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Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:32pm On Feb 19, 2015 |
God damn ittttttt, we still in front page, is somebody sick? KIIIIIIILOOOO-EFFIN-DE? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:20pm On Feb 19, 2015 |
Something ain't right here today, why the negative energy? Ever since some mod who couldn't decipher the difference between a sensitive thread and a regular thread sent us to front page without anyone asking so much negative energies have started corrupting the initial motive of this thread. Aunty Babyosisi abeg steer this ship well and avoid distractions oh. Ride on. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:01pm On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: Hello, I don't know if ur a guy or lady but honestly you need to chill. Please, this thread is for serious issues and if someone steps on ur toes please brush it aside for the sake of those needing help. No distractions. We are entitled to our opinions but mustn't force it on anyone.Thank you. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 10:58am On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: Hard truth, but i think i like her person enough not to ruin her day with that lol, thanks for making the job easier for moi. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 8:37am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:When and if necessary. I get gypsy spirit, like changing locations lol. Thank God my work can be done from any location. Make sure that Banga soup set wella and u can add the cat fish peppersoup by the side as a surprise cos today ur bill will go through first reading lol. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 8:21am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Hmmm it depends on what they proud of, I have spent most of my life in different parts of Nigeria and have lived there for one month, the rest na visit, me I be Nigerian, good to know ur Dad has served around there. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 7:36am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Bia nwanyi oma i never chop this morning and u cracking a brother up. Lol@Igbo tree. It's just like my place where no one voted for obj cos he was the commander in charge of the battalion that took our place(Oguta) during the civil war with the help of our Ijaw neighbours. They killed and raped and committed all sorts of war time atrocities and the young generation then are parents now so imagine a babe telling her father that she wants to marry a Yoruba man or worst from ogun state,"Ogutaeeeeeee! i ra nshi" is the first reply she will get. But it happens, my cousin married a Yoruba man from ibadan. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 7:01am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: I suspect the civil war, a lot of wounds haven't healed till now. Most Yoruba's are scared of giving off their daughters to igbos and vice versa. Will wait for u to discuss with him then will take it up from there. Hope ur night was good? |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 6:37am On Feb 19, 2015 |
babyosisi:Aunty shouldn't u be asleep by now? (smiles) |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 5:48am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: I have a very good feeling about this. You won't miss him. I think after His first meeting with ur Dad subsequent meetings should follow, with a short time ur Dad will warm up to him. Am able to have long conversations with old people cos am very vast, I hope he is to cos from the little u have said about ur Dad i see ur Dad quizzing him directly or indirectly, Prep ur man before sending him to the front. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 9:07pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Am surprised none of the two people she directed the question to have replied. Or have they? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 6:00pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
chisom101: Where do I start from now? Caught in the act, walk out of the marriage if you don't have kids, forgive him if you can forget it and if you can do that still add a sanction/probation period. Sometimes i wish Charles Dickens and Jane kitty were detachable,.would have adviced you seize it whenever he is going out. Well start with s sanction, no confrontation, be a boss, be in charge and read out ur verdict. Finally, u got kids for him? |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 5:52pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Amuga: Am sorry oh my dear, most of my comments are blunt and direct but I must tell u the hard truth. 1. Your sister had to find out through the Facebook tagging meaning he never wanted her to know (Nigerian wife proof number 1). 2 The fact that he didn't tell her about the plan means he had no respect whatsoever for her talk less of love (side chick proof). 3 He said he wants to use the SA girl to get something, that something no get name? (permanent VISA hunting proof) 4 Why does he want a permanent visa? So he won't return unless maybe when him mama kaput(runaway nyugguh proof). 5 Is ur sister his wife? (ur guess is as good as mine proof). She's a Patsy. #SINGING "TOO LATE TO MAKE A CHANGE" by Journey. Don't worry if u no be old school like me you won't know the song. Last bullet: If it's the SA girl that's pregnant then it's not too late for ur sister to press ctrl +z . (this my mischievous attitude is killing me). You get my point tho. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 1:41pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
ephee: Lol there are plenty few good responsible men oh. The thing I noticed in courtship is that most ladies prefer the bad Guys, they see the nice ones as weak and probably timid, they friend-zone the good guys and date the bad guys, 99.9999% of good men are always at the receiving end of the relationship and even when they decide to date or marry him they make his life a living hell. Imagine a lady telling me "I am sorry I prefer us to be friends, I can't start a relationship with you cos your too nice to a fault, so nice to a fault that I prefer to look up to you as a brother". AHHHHHHHHHHH!, I died and woke up 7 times that evening. Another one told me that the relationship is boring because we don't quarrel about anything and I always let her have her way making her feel guilty, my sister make i stop here cos una matter plenty too(no disrespect intended to the good ladies oh). 12 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 5:42am On Feb 18, 2015 |
ttymyluv: Lol am happy at least that even tho there was a hidden message in what I said you understood that I was just being funny on purpose. Babyosisi took it the other way (smiles). Anyways what I said is still an option tho. No one teaches a sailor what to do with the natives of a new land he discovers, that's why it's called exploration lol, adventure. Explore yourselves then the one you don't understand you ask the"professionals". Babyosisi no vex oh. Love you all and God make yall bigger. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 9:27pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
