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From every indication, the Jaganba of Nigeria politics is the master of the game. Saraki and all the pdp are learners.

The reporter has abused the human right of this lady by forcing her to answer some of his question. The lady should get a lawyer and sue him for abuse.

SenseiX:
https://www.thecable.ng/honeymoon-ends-divorce




Note That The Cable Editor Simon Kolawole has been a staunch Buhari supporter for 12 years and was reportedly on the shortlist to be spokesman before Femi Adesina was picked so he can't be called a wailer by the sycophants

Like barcanister changed to a wailer when he lost the bid for protection, Simon Kolawole has turned to a wailer the moment Femi Adeshina was preferred above him for the posh job. We are not impressed with his write up since we know where the cry is coming from, all I could say is thst they should better tight their belt very well as they will have a long time to wail.

Hehehehe, only two month and the most corrupt party in the world is broke, then one can predict that pdp will be extinct in a year.

obiksam:
Her wife left him 4 months ago leaving him with his two children, he have tried talking her back home but she refused rather than ranting abuses on him, So he decides not to call her again, suddenly his mother received an sms from her calling her a watch that she should confess and she also sent him same sms calling him and his entire family watchs.
He called the father in-law to warn her daughter to stop such act since she dose not want the marrage. But she continued sending rude sms to his mother. Now he wants to summon her at CHOKO NA EZE in Nbaisi Imo state for her to come and defend her sms why she should call his mother witch.
House kinded advice what should he do. Summon her or just let the fool be.

ignore her, stop giving her the attention she caves for.

The senators has no need for fear if their hands are clean from corruption, but if their hands are not clean they should have plenty to worry about. This government will not be blackmailed by some loud mouth mischievous elements, this is not Jonathan era that promotes corruption.

This is a good news, I use to be a fan of Hulk Hogan but hating my colour I have no other choice than to hate him and all he represent in return

Your wife seriously need some attitude and need to grow up, but handle it with care as your over reacting may spark a flame beyond what you intended as it turn to a family matter. Just make it an issue between you two in a calm, calculative and firm in rebuking her.

We keep reading of Nigeria army brutalising the unarmed civilian when many of them are scare to go up NE to confront the Boko haram, this keep happening in the face of the US blacklisting of Nigeria on the ground of Human Right violation as the reason why they will not sell ammunition to Nigeria. Before Nigerian continue of in their criticism of the American government on their stand against Nigeria, I think the military authorities in Nigeria need to put their home in order, they need to re-train their officials on need to respect and protect the right of the people, they need to flush the bad ones out of the system.

Where is barcanista? It is obvious is not all ND that trade the truth for protection.

Tell you friend it is better she's not married than she staying only to be waiting for her sudden death. She should quite that marriage.

Madam I am sorry I do not mean to insulting your husband but he is wicked and heartless. Treating a woman as though she doesn't have a right to opinion especially on issues that relates to family decision is cruel. I honestly don't know what to advice you on this matter, I feel like telling you to dare his divorce threat cos it is certain he will lose the case but then he will end up victimising you at home, if you should go for an abortion your safety is matter of concern. Maybe you should invite members of the two families to a meeting over it.

No be Nedu you call in name? That shouldn't be a surprise, they are greedy lots.

The wife is naughty, she should learn some manner. little things like this make some men seek for companionship from the women outside..

Op I respect your counsel, more wisdom and grace. To the man, he should please be fair to the lady and respect her emotions. A woman you have been with for year with 2kids and now you are suddenly coming up with bad sex on the accusation of a lax V, that's cruel, selfish, mean and inconsiderate. He should give that lady support to solve that lax V problem, in marriage one person problem should be all party problem. In conclusion, though I agree the woman has her loads of faults but I chose to take on the man, he has not been responsible enough as treating the lady fairly, I beg I am a married man as well and will not treat my wife with less sense of esteem.

Madam your daughter will change but you will have to work and the nature of work is start praying for and stop worrying, keep talking to her and feed her with the word of God.

The woman should turn down that evil proposal without giving it a second thought and save her pride and dignity if the man does not has sense for value. The man has demonstrated a level of desperation in his quest to make money the wife should be afraid of, he has just indicated that he will use his wife for ritual or as an exchange for anything if it so require for him to have money. We sometime read a similar story here on nairaland where the wife succumbed to the man to secure a job and she ended up becoming an object of reproach and ridicule to this same man who would later treat her like a filthy slut and divorce her to remarry a new lady. Some people can be so low minded, how much is 3.5m to exchange the dignity of your wife with.

Op I suspect you are very lady, and my answer is affirmative YES there's going to be big letter consequent of the curses from the alter.

It also Cures partial impotence in male, premature ejaculation.

This not a big deal. A woman that will be so independent to do whatever she likes at anytime she like and in anyway she wants does not worth making a fuse about. If she insist in going for the job, your friend should simply short the door of his house against her return and delete her from his heart. I can't stand a rebellious and arrogant wife.

ToroJah:
Good morning to you, thanks for the interest in helping out, it's a pity I'm not in lagos and don't have reliable people I can stay with there, I'm in my state of origin, akwa ibom.

in that case you case you can still mail me, there's a way I can help you out, ok.

As I read I can't but have tears in my eyes. I love them.

If you are based in Lagos contact me for a job I have a recruitment opportunity going on right away. Send me an e-mail.

Honestly this is not a big problem. Call her and discuss with her about it, tell her you feel and that have nothing against her having a child. I believe she wants the relationship as much as you do.

Before you could help him, you have to be sure you are not tolling the same part in your marriage, meaning you are not seeing another woman apart from your wife. The lady can exist without him of course she just have to let go of the emotional sentiment, so since she's open for conversation on this then work more on her and assure her she can exist even better without him. I think the two of them are delusional.

Your and your brother were right that you should not tell your mum because she doesn't know will not hurt her. If you feel our mother could hurting for lonely, constantly contact to make her happy. As for your dad, be praying for him because criticising him will only make him harding.

nowwhat:
You're right, I am depressed. He lives 10 hrs away, and was gonna move here in two weeks for job here.
Now what do I say, tell him to stay awAy for now?

yes, tell him stay away for now until things are sorted out. You don't have to be in pain because you must marry some sort of dude. The first priority you have in life is making yourself happy first until then you can't make anyone happy, so don't give yourself pain because you must please someone.

1. Don't stop your parent support until the man can make up with this adequately responsibility. 2. Make it clear to him that if he can't forgive your parent of whatever wrong he feel they have done to him, accept and love them as your parents he should as well forget about you and allow you to move forward. A man that will resent his in-laws that much is too risky for a lady to put up with. Forgive me to say, your so call hubby is proud and arrogant, he should go and apologise to his in-laws and respect them.

Though this post old but still interesting. That father was wrong, it shows he's not responsible, shameless and have no value for honour.

dreydee:
See as people dey look me for church for laughing out loud nice write-up OP ;

hea, you mean you were browsing niaraland in the church when service was in process? There's God o!

Op weldon for make my sunday hilarious, funny.