₦airaland Forum

Onegai:
A lot of Nigerian men are committing Bigamy, not even Polygamy because of this fake Divorce document.

I don't even get why they do it, I heard it's not a cheap document even. Just paying for a worthless piece of paper.

Even at the US embassy, you'll see them submit the fake document and those ones will go and verify the court number and won't find anything. Then your passport gets flagged internally and good luck getting a visa afterwards, ever.

And the worst person that will suffer it will be the side chick. Because that man will wake up and blame her for EVERYTHING, even the choices he willingly made. Which man doesn't like playing the victim?? The shege meted out to the 1st wife will now look like child's play when it's her turn.

Then God help her if she does traditional marriage and the man dies. Automatically the only legally recognised wife is the 1st wife. That's it. All she can beg for is child support via the court.

Bianca Ojukwu (who was even a legal wife) came home to meet padlocked gate once her husband was dead. And she spent 10 years fighting her step-children for properties on behalf of her kids. She's lucky she won eventually. The money she spent on litigation will be enough to pay Ikoyi rent comfortably.

Talk less of one random babe and an Oluwole Divorce document.

Good luck to anyone else wanting to follow that path. Your eyes will peel.

The forged document isn't cheap!!!!

I was discussing this with my senior colleague in the profession last week. His client approached him to do a fake divorce document, he needed it urgently and wanted to travel to the US. He was shocked when the client later brought the document to him.

These people don't know that everything court process is done online. Especially in Lagos. Everything will be verified.

It is the same way people who take loans from loan sharks/companies and don't pay, they feel they outsmart the system by not paying their debts. The loan sharks need not talk too much because their BVN will be flagged down internally and later they don't know why their visa was denied.

Lool. I'm looking at this Paul of P-Square and laughing. He think say e wise.

Yeah, I remember Bianca Ojukwu's story. She fought a good fight indeed, it wasn't easy at all.

Goodluck to everyone involved.

Onegai:
Eh?

Eh?




JESUS BE PRAISED!

GIRLLLLL!!!!!

WHOM THE GODS WANT TO DESTROY, THEY FIRST RUN MAD.

You are NOT divorced.

However, your Not-An-Ex-Husband is in trouble. Like in, "How long do you want him to be arrested for and how much do you want him to settle at Police station" trouble.

The Law of Marriage Dissolution in Nigeria is clear and absolute.

1. Neither Party to the Marriage can file before a Separation of 2 years has been completed. No ifs, no buts, nothing.

2. The Petitioner must serve papers to the Respondent notifying them of the legal process.

No judge in Nigeria will sit and pass a decree of Dissolution on a marriage where the respondent had no idea. That's begging to be disbarred. My cousin's wife abandoned him years ago to the US and she still had to be notified via email of the process. You have to show up in court because Nigeria doesn't do No-Fault Divorce, both of you must accuse each other of something, anything.

3. No court sits that fast in Nigeria. And in Marriage Dissolution, there must be a Decree Nisi given and then 3 MONTHS after if there is no change, a Decree Absolute. Only when you get that Decree Absolute does it mean you are legally divorced.

Unless you did only Traditional Marriage o, but if you did Court Wedding those are the steps to end a marriage. Even Customary Court has their own steps and do it with Magistrate. And you didn't get married under Islamic law.

What that Id.iot did was what a lot of FOOLISH NIGERIAN MEN have been doing for a while now:

He paid a clerk at court to fake divorce documents and get a corrupt judge to fake-stamp it.

IT IS ILLEGAL.

YOU ARE NOT DIVORCED, YOU ARE VERY MUCH MARRIED.

Don't believe me, ask any Lawyer. Google it!

These foolish men are banking on the fact that Nigerians tend to be ignorant of how Nigerian laws work.


So, in my next post, amma tell you what to do.

Apt Ma'am.

Nigerians really don't know their rights.

Whoever forged those documents will face the wrath of the law, especially in a state like Lagos.

I've seen and handled a divorce matter before and truly, Women dey see things for Nigerian men hand.

MsJackson:
he already divorced me. I received the papers yesterday on WhatsApp. Dissolution of the marriage. Everything happened from March till June, signed and stamped by a judge of the high court. No papers were served me, no notice, NOTHING. just a document telling me it has been dissolved. It all happened behind my back, without my knowledge. This same year the separation occurred.

Papers ke?? This isn't Nollywood film oh.

As a Lawyer, that's a fake document there please. YOU ARE NOT DIVORCED.

MsJackson:
Hello house. He is finally divorcing me and remarrying another. Please read my story on my profile. I'm weak. I just want to know my rights. We have a child together. Lawyers in the house, please advise. Thank you.

