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I'm happy they are being prosecuted, atleast it would serve as a deterrent to others....

For some strange reasons, having thought about it, I think I would be turned off if my wife kneels down to greet me especially in a servile manner.

But waking up and the first thing she wants to do is kiss me, that sure would mean alot to me.....

Okay..

Mindfulness:
I have NOT read the entire initial post ... too depressing.

I am surprised though you solely focused on her "hatred" (I would call it pain) and have not mentioned the cruelty she went through.

I guess I never saw it that way...

Anyway I still think she deserves to be truly happy and she can only do that by not letting her past hurt to rule her (yes I know, easier said than done but it's not impossible)

I no read your epistle, but IMO, the number of ladies above 28 are increasing because:

1) The number of sissies who call themselves men are increasing.

2) Female hypergamy is growing at astronomical rate, no one is good enough for them. You must meet all their criteria to be considered as a mate.

3) Guys who meet their requirements wants to take their pound flesh for their past disappointment before settling down with girls much younger.

Wow....so much bile and hatred.

Funny enough she is a lawyer, Omo as a guy, don't pray she is your prosecutor, if not, you are doomed.

She is the kind of person that makes ordinary folks think feminism is about hatred for men.
(No offense ma)

Ma, behind that cold exterior of yours is a heart filled with love yearning to be compassionate but don't know how to show it without be reminded of the pain you've tried so hard to suppress. Don't you think it's time for you to heal?

There is russian saying (from the comic series, arrow)

"A shark that does not swim, drowns"

Maybe it's time for you to move on.


Cc: Mindfulness

It's clear to everyone with a conscience to see that Tonto is deranged vindictive narcissistic psychopath who thinks she is the best thing after slice bread.

danidon08:
you should be praying not to receive any response until after 24th. That's 10 days after the last set of applicants who applied on 14th June.

Then I pray it doesn't show till on 25th..

But now I'm going to be tensed, Gosh..

Anytime I receive an email notification now, I'm going to be praying it's not from shell while just some moments ago I would have been praying it was from shell...

Still yet, no response from shell...After 13 days.

Apexcutie:
hope am nt spelling divorce

You already spelt it...

Same old bullshiit argument....

SMH for Nairaland....

delivryboy:
There is a growing trend among women to diminish the influence of a father in the family, it ranges from playing domestic abuse victim, to missing in action father claims, women are trying to make it seem like it is normal for a child to grow without a father, I believe if this trend is not checked, this younger generation of children will grow up beating their fathers and see nothing wrong in that. I must say the roles of both parents cannot be diminished. Each have got their roles in a child's life. Women should stop making a demon image out of fathers. It's against the law of nature and it will back fire. Religious leaders should beam their lights on this trend.

Actually there's a current power shift going on..

Unfortunately most guys are too blind to see it, hence the number of pussy ass men is growing astronomically, there are guys who are well aware of what's going on and are bracing up to the challenge.

Others are still pursuing pussy and fantasies..

No need to panic dude, just brace up.

In attempt to create humor, she made her self look silly...

I hope they know that not all kids would be happy or cool with it, some might feel embarrassed by their mothers action even if not now, when they are grown...

Gosh... I'm tempted to say some Nigerian women are foolish and gullible.

Just because Tonto dike did it doesn't make it to be cool... Reminds me of one of Aesop's fables.

How can a grown ass woman like her make Tonto Dike her role model?

thenny312:
powerful or not SHE'S JUST 7!!!!
No kid deserves to have their childhood taken from them, she could leave new Orleans and come back when she's older
No mother would want their child to grow up in a place where ripping out people's heart is a norm, too much violence around her could change her u know
And when she goes dark there's no going back

Ideally, that's how it was supposed to be, maintaining her innocence till she is mature enough to make certain choices.

But you see, like I said, she is not an ordinary kid, she is special and been special comes with it's own baggages.

At 7 she already knows she has super powers
At 7 she already knows her mum, dad and infact virtually all her family members are supernatural beings and trust me, they are not supernatural beings for nothing.

So by virtue of her being made aware of all these ,they had unwittingly dragged her into their life style and the only option left them is to protect her to the best of their ability (remember that scene Marcel had to keep her company to protect her from seeing Klaus's killing spree)

In essence, all I'm trying to say is that, it's too late for them to sheild her from the truth by keeping her away from the family. They tried doing that from the beginning but it didn't last, they were dragged back to New Orleans.

I guess Hayleys' parents tried doing the same for her too but it didn't work out. Why? because she was a Labonaire, her Fate had already been sealed, what made her turn out the way she is, was because she wasn't made away of the truth of the circumstances surrounding her birth, she had no one to guide her.

Omo...I don't know what to say...

UjSizzle:
It's a stupid call to remove your child from bad influence?
It's a stupid call not wanting your child to grow up thinking killing people is the best solution to anything?
It's a stupid call to want a better life for your child?
It's a stupid call to want a normal life for your child?
It's a stupid call to want your child to grow up with other kids, have friends and not end up with some dysfunctional family forever on a killing spree?

My dear, there more to life than be on top and suppressing everyone with your power.
Hayley has made the right call for Hope. The Mikaelsons are a disease. And Marcel was right when he said the Mikaelsons destroy everyone that comes around them. Marcel only managed to become a better person because he set personal standards, yet you can see the monster come to play sometimes.

Btw considering Dahlia's warning about Hope's power, that child needs better influence or she'll be worse than the whole family put together.

Been born with powers had already made her a target wether she likes it or not, keeping her away from the truth is only postponing the in-evitable, it's like an ostrich burying its head in the sand trying to prevent it self from harm. It's not a wise decision if you ask me.

Is it not better for her to be raised as a Michaelson that she truly is? The Michaelsons are not all bad if you ask me, and just like Elijah puts it, "They are monsters of necessity"

Been born a Michaelson although makes you a target involuntarily, it also has it's up, i.e you are meant to be a fighter( or a worrior), a ruler and you can't be all these in a fairytale land devoid of hardship or chaos.

This guy sure knows how to irritate and annoy Nigerians sha....

Why couldn't he just keep it to himself....?

She don tire to dey hide her hubby...?

Ediot.

Applied...

He realised his mistake, instead of him to quietly rectify it, he had to come to social media to announce it probably to impress other women.

He will be surprised that after his bull crap story he would still be downgraded and insulted by the same women he is trying to impress...

He will soon be surprised to know that, reality is quite different from what he perceives is supposed to be the ideal very soon.

It seems in the 60's and 80's people were still honest or just plain dumb. .

For 24 years fa?

Before I never cared, but now it matters to me...

If she is willing to convert, yes I can marry her.

Sorry none of them.

Call me when you've added "Gal Gadot" on the list ..

Sorry, I will rather lick a lollipop, the other licking is disgusting.

eezeribe:
True respect is earned and not imposed,otherwise it becomes fear and begets hatred,in that case you will be respected but not liked.
If people truly like you(not fawning),they would respect you.
If people truly respect you(not fear or official respect),they would most certainly like you.
Remember that the concepts of likeness and respect can be real or feigned,in both cases there evoke the same patterns that may not easily be differentiated.

Thumbs up.
Well Said.

slinkman:
stupid writers. And Vincent didn't even go straight to work, he had to tell her all his plans.

As in eh....I just tire.

Keballl:
Appears the spell Vincent was using had a link with the serpent sigil on her arm. As soon as it disappeared, there was a loophole for her to utilize and she did.

Seem plausible, but I'm not that convinced.

What makes one to have street intelligence? Is it by how razz he behaves...?

Abeg make we hear word with all this stereotypes abeg.

Someone can actually grow up in the street and still not be smart.

Being smart and intelligent has nothing to do with streets but on individual personality.

You can put someone who has academic intelligence in the street and he would outsmart all those guys claiming street whatever.

This episode was lit. Although I feel this season, klaus's character has been weakened.

And what's with Hayley and all this her attitude..

She is my crush but I'm beginning to find her annoying. No be only her like Hope ..

But wait, I thought when Vincent first trapped the hollow in that boundary, she was unable to cast a spell, so how was she able to cast it the second time knowing the fact her grip on Hope was lost and her power reduced...

Who be this busy body again..?

NwaAmaikpe:


Shame on this boy....what is left of this girl that he is flaunting?
This second-hand cargo who has not only done plenty flushing but has also pushed for a failed insecure batterer like Ubi Franklin

She is not even a good actress, the only reason she got the role in Clinic matters is because of her experience in Hospital issues due to her countless D&Cs.

I don't even need to put my nose in between her thighs to know she also smells like an Army Barracks soakaway pit.

Chai....

From my experience I think you are becoming to controlling and possessive for her liking, and all this her odd behavior is her subtle means of telling you to back off and give her some space.

You are finding all these faults in her because you are not used to be turned down. You feel you must have your way all the time.

My advice, cut her some slack, give her space, focus more on yourself, relax, she loves you (as even confirmed by you) she isn't going anywhere.

Don't try to "OWN" her, she would resist it. Just love her but at the same time love and have time yourself, don't place your emotions on how well she responds to your command.

In essence just try to enjoy your relationship with her without trying to control it or her.