ttymyluv: I think it's better to just go into the bedroom and see how it goes from there. You can start by just starring at urselves embarrassingly like Adam and eve, 40 years later you will laugh at urselves when you remember ur first experience as couples. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 9:18pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Odillz: Very normal, some don't even look forward to seeing any of em mum or dad forever especially if you grew up doing virtually everything for yourself with em still alive healthy and strong, make we no start lol else e no go finish. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:47pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
I greet all the wonderful women and wives of this awesome thread. A pleasant evening to u all. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 5:21pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
babyosisi:you seeee? Life is all about risks, calculated and well managed. Don't take unnecessary risks tho. Babyosisi I salute you oh. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 5:14pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Lol that's why I laid out the 4 options for her, the case is tricky. |
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bigfrancis21: Lol see fake Forbes. You must be their accountant. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:43pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
prissyluv: Hmmm okay most people fear "I won't have my parent's blessings if I go against their wish, they will cut me off or even curse me". Ehhhhhh I don hear but honestly I don't believe in all that balderdash. I learnt as early as a 13 year old that freedom comes with responsibility. You are responsible for the side of the divide you choose cos right now it's a kerosene/water situation you're in now. Here are the 4 possible outcomes. 1 You marry him in court damning the consequences and luckily marry the best man on earth. 2 You marry him in court damning the consequences and end up marrying the devil but you can't go back to ur parents now 3 You marry the man ur parents prefer and luckily marry the best man on earth. 4 You marry the man ur parents prefer and end up marrying the devil but can still escape back to ur parents. My dear you must choose oh. Personally I follow my guts, prepare to take responsibility if the isshhhh hits the fan by having plan B,C,D and so on but we're two different people. Personally I go with option one. It's my life, I write my story, I can only be advised and guided by parents and elders but won't be coerced. You could work with option 3 and 4 conservatively. #runs out of thread through the window, peeps back in. Ladies am I safe to come in? (lol). 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:13pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
prissyluv: You're at a crossroad now, you will have to decide between ur family and him. Trust me you don't want to hear or read my advice cos allot of people here will get it twisted so i'll leave you to decide. Last bullet: You will be the one to live with who u marry not ur parents, they are not God. They have written their own marital book and now are writing urs. Okay nau. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 3:00pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Am gonna give you a honest advice, take a sheet of paper, draw two tables, on the right list all the things you love about him, on the left list all the things you don't like or hate about him. Cut off or tear off the right side of the table(the things you love about him) and toss it in a trash can. Now read all the things you don't like about him, when ur ask yourself, do i still love him with only these attributes, can i live with him if he only possessed these attributes? If your answer is yes then he is the man for you, if it's no then quit now while u still have the chance. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 9:15am On Feb 16, 2015 |
But seriously whatever happened to lawyers who take up cases like this for free? What's it called? Pro bono cases if am right. Some husbands need to pay for damages. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 9:09am On Feb 16, 2015 |
andromida: It's actually bringing back memories I hate to remember, am just fighting for the kids, just factor em in when you decide to leave, God bless you all good women but may God punish the bad ones who abandon their kids to suffer in the hands of a man they couldn't stand or live with. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 8:56am On Feb 16, 2015 |
ephee: No sane person will support what u went through, good a thing u got ur daughter. I still maintain my stand that if woman must leave as last resort don't leave without the kids. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 8:49am On Feb 16, 2015 |
cococandy: Lol not agreeing in the context of fault in the context of survival, when eating with a devil use a long spoon meaning she shouldn't give him any reason to hit her by any chance at all. All am saying is this, "if you must walk out of the marriage, take your daughter" that's all I ask for. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 7:37am On Feb 16, 2015 |
MojAyo: Is this coming from a woman? +100 likes for you, I tried in all my comments to stay away from these part of the advice so I don't sound biassed but good a thing you raised it. @shiningmama I having this feeling in me that tells me you still have an ace and joker card you haven't played out yet, now is the time for you to play em, go to the drawing board and come up with a game plan, even without you being able to divulge info on ur husband's character(which I understand) well let's still look for solution. Make I go read ur thread now. A pleasant morning all you wonderful ladies. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 12:51am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Flytefalls: "Solution" that's the word am about. Her walking out without the child ain't one. Thanks for understanding. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 12:30am On Feb 16, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Lol I never sleep, you wan leave me here. |
Family / Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 12:24am On Feb 16, 2015 |
ephee: Yes i thought about it but the case of the lady in question here is different, you could take your child but she has stated that her chances of taking her child on a scale of 1 to 10 is likely 0 zero that's the main reason why I find it hard supporting the idea of her walking out. If she (an adult can't survive the husband's abuse what makes anyone think her daughter will survive him? You get my point? Her daughter's life will even be worse if his girlfriend moves in and becomes a step mum, next we will see a thread here how a woman beat a step daughter to death. If she won't win custody of her daughter please don't advice her to leave. Come on, someone should understand me nau(lol). This kitchen is getting hot lol. 7 Likes |
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