Good day all, this question has been on mind for a while. "should intending couples who are getting set to marry each other pool their resources i. e money together in order to meet the expenses for the wedding and marriage" Note that the ratio of contribution is such that the man contributes more e. g 60:40 - man:woman
Matured madams and sirs, pls what is your take on this? Thanks

futureenergy:
"He whom the gods want to kill they will first make mad" - Anonymous

See how nemesis is catching up with this mad man, I mean what did he expect? That people will clap for him or cheer him?
This is going down history as a disgrace for him, his family and dismissal from NYSC. Years to come, people will tell his children (if he manages to have any) that their father was dismissed for having carnal knowledge of under-age girls where he was posted to serve the nation. Shame!!

Wherever he goes for job, they will bring it up.
If he goes home, they will bring it up.
If he goes to church, it will come to people's mind.
Any political ambition is gone, as they will blackmail him for the rest of his life.

sir/ma, you nailed it on the head. that anonymous quote is perfect and true.

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Sir, you have spoken well. im an alumni of school and i agree with your point of view. Do you know that despite this show of shame by the governor, if he wishes to run for the next election, half of these students "so called youths " would still put their thumb on the ballot paper for him once the amount is just right. The youths are also killing this country by nonchalance attitude. *my take*

Drew0:
Thanks but no thanks Mr pastor I no they look for prayer warrior as wife.

whatever your religion, pray you don't enter into serious issues in life...then you would wish you had married a prayer warrior.

Good day
Sir/Ma,
I am passionate about customer service and I have been trying to get a sit at the table, all to no avail. I would really appreciate it if anyone in the house can help me out by linking me to any organization with an available position for a customer service representative
thanks.

Texykool:


Eyin omo Mardel...

When I was around back then, some robbers robbed Green House and raped some Deeper Life sisters... Riot followed.

im an ex- Ladokite, this issue of robbery is rampant in LAUTECH, especially in under g and adenike area. the school authority should improve on security. till date, i cant forget the robbery experience i had in that school, it was my first time of seeing a fire arm upclose . the next time some people raised a false alarm that we were being robbed, my teeth started chattering. My little advice for any current student of Lautech is " please dont rent an hostel with wooden door, rent those with strong metal door and insure it from behind + girls dont live upstairs, those wicked guys can come in thru the ceiling.
*ps: i lived in Mardel.

YerYer:
Very very sad and annoying. This story just makes me so angry but I don't know why. This very same canal has been used by criminals in the past as their gettaway route... It's faster since there's no traffic to slow them down. This case is particularly annoying because there's a police station very close to the robbery scene. What use is it having a Police department if they wont respond to distress calls? Also the federal government has to draft laws to forbid private hospitals from turning away critical patients during an emergency. This is pure madness, they could've saved this woman's life had they stopped the bleeding, even a simple pressure dressing or tourniquet could've made some difference.

You are 100% right! We need hospitals to be trauma equipped, it could have saved that woman's life. I really can't imagine how the husband will cope.

olahero:
20million... walai i go manage it and become millionaire.

LOL! With 20 million naira, you are already a millionaire.

@OP, private schools are in grades. "Mushroom schools" like you call it cannot be compared to standard schools who do it right. A school that is government approved and has a good reputation to uphold won't have all of those issues you stated above. I teach at a private school and I don't have to worry about salary, being frustrated or taking 8 subjects (rolls eyes) plus I enjoy it. If you go into teaching because you just wanna earn something by pay day, chances are you would be frustrated.

The best reply to "how do you do?" Is "Very well, thank you"

I would push the BLUE ! With this Lagos traffic, that power will be so useful.

kossyablaze:
Era ile, era ile Won yin baba l'oke Yanrin okun, yanrin okun Won n yin baba l'oke Eranko ile, eranko igbo Won n yin baba l'oke Awon alaini, awon tan ti ni Won yin baba l'oke [Chorus:] Ko se igbati nkan ba se yan Ko to mo pe baba n be l'oke Ko se igbati nkan ba se yan Ko to mo pe looto o n be l'oke You don't have to wait till you feel the pain You can start right now It's not too late It's not too late, to be grateful Era ile, era ile, Won yin baba l'oke Yanrin okun, yanrin okun Won yin baba l'oke Pe mo wa laye, mo wa laye Gbogbo n ti mo ni, ma fin yi o l'ogo Believe this world a better place

ASA- Grateful! *winks

saxwizard:
this is even small come LAUTECH...Ugo see more than that







but oga dey teach u dey snap pix...i smh 4u




can u see dat alaja sleeping in class....lol boring lecture i guess

yes oo! As I saw the pic, I remembered Lautech days, if you wanna see what the lecturer is writing/solving, you have to move to "higher ground" lol. Great Lautech, great Ladokites!

Maxiyke:
This guy no get relatives wey go advise am? Disgracing his family like Fayose.

LMAO!

WackyJ1:
I use to do this once, I checked and I saw evidences that broke my heart. I then tried to correct and all that but then she cried for her "privacy".

I wasn't wrong, my only mistake was letting her know what I had found.

Snooping is not a matter of insecurities, mistrust and bla bla bla.
Most times these girls are not to be trusted, they almost always get up to some mischief. They hide it so well that the only way to find out is to see a slip up somewhere in an inbox, whatsapp or BBM.

Checking her messages is not to be done all the time because it results in needless headache.
But it needs to be done once in a while so that you do not get fooled into thinking that you're a relationship of commitment and trust when the girl is playing pranks behind you.

When you check and you find something suspicious and not right, it's not the time to correct, it is the time to reassess. It's not the time to start preaching sermon to the girl but the time to know that that countdown to the end of the relationship is at hand.

You are absolutely correct. Especially the last paragraph- on point!

Omooba77:

If the dogs na Rottweiler nko?

what if the dogs were pit bulls ? "Stories that touch"

STPEACE:
I will advice the widow to go and kill herself before her husband will do that for her.

its just for commenting sake because it cant be true.

LOL! You got me with the "kill herself part" conscience died a long time ago for some people

omonnakoda:
What is wron with buying it on her tab?

it's wasteful, and it will depreciate over time. My opinion

Ivanspring:
Why did he take her there in the first place? For window shopping?

Any lady who points at a bag of 250k and buys it either on her tab or another person's tab is plain stupid, has no Economic sense and just can't manage a home. I won't do that even if I earn 750k per month.

CFCfan:

Lol. She'll serve the terms concurrently, which means that she would only serve 14 years in prison. It's still a harsh sentence though.

ok. I now get it it. Don't mind me, not too versed in matters like this.

generalissimo:
Nigerian Judicial System is one of the worst in world. Alamieyeseigha, Bode George, Patricia Ette and all other convicted thieves who stole billions were not sentenced for so long if sentenced at all. Now, a petty thief is now sentenced for centuries....SHM. There is God o

Abi ooo. African china has said it all in his song.

266 years! This is fearful!

linaluv:
Hey all its been long since i ever did Hiv test, that was way back 4years ago when i was planing to join the military, they never informaed us individually about our medical results but they did it all generally. and so the information they gave wasnt clear enough seeing we donated blood for the screening individually.

now its been close to 4 years that the test was carried out but ever since then i have been involved in some risky behavious ''accidentally'' if you know what i mean, during the course of having sex, i do experience breakage of condom from random girls.

now i d like to go for a test.

where can i get free test

seeing its likely i caant afford to bear the cost , if i were chatged to pay a fee at the moment
is there any NGO i can go to?

yall please help me with answers

God bless you all

if there is a general hospital or any government health centre or preferably a Teaching Hospital around you, walk to the Lab section and ask if they do free HIV testing. Some of them have an out building in the hospital environment that does all sorts of free testing for those that can't afford it. Good luck sir!

@ adrianstylez Long press/ click on the picture until a pop up shows to save the pic, change the name nad add .jpeg to the end of it as an extension. Then save. You will find the pic in your gallery.

Long press/ click on the picture until a pop up shows to save the pic, change the name nad add .jpeg to the end of it as an extension. Then save. You will find the pic in your gallery.

SexyFox:

I think you are wrong. My reasons below:
1. I hate light skin guys but he is fair.
2. I stay awy from short guys. He is short.
3. He has fat lips and fat nose which I normally hate.
This is not lust.


By the way I did not even talk with him. And I have seen way handsome guys before. I wouldnt even call him handsome in my dictionary of handsome.

maybe he had the best smile you have ever seen. Some people may not look like much with a straight face but when they smile, OMG! u can't resist smiling back ( secretly or openly)

Luke 18: 1, 8 (verse 8b: Nevertheless when the son of man cometh shall he find faith on the earth?) Jesus said this to His disciples concerning when He will return to take His chosen and we know according to how it was written in the books of the gospel and in the epistles of paul; only those who are found in faith, still believing, the servants not found sleeping, who are actively expecting the return of the saviour will be caught up with Christ. Therefore beloved don't give up or lose hope - even if He tarry, at the right time He will come, so continue to lean on Him and keep being faithful and steadfast. It was only those with faith that escaped during the days of Noah and Lot, so it will be when jesus will come. (Matt 24:38, luke 17: 27) only those with faith shall be caught up with Him. Your faith is rooted in ABSOLUTE OBEDIENCE to His words. (Mark 13: 31-37). The truth that Jesus Christ can come at anytime should be at the front of our mind not at the back. It is because many christians have pushed this fact/truth into the abyss of their minds, hence they can afford to hold malice for an hour, gossip, slander, lie, fornicate and accommodate all sort of sin labeling it as "just a little sin", hoping to repent at the end of the day or on sunday mornings. Beware of labels /appelations, they distract you from the content, being a sisters cordinator or brother or pastor or prayer leader won't take you to heaven, only total obedience to the will of the father will. (Matt 7:21). Therefore since no man know when Jesus will come, keep watching and praying (luke 21: 34-36). Examine yourself today, are you in faith? Prayer " father give me the grace to walk in the consciousness that the son of man can come anytime, help me to watch and pray in Jesus name. Amen"

banega: Um, being single is a lot wiser than being in a wrong relationship • •

*raises hat for you* double thumbs up

Romanciella:

oh u mean like this.....lol i dont see anything disgusting here ....

the pic with the nice smile is very lovely, the other one is not lady-like at all. (No hard feelings oo) just my opinion.

Danhumprey: Very disgusting!

But don't you do that?

NEVER!

Danhumprey: That number 4 is so freaking annoying,eh! Sometime,I just feel like slapping the hell out of such girls. What the fùck are you 'pouting' for? It's like they want to kiss their phone screen or the monkey that's standing infront of them. Mtcheeeww.

if you feel like slapping them because they pout, what about this idiotic style of taking pics with the tongue out ? Gosh! It freaks me out, terribly disgusting.