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YorubaPrince:
But why she no get yansh na?

Please my brother don’t post that picture again.

This thing is extremely graphic.

For the love of Nairaland

That is human nature.

But for me, Ronaldo has 6.
Now messi has 6.
It’s a win win

Modric has nothing doing with the balon d’or

budaatum:
He did open a thread seeking an adoptee where I suggested he'd probably scam them too.

He's not a child. He'd get a mentor in gamblers anonymous and church too, who won't lend him money because they'd know what he's like, and he might eventually abhor the shame if he yahoos. But I hope he heeds your better advise, though I expect a new thread from him soon.

If he comes with something new on this again, I might not waste my time commenting on it.

My people have a saying that “too much words aren’t in an evening conversation”

I’ve given him enough advise already, likewise you.
That should be enough for him, if he really needs help.

It’s actually funny that she’s getting what she’s seeking “ATTENTION”


If you people respond to her illicit acts, you’re giving her more fame.

Just ignore her completely!

Normally, I wouldn’t comment on posts like this.
But because a chief imam has actually spoken.

budaatum:
Go gamblers anonymous or church. Both will make him confess so everyone knows not to lend him money. When he becomes part of a community he'd learn to stop being selfish and begin to love himself.

Alternately, write "I am addicted to gambling" on a teeshirt and wear it in the neighbourhood for a month or so. Shame will cure him of his "volition", though, by his history, he'd probably just move on to where he's not known and yahoo all over again because there'd always be people who would say he needs love when what he needs is a kick up the ass. After all, he's seen the destruction gambling has already done to his gambling dad, himself, and poor mum whom he kicks around, and he did advice us to learn from his mistakes, so why isn't he trying to learn from his mistakes?

But that's me. I'm actually surprised at the amount of love op has continued getting in numerous threads on NL - I've below struck out an example him lying to himself. Go read some of his threads if you haven't. You'd be much better informed to maybe change his life.

There’s no doubt, you are right.

But I’m of the opinion that you can not have a temporary solution for a permanent problem (eg.addiction)

Confessing and Church and all that wouldn’t make any impact on him; it’s the same as using makeup to cover rashes when you actually need medication. He will still gain the trust of the supposed support group in the name of “born again” and get back to his old ways. He needs a mentor; someone to control him and teach a new lifestyle and that will take a long time to sink in.
It’s like a dumb child going to tell everyone that he doesn’t t learn and bla bla bla. But what the child actually needs is attention. Get the child a private tutor and you will see the magic.

I think he should heed to first comment which is my official advise.

Thanks!!

What a country.

I might have done that, but what do you suggest he should do?

budaatum:
You might be basing your opinion on this one thread. I suggest you read his other threads.

You actually got the gist

gidgiddy:
Now I understand what happened. I have been wondering about the Police version of events, that they went to arrest Ifeanyi Ejiofor and IPOB attacked them with rifles machete and burnt their patrol van and killed two Police men

I wondered how the same patrol van ended up burnt in the middle of the road and why the so called 'police men' did not jump out of the back of the burning vehicle. How do you burn someone in the back of a patrol van?

IPOB's version makes far more sense. They invaded the home of IPOB Lawyer, Ifeanyi Ejiofor, just like they invaded Nnamdi Kanu's home. They killed two unarmed people and put them in the back of the patrol van. The now doused the place with petrol and left. But the fire trailed them, probably due to leakage from whatever they used in carrying the petrol. The Patrol van caught fire and they all ran away leaving the two people they had murdered to burn in the back of the van

It is these two people they now claim are Police men murdered by IPOB

Now it all makes sense

oyewale0001:
Please any ghanian should chat me up on my whatsapp number:08137644890. Please it important. I need an info about a foreigner been a teacher in Ghana. Thank.

They are chasing your brothers away and locking their shops for doing business and you want to go there for a cooperate job; my brother just save yourself the stress.
Please read the news and stay alive.

One love brother.
No place like home

There’s some truth in this.

The Police actually lied.
They set their own van ablaze, to make it seem incriminating yo their victim.
The same way they plant riffles on murdered innocent Nigerians tagging them as armed robbers.

They have a record of killing innocent citizens for crime they never committed.

They have tried it with me once on a highway, That if do not give them =N=100,000, they will take me to the bush kill me there, burn my car and nobody will know what happened. All because my headlights were on while i was driving from Lagos to the East. Thank God for a Delta State government convoy that asked them what happened and they couldn’t say a thing, they only said I’m being disobedient.
I still gave the policemen =N=5,000, followed the convoy and nobody stopped me till i got to Onitsha.

From that day, whenever I’m going to the East, i let a driver take my car there while I take a flight.

I don’t trust the police anymore.

