.com/2014/10/14/opinion/muslim-convert-irpt/index.html?sr=fb101414feministislam1pstorygallphoto

Questions and answers
I am the product of a Creole Catholic and an Irish atheist. I grew up Catholic, then was agnostic, now I'm Muslim.
My journey to Islam began when I was about 15 years old in Mass and had questions about my faith. The answers from teachers and clergymen -- don't worry your pretty little head about it -- didn't satisfy me.

So I did what any red-blooded American would do: the opposite. I worried about it. For many years. I questioned the nature of religion, man and the universe.

After questioning everything I was taught to be true and digging through rhetoric, history and dogma, I found out about this strange thing called Islam. I learned that Islam is neither a culture nor a cult, nor could it be represented by one part of the world. I came to realize Islam is a world religion that teaches tolerance, justice and honor and promotes patience, modesty and balance.

As I studied the faith, I was surprised many of the tenants resonated with me. I was pleased to find that Islam teaches its adherents to honor all prophets, from Moses to Jesus to Mohammed, all of whom taught mankind to worship one God and to conduct ourselves with higher purpose.

I was drawn to Islam's appeal to intellect and heartened by the prophet Mohammed's quote, "The acquisition of knowledge is compulsory for every Muslim, whether male or female."
I was astounded that science and rationality were embraced by Muslim thinkers such as Al-Khawarizmi, who invented algebra; Ibn Firnas, who developed the mechanics of flight before Leonardo DaVinci; and Abu al-Qasim al-Zahrawi, who is the father of modern surgery.

Here was a religion telling me to seek out answers and use my intellect to question the world around me.
Taking the plunge
It was 2001, and I had been putting off converting for a while. I feared what people would think but was utterly miserable. When 9/11 happened, the actions of the hijackers horrified me. But in its aftermath, I spent most of my time defending Muslims and their religion to people who were all too eager to paint a group of 1.6 billion people with one brush because of the actions of a few.

I was done being held hostage by the opinions of others. In defending Islam, I got over my fear and decided to join my brothers and sisters in the faith I believed in.

My family did not understand, but it wasn't a surprise to them since I had been studying religion. Most were very concerned for my safety. Luckily, most of my friends were cool about it, and even curious to learn more.

The scarf

These days, I am a proud wearer of hijab. You can call it a scarf. My scarf does not tie my hands behind my back, and it is not a tool of oppression. It doesn't prevent thoughts from entering my head and leaving my mouth. But I didn't always know this.

Studying Islam didn't immediately dispel all my cultural misconceptions. I had been raised on imagery of women in the East being treated like chattel by men who forced them to cover their bodies out of shame or a sense of ownership.

But when I asked a Muslim woman "Why do you wear that?", her answer was obvious and appealing: "To please God. To be recognized as a woman who is to be respected and not harassed. So that I can protect myself from the male gaze."

Surprisingly, Islam turned out to be the religion that appealed to my feminist ideals.

She explained how dressing modestly is a symbol to the world that a woman's body is not meant for mass consumption or critique.
I still wasn't convinced and replied, "Yeah, but women are like second class citizens in your faith?"

The very patient Muslim lady explained that, during a time when the Western world treated women like property, Islam taught that men and women were equal in the eyes of God. Islam made the woman's consent to marriage mandatory and gave women the opportunity to inherit, own property, run businesses and participate in government.
She listed right after right that women in Islam held nearly 1,250 years before women's lib was ever thought of in the West. Surprisingly, Islam turned out to be the religion that appealed to my feminist ideals.

Getting married

It might shock you to know that I had an arranged marriage. That doesn't mean I was forced to marry my father's first choice suitor, like Jasmine from "Aladdin." Dad didn't even have a say.
When I converted, it wasn't a good time to be a Muslim. Feeling isolated, alienated and rejected by my own society pushed me to want to start a family of my own. Even before converting, I had always wanted a serious relationship but found few men looking for the same.

As a new Muslim, I knew there was a better way to look for love and a lifelong partnership. I decided that if I wanted a serious relationship, it was time to get serious about finding one. I wanted an arranged marriage.

I made a list of "30 Rock"-style deal breakers. I searched. I interviewed. I interrogated friends and families of prospects.
I decided I wanted to marry another convert, someone who had been where I was and wanted to go where I wanted to go. Thanks to parents of friends, I found my now-husband, a convert to Islam, in Mobile, Alabama, two hours from my New Orleans home. Twelve years later, we are living happily ever after.

Not every Muslim finds a mate in this manner, and I didn't always see this for my life. But I am glad Islam afforded me this option.
Living in a post-9/11 world
I never had to give up my personality, American identity or culture to be a Muslim. I have, at times, had to give up on being treated with dignity.

I have been spat on, had eggs thrown at me and been cursed at from passing cars. And I have felt terror when the mosque I attended in Savannah, Georgia, was first shot at, then burned down.
Fareed's Take: Does Islam have a problem?

In August 2012, I moved back home to New Orleans, where being different is the norm. I finally felt safe -- for a while. But now, with the continuous news coverage of the un-Islamic group known as ISIS, I have been subjected to much of the same treatment I received in other cities. And I now feel less safe than I ever have.

