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Kobojunkie:
. Stop projecting! His issue is not the same as yours. 🥱🥱🥱

You can’t get the attention you want from me

Im so sure she also never apologies. Thats not your girlfriend, she’s just using you. No matter how much convo or the tone, she will never change/listen. The only solution is to walk away from such relationship. You are not her man

This ride needs a new owner. It’s open for inspection

Still available for pick up, you still available for pick up, still available for pick up

you will never hear them say sorry, there have an over estimated ego. even when you try to tell them how Dey are hurting you, Dey will deflect it and make it seems like you are the problem. Dey are never at fault. I was in a relationship with one for almost 2years. It’s exhausted me. Even google tire for me. Cus small thing I don ask google. Dey are just bittered and broken people.

Car is ready to change ownership. It’s looking for a new abode

Clean used and well maintained

Fabric seats
Factory Ac
6 cylinder

Reason for sale owner wants to get a smaller car.


Price is 6.3million


U can reach me on 07036076177. Thx

Veggieseeddies:
Are you a woman?

I am a man

It’s really not a crime. It’s just those baggage that comes with them. Their hurts and traumas some of them never properly heal from it and they always take it along without realising it. Another, is just Ego from the man, like why must it be another man’s used toy, especially now when there’s evidence. Then sometimes those single mother are always self centered, it’s always about them and their child. So you will be getting very divided attention. But as long as you have healed and open to love again. I pray you find a man who is genuine and will be true to you.

ITbomb:
Avoid female bosses as much as you can especially the fat ones or old spinsters

Sounds silly and funny but I have experienced the old spinsters own. So emotionally unstable and so bossy.

motymop:
100% sure.

Rent is monthly in kenya.

Kenyans are good in business. They are also good in customer service. So you cant outcompete them

Thanks for the heads up. Bless your heart

motymop:
Kenya is more organized than Nigeria.

Nairobi is more modern than Abuja and lagos.

Real estate is booming in kenya.

Almost all major hotel brands are in kenya.
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Every government payment is done through mpesa or ussd, that reduce cash corruption.

In tech, they are far ahead of Nigeria.

The only disadvantage is that as a Nigerian you cant find jobs there, even in business, they will outcompete you.

Please how sure are you about this?

deltateam:
So God is insecure? It means you expect your spouse to consider your feelings in relationship with others usually of opposite sex but they are insensitive.

I didn’t fully grasp what you were trying to say. But please let’s not bring God into this.

DECENTBWOY:
Not everyone will agree with u on this..

Bros. Everyone doesn’t have to agree with me. It’s an open discussion.

Trustmea:
So giving is only proof of love to you wawu

Even the Bible said for God “so loved” the world, that he “GAVE” . I’m sure your mind was processing money, when I said giving. But for you to even love, you have to give yourself up.

EnterpriseMan:
Giving what

Giving everything, time, support, attention, money, everything.

Jealous is a sign of insecurity. The proof of Love is simply “giving”.

braine:
This one is a long thing.

I just calculate 20% of the gross for the deductions.

The remaining 80% is the take home. This works almost all the time.

Absolutely smart and straight forward. Saw the post on linkendin a while ago.

J

Yea

edoncast:
This guy doesnt have a good manager .

You keep releasing song every month .Songs wey u supoose give gap of 4 4 months or 6 6 months .

Small time now ,u will become obsolete musician.

Olamide did same thing and he’s relevant almost 10years now. He was releasing albums with hits every year for 9years and 9album. Just trust the process. No be all artiste be Craig David. It’s the Asake season. Let’s enjoy every moment and if eventually he fades away, we can always go back to this tracks and remind ourself of him

Spain007:
Be man enuf to move on or walk away. It's called MATURITY not INTEGRITY.

“Especially when you define standard, let's live by it” is called what sir?? Also maturity? I leave my peace with you. Have a good one bro.

Padipadi:
Cheating. She visits guys house and sleep over and tell me nothing happen. I do like say I don hear.
I fûck my own fûck, pursue her. I can't eat left over

Bros, you lied when you say you don't eat left over, cus what she served you was also left over. Be man enuf to move on or walk away. It's called integrity. Especially when you define standard, let's live by it.

