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Makschinchin:
Haba bros, na dis kind talk dey frustrate many people o.. What if him hustle hard and d money nor still show...

Everything isn't about money na.. Abi don't poor people find love??

it's about perspective, no be to frustrate. it's not about hustling hard,it's hustling smart and money is a product of value not work. yes. everything isn't about money especially love but I'm just saying the easiest way to get love is too improve your worth. ladies have tendency of getting attracted too successful minds and guys with worth because even if you search and find love now and she realise you don't have value or worth, mehn she's still gonna leave you. so to avoid heartbreak eventuari let's do the needful.

tsims:
Don't use Shatta Bandle as an instance. He hasn't said he found love. We all know those girls he shows off are after his money.

he's not gonna come out open right now too say that cus he's still enjoying them feminine company but trust me, don't be too sure he hasn't got one girl he's seriously considering. exactly my point, as long as he maintains the riches, he can pick any of them with ease.

nanaman:
What's your form of disability.? I'm paraplegic and also married.

I'm so inspired right now. few words with great value. more wisdom sir!

MrHighSea:
When the money goes?

then it shows the paralytic is a brain own than a physical own. even able bodied, it's a red flag for anyone. but all I'm tryna say is focus on your ability, make a life. love will find you. She might just love you for the life you living and you'd be amazed how love find people. But if you don't love yourself first by focusing on improving your life, no one gonna love you.n

bros. Make money, make a life. you'd become irresistible even in disability. yinka ayefele marry ooo and found love. This latest Internet sensation too shatta bandle, imagine the girls that will be sliding into his dm or messing around him.. just hustle ooo, love will find you when you succeed

AwkaetitiBabe:
Too bad. People and uhn uhn sef... Why allow ur bestie to uhn uhn you when you have a boyfriend for God's sake

what you give attention too gives you direction.. Most of them spend more time with their bestie than lovers, confide more in bestie than lover. thereby exposing themself too such lust. It takes a man with integrity not too take advantage of such vulnerability when it arises.

okay

larryevil:
Just shut up did I tell u I was calling him who whatever’s they call I didn’t ask you so Bleep off make God nor punish you I tell you in any way say I nor fix my car

I think I must really commend the guy for still coping with you, country hard indeed. Keep having a blast!

larryevil:
I take car of my car like baby I fit use my last card repair car and stay hurry because I reAdy things about cars any little problem can lead to another thing even what I change in the car can be repair but I said no and brought a new 1 even when he brought the car ou found out that under that car was bad I have to fix it my self that very Sunday with my own pocket money,I no his much older than me but he want come they at like boss for my own car which I suffer day and night to rise the money buy am,I regret to give am my car the most part he said na anytime Uber pay na I go give u your money and don’t call my line as if na Uber company sign agreement with and also as if he get Toto way I go they call am up and down if not for buniess I go every call he number for my life or even no am

bros. good day sir, sorry I have too comment and quote you. All these lamentation isn't necessary, you either get your car back or adjust the terms and conditions of the contract. I see you nag from all your write up and it might be a tendency why he gives you those cold response a times. He can't be making strategies on how to meet up your deliver and you be choking him with calls. If you feel he's not treating your car properly, get it from him and if you think your car needs work, kindly do the need full. . you can't compare a car you drive for work, family and pleasure with a car you use for hustle. engine and a/c all day, it require a healthy and strong car too face that business. let me pens up here. But you have the final call.