It enrages me to know there are some who call themselves Muslims and who distort and misappropriate Islam for political gains.
It weighs on me knowing that millions of my countrymen see only these images as a representative of my religion. It is unbearable to know that I am passionately hated for my beliefs, when those hating me don't even know what my beliefs are.

In my journey to Islam, I came to learn that Muslims come in all shapes, sizes, attitudes, ethnicities, cultures and nationalities. I came to know that Islam teaches disagreement and that shouldn't lead to disrespect, as most Muslims want peace.
Most of all, I have faith that my fellow Americans can rise above fear and hatred and come to learn the same.
http://www.cnn.com/2014/10/14/opinion/muslim-convert-irpt/index.html?sr=fb101414feministislam1pstorygallphoto

rokiatu:
because all the other kids supported klaus, you stand with klaus you stand against Micheal that's how he roll. That nigga is a sadistic monster. his five minutes of screen time was well worth it, it's about time the producer let him lose I want to see him in full force. There should be a way, if stefan and damon could fight the originals in tvd klaus and Elijah can surely fight there father...that will only make for an even better TV. BTW I have to say it ooh I luv the girl that is playing esther she is such a good actress and damn beautiful, I even liked her better then the originals esther. Her expressions are priceless love her manh. And that nigga from teen wolf playing kol now let us all bow for that dude, you would seriously believe he's Kol, a very fine actor. This season is going to be off the hook I can already tell.

. Yes,I think she is beautiful and am also glad klaus realised she was their mother,but seriously micheal is a mad dog,how can you hold grudge aginst klaus for over a 1000yrs,am sure the show is going to end when he finally dies,he is the main villian of the show,hmm...my sweet hayley is now a monster,anyway sha,l like her like that way, I like them fiesty not like that elena....lol.

Men....TO is tha bomb,but what I don't get is why is he(I mean micheal) now hunting all his children,I thought his beef was only with clause? And to be honest their mother is a hypocrite,just as clause said she was the monster,she took their innocence made them monster and now she is acting as if they were to be blamed.

swaggzo:
excuse me....
How old are you to start with?

. I think am older than your father.

Feminist thread again,anyway am indifferent to this feminist ish........but I think this feminist should stop beign judgemental esp.towards the menfolk cos no any right think man would want treat his daughter unfairly......If this feminist are serious about their course, then they should go door by door and teach or educate us on how to raise our kids.

kingjulian:
Sorry moris, you canot be dragging the kingly crown with me!
I am your royal kinglyness and can not be sharing my kingship!
Now go make me a smoothie and add plenty mangoes, am feeling fruity.
Mort!!! Get off the royal feet!!

. I swear you don craze........

Kingjulian why you do me like this na? I bin want open new account and that handle I bin want use.......anyway happy julianuary @OP that blogger should take heart or better still go hug transformer,am not a fan of linda but she don blow there is nothing you can do about it," All is fair in LOve and War"

Are you kidding me,I thOught episode 2 was suppose to be tonight,how comes its now thursday. Anyway sha its not too late

Are you,I thOught episode 2 was suppose to be tonight,how comes its now thursday. Anyway sha its not too late

Amelian:
how are u sure , she's not filled with ukwu? or dress classy? a woman does not have to be ugly or dress drab for her to be wise and understanding. it all takes the grace of God, upbringing , values and certain humility in certain situations.

op, nice write up.

. It seems you didn't get my point.

To some extent yes,but most of the time no......it has to do with 1. influence I.e having the right connection e.g Tiwa savage in mavin group,2.hard work and persistance e.g p-square 3.charisma e.g 2face,phyno,patoranking and davido 4.knowing about your customers(I.e fans) and what they want and getting a good producer to help you. No be like skales wey dey sing good music but all to dey personal,sing song wey people fit relate too,song to take away their mind from the hardships of life. By the way,first to comment.

Most of the time we guys want to marry a woman with big ukwu and who knows how to dress classy, but we forget the most important attribute," A woman that is filled with wisdom" I pray my future unseen wife is filled with wisdom just like this woman.

Heart2heart:
[size=18pt]I DON BUY ALL THE SHOPS ON NAIRALAND....INTERESTED SELLERS MUST BUY FROM ME[/size]

. Moderator ban this guy for making me laugh even though I had a hectic day. ....the guy just open leg as if he want fly..... . @ OPp once in a while I do check on Tpia,aisha2, and one other lady that has boat capsizing in her DP,she has many likes but I don't knw why.

sulmeza:
mullato my foot...na bleachn be dat bro...a bath probably...dnt be deceivd

. Guy,if you see natural you self go know.Its just like knowing a ripe fruit.

YourCrush:
Do u tink it wil b easy 4 u 2 undastand y ur wife wil wake up on 1 faithful morning only 2 tel u dat she is no longer interestd in d marriage?

. No, but I will respect her for her sincerity.

ugoezeik:
when were u released from quarantine center

. The day you were discharged from yaba left.