Sandralight:
It's obvious you are a very ambitious person and your girlfriend is not.
She is not bad, not everyone is goal driven and some ladies grow up with the mindset that the man should provide all their needs and no matter what you do, you can't change that.
From my perspective I think your girlfriend will hardly change, you will keep pushing and pushing until you are tired and even if she does something now once she start giving birth she might use that as an excuse to stop doing any work so if you want to be with her just know you might take 100% of the responsibility and if that's not to your liking you can break up now.

Ask yourself whether you like her enough to take care of all her responsibilities or you just like her because from your post she is a virgin and she loves you.

I wish I could wife you already. Bless your heart

Victor2707:
Don't lower your standards for anyone.

The purpose of a woman is to take care your children while you provide, protect, and lead her.

If want her to have something doing, then;

Start up a small business in your name based on what you know she can handle, teach her how to run the business, and employ her as the manager. She must always report to you.

Stop asking her what she wants to do, tell her what to do.

Be a leader, she will follow.

If she doesn't follow, dump her because she doesn't respect to you.

Do all these for adult ? Even while the man is also fighting for his life. You guys should always be fair.

@op. My only piece of note is, you can't change anyone, don't even try or think you can, change can only come from within. That kind of lady will run down any business you open for her, she just want her man to be everything while she finds every excuse not to be responsible. Do you wanna raise kids like her or with her, is that the kinda kids you wish or want, a woman that doesn't have a drive, in this new world. She will also not be smart enough to have a convo with. It is so much and might exhaust you with time.

Hey

youngsahito:
let him take it and he can get an apartment close to the office. Job no easy to get in 9ja not to talk of been picky.

This is the painful mindset and orientation that has been has got us where we are. We have choices please, know your worth in the corporate world, increase your value. Employees dey reject offers on a steady, employers are scaling up to ensure an employee is engaged. This mindset can't get you far
My guy. Work dey this same country, better work myguy, just pray for connect and update.

sunnymighty:
Bro am not new in the game, some owners charge 25,30k or even 35k depending on both parties involved in the agreement,so what exactly are you insinuating?

Smiles. I was sure you knew the market price/range and trust me you also know what is fair enough but you sounded like you wanted him to determine what the market price/remittance for him and you will be. Anyways. Hope you have a swell weekend bros

sunnymighty:
How much are you capable of remmitting on a weekly basis?

This kinda words are used for exploitation. If you are sincere, you already know how much you likely expecting but you want to exploit his vulnerability.

Sucre6:
He should feel worse because he acted inappropriately

Yea. Because he didn't paint a perfect or happy ending scenario like you did. He came bare, he already felt he should have done more, he came clean already. C'mon. Look at you contracting what you preached earlier. People take feedback like this to the heart, what if he starts feeling he failed her and starts being suicidal. I leave my peace with you

Sucre6:
You claim she is your girlfriend yet u weren't sensitive enough, if truly she's your girlfriend u should have noticed that from the way she spoke that something was definitely up, so u calm her down and get to know what the issue was, any small thing u don vex, u could have averted her death u know, yes I want u to really blame your self, u bleeped up.

Not even talking about my girlfriend, a friend of mine called me one day and was sounding funny, the dude told me that he's done, he's leaving this night, I didn't quite understand what he meant at first but I decided to equire more, he was withholding information, I had to call people around to go check on him, they rushed and saw the guy, laying lifeless on the tiles inside his room, he took snipper already, they force two bottle of red oil down his throat and rushed him to the hospital, thank God he was saved,

Turns out dude was owing plenty lapo and online loans, we gathered money and cleared the bill even before he is discharged from the hospital, dude is happily married now and doing very well financially, thats what friends should be all about, you should be sensitive and observant, it very important

Look at you trying to prove your point with your scenario. Don't try to make that guy feel any worse, this is an adult here, she had family and friends also. She refused to speak out. Mr bf also has his own battles. Suicide isn't an option and let's learn to open up when we can. Everyone is fighting different battles. Suicide isn't an option to anyone reading this and let's stop feeling entitled that it's someone duty to ensure we are fine and safe
We owe ourself that responsibility first and anyone that really care should be held more dearly.

bros. you self. You haven't really committed to her to confirm you are here to stay or for the cookies. Take her serious and make your intentions clear. Then it will be easy to flaunt you. Maybe she has flaunted one or two guys before that didn't end well. Stop over thinking, at least she invited you to her house and not like you are paying her rent.