They are blood thirsty.

LilMissFavvy:
He has a father, he once narrated how he used his fathers money, and had to leave home. If he needs love/or if love is the solution, how come he keeps hurting the people who have genuinely loved him? Eg. His mother, his friends? He is not a furgitive.

When you’re been deprived of love as a child, 7/10x it makes people go haywire when they become adults.
The story is not complete. Because there’s no smoke without fire.

That’s why i deduced from his actions, reactions in words that he needs love.

Love goes beyond give him food and taking care of him and all that. He needs to be understood and it’s obvious nobody is understanding him out there and that’s why he ran to Nairaland

What can I say?

LilMissFavvy:
Imprisonment will help you break the habit. Just one or two years imprisonment. If only one of those you are messing with would lock you up, it would be for your own good at the end. A cell environment will keep you far from that addiction, such that when you come out you will be a changed person.

No, you’re wrong; it will make it worse.
He’s hardened and almost has zero conscience.

The young man never talked about his father(only his mom), he sounds like a fugitive.
The young man needs love, attention and care. Probably, he had a terrible childhood.

He needs someone that can control and train him for a long period. Someone he can fear/respect, someone matured as well that is not judgmental.

I would have asked him to do a few things since he already knows his problem(60% solved), but he won’t adhere to that.

He should take my advise.

Good luck to him

Offpoint:
Evening newspaper


na joke I dey o

-No comments-

I am not in a position to judge anyone, but OP please take this down.


For the sake of your unborn child.

Take those pictures down.

This is genius.

Maximum Respect to You Man!!
From the depths of my heart.

RisenPhoenix:
If you are a man your rules should be:

- don't marry a woman whom you 'love' more. She will definitely take advantage.
- don't marry a woman who is aggressive and controlling. She will wear the pants in the family and run it into the ground.
- in line with the point above, never relinquish control over your family. You rule, and your wife must know it and observe it.
- she can advise you about family affairs, but do not accept any advise or suggestion that is not backed by evidence. Throwing temper tantrums, pouting, sulking etc are not evidence. Don't let her believe that she can control you by the power of feminine wiles and emotions. If she wants to propose something, she must logically prove its value.
- don't marry a woman you cannot trust. No woman is completely trustworthy, but there are degrees. Find one who you can trust to a certain level, maybe she holds certain principles etc. Her love for you will ensure that she remains so.
- don't waste your money on dining and wining her. Save, invest, repeat. You may budget a fixed percentage of your annual income for entertainment, DO NOT EXCEED THE BUDGET. Only when your income has risen sufficiently for the entertainment budget to attain Dubai levels should you take her to Dubai. Stay within your budget AT ALL TIMES, regardless of the pressure she puts on you (like telling you stories about her friends partying abroad).
- don't profess love and affection at every drop of a hat. It's degrading.
- do not show her that sex can rule your decisions. She will use sex to control you. If she has a low libido; propose a second wife to help her out. Her libido will magically increase. The trick is to make such suggestions credibly in a serious moment , AND MEAN IT.

Now for your duties:

- bear the full burden of expenses. Do not leave anything for her to pay. Make sure your budget is within your means.
- Get her a comfortable place to live in, and respect her space. The house is her domain and you are a guest. Don't interfere in her activities there.
- Respect her efforts. Do not degrade her food or deride her publicly; eat it or leave it silently and go to mama Esther's buka opposite the house. She will ask why you do not like her food. Explain gently, but do not force change. If she does so by herself, there will be less resentment. Praise the food if it is good.
- help out at home, but not too often. Better still, suggest that she gets a maid. Pay the maid's salary by adding it to your wife's housekeeping fund. Do not yourself ever interact with the maid, she's entirely your wife's. Even if you want a glass of water, let your wife instruct her.
- Never physically attack her. Very important. Not even in play.
- Never cheat on her, and also do not ever tolerate her cheating on you even if it's only a text or a tweet. Clarify to her from the first day that any form of cheating is going to end the marriage. Assure her that you are also subject to the rule.
- Permit her to own her property if she is working. Never interfere in any of her financial activities unless she specifically asks you to.
- don't ever report her to her parents or worse still, yours. She will see you with contempt henceforth. Only a weak man goes crying to mama. Resolve any issues by yourself. She can go running to her mama if she wants; she's not supposed to be a strong man.
- do not go begging her if she fights and runs off to her parents' house. The first time, wait for her to come back when she is ready, then tell her gently but sincerely that if she does it once more, you might have to add a second wife to the mix. She will never do so again.
- Take the children out sometimes to give her peace. Women do work hard sometimes and need to take time out to watch a marathon of telemundo, African magic or zeeworld or whatever nonsensical shows are the feminine rave. Take your kids to some zoo or gaming center and let them go wild on the computer games for a whole day while she does exactly that.