Hi Ma'am.

I'm sorry for what you're going through.

You can message Teespice, she's a good Divorce lawyer.

Cheers.

edogu:
Between those educational programmes and the big brother Naija show which one pulls more traffics. The latter of course. Unfortunately, the media have been commercialised to the extent they no longer give a damn. The corporate organisation, nowadays, are only interested on those programmes that pulls traffics and inturn promote their brand.

Lol. Unfortunately, it's all about Priorities.

Redhot111:
No be Suleiman pastor I dey see so? Abi I dey mistake?

He think say na church setting be this. 😂

LordReed:
I'm bursting with joy, and I just can't keep it to myself! My daughters have filled my heart to the brim, and I'm compelled to share their sweet gestures with the world. Maybe, just maybe, it'll inspire some fellow dads to shower their kiddos with love and affection.

I'm a proud papa of two little ladies, ages 10 and 5. I love them more than pounded yam, and that's a lot! I try to show them love and affection as often as possible, and it seems they're catching on. The other day, I was lounging on the couch, reading a book, and being my usual cool dad self (just kidding, I was probably snoring). My 5-year-old mini-me walks up to me, plops herself on my lap, and gives me a big ol' hug. But that's not all - she breaks into song. A song she made up herself, with a whopping four words: "I love you, Daddy!" I mean, what's a dad to do? I was a goner, people. Overcome with joy, and still grinning from ear to ear. It's been several weeks since this happened and I still can't describe how it makes me feel.

And then there's my 10-year-old, who's apparently been paying attention to our morning routine. We switched schools, and I thought our forehead kisses were just a thing of the past. But nope! She pipes up and says, "Daddy, you haven't been kissing us since we started this school!" I was shocked, but in a good way. It turns out, those little kisses meant the world to her.

Fellow dads, listen up. We often get a bad rap for being stoic and unemotional, but trust me, our kids crave our affection. So, don't be afraid to show your love and get a little sappy. Your kids will appreciate the tough-guy exterior, but they'll adore the softie inside even more. Take it from me, a dad who's learning to embrace his inner cheesiness.

This is so wholesome.

Female children need their fathers a lot. Father-daughter relationship is a beautiful bond.

ShaqFu:
You can add Oh God abeg while you guys are cumming together, while listening to this song:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubR9cXWkXv8&pp=ygUdTWljaGFlbCBqYWNrc29uIGNvbWUgdG9nZXRoZXI%3D

Shaq please.😂

Bye bye.

ShaqFu:
It'll be a lovely sight watching you and dollyjoy cumming together.

Hahahaha God abeg.

dollyjoy:
ok. I dey cum

Oya cum, make we dey go together. I dey wait.

dollyjoy:
Yam, potatoes and egg sauce for lunch

Come pay small thing for my head na, ehn fine girl.

Anybody that has Benue or Jos boy/girlfriend, better hold them tight this period.

Gerrard59:
Is Kogi state really that backward?

cc: madone

It is.

That state has a lot of potentials but the past Governors would rather loot the state's resources instead of developing it.

Look at how Ajaokuta Steel Company is lying there wasted. That could have created revenue and job opportunities for its indigenes.

madone:
your state backward who loose?
Bush full everywhere who loose?
Your people go to other state to live in abject poverty inside Bush who loose?. Mtcheeeew some pride sha..... living in mud House inside bush and feeling proud is not just madness but self deprivation.

Honestly speaking, I was shocked reading his comment. Some people too mumu indeed.

GloriousGbola:
the lion came down, and changed into a horse so you could ride it

you are indeed a chosen

the chosen is strong with this one

Me: Single ❌
Taken ❌
Chosen ✅

Lionsempire:
Ok I will send you a mail when it’s all settled from this end. Thank you!

Alright, not a problem.

Omo X 1000.

Lionsempire:
Good morning please to get posted in Lagos/ogun or Ibadan Oyo state. How much will it cost please ?

Hi there.

Direct posting/Redeployment to anywhere in Nigeria is 88k.

Amwitty:
Very very sweet my husbands ass has suffered in my hand sha, I tap it a lot sometimes he sees me and run and guess what I pursue him till I tap it. So I support you Folake4u

THANK YOUUUU 💖😘.

People think I'm crazy when I say tapping man's ass is sweet. I like it especially when he becomes shy or runs away from me, it gingers me to pursue him till I tap it.

Woman wey sabi.

GloriousGbola:
Special delivery for folake

I heard you like men with cake

John Legend is married nau.

Proserpina:
Folake does post some crazy weird preference Never have I imagined someone enjoying slapping men's buttocks

Sounds bdsmwxzy

Lmao 😆😂 the thing sweet sha.