adajiboyy:
Good evening dear nairalanders. I am ashamed that I am doing this and tears is dropping down my cheeks as I write this but this is my last resolve or else I could end it tonight and just go rest and meet my folks. This is the second time I am coming here on nairaland to do this shameful and despicable thing but I have no option now. I Iost my job in the month of April and had a savings of close to 700k and I got a brand new Keke napep so someone could ride it for me while I look for another job but that keke was stolen just 2 days after I got it with virtually all of my savings, since May thing's have been so so bad and hard. no papa no mama to fall on or call because them don already kpai. Since May I have sold my laptop and furnitures just to feed and pay my bills and I am just 26. Yes I know I should sell my phone but this is the only thing that keeps me sane and alive. All my friends that I helped financially when I had money have gone away and none call again because I am now broke but I was a good guy that never turned my back when they all needed me, my girlfriend left and now I am getting depressed each hour that passes. The reason I am doing this is because I haven't had a meal since Tuesday and I just called my best friend of the last 16 years from jss1 and begged him for just any amount to eat but my best friend disappointed me, I don't blame him, he might not have had money now and I am not entitled to his money but I am just weak and tired and helpless and frustrated. This is my Instagram handle (Adaji100) you can see me and see if I looked broke down till my last post which was May I think and if you think I am lying I am so sorry ok as I know how shameful this is but please don't insult me please because I am on the edge and at my wit's end and emotionally empty and drained and ready to just end it but I pray someone out here help me. Please I am so sorry for doing this and acting so shameful but I got no option as there is none for me to ask than to come only to people I don't know and lastly I pray for someone out there that have money now that he never losses it all that he would have to beg to eat. My acount number is 3069939722 and I use first Bank

I feel your plight man.. I pray God comfort you, but suicide is not an option or a threat. If you can find a menial job atleast since you are able bodied. just try. . regardless of how much nairalanders send to you, it's still can't take you forever,will yo return too do the shameful thing like you said? just align with your church and be more active in service. grace might find you. I'm just saying you need to start from somewhere again. money too eat isn't a solution.

Acidosis:
A real Christian is one that is filled with the holy spirit. There is a place for the word and another place for the spirit. God is the word. This is why Jesus (the word) needed John the Baptist for impactation (spirit) before he began His Ministry.

Bottom line is no real Christian would sit down to debate the Bible with people who don't have the spirit because most of the time, the things of the spirit usually don't make sense to the common man so an attempt to sit and explain that is a product of idleness and spiritual immaturity.

A real Christian would not be asking whether it is right to smoke, sit in a brothel, or drink at a bar. Such questions are proofs that a man is not born again in the first place. It is the spirit that makes the difference and teaches us all things. Even Satan knows the word more than any mortal but lacks the right spirit to activate the potentials.

While a man with the word is searching the scriptures to justify alcohol intake or premarital sex, a spirit filled man knows too well that even though all things are lawful, not all things are beneficial to him. He also knows too well that ingestion of alcohol or mere buying of illicit drugs or condom at a pharmacy could cause men to fall.

thanks for actually taking time. you earned my respect sir, I was just conscious of the use of word *REAL*. ANYWAYS, it was really an education and more insightul. great week ahead sir.

Acidosis:
No real Christian would sit with you to discuss this kind of topic.

please kindly educate me on your meaning of *real* Christian. Thanks

You were even nice for telling he your expectation.. ordinarily, you will have observed her ones in a while and when you see she's the "always make me happy" kinda lady that doesn't think a man deserve happiness or be spoilt too a times. , you go just bounce.. gone are the days when men alone were breadwinners of the family, now are days, women are making it big time and are holding the family support down..

ok

Lexusgs430:
Can't you see that the marriage is over.......... Marriage is for better, for worse..........

If he is not financially able, he is deemed useless.......

I'm sure you don't know the cost, the emotional stress and the long process in getting a divorce especially when you need too consider the kids too.. its not beans ooo

pocohantas:
So many great men went ahead to pick a second wife after years with women who helped them build. OBJ married Stella and she was his First Lady. Eleganza man married Sade, who wasn't even half his age. Now she controls everything. Ned just married Regina.

Sometimes, men just want a woman that fits the current status. Has nothing to do with sanity.

those last sentence caught me off guard.. true words. its gonna stay with for a while. Thanks

We forgive you young man.. you need too forgive yourself. . kep pushing and channel that energy into good vibes and the world will dance with you,ms you can take care of that mama in partycular

Well done sir.. I feel your plight but truth is your problem didn't start when you lost your job, it's been there but you were covered either by love and she was seduced by the funds you were making available but your inability too meet all her demands exposed it all.. fast forward too the issue at hand, it's a pity you might not win the war, I'm sure she's from a broken home or a home where the mother happens too be almighty. kindly be prayerful. may we never marry our enemy or a woman sent out too disorganise our life's. . she's was never your wife but it's too late, just take it easy. I pray God help you over come, the real fight isn't your wife anyways, it's her mother.. just my humble summation.

showstopper. . One of my early crush growing up..

She thinks she can eat her cake and have it, it's just her greed.. I feel you can't be friends with someone you have feelings for. Help her too concentrate on her relationship especially because the guy has involved her parent which shows commitment. she'd respect you even more with time. The end

Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]It's the same story for every Nigerian girl.
You wouldn't meet anyone decent. Pray for her. [/color]

bros haba fear God na. . have you met every Nigerian Girl before making this conclusion?? you sef need prayer join..

Just for the records.. guys don't breakup or quit, we just ghost. but was there too confront again, you know better. so its your decision too make, either stay or go but don't ever think you can change her, so if you staying be sure you can endure and not get so jealous and in case you wanna bounce, this life is too short and you only live ones.. The end

from a dear brother

I only pray and wish for you too marry a woman, that will not close her honeypot on you regardless of the issues or quarrel you guys have. There are other means of settlings dispute as couple. Those are some of the cracks the devil uses too exploit a good home.

Beremx:
OK noted.

I just want to ask one question. Is it possible for Timi Dakolo 's wife to have developed Stockholm syndrome for the randy pastor after the rape? Because me I don't understand why she continued going to the church after she was being raped.

Just asking

exactly my thought too. . how was she able to stand his sight at church? regardless of even if her family attends the church. pretending over such trauma as fresh as it was? when a situation happens more than ones then I don't think it's a mistake. I didn't hear her accuse him of taking her virginity and she was 16years then, if I'm not wrong. so many questions begging for answers. It wasn't at gun point, we didn't hear of her sustaining bruises when struggling but I'm sure between they really know the truth between themselfs

ok

We are getting there..

uvie66:
the mere fact that it is an allegation makes it weighty enough for him to step down because of the position he holds in the church. He is innocent until proven guilty.

Everyone commends him for stepping down including me. so let's watch and see the next phase..

Xisnin:
If I say a particular politician that you don't like is corrupt, you will happily agree
without waiting for the courts.
You will criticise those that disagree with you and tag them corruption as defender.
You will not ask for the "many sides" of the story.
SMH

please sir, you don't know me and we have never had any of such argument online. You can't just assume and conclude that about me but what you wrote up there says much about you than me. nice day!

yeyeosoronga:
That's the only reasonable benefit celebrities are to anybody. To use their influence and bring to light certain social issues of importance including rape. If anything at all, this case will help rape victims and survivors and can enable them speak out too and not be silenced. They can see the support a once considered shameful experience a celebs wife got when she choose to speak out. More parents are aware that covering for rapists and even collecting money for restitution for their children's stolen innocence is not the way to go. They are able to see that even a rich and influential rapist may not be able to get away with his impunity.
Many people are now aware of various agencies they can contact that will help them. There's even a 24 hour phone contact counselling service or so now, which we' d never heard about before and didn't even know existed.

I'm on the same page with you, I just hope you ain't referring directly to pastor biodun when you mean rapist in your write up (because its still alleged, let's be cautious). aside that I'm with you 100% and support your stance. No to rape regardless of who you are. Equality is my message.

uvie66:
did you digest the content of his missive? He says he does not want any distraction from the job he has been asked to do so therefore he has to step down. This is the right and proper cause of action. The position he holds in the church is very important and it is right for him to step down pending a proper investigation. Furthermore, it does not mean that there have been other severe cases then this case should not be investigated.

if you digested my input properly, you'd realise I don't have an issue with him being investigated, or prosecuted if found guilty but till then, it's all still ALLEGED so we can't tag him a rapist like people are already doing. my bias is just the way people are overreacting and not looking at the situation from both side critically. I hope after this one, incase of such situation that doesn't involve a celebrity or a pastor, we will react and take it up to this extent. I just hope then Nigeria can be better indeed.