Good luck in your marriage.

On this day,
you have earned my respect.

pansophist:
Truly masculine men do not fall in love, but love (there is a difference). ''in love'', and ''to love'', often used interchangeably to mean the same thing, but they are different. By nature, men express love (to love), and women fall in love (in love).

To love is sacrificial, its to put yourself out there to protect, provide and premium the interest of your beloved, it is putting ''them first'', as opposed to ''me first''. It is the kind of love expresses by Jesus Christ when he died on the cross for mankind, even though many do not appreciate his death and sacrifices. To love is unconditional, it is a decision and less of emotions, its altruistic and not based on reciprocity. This is how men are to love women, and the kind of love instructed by the bible that men should love their women. (Ephesians 5.25), mind you, the bible did not instruct women to love men, but respect men.

Now, women do not express love to men, like the way men express love. Women are ''in love'' with men. The kind of love women have for men is the kind of love men have for their careers. You love the career as far it satisfies your financial needs and interest, it is a romanticized, egoistic kind of love. The love is only retained as far it satisfies your need, it is opportunistic in nature, and will leave when it doesn't fulfill its purpose and has outlived its usefulness. Women love men in a practical way, that is, she will be in love when he is useful to her, by lavish spendings, his high status which strokes her ego and making her feel physically and financially secure.

Men love flows two-step downwards (to his wife, and then to the kids), while women love flow one-step downwards (from her to her children). Women love (to love) children in the same way men love women and children. Women are in love with men, in the same way, men are in love with their career. Got it?

I am in no position to judge anyone.



Thanks!!!

Absolutely incredible.

My brother, I’m giving you this advice from the bottom of my heart because, I understand how you feel.

Honestly and trust are the bedrock of a relationship and not love.
If either or both of them are broken, the relationship has failed.
Love can’t sustain a relationship; period.

From the the whole thing you said, your girlfriend is not honest with you and can’t be trusted.
She will obviously play the victim, meanwhile you’re the victim.

There are other ladies out there who can be trusted.
You already know what to do, so do it.

Good Luck!!!

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I thought so too!

xendra:
nonsense! why marry one and get pregnant for another


Ladies, any man that is willing to fvck you knowing you are "married" is a useless man. dont be getting pregnant for such you'll only bare useless children.

even if your husband is not treating you right he would be decent enough to wait till you are out of that marriage otherwise he is a useless man PLEASE! stop bringing useless children to this world we are dealing with alot already.

God forgive me, but she will leave my house as a corpse.

You can’t embarrass me like that.

Sorry to sound so dramatic, but there’s a limit to what I can take.


There’re things i can’t do and i don’t expect anyone to do them to me.

Enemyofpeace:
She didn't go there to warship


Good afternoon dominique, did you go to church yesterday?

Awon battleship ni

She’s obviously deploying a profitable marketing strategy.

Everybody needs to sell.

Allow her market her goods



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EXACTLY

Aidejay:
Since we are doing rubbish they should consider making a university of social media or university of university establishment or university of ministerial appointment or university of APC or university of Sharia law or yes university of "the oza room" what about university of corruption also university of foreign trips...Kai I 2 get sense
Modified: university of ruga, university of border closure.....

Ijaya123:
What exactly will they be teaching at that university?

They will training be professional FRSC officers

This shit is dumb.

It would have been better to come up with University of APC than this nonsense.

I don’t understand the kind of weed his advisers take and how he actually take their advise.

It feels very stupid; the kind of things he associates himself with as president.
You’ll start to wonder if there are brains in that head.

Why do ladies get annoyed when asked “are you a virgin?”
I don’t know and that’s why i asked.
I don’t sleep with you or live in the same house with you neither do i inspect your virginity.
Be reasonable and answer yes/no or ignore the question, simple.

It’s never a stupid question

Birdeyeview:
STUPID QUESTION

All i see is an attention seeking Evening Newspaper










Funke is displaying her hubby and Toke is displaying ignorance.
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northbwoysine:
Hey there,don't mis qoute me.My headline was suggested based on key searches by people on Google.

Treasureboz is newly launched not up to two months old now,you've seen what I've written so far with a very clear and recent payment proof.If you really understood what am saying you won't call it sarcasm buddy...

I’m a businessman and i pretty much understand the language of business.

Most people on this platform won’t want to slide into your thread because the headline.
It will definitely put them off.

Make it something catchy and appealing that can win trust without explanations. That is why anyone will prefer the joy of being rich to the pain of being poor because of what they promise.
But if you try to get their attention with the pain of being rich and the joy being poor, they will flee.

Get my point; good strategy is the key.

Good luck