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MMotimo:
Too bad there’s no Child Services agency that can take those kids from you and help them. You are the greatest danger to their wellbeing. You had another child despite knowing his character and knowing you did not have the economic means for the pregnancy, childbirth or child rearing. Just bringing kids into the world to suffer, using kids as a good luck charm smh!

You write so well yet your convictions are incredibly primitive. A woman with a single child is as good as barren, only a new baby can make up for the loss of one that died, abused women should continue to be submissive, etc. See how you have become comfortable with lack and abuse that your speech is no longer rational?

He’s shown you his character over and over again and he already told you to leave. When you told the police not to arrest him today, what were you expecting would happen tonight? What were you depending on? What was your plan B with 2 little kids? Abi it was to keep posting emotional blackmail on Nland until the donations rolled in? Nobody in your neighborhood can offer you and your kids shelter at this time of the night? In Ore? I cannot believe that! Even in “every man for himself “ Lagos, people are not cold hearted like that. Could it be that the neighbours are tired of advising you to go back to your family yet you have stubbornly refused like you are doing on this thread?

At this point, there’s little doubt in my mind that the purpose of this thread was to embarrass (NOT leave) him in order to get some relief from the physical abuse AND get donations to help you have a more comfortable life with him. I’m sure he’s less violent when there’s money and you have proven yourself to be good at soliciting money from strangers. In fact, if you fit the classic abuse victim profile, you would share the donated funds (assuming he doesn’t take it all) and laugh at donors together. For your sake, I hope this donation drive is not to fund another pregnancy. Last year, you said he would not be happy to hear you were begging for money online yet since then, he has opened 2 begging threads of his own. Obviously, birds of the same feather!

Too many lies in this wild drama and going by the statistics, you are going to stay with him until he either almost kills you or you DECIDE to take yourself out of the situation. Right now, this looks like a donation drive for Bonnie & Clyde Enterprises! I know that sooner or later, the donations will come but ask yourself if that’s the best life for the innocent kids you’ve brought into the world!

One million likes for this post!
Exactly my thoughts too.

pocohantas:
I am just noticing. When she made that post, saw her husband viewing. Had to go back and read this thread, then her comments over the past weeks. Nah, doesn’t add up. She should submit and enjoy her marriage.




Na cruise joor. She is still virtuous and her darling hubby is a good man to her/them.

Nairaland and drama unlimited!

pocohantas:
I am beginning to agree with the people that said it is all format. Forgive me Lizzy, but it is beginning to look like that.

No woman under threat to life would be updating Nairalanders with such coherency. Unfortunately for you, you have made comments that were insensitive to women with abusive husbands. More unfortunately, the men who hailed you that day only give compliments. One Naira you no go see. So, if e done red, go ya papa house.

You're so right actually. I remember when she was claiming "virtuous woman" on threads before and those foolish men were hailing her,now yawa don gas!
It's really unfortunate.

Awww beautiful pictures .

PrimadonnaO:

Yeah .

MikkieEl:
It's been a long time ago a bullet was fired within the school premises, something need to be done ASAP to checkmate this menace.

Yes, you're very correct.

doggedfighter:
No form of security whatsoever.

Our Uniben.

Hehehehe there are reports of alleged missing students here and there(both Reported and Unreported) for a while now.
Cars with tinted cars are banned on campus now.

Na God dey sha help person.
Thank God say I go leave the school for them soon.

Yesterday at June 12, someone was shot on the ear, I was close by.
Na God dey help person these final year days.

Amotolongbo:
Congrats Bella Shmurda

But It is a pity that his sister, Fatima, dropped out of LASU to be a stripper

Will you shut your trap? Who asked you tatafo

Everyday we keep hearing "Women are this, women are that", yet we see threads grace Front-page daily. Una kuku like to die ontop our matter.
Omo, see the number of male monickers viewing this thread.

Una go dey alright las las.

Mrxawe:
Try dey calm down ehn which unilorin? Lmao... I Sabi unilorin inside out since 2008 till present. From oke odo to sanrab, to tanke , gra, challenge , postoffice even reach elekoyangan enter kwara poly , just name it . I never see anybody wey for once use 3 range Rover sport for the whole of ilorin sef o.. unilorin na school? Lol weytin una know for there. Na dummy people wey just need certificate full unilorin .. the only hustle una dey do na to sell snacks or cloth dey make peanuts ....una no dey hustle better hustle .. unilorin ko

Omooooooo I rolled on my bed laughing at this comment .

Chevrolet076:
Yes!! This is cool....

Is this not like routinely repeated?? And don't you feel bored doing the same thing always?? Any challenges at all?? Be it work or difficult task, or even a difficult co-worker?

Yes, It is routine work most times and can get very very boring (that's why Netflix and YouTube is there for me to unwind). Other times, there's a fresh challenge that gets me on my toes, it's exciting and exhilarating at the same time!

Yes, there are challenges to my work too. I once misplaced a work mail sent in by an organisation and it was very vital, the luck I had is that a colleague made a photocopy of the original, otherwise, it wouldn't have been a funny tale to tell.
There's also the problem of "difficult worker" but I always manoeuvre my way into them doing the job and disperse!

Work begins at 8am.

I go over the logbook, Incoming and Outgoing logbook to check if I've received Letters/Mails from different organizations, I place them on my Boss table for the files to be worked on.
I receive daily reports from the various tax offices in the State and their level of tax compliance. Also do research on tax laws and how it can be applied to a situation, take minutes of meetings etc.
Then record information for Application for Certificate of Occupancy. Or sometimes help my colleague process Tax clearance certificate.

Sometimes, the day can be very free, other times I'm engrossed in work that I won't know when time has gone far. Lol doesn't stop me from eating sha.
Cos Tax work is a whole lot. If I don't have breakfast before I leave the house, my whole day is spoilt because I'd be drained and I don't eat "Mamaput" due to my sensitive stomach, so I'd be munching on snacks all through.

My free period is meant for doing goofy Snapchat videos with my colleagues, going from one office to another for gist, strolling around the office to stretch my legs, watching YouTube videos on the organisation's PC, etc.
My workplace closes by 4pm but because I work directly with my Boss, I usually close 5/6pm or sometimes 7pm .

pocohantas:
Hahhaaha. He is excused. My MCM can do no wrong abeg.

See the wayo you're playing now

pocohantas:
Don’t you think it will turn LinkedIn to another Instagram? Someone sat and realized we didn’t have a platform that unites jobseekers and recruiters. Came up with LinkedIn, but they are turning it to BellaNaijaWeddings.

Poco, come oh, your MCM posted his wife's birthday on LinkedIn .

Nice one.
Thank you for this informative thread.

pocohantas:
Don’t you think it will turn LinkedIn to another Instagram? Someone sat and realized we didn’t have a platform that unites jobseekers and recruiters. Came up with LinkedIn, but they are turning it to BellaNaijaWeddings.

Hmmm I don't think the sole purpose of creating LinkedIn is being defeated, some small "BellaNaijaWedding" won't hurt na .

I stopped opening LinkedIn cos of the "tensioning" going on in that cyberspace. Gosh, that place was too monotonous for my liking. However now, people have started posting things about Testimonies, birthdays, weddings etc.

Back to the main question, Love can be found anywhere. So if someone meets Career bae from LinkedIn, sure why not post engagement pictures? After all, it's still part of social media.

Alexaonfleek:
Omo if this people strike again na to drop out be that o

pocohantas:
That one concern you. I can’t be bothered with the opinion of penis-people. As a submissive woman, my goal is to always prove you right.



No time o. Make all of us face our lane. Walk the talk…

I swear down, make everybody dey their lane.

pocohantas:
God forgive me o. Someone once reached out to me and I decided to go through his posts. He said vagina people don’t ever give anything, that we are naturally cruel to ourselves and to men. I checked and saw I still have a vagina. Make I just dey my dey.

Damnnnn! Can you imagine the nerve? .
I trust you sha not to lose guard .

Emeskhalifa:
Hahahahaa

I pray you finally get a good husband, a home where you'd find rest and peace of mind.

Hehehehe